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What's up? Well, I'm sure like each and every other advice columnist is that, we all enjoy giving advice . I like to keep things real and you'll find out how real when you ask me a question . I absolutely love helping people . Hollah at me sometimes !!! Oh, and yahoo me . Goodness sakes knows that I could do with the mail.
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hi i am currlie and i am 15 there is this guy that i really like but i dont know what to do. we have so much in common and are really good friends we always hang out to. I am not the kind of girl to ask a guy out so i hape that someone can give me some advice i would really appreciate it
thanks , currlie
Currlie, you have to tell this guy how u feel . If he has a girlfriend then wait a while , but if he doesn't then go for it . Sometimes you have to change your way which means ask him out . Talk to him face to face . Tell him how u feel, and ask him how he feels about him, and if you are comftorable with him not accepting u as the lover u want to be; then tell him that u 2 can continue to be friends . Of course it's going to be awkward tellin him this but if u love him as much as u say u do . Then u would do what u have to do.
Have a nice day!!!
okay im 16/f n im a virigin
ive have known ma man for 3 1/2 years and he really wants to do it and so do i.but im so scared b/c its my 1st time and im so scared of gettin pregnant. he told me that we will use a condom and everything but still im not 100% sure.can anyone tell me how can i be 100% sure that i will not get pregnant.
The only way you can be for sure that you will not get pregnant or any other disease is not to have sex . It's the onlt way . I'm not trying to make u think that I don't support the fact of having sex with this guy, but it's basically up to u . Just think hard . Do u really want to do this, and is the risk good 4 this guy ? Well, have a nice day !!!
my sister is blonde and dumm. she acts like ashley simpson. what should she do?
Maybe it's not that she's dumb maybe she's trying to have a sense of humor . Tell her that it's kind of getting on your last nerve and that she really needs to be herself . Tell her that she needs to work harder at a humor or, people will start thinking that she's mentally challenged . Or do you mean that she's academically dumb, because, you can study real hard to improve that . Sorry if I offended u . I just really don't know what to say . by .
ok i am a little differnt in school. i like it and all. But last year people got the impresioni was gothic, but really i just like to be wearing somthing differnt than all the others. I am so confused. also i just wanto to breack down and cry but i know no 1 will understand!!!
signed, GRL who isnt gothic!
As long as u like it , then it shouldn't matter what the others think of u or what u wear .And people love to talk about things accusing them of things that aren't true when they don't have their facts straight . Just keep your head up and cool . They're just jealous because, they see competition when they see you . I bet your wondering why . Well, u said it yourself , you're different and they want to make u feel bad because it make them self's feel better about not plucking up the courage 4 not really expressing themselves because they want to a-crats all the time . So don't sweat it . You are the only one who knows that your not gothic, and your being true to yourself . So don't let it bother u . Being content with who you really are is a important factor that should be learned very early in life today because, of the trials and tribulations we go through . By, and have a nice day !!!
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 months and I used to be SO in love with him, but lately Ive been lieing to him about alot of little things and making up excuses to get off the phone. Should I wait a little while to see how things work out or should I talk to him about it? He loves me so much, I know he'll cry if I break up with him. I just cant hurt him like that. What am I supposed to do? :(
Confused with love! :(
Just because you are lieing to your boyfriend doesn't mean that you still yet don't love him . Love one's lie to each others as well which I think you may know, but if it is really meesing with your conscience, then talk to him . Confess to him . Tell him that you have been lieing about the little things , but I hope you understand that the little things u may think are, may not ne little 4 him . Talk to him . What you need to do is ask yourself, "Am I happy with the guy I am with . Does he understand me ? Is he there for me ? And how do I really feel 4 him ? Does the relationship still excite me "? If all the above u agree with , than maybe u still have flame in the relationship . In your conversation, you can mention, " What kind of things that really would make the relationship comftorable"? If you decide to break his heart tell him slow and that maybe u 2 can continue to be friends . Tell him that there maybe something real . Trust me , either way he'll understand that you were and are doing the right thing for the both of u and your relationship . Have a nice day !!!
How do I get my best friend to talk to me and trust you, while he still has a girlfriend and all? His girlfriend is putting stuff in his head and how do I prove that also to him?
YO SHOULD TELL HIM THAT HE HAS NOTHING TO WORRIED ABOUT . THAT YOU DON'T WANT TO BE PERSONALLY INVOLVED WITH HIM, BUT IF YOU TOLD HI THIS THEN MAYBE IT ISN'T YOU . MAYBE IT'S JUST THE JEALOUS GIRLFRIEND BEING PLAIN OUT JEALOUS WHY . WELL MY ONLY GUESS IS BECAUSE , HE CAN'T TRUST HIMSELF MAYBE HE FEELS EMOTIONALLY ABOUT YOU OR MAYBE IT'S BECAUSE, THE INFLUENCE OF THE G/F . TELL HIM THAT HE CAN TRUST U KNOW MATTER WHAT .TALK TO HIM . TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL . IF HE CAN'T RESPECT HOW U FEEL THEN HE DOESN'T DESERVE U AS A FRIEND . BUT THEY NORMALLY COME AROUND IN THE END THOUGH . HE'LL SEE IN THE END .
