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I'm a med student, so health related questions I can usually answer pretty well. I also like to think I'm somewhat decent at giving advice. I can also give you an honest opinion."I love waking up in the morning not knowing what's gonna happen or, who I'm gonna meet, or where I'm gonna wind up. I figure life's a gift and I don't intend on wasting it. You don't know what hand you're gonna get dealt next."
"I believe in colors. I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner.I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles."
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How would I practice to do that? (bend backwards into a bridge)
Can you do a normal bridge? (without bending backwards) If you can do that every day then after awhile you'll get your body really used to it and flexible. (If you can't lay on the floor on your back and put your hands behind your head so that your wrists are facing away from you then push up with your arms). Once you think you have that down good stand and bend backwords into a bridge, you might not be able to do it right away but the more you practice this the farther you'll get. Do it 2-3 times a day and eventually it will come to you really good, as it did to me.
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I believe it's possible for me to get a right & left leg split by the end of summer (note my exlusion of the straddle split..hahaha) So..um..how should I go about it? I know I have to practice..but like..how often should I do it/do I hold or bounce/etcetc..
(ps gymnastics tryouts are on august 31!)ty in advance
hey, when i was learning to do a right & left leg split i tried to go as far as i could then hold it for 20 seconds (for each leg). i did it 2 times every day. in about a month i was able to do a split, right & left leg. good luck making the team!
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So ive been with this amazing guy for almost 5 months. Our 5th month together, I'm going to go on vacation but when .. I come back he's going to make it up to me.
He basically said like.. I could give him all the blowjobs I want.. How is that a present for me? I mean I've gave him like 3 presents so far, and I've gotten nothing. Not a little card either. yes, i like giving blowjobs but ugh.. was that wrong for him to say that?
I was expecting a day out with him.. Something fun.. but.. no..
i know this really isn't what you want to hear but i agree with Jack. from what you said here, he seems like a jerk just using you for blowjobs. it's perfectly fine if you like giving blowjobs but most guys like it 10 times more than the girl, so he probably wants you to think he's doing it for you, but he's really doing it for himself. i think he's not worth your time and you should get rid of him and make him find someone else to give him blowjobs. sorry.
I was just wondering what age some of you got your period at. Cuz im 14 and i still havent got mine.
i got mine at 11. everyone is different though so don't worry about it, it'll come eventually. enjoy life without it, because it's really not as fun as it seems. if you don't get it by 16/17 i would see a doctor.
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okay i always sleep at 5 or 6 AM because its summer and wake up at 12PM-3PM around that time do you think this is bad?
well it's not bad, but it's very healthy to wake up at the same time every day. i'm not blaming you because in summer i do the same thing haha. but it's not going to kill you. just make sure when there's like a week of summer left that you go to bed a little earlier and wake up a little earlier every morning so that your body starts to get use to it.
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What could I do to get my hair a lighter shade without dye?
I heard you could do something with lemons but yeah..
Hey, i wouldn't use the lemon juice cause it just drys out your hair, and you'll be really sorry you did it when you're done, trust me. (my sister tried it). what works good is washing your hair then go outside in the sun and let it dry in the sun and it will come out lighter. i have dirity blonde hair and when i do that my hair gets blonde. hope this works for youu.
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ive never had a boyfriend and guys dont seem interested what do i do???
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ok well first of all i'd just like to inform you that im pretty sure nothing is wrong with you so don't go about thinking that. many people don't have a boyfriend until they're in their 20's. if you really want a guy to notice you try wearing make-up (if you don't already) start with something like eyeliner or mascara. if you have light hair use brown and if you have dark hair use black. also usually your hair looks better if its straightened unless its naturally really curly then some guys like it but it depends on who you're trying to impress. also you should dress cute abercrombie and hollister if your looking for the "prep" boyfriend or hot topic if you're looking for the "goth" boyfriend. and just be outgoing and most importantly: BE YOURSELF, i cant emphasize this enough i have alot of guy friends and they tell me they know when a is changing everything about her just for someone and they dont like it. good luck!
