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worth it?
my one friend, shes like so much fun to talk to on the phone or online. and we basically are alot alike. but i switched schools. we still live in the same town and by eachother though. but like, ive just realized things..
-im the one that calls her usually.
-im the one who IMs her usually.
-she says we should hang out, but never do.
& i figure oh shes just really busy, but then ill see her away and its like "mall with some cool people." or something. & the people she hangs out with i know, and were.. mutual. but, she never invites me with them or anything. & likr i just dont know what to think either. and when i think about it, shes deff. the type to talk about people. and i bet she talks about me. like, im practically positive. anyways. i dont know what to do. i mean i like her and stuff, but idno.
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i've been in this exact same situation before and the best thing to do is ask her why you never hang out when she says she wants to. just be honest with her say everything you told us, tell the same thing to her. if she's really a good friend then she'll listen. if she doesn't listen or just continues to not talk to you and hang out with you and stuff hang out with your other friends instead of her and see if she notices, if she says anything like "we never hang out let's hang out tomorrow at 5" or something like that then she's a good friend. if she sees you're always hanging out with your other friends and doesn't even care or disregards the fact that your even there anymore just forget her. i know it's hard but if your friends treat you unfairly then they're not even worth your time anymore. times like these are the times when you find out who your real friends are.
good luck :]
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