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Candice
Hey Yall i have a friend whos name is canidce she is 16 bout to be 17..and..she asked me if i could help her on a guy situation but I dont know what to say. So this is the story..well she likes a guy named Jeff but he has a girlfriend..and she is confused because all these guys like her but she likes Jeff..and just so happenes her ex boyfriend that broke her heart 2 called her yesterday and told her that she was the only one thats made him smile and he asked her how she felt and she said she didnt know..any ideas??
-Hal
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Well, this is definitely a messy situation.
First she needs to decide if she wants to move backwards and go back to her ex, who broke her heart in the first place, or wait for Jeff and his girlfriend to break up and then go for him. Her best bet, I believe, would be to see if she can find another guy that's tolerable besides Jeff. Who knows how long Jeff and his girl could be together? She might not have a chance at all, and she needs to know that.
If I were in your shoes, I'd advise her to look around and see who else she could tolerate. I don't believe in walking back into the past/making the same mistake twice, which is what she'd be doing if she went back to her ex.
I dunno about her, but once a guy breaks my heart, he has no chance of getting me back.
I hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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I would tell her to leave Jeff alone. Because scince he has a girl friend that is only going to get her introuble. I would go back w ith the ex boy friend because he likes her and she may liek him. Or try someone new you never know you may start likeing someone else. Well tell her i said Good luck to what ever!
Signed
Short N Punky
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wow! this 1 is haed umm
she needs to follow her heart in this one if she luvs her ex and he makes her happy mayb she should get back with him but if not why be miserable when other guys like u
hope i helped
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WELL ITS REALLY SIMPLE . TELL YOUR FRIEND TO CHOOSE WHOEVER SHE HAS MORE PASSION OR LOVE TOWARDS . I KNOW THAT SHE MAY BE CONFUSED RIGHT NOW , BUT SHE'LL KNOW . THE ANSWER IS THERE, AND EITHER WAY SHE IS SACRIFICING ONE OR THE OTHER . SO , WE ALL KNOW HOW THAT IS . I WOULD PERSONALLY SAY WAIT A LITTLE LONGER NOT UNTIL THE X SEEMS TO LOST TOTAL INTEREST, TO SEE WHERE THE RELATIONSHIP WITH JEFF AND HIS GIRL IS GOING . IF THAT SEEMS LONG AND STRONG(THE RELATIONSHIP JEFF HAS WITH HIS GIRL) THEN TO MAYBE CHOOSE THE X . IT'S UP TO HER REALLY , SHE CAN WAIT FOR JEFF OR MAKE THE PERFECT REBOUND . BY .
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well,i think that maybe jeff might like her but if he doesn't then go with someone eles ontil
he's free, then tell her to dump that guy & go with jeff.........
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