Hey Yall i have a friend whos name is canidce she is 16 bout to be 17..and..she asked me if i could help her on a guy situation but I dont know what to say. So this is the story..well she likes a guy named Jeff but he has a girlfriend..and she is confused because all these guys like her but she likes Jeff..and just so happenes her ex boyfriend that broke her heart 2 called her yesterday and told her that she was the only one thats made him smile and he asked her how she felt and she said she didnt know..any ideas??
-Hal
WELL ITS REALLY SIMPLE . TELL YOUR FRIEND TO CHOOSE WHOEVER SHE HAS MORE PASSION OR LOVE TOWARDS . I KNOW THAT SHE MAY BE CONFUSED RIGHT NOW , BUT SHE'LL KNOW . THE ANSWER IS THERE, AND EITHER WAY SHE IS SACRIFICING ONE OR THE OTHER . SO , WE ALL KNOW HOW THAT IS . I WOULD PERSONALLY SAY WAIT A LITTLE LONGER NOT UNTIL THE X SEEMS TO LOST TOTAL INTEREST, TO SEE WHERE THE RELATIONSHIP WITH JEFF AND HIS GIRL IS GOING . IF THAT SEEMS LONG AND STRONG(THE RELATIONSHIP JEFF HAS WITH HIS GIRL) THEN TO MAYBE CHOOSE THE X . IT'S UP TO HER REALLY , SHE CAN WAIT FOR JEFF OR MAKE THE PERFECT REBOUND . BY .
I have another friend that needs help her name is chrystal and she is 17..she had liked this guy named Ken..since he was in the 7th grade and he graduated in 2002..and he say he think of her as a lil sister..and she dont think of him like that.Her uncle herb told her to keep trying and go after what she wants..and never give up on him..any ideas?
-Hal
Tell your friend that she should ask him how he feels about her more than a 'lil sister' way . Tell your friend to ask this guy if he has ever thought of her other than a lil sister . Her uncle herb is right . If she wants him, she has to atleast try to ask him out or how he feels . Also tell her to be ready for a rejection because, these things sometimes don't go as you would like which she surely knows . But if she really wants him, then its up to her to do something about the situation . Hey, maybe she can make a change .By .
okay well i have no problem with having guys as friends but i want them to notice me more in a "girlfriend" way i guess you could say do you have any ideas on how to get them to notice me thanks alot
WELL TELL THEM HOW YOU FEEL AND ASK THEM HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT U .ASK THEM IF THEY WANT TO GIVE IT A SHOT .
So, yeah. I don't think I have ever felt so strongly for someone in my life...ever. I think I am experiencing love as much as I can at such a young age or, at least, something very close.
Various people (not me) have discussed this (he knows I am at least somewhat attracted) with him and appears to have no interest back.
What should I do?
You know what, I was in the same position as you were . And sometimes u have to move on . It not going to be easy , but sometimes you may have to . OH AND SOMETIMES WHAT THINGS MAY APPEAR TO BE AREN'T ALWAYS WHAT REALLY IS TO BE . THIS MEANS TO ASK HIM HOW HE FEELS . AND IF HE SAYS NO, WELL MOVE ON . SIMPLE SAID, BUT NOT SIMPLY DONE.
Well... im 130 n im 13 yrs old n im 5'5/5'6 n i want to loose some weight... Im a very sporty girl like everyday i run n do basketball n situps n pushups n w/e else u can think of... My favorite food is salad... thats like all i eat n I want to loose at least 30 pds to be the little 100 pd girl... n i have 3 weeks til summer n i want to be able to wear a bakini n look cute in it.. not fat... im trying to loose my tummy because it bugs me... HELP!!!!
You aren't fat. You are chubby . Your body is still growing and it needs all the nutrients and vitamins it can get such as the chubby fat on your stomach . But don't let this peace of information slide by because, you still need to be careful about what you intake and the amount of foods you intake a day prehaps : food you intake every hour . No need to get serious though . You could do some crunches,situps,yoga, or pilates . Its all up to you .
how far do ya'll think is the best to go in a relationship of 5 months.
It depends on what your partner in the relationship wants to do .Do or are they ready to go forward in a relationship ? BUT, THE BIG QUESTION IS, ARE U READY FOR A FURTHER STEP IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE, IT WILL AFFECT YOU BOTH. WELL SOMETIMES IT DOES . I THINK THE FARTHEST TO GO IN A RELATIONSHIP OF 5 MONTHS WOULD BE PRACTICALLY MAKING OUT . YOU TWO SHOULD ATLEAST GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER FOR ANOTHER 4 OR FIVE MONTHS BEFORE YOU DECIDE TO BE IN INTERCOURSE . BUT IT STILL DEPENDS ON WHAT YOUR PARTNER WANTS TO DO .
Hey my name is Kelly and i have a boy friend that isnt really there all the time hes always out with his friends and this girl named chris. But he says chris has a boy friend but i dont know if i shopuld beleive him or not because hes always hangin on her a nd stuff. I have cried sometimes because hes never there for our kid and on my sons b day he wasnt even there. Should i dump him? he has proposed to me but i dont know what to do know more. Hes real sweet and everything but he just doesnt spend any time with me no more. Please help!