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Hey, i need some really, really good quotes to go in a going-away scrapbook for one of my friends. If you could give me the quotes (as opposed to the website), that'd be great! and please, no cliches!
heres a few from just the top of my head:
"nobody compares to your best friends
because when the world walks out
they walk in."
"here's to the nights that turned into mornings, and the friends that turned into family."
"yes . we do use hair brushes as microphones && we dance around in our underwearbut we know how to have fun"
"You wanna know who your true friends are?
Screw up + See whos still there"
i actually have my own quote website. it's www.xanga.com/quotes__x333.
when you go to my website look on the left side and it has a bunch of blorgings (sp?) and if you click on one of them you'll get a list of quote sites! good luck + sorry about your friend going away.
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i need a group name for 5 people.
our group name for 6 people was sinister six.
i need something that sounds good like "fu**ed up five"
but nothing vulgar like that....
ideas pleaseee.
example... fat ass five (alliteration)
fatty five
furocious (sp?) five
fergalicious five
fashionable five
fruity five
five w/ faces ;]
food five
festy five
fresh five
haha just some that came to mind :]
my one friend, shes like so much fun to talk to on the phone or online. and we basically are alot alike. but i switched schools. we still live in the same town and by eachother though. but like, ive just realized things..
-im the one that calls her usually.
-im the one who IMs her usually.
-she says we should hang out, but never do.
& i figure oh shes just really busy, but then ill see her away and its like "mall with some cool people." or something. & the people she hangs out with i know, and were.. mutual. but, she never invites me with them or anything. & likr i just dont know what to think either. and when i think about it, shes deff. the type to talk about people. and i bet she talks about me. like, im practically positive. anyways. i dont know what to do. i mean i like her and stuff, but idno.
i've been in this exact same situation before and the best thing to do is ask her why you never hang out when she says she wants to. just be honest with her say everything you told us, tell the same thing to her. if she's really a good friend then she'll listen. if she doesn't listen or just continues to not talk to you and hang out with you and stuff hang out with your other friends instead of her and see if she notices, if she says anything like "we never hang out let's hang out tomorrow at 5" or something like that then she's a good friend. if she sees you're always hanging out with your other friends and doesn't even care or disregards the fact that your even there anymore just forget her. i know it's hard but if your friends treat you unfairly then they're not even worth your time anymore. times like these are the times when you find out who your real friends are.
good luck :]
i cant stand it anymore. i want it to be over and i dont feel like waiting for it to 'get better'. i just dont want to feel teh pain anymore and im going to end it. im so sick of nobody listening to me and telling me im stupid and not to 'talk that way'. i just need someone to lsiten. i need someone to ehlp me.
what do you need help with? let me know and i'll listen and talk to you :]
how do you make a strawberry banana smoothie? like steps to make it and what makes it taste bette than jus ice, water, strawberries and bananas.
this is a question i can surely answer, i make them all the time :]
first put in all the liquids/creamy/soft stuff in the blender:
strawberry/vanilla yogurt
ice cream
strawberries
bananas
milk
then put the ice in one at a time
P.S. don't put water in the smoothie, just ice, it tastes better :]
Sometimes I can be so tired. I can be lying in bed for hours and not be able to fall asleep even though I'm so exhausted.
What can I do?
No sleeping pills or doctors. Thx.
when this happens to me i do 150 crunches then put a movie on and down the volume on low. the 150 crunches gets me re-tired then the movie gets my eyes tired until they eventually can't stay open anymore and close, even if im not watching it, the flashing lights make your eyes sleepy.
