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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]

advice

my condum broke when i was haveing sex with my girlfriend, her period ended today the condum had spermicide on it and it broke, i did not cum in her....but can she still get pergant, shes really scared and so am i, please help!!!!!

since she took the pill, she will probably be fine. dont stress about it. but next time.. be a little gentler so it doesnt break lol
xox hope i helped

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whats four-play?

its what you do before sex

btw its foreplay.

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I have very light skin, and I do NOT tan at all. It really sucks but I want to know what kind of bathing suit would look good on someone with really light skin. Like what color and what kind of bathing suit. Thanks :)

okay here...

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=ZM-210030&page=2&cgname=OSSWMBIKZZZ&rfnbr=1232
any color of this one besides white or yellow

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=ZM-210033&page=2&cgname=OSSWMBIKZZZ&rfnbr=1232
green usually looks good on pale people

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=ZM-209153&page=4&cgname=OSSWMBIKZZZ&rfnbr=1232
i REALLY like this one.

http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_326430_-1_12249_12203
cute


mostly just stay away from white and lighter colors

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im 13, and boys my age are REALLY immature.. so i tend to like boys that are alottt older then me.

like, i like boys that are like 16-17.
is it bad if i dated boys that much older then me?

would be the pros and cons?!

pros:
- older= more mature
- probably hotter
- can drive so he can take you places and stuff
- you can meet other older people from high school through him
- more experienced
- knows more about how to treat a girl

cons:
- your parents probably wont like it
- hes probably going to be considered "too old for you" by some people
- he might pressure you to do things with him
- it is easy for him to take advantage of you

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i need my ex-boyfriend back like you ahve no ideaa i dont no what to do this is like the first time this has ever happened to meee pleaseee helppp mee give me like cute things to say too him plzz

well did he break up with you?
or did you break up with him?

because if you broke up with him..it might be enough just to tell him that you love him and it was a big mistake. but if he broke up with you, then you need to talk to him about why he did that and try to fix the problem.

good luck!

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Ok so i like two guys..

one is my current boyfriend (("Hollister" well call him that))

the other

is a family friend ((areopostle))

... My mom doesnt know about Hollister

and she knows that bAreopostle thinks im cute

.. I reallly like Aero too.

And i sorta dont like Holllister anymore..

so what do i do??

do i break up with Hollister for Areo

or what
??

HELP!! :]
thank in advanced

:]

haha that was kinda funny that you gave them names after stores. but okayyy.

well first of all, if youre not happy with "hollister" then you need to break up with him. dragging it on when you arent happy with the relationship is a BAD thing. but if you only like "aeropostale" because he thinks youre cute.. then that isnt a good idea either. maybe you just dont like "hollister" anymore because he doesnt compliment you or show you how much he likes you the way that "aeropostale" does. consider that. but whatever you decide to do.. dont let "hollister" think that you are dumping him for "aeropostale". guys dont like that and you will get a bad name at your school. so if you really want to dump your boyfriend then do it nicely, remain friends with him if possible. then wait a little while before you go out with "aeropostale".

trust me. this same thing happened to me. i was going out with a guy and i liked one of his best friends. i let the relationship drag on for too long.. bad move. then i broke up with him and went out with his friend 9 days later. they hate eachother now.

i dont know if "hollister" and "aeropostale" are friends or not. but if they are, then you need to be sensitive to their feelings.

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i live in NY. is it to late to still be wearing UGGs? to me it is.. but i still see people wearing them? do you still wear themm? ..the weather here is like in the 50's.

no its not too late. its still kinda cold. i still wear them and so do most of the people where i live.. which is around the same temp. as where you live.

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what are some cute nicknames i could call my boyfriend?

-babe
-baby
-cutie
-honey
-hottie
-sexy
-sweetie
-sweetheart
-loser (in a flirting way)
-stupid (in a flirting way)

xo hope i helped

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13/f

On tuesday, which is a couple days away, my friend is having a mixed boys and girls sleepover with like 15 people and we are going to try to pull an all nighter cos we're staying in her caravan and there's hardly enough room for us to all sleep in there.
I am crap at staying awake, so I would like some tips on how to do it.

I thought maybe it would be best if I got lots of sleep so I wouldn't be tired on tuesday but then I thought that I would get into that routine and my body clock would tell me to go to sleep early tuesday night, so maybe I should start going to bed later? Or maybe I should just go to sleep the usual time?

There is going to be alcohol there, how much should I drink? It's a depressant so If I drink lots will it make me more tired?

