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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

okay, i got this amazing babysitting offer!
*well the only thing is i'm kinda shy around little kids like 5,6,7 even 8!
And the girl is 7!
How can i over come me being shy?

The little girl is going to look up to you in everything. Dont be shy and they will like you no matter what just dont be mean to her l0l. Remember you are older and if you do anything stupid she wont think its gay she will think its intertaning and fun. Good luck! ♥

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man i'm new to halo and i suck, can anyone give me some tips to help me kill lol. like wat are some tips for close combat, and sniping.

Sweet! My friend Dave is always playing it s he said this..umm play sniper alley over and over a few times to get ure sniping and dont take a shot unless its straight to the head.. in close combat try to have a good combo of weapon and move sideways like in a circle and they will to thats when u switch the direction ure movin and and they have to reaim givin ure more shots to kill them! ♥

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i was just wondering how to get a girl you likes attention without exposing yourself to every enemy everywhere.

thanks

Make eye contact with her and flirt. Make sure you talk to her a lot and get to know each other more. ♥

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i just got a turtle and i need ideas for a name

Aw, I asked people on this one!! Dave said Squirtlle! I totally like that name and Carl! 0h and Gigssy! l0l Weird names.. I know. ♥

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Does it hurt to like... masturbate? Will it pop your "cherry" if you go too deep or something? I don't want it to hurt so much when I do it with a guy so I'm trying to stretch it. Please help! I rate high.

Uhm it depends I guess. Some peple think it does and for others it doesnt. It wont pop your cherry. But when you have sex for the first time it will hurt. Wear tampons.. I guess that will help! ♥

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okay well i have this sweatshirt... its my favorite, but my mom just washed and dryed it and it has shrunk like the sleevs are so much shorter now and the bottom part is like almost touching my belly button, is there anything i can do to make it streth back out>??

No there isnt. Sorry.. I had my favorite shirt shrunk before and it never strenched out. Just keep it as a memory. ♥

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i just want to know if eating to much whipped cream is bad for your brain.

Hehe! Not at all but it is bad for your body. So just get the low fat whipped cream. It tastes exaclly the same but it doesnt have that much fat!! Eat as much as you want. L0L! ♥

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Im 14/f and have never frenched anyone. I know its a little pathetic but the only offers I have ever gotten have been dares and I dont wanna waste my first real kiss on a dare, that doesnt mean anything. So now I really like this guy (lets call him "Jon")...and as far as I know he likes me. Jon was going to ask me out so his friend asked if I liked Jon and I said no cuz I didn't want everone to know that I liked him. But it turns out that was his test to see if he should ask me out. So now were friends with benifits and I want to french him but how can I without making it too weird or random?

If he wants to be friends with benifits then he does want to hook up or go out with you. You should of said you liked him and if everyone knew it would matter since he likes you to. You could tell him you like him now. He will defenetly go for it. I dont think that you should really rush for it. I mean everyone has their moment and yours will come. You want to really like the guy and make sure you are ready. Its not pathetic that you never french kissed anyone so its okay. You and Jon will probablly end up going out and making out!! l0l! Have fun tho! ♥

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i like this guy alot, and we weer supposed to ahng out yesterday but he couldnt becaus ehe was busy i guess... but idk he seemed interested, like he flirts with me, and ive caught him staring a couple of times, we talk on the phone like every night, etc!! well does this means he likes me?? and if so why isnt he asking me out yet??

He defenetlly likes you! The reason he probablly didnt ask you out yet is because he wants to get to know you better or because he might think you arent that interested. Tell him that you really do like him and he better make a move on you! But dont worry he will ask you out just be patient! ♥

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people out of no where have been calling my like fat whore and all this other stuff...and it really really hurts...im not a whore..and i am a little fat but compared to people in our school im an ok size...and all this just came out of no where...how can i make it stop...and please dont tell me to ignore it or it doesnt matter what people say..cause it does matter what people say and think and theres no possible way to ignore it

Aw, Im sorry. People are really ignorant like that. They are the only ones who think that and you know you're not and your friends also so thats the important thing. Did you do anything with a guy or something? Sometimes the guys will spread rumors and say those kind of things. If it really starts bothering you that bad tell a teacher or principal. No one really deserves to be called those names at all. ♥

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I'm moving to a new school, in a different state this summer. The teacher who had most influence on me, was my chorus teacher. Would it be gay to get him a thank you card, and tell him how great of a teacher he was?

Defenetly not! He would so appreciate that so much! And I think thats just really sweet and nice of you. Its not gay at all so go for it. Good luck in your new school. ♥

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my sister is pregnant and me and her were talkin about names. well for a girl i picked out Brooklyn Marie and for a boy she picked out Conner Blake. do any of you like these names? and if not what are some suggestions? these are just some idease of some names she likes

Those are really cute names! For a girl I think that the name Kaylie or Haylie are really cute! Also Channel. For the boy the name Noah is cute!! Tomas Patrick is to! My friend totally loves that name!! ♥

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i really need help. I want to break up with my boyfriend cuz im tired of him hurting me and feeling like he doesnt care about me. but... I dont want him to hurt himself / commit suicide. Im talking to him on AIM now and he says i should see all the blood and that it hurts and he doesnt want to live. I havent even told him that i want to break up with him but i think he figured it out.

i want to break up with him but i dont want him to hurt himself. But i think he already has =\. What can i do? I know i should tell somebody about him hurting himself, but i dont really know what to tell them...?? please help me!

To me it sounds like he really doesnt want to kill himself. He wants attention from you because he isnt getting that much. If you break up with him because of that... then thats just really messed up. You need to talk to him and not just tell him to stop. Show him that you care about him and that you would do anything if he stoped. Just be there for him because thats what he needs right now. Tell him the reason you want to break up with him is because he wont even try to stop. ♥

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Ok today i was talking on the phone with my boyfriend and he said that today it was like diffrent because he didnt know like he didn't want to talk to me. I said maybe its beacause we talk all the time together he said yea i think your right then he said i spend alot of time with you i like spend the most time with you out of all my girlfirends. Wait stop right there is that bad or good it sounds like he dosnet want to talk to me or be with me. !!
Help

Of course he still likes you and wants to be with you. No doubt! Its acually really good that you both spend so much time together! You should ask him what he meant by that. Dont take it personaly because you are probally think he doesnt like you but to me it sounds like you both are really into each other. When you hang out ask your friends to come too. ♥

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i owe my mom a LOT of money. does anyone have any GOOD ideas on how to get some extra money. and please dont say stuff like walking dogs and cheap stuff like that. *i rate high*
love,
~need money~

Help around the house like cleaning and then she might pay you. My mom does that. You could go over to a neighbors house or your parents friends house that you know really well and help them out. Babysitting is a really good and easy way to earn money. Good luck! ♥

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Ok i didnt know what this should go under but. I really want to go see the longest yard and i tried to ask my mom if i could and she said no it was to sexual. I was wondering is it really that bad could i talk my mom into leting me see it??

Its acually a really funny movie! Its not sexual! If it was it would be rated R but its PG-13. If she wont let you go see it tell her that she should see if before you and then decide and see how it is. Its a good movie! ♥

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is there a good home remidie or product to get rid of blackheads ???

Clean n Clear or Nutregene work really good! Make sure you get the scrub face wash and whatever else you might need. ♥

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ok i have unprotected sex last thursday......is it to early to start getting morning sickness or sore boobs?? PLEASE help me

I think its way to early to think that. You should get a pregnancy test just to make sure. 0r you could wait and see if you get your period. ♥

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what is the html code 4 doing those hearts that everyone loves?

♥YA!

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do you shove down there?

Yea.

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