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my family is really messed up. my mom can't stand up for herself,and shes such a jerk. my brother keeps saying im fat and i was wearing shorts and he said "you shouldn't be wearing those when your legs look like that". and he always takes away my things,he took away my purse,now i can't get it back. i'm only 13 and i feel like everyone is putting me down and taking things like im a baby.i really need to know how can i lift my confidence up and be happier and be stronger?
don't listen to them. if you ignore them and pretend that they didn't even say anything, then they'll stop. i know it's hard but don't care what people think about you. what matters the most is how you think of yourself. for your brother taking things from you just tell him to give it back nicely, if he doesn't then take something of his and tell him you really don't like it when he does that. i know this is really hard to do in a situation like this but just believe in yourself and don't let anyone bring you down, cause you're a special and unique person, you're yourself.
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need someone to talk about my problems with in a conversation.
they are mostly friendship ones.
is there anyplace i can find people to talk to who will kind of give me a total other point of view?
since they are not my friend?
well, i'm sure you can find some people on this website that will help you. i'll help you if that's what you're asking and sure i'll talk to you cause i have some friendship problems you can probably relate to. if i misunderstood your question please let me know, but i'm here if you wanna talk. just leave me your screen name/ email and i'll IM you.
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im 13/f. i just got back from the doc. i am 5'2 and weigh 90 pounds. i grew 5 inches and gained 14 pounds in a year. is that normal? cause i feel biiiiggg.
thanksssss :)
no you're perfectly fine, you just hit a big growth spurt, thats all. don't worry about it. i'm 14/f 5'3" and 120 pounds and i grew like 3 inches from last year and my doc says im perfect and its normal to grow alot around your age.
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I am on the pill and have been for about 2 almost 3 years now and it works good. I was on track and everything and a couple moths ago my period started comeing just a couple of days early. And then 2 weeks ago i started takeing my new pills and i was taking them for a week and a day and then i got my period and like it was there and then it went away and now it is back again. can someone please tell me what is going on with me im really scared and confused and i dont like it at all i know i need to go to the dr. and ask them but i dont have insureance to do that right now. so if you could please help that would be great.
hey you should probably get off the new pill and go back to the ones you've been taking for 2-3 years. you're body probably got used to the pills you've been taking for a long time so everything changed when you took the new pills. also, this happens to me alot cause i wasn't doing that much running over the summer then soccer started and my period came a little earlier, but honestly, its better to have your period come a few days early then have come then go and come right back again. hope everything goes well for you.
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I never know what to tell my hair cutter when I cut my hair! I don't know what layers is either!
Looking at this picture, can you write to me what this girl would've said to her hair dresser to have her hair like this? (layered [low layered, how many layers, high layered], thinned, etc)
http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/hyoricasual.jpg
thanks!
i believe her hair is layered like 3 times with side bangs. but if you have thick hair and you want your hair exactly like hers then you might need to get it thinned a little. the thing i would do though is to print this picture out and tell your hair dresser that this is what you want your hair to look like but you don't know how to describe it. most hair dressers have a book and many people pick out a style they like not even knowing what its called either.
oh yeah and if you were wondering what layers were they're parts of your hair that are different lengths.
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im 13 and in 7th grade and i have a bedtime of 9:30.. and it's really not fair because my 2 younger bros that are 7 and 9 both go to bed at 9! when i was 7 and 9 i had a bedtime of 8! i talked to my parents of letting me stay up till 10 but they dont listen! what can i do? (they wont listen if i talk to them again)
getting not enough sleep is bad. and getting too much sleep is just as bad. tell your parents that you think you're getting a little too much sleep and ask if you can stay up a little longer. yeah usually the older sibling has to suffer and the younger ones get it a little easier, but like the person below me said, enjoy it while you can! :]
I go to the gym 5 times a week and I still have a bit of flab on my hips. (Love handles)
Aside from cardio and eating well, can anyone give me some good exercises that work to strenghten my sides and minimize the fat there? It is the only place were I can't lose weight.
Thanks
do sit-ups every night and when you come up twist your upper body right then left. if you do about 30-50 of those each night your love handles will disappear. it worked on me really good.
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