And I would like to know how I can get into a normal routine after tuesday night.
So if you have any tips on how to stay awake then please tell me, and answer the questions above please. Thanks in advance, xxx

i think it might be a good idea to stay up kinda late on monday night and then sleep in late on tuesday. that way you wont be as tired on tuesday night. instead of drinking a lot of alchohol.. drink like soda or a energy drink when you start to get tired because it will help keep you awake. also, dont like lay down and close your eyes or anything because that will just make you more tired. try to keep moving or talking or sitting up or something to help you stay awake. if youre with your friends and having fun i doubt you will even want to go to sleep anyways. so you should be fine. you will probably end up sleeping late on tuesday then you should try to go to sleep early on wednesday because otherwise you wont be able to fall asleep and then you will end up sleeping late and it will just start all over again. have fun!

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Hey, I just want to know if it is impossible to love a guy that you never talked to but you know his name?

well unless you know what his personality is like then i dont think its really possible that you are in love with him. maybe you like him a lot or think hes hot or have a crush on him but i dont think that youre in love with him. love is a lot more complicated then just liking the way a person looks or something like that. you really have to get to know a person in order to love them.
since hes at your bus stop maybe you could say hey or whats up? to him one day and try to start a conversation. if hes in any of your classes you could talk about that. or if you know hes on a sports team you could say youre on the ___ team right? and start talking about that. good luck!

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is it impossible to make out if both people have braces?

yeah it is possible
me and my boyfriend both have braces
and weve never had a problem.. just be
careful not to like crash your teeth into eachothers... haha

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I've never given or received oral sex. I am 15/f. People say it is normal to do it at my age and I sort of agree. I am afraid of having a guy go down on me because I don't have this kind of experience and I am shy. I'm sort of afraid of going down on a guy because I don't want to do it wrong.

People always say you're supposed to wait until it feels right but I think it will only feel right when I give it a try.

Any advice??

If i were you i would wait until you found a guy that you really liked/loved that really likes/loves you back because it will make it SOO much more comfortable and so much better

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I posted a question before asking your opinion on witch swimsuit to get and now I found other ones I like and still can't decide. And I have very light skin, so I wan't one that will look good on me.

Tell me what you think. :)


1. http://images.delias.com//151832_w_s.jpg

2. http://images.delias.com//151811_w_s.jpg

3. http://images.delias.com//151810_wmu_w.jpg with http://images.delias.com//151815_wmu_w.jpg

personally, i like the first one the best. its REALLLY cute and stripes are really in right now.
i wouldnt go with the 3rd one because the top is white and you said you are really pale.. and white tends to not look very good on pale people. navy usually does though. so i would go with the first one.

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or the clique
thanks =]

summer boys series
the it girl series
the a-list series
jodi picoult books

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so recently my boy and i have been getting more serious. It's my first serious realationship. We haven't had sex, but he like fingers me and stuff. my onnly question is i don't know if i've been having an orgasm or not. Everytime i feel myself building up and stuff, i tell him to stop because i can't handle the feelings anymore. When this happens, my body sorta jolts a little. people say i'll know when i'm having an orgasm 'cause it'll feel great, i feel great afterwards, like relieved, but through this energy build up, it's a different feeling.

if you dont tell him to stop and he keeps going.. THEN you will have an orgasm. it will feel like you cant handle the feeling then you will feel like a burst of great feeling and thats an orgasm. when you feel like you cant handle the feeling just close your eyes and relax and just concentrate on your breathing or something

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is it ok to swim with contacts in ?

yes. but you have to either wear goggles or dont open your eyes underwater because otherwise they will fall out.

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[question#1]will i get a flat stomach and smaller thighs from this:

breakfast: special K cereal
lunch: hot pocket
snack: fruit/vegetable
supper: something not fatty
drinking plenty of water
doing like 300 situps everyday

[question#2]anybody know any THIGH excersices?

replace the hot pocket with a healthy sandwich or something. hot pockets are really fattening.

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I go to the gym 5 times a week, i get on the eliptical for 45 mins then the stairmaster for 10 mins. What other excersises can I do to tone up my tummy area?

do crunches.

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Ok when I get to the gym I start sweating pretty bad and I get major B.O. what can I do to help get rid of this?

wear deoderant
and make sure its an antiperspirant

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This is a REALLY wierd question but -- I can't stop thinking about it, lmfao.
In school, in a boys public bathroom, are the urinals out in the open? Or do they have walls to seperate them. Because couldn't boys make fun of other boys' penis' size?
Haha, i'm just curious :)

nope. theyre out in the open usually.

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