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hey I need help. I'm 13 and my friend likes this guy I like and we were best buds now I hate her. She thinks she should be the only one to have a boyfriend and she thinks i'm to shy to talk to him. HELP!!! ps i'm a girl LOL

Just talk to her! Tell her how you feel! Try talking to this guy and tell him what she says to you about him! He will then get the fact that she is not the girl for him and he will then forget about her! Try to win this guy over! I know that's so harsh but your friend is a real bitch, no offense! She shouldn't be saying that to you! You probably are perfect for this guy and not her! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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what do you do when your semi addicted to See's chocolate and cant stop eating it? any breaking the habit tips?

Tell your family or friends not to buy it or hide it away from you! When ever you crave this chocolate, put an elastic on your wrist and snap it! Tell yourself that this isn't good for you! Put it some where that you wouldn't find it afterwords! Find something else to eat instead of this! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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i like this guy and he kinda likes me but all my friends say hes really bad and they call him pot head and stuff like that. but i dont think hes bad at all. i kissed him at the movies and every one was like eww and stuff like that. but i really like him. what do i do? thanks.

Sweetie, forget about what your friends think about this guy! They are the ones who should be supportive and there for you! Talk to them! Tell them how you feel! You shouldn't care about what others think! Just follow your heart and stay with this guy! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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My friend Jessica made the basket ball team. And lately she has been acting really mean and shes thinks she owns the whole school and it bugs me and she yells at me in the hole and stuff and I have tolder that shes acting mean but all she said was no I'm no but I really dont know what to do

Talk to her again! Tell her how you feel! Maybe you should not hang around or talk to her as much as you are now! If you just tell her that she's been really mean and snotty lately, she will understand, since she is your friend! Maybe you could write a note instead of telling her in person? Just think of a way and I'm sure things with her will get better some time! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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Whenever I eat something in front of my boyfriend, I get all embaressed. I guess its because Im afraid I'll get food on my lips or face or something like that, so I only take a bite when he's looking away. Its so weird - I dont even notice Im doing it until he says something to me. I feel stupid eating when he's staring right at me tho. Does anyone have any suggrestions for what I can do to fix this ? Thanks a million.

Hey, don't worry, this is normal! This happened to my friend! She wouldn't eat at lunch because she was afraid that she would be embarrassed in front of her boyfriend! You just have to look at your food and not think about him and just eat! When he talks to you, finish eating what you were chewing and talk to him! Then go back to eating what you were eating! Don't worry, you aren't going to embarrass yourself! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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13/f. I have this friend. We've been friends for two years already. Well, he's nice a lot. We make jokes and all. But other times he makes me upset. He talks badly about my friends. He also always comments on my profile on AIM. He tells me somehow how I'm wrong in what I put, or how it's dumb. He promises time and time again to keep my crushes a secret, but tells them anyway. Half of our grade finds out and soon enough I'm a laughing stock. I no longer tell him but sometimes when he's nice I do it anyway. In person he's got a really great personality. We used to date in 6th grade and he was the sweetest guy. When we broke up he talked about all the things I didn't do perfectly when we were going out. He makes me upset basically just online. So what do I do?

Sweetie, you don't need this guy in your life! Who ever talks about your friends, makes you upset, critizes you on everything, and then makes everything better with his personality! Tell him how you feel about all of this! Once you tell him, you have to let him go! You don't deserve this! You need to find a better friend who doesn't upset you, talks about your friends, and critizes you! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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me and my boyfriend have been together for quite some time ((3 months)) and we have known each other since he was 15! he is 19 now & im 15... my parents think he is 16 and i hate lying to them but i love him and i want to be with him... how bad does this make me??

This doesn't make you bad at all! If you truely love your boyfriend, you have to tell your parents! Yeah, they probably will be mad but you have to tell them why you lied to them! They probably will still let you see him but they probably won't like the age difference since your boyfriend is legal and you aren't! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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i love this guy that is 18 and i am 13 he loves me too but my mom dont like him but she is judging him before she meets him jsut cuz his age!! she has forbidden me to talk to him how do i get her to understand???

help me please!!! FAST!!!


signed : *Love HURTz*
p.s. rate high!!!