You have to talk with this man , and I mean you really have to talk bc if you're about to marry him then you need to know the truth about him and his friend . Ask him how he feels about her , and tell him that his answer could affect whether you 2 will marry or not . If he get angry about you asking this question, then don't worry about him bc IF YOUR GOING TO MARRY THIS MAN, THEN YOU HAVE EVERY FREAKIN RIGHT TO KNOW WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP YOU ARE GETTING YOUR SELF TO, AND IN THE END, YOU'LL KNOW THAT HE WASN'T GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU . YOU HAVE TO BE STRONG THOUGH . BUT YOU DO HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO KNOW . THANKS, AND BY .
ok... i like this boy and i think e likes me. sometimes we make like 1 second eye contact or like when we pass by eachother, i can feel a vibe. i gave my friend this note 2 give 2 him and he looked freaked out. so he asked me 2 days later if i wrote it, and i told him no because i guess he didn't like me. ever since said no, he started to bother me again like teasing me and stuff. school ends the 25 and i want 2 know if he likes me or not! plz help!!!!!
You have to talk to him because, basically, thats the only way to find out if he really like's you . Oh, and I would tell him that I told my friend to write him that Letter . Good Luck!!!
Cheers!
well to make it kinda short i do drungs. not all the time but i do get high. Well. it seems like thast the only time i can get horny. i mean i know what i'm doing but thats the only time i get "in the mood" and when i'm not i still like making out with my bf. but i'm not horny. and it seems like i dont want ot do anything.. is this normal..
Well, I really don't think it is . I think you may be getting horny when you're doing drugs because, you're under the influence of drugs . Or it could be that you aren't roused to be getting horny with your b/f . I basically think that you are getting horny because , of the reason I stated before . I don't know really . I mean , you did mention that you make out with your b/f
when you're not under the influence of drugs . There are alot of things you can say , but it may be because, you are under the influence of drugs .
So what you want to mean is that when i talk to hr she will think about it or what(you answer was nice)also there is this thing about her in that she doesn't fill well about her body and everyone thinks she has one of the best, but she keeps complaining about her belly that it is too big and that she can't fnd a cloth she likes or that can fit her of whch to me it is not true.so in shot what can i do so that she gans her confidence.
Yes, your friend will think about the topic of discussion that you have raised . Oh, all woman are self conscience about there body like that, and I really think that she may need your support right now . Talk to her nicely and tell her that no matter what she may do or may look like that you may still be there for her and make sure that u let her know that she can rely on you anytime when in need . Thanks for saying that my answer was nice, and your question is nice too . Thanks .Have a nice day !!!
am in love with a class mate of mine & we have been going out for about one year and her name is evelyn (am 21 years)when we are at an arguing she always says that am tring to end the relationship & that am always looking for mistakes and am now worried to even tell her when something is wrong.
I think you should sit Evelyn down, and discuss your problems in this relationship . I think what u 2 basically need to focus on during this relationship is trust issues . They rip through people's relationships like when freddy kills . Tell her what she means to you , and don't try to add stuff in because, when you tell her, she'll know that you care anyway . Take her on a date and discuss all the argueing,and u supposedly looking for mistakes,and tell her how you feel . If all goes well, then reflect upon old memories from your relationship with her . Follow your heart . I hope you rate my advice. Have a nice day !!!
me and my mates are always fallen out. has any 1 got ne tips on how we can make our friendship work thanx
I would say to set rules such as doing things that your mates will be comftorable with as well, but while doing this, being content with your self. You all can talk about what and how you feel. Bacically, this means letting things out like: telling your friends things that they do to get on your nerves . I think if you all were to tell each other how you all feel, then the 'dirty laundry'would be clear . I am not saying that all your problems will be over, but it's best that each and every 1 of u know how u each feel about issues that could basically threat to destroy you all's friendship . I hope you rate my advice . Have a nice day .
ok my old friends from my jr high were all DRAMA.. especially this chick erynne. well i was so used to the drama thing that i didnt even realize people( like my new friends) could be so laid back. i dont really talk to that many peeps from my jr high. but then again most of them dont make an effort to talk to me nemore, when i used to always be the 1st person they called on the weekends. now they always act like they r mad at me so i just decided to find new friends. should i ask them if they r mad at me for sumthing or just forget them..??
chick1
Chick 1,
If this really bothers you and if you really want to get back involved with your old friends, then that is up to you . Basically , I say that you are missing them, then definetly ask what happened to you all's friendship . It's basically what you want to do . In the end, it's always up to you . Oh, and could you rate my advice . Thanks and have a nice day!!
this may seem shallow but, why are all the young teenagers(generally below 15) OBSESSED with the fag rock bands, like GC, and simple plan, and that crap?
I happen to like Simple Plan , but I guess it has become their favorite band because, they can relate to their lyrics . Some people above 15 like simple plan as well . Oh, have a nice day .
Oh, I am really sorry if I sounded "pissed" but I was merely stating a fact . Sorry if it seemed as if I was attacking the subject . By .