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people out of no where have been calling my like fat whore and all this other stuff...and it really really hurts...im not a whore..and i am a little fat but compared to people in our school im an ok size...and all this just came out of no where...how can i make it stop...and please dont tell me to ignore it or it doesnt matter what people say..cause it does matter what people say and think and theres no possible way to ignore it
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the sooner you learn ignore it, the sooner it stops bothering you. put on your headphones and walk away. don't give them a reaction, because they'll just do it more. don't go to your principal or parents...it doesn't work. if it keeps up, tell them you'll sue for sexual harassment, and if that doesn't scare them off, tell your guidance counselor you're being sexually harassed, because that's what calling someone a whore is. and if you're worried about your size, there are plenty of guys who dig chubby or even fat girls (i'm one of them), as you'll find out when you're in a more mature setting.
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hey i am sorry that ppl are calling you names (they do it to me to!) wat i normally do is come up with my best comebacks to show that i dont give a shit wat they think! so try and come up with something real good (if you cant think of ne let me know and i will help you) then if that doesnt work try telling them that it really hurts you and you want them to stop!
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i hope i helped
*~*~Sarah~*~*
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Ok, you can start with a casual "please stop I dont like it", or "Yo stop it yo."
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Extra: Thanks for the feedback. It sounds like you are pretty stuck. The best advice I can give you now is to try to make sure you seem really casual, like you dont care about them or what they say. Even make jokes about it or something. Try to let them see you're having fun. That way, if they start to see it isnt getting to you, they will lose interest. People like that dont normally have a problem finding other people to pick on.
You're right it does matter what people say, because it hurts. But as you cant force anyone to stop doing something, you have to try to deal with it yourself. Can you avoid being around the people who are calling you these names? Do you have any mutual friends who could talk to them and explain how painful it is for you? You dont say where this is happening... school?? Because if that's the case you can report it to someone as bullying.
I hope it stops soon!
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Aw, Im sorry. People are really ignorant like that. They are the only ones who think that and you know you're not and your friends also so thats the important thing. Did you do anything with a guy or something? Sometimes the guys will spread rumors and say those kind of things. If it really starts bothering you that bad tell a teacher or principal. No one really deserves to be called those names at all. ♥
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maby there just making fun of you because they feel insecure about themselfs. im sure your smart and i will bet alot that most of the kids making fun of you are stupid. dont listen to them and they will sstop. it will be hard but trust me, just dont react at all.
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