The reason why she's doing this too is that your relationship between this guy is illegal! He's 18 and you're 13, think about it! Just tell your mom how you feel about him! Tell her that you really love him and that he's not what she thinks! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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could anyone give me the program applesauce for AIM please helpp!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey I have Applesauce too and I downloaded it from this site: http://mythophilia.net/downloads.html! Just click on Applesauce and it should start downloaded in a few seconds! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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i have to do this thingy in front of my class.. which is 36 people and i have to memorize it... its a monologue. and im scared. i think imn gunna go out there and like freeze!! what do i do? 13/f

Hey don't worry, it's alright to be nervous! I used to have stage fright and I overcomed it by knowing that no one is going to laugh at me just because I mess up! Everyone messes up! Pretend no one is watching you! Just go up there and do it! Imagine doing your monologue in front of a bunch of people? Now that's scary! Just be confident! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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okay so this is the deal i have always had boy friends but they never lasted over like two weeks and 1 month at the latest. well this year i met this guy and we have been goin out for like 3 months! and i realyl really really like him alot i am really attracted to him in many ways but recently hes been getting really seriouse! i mean im only 14 and hes all like "o babe i love you i care about you alot i really wanny be with you for along time" and im like "uummmm yea.." i mean i really do LIKE him and i dont think im ready for love yet! wut am i gonna do? i mean i dont wanna break up with him i like him alot and it would be soo diff w/o him! help help help me please!! ASAP

Talk to him! Tell him that he's moving to fast for you that you aren't ready for love yet! Since he really cares about you, he should understand and he will slow down! Don't break up with him! Just tell him how you feel and I'm sure things will work out! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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i met this guy, lets call him chad, who was a friend of a friend. we went out for about two weeks and then broke up. lately hes been calling me telling me that he still likes me and stuff but he doesnt know if he wants to get back together. he makes me cry almost every night, but for some reason i still cant let it go. i want to be with him so badly. all of my friends keep telling me to just leave it alone, that hes a jerk and its not worth it... but i cant let it go. what should i do? should i tell him that i still like him or should i just forget about him?

Wow, from what I've read, it sounds like this guy is a jerk! Definitely tell him that you still like him and then forget about him! You deserve so much more than this! Find another guy that isn't a jerk like this guy is! Just move on and forget about him! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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I bit my lip like a week ago and ik i should pick on it or anything but i did on accident and idk what I should use for it to be less noticeable...ik that is a really odd ? but i need help! lol thx!

Ouch, I've done that before! If you just put on Vaseline, it'll get rid of the scab or mark really fast! Don't worry, this isn't odd, it happens to the best of us! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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How do I change my password on advicentators? I'm a computer retard and I can't find it on the help stuff! thanks in advance!

Click on Profile Settings and at the top of the page, you can have the option to change you email address or password and just type in the password you want and hit submit! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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I'm not sure what a guy looks for in a teenage girl as far as looks,personality,and do guys like girls who like or play sports?

All guys are different! Some may like girls who like or play sports and some don't! Some guys may go for a girl's looks or some may go for a girl's personality! It all depends on what the guy thinks! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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i can you get over a guy?

You can get over a guy by throwing away everything that reminds you of him like notes and photos! Try not to think about him! Getting over a guy times a lot of time! You just have to find another guy that you like and just forget about the other guy! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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How do you get all the cursors, backrounds, and music on your column? I'll rate. Thank you.

Just find the code of what you want and then just paste it into your Profile Settings and hit submit! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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besides cd's and money what do you get a girl for her 15th birthday?

You can get her some jewelry like a pair of earrings, a necklace, or a bracelet! You can give her a gift certificate to her favorite store! You can take her out to dinner and then to a movie! Just ask her what she wants! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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hi theres this guy that likes me and wants to have sex with me cool!!!! but theres one problum hes 35 and i'm 14!!!!!! :~( what should i do he said if i don't i'll be sorry help!!!!!!

He's 35, he can go to jail for that since he's legal and you aren't! If you have sex with him, that will be called sagitory rape (sp?)! Don't do it! Tell an adult and call the cops! He shouldn't force you into having sex!
-Karen

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i know that the green jelly bracelet means cunnilingus. what exactly does cunnilingus mean?

Wow, you actually believe that those bracelets are true? Haha! Well cunnilingus means orally pleasuring the vagina!
-Karen

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