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The names Julie. i`m 15 years old and love too give advice so just ask me a question and i`ll try to help [:

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what do crabs look like...like what color? and do they move? and how do u get them? sorry im just curious!!

they look like small crabs and they do move and you can get them from being exposed to someone who has them.. even if your wearing shorts because my step dad got them when he was in the hospital and his friend had them and visited him so if you had them you would kno because its really itchy

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I graduate in 3 days, and my parents wanna know what I want for my graduation present....

Any Ideas?

maybe money, books or furniture for college

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i have a mole on my cheek but i want to get it removed... this week im going to but i have to make up my mind first if i want to.. should i get it removed or leave it?! they said there wont be any scarring... so?? please help!!

i wouldnt do it, how old are you? everyone has something they feel insecure about, just leave it alone.. its part of you

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i have heard a or that one of my close friends doesnt really like me, but we still hang out every day. but i heard this from a lying "friend", who doesnt really like the i first started talking about. would she make it up?? what should i do???

she might be jelous of you or your friendship with your other friend, i might confront both friends to see who is telling the truth

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My friend's family invited me to go to Florida with them this summer. It was rude to say no and they kept insisting, so of course, I agreed.

The problem is that my friend is getting so annoying and mean to me. She always yells at me and makes me feel very insecure and low. I am going to be with her 24/7 for 3 weeks! I don't know what to do now because her family already payed for the tickets and I can't get out of it. She always makes me cry..her family always yells at me and laughs at me behind my back. What can I do to prevent this or prevent myelf from crying? Thanks for answering.

dont go, tell her ASAP so she can give the ticket to another person or offer to pay for the unused ticket, you should tell your parents that you dont want to go, maybe they can help you out.. good luck

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Hi. Well, for my 2 cousins I had did designed a science project board for one of my cousins and did a project on somethin' Marshall I think-I forget the name. Well, I had to put aside my work to help them, and their parents said that they would give me a reward for that for my birthday which was the 3rd of ny, but I haven't gotten anything from them. I think I did this like 1 or 2 months ago. I know that it's rude to just ask them to give you the reward, so in what way might I give them hints for them to know that my birthday passed, and that they need to give me that reward? The next time I see them might me in about 2 weeks when we travel to Dallas, Texas for this organization that our parents are in but children attend too. I need help!

just move on, parents are busy and they dont always think "o i gota give (your name) a reward" you should want to help w/o getting a reward anyway

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Ok. Just yesterday I got my driving permit, and I'm a little nervous about driving on the bigger roads. Afraid I'm going to forget to look for signs, miss turns, etc. Anyone got any ways I can just chill and do everything I've learned without /over/doing it? Or maybe I should just start small for awhile, drive around in college lots or my own neighbourhood?

~fellow Advicenator

you have to crawl before you can walk, as people say. so learn driving around your neighborhood THEN drive on main roads

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Is taking your shoes of during a wedding okay? Me and my boyfriend were talking and we are going to his Aunts wedding tomarrow and hes like im taking my shoes off during the respection (ya know to dance and stuff) but is it okay? Past weddings as a kid i remember people going around in panty hoes and socks... Just wondering..
Thanks--

at the reception party its ok but kinda rude.. wait to see if anyone else does it

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im goignt ot be getting my hair cut tomarrow and i want a change but have no clue wat to get.
can someone tell me a site or sumthing where you can look at different hair styles/cuts
thatnx ill rate

i liek to ask the hair stylist what she thinks wouls look best on me.. they have experience

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I met this guy online and i really like him...he is really sweet and he asked me out...i said yes and i havent told my friends yet. The thing is they might think it's kind of wierd or strange that I met a guy online that I have never met before and actually talked to him..because they think that you shouldn't do that. Should I tell them or just keep it a secret to myself??
Thanks a lot!!
Confused

thats really dangerous.. how do you kno that its not a 40 yr old talking to you ( he couldnt sent u a pic of his nephew or sumthing if your gonna say "i saw his pic)if you MUST meet him, dont go alone (in a group) and meet in a VERY public place

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Well, ive taken all the advice, and i havent had soda and I feel great! Ive been doin regular exercises, but my thighs look fatter then ever same with my upper arms ! Whut can i do??

it might be because your gaining muscle

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For the last few days a bunch of boys in my class have been looking at me funny. At first I thought that I mite have had somthing weird on my face or maybe my outfir looked redicules to them. Then they all started talking to me. Not at once, but boys would come up to me all threw out the day and talk to me. This one boy even said that his best friend (one of the boys who wouldn't leave me alone) had a crush on me. I didn't belive him. Another one, was always trying to make me laugh, anouther one was always starring at me. The boy I have a crush on is really cool and always talking to me too. I can tell he has a crush on me. I think all the other boys have crushes on, and it really freaks me out!!!!!! A bunch of girls have been giving me the cold shoulder, or being really mean. My crush is my best friend too, and we are always together, some stupid boy calls us the love birds. I really don't know what to do. Should I just stay away from all boys in general.

no way, its not your fault they like you.. if the girls were your true friends, they wouldnt give you the cold shoulder just b/c some boys like you

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PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS ONE. There is this guy and he is 17 and im a girl and im 14. Well we both like each other alot or at least i think so. well anyway there are these two other girls and they like him and he says he cant stand them but then i catch him flirting with them sometimes. and also we makeout and stuff and i dont know if he is just useing me and then goes and makesout with these other girls.what do u think i should do and be specific. and do u think the age difference between us matters?

the age difference does kinda matter, i think he is just using you, think about it.. when your 17 would you want to go out with a 14 yr old.. y cant he go out with people his own age?

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I'm in a long distance relationship and am only 18. I believe deep in my heart that this person is my future husband, but how do I keep it strong with being so far apart? We really love eachother however, things are just getting difficult between work and school. Any suggestions?

call on the phone, make videos, letter or if you have AIM and you both have a mic then you can talk and keep the phone bills low

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ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it. I dont have any classes with him so i cant send a note or anything,plus hes not that kinda kid.. and i really wanna do something tomorrow so i can talk to him.
I rate high!

*depressed and sad

talk about anything, the weather, the weekend, a funny story and if your shy, walk up with a friend

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My friend lets call her Ashleigh well Ashleigh always is assuming she is fat.. and she is gunna dye.. she is never thinking positive.. she is always thinking negative things about her self.. i really want to help her control her self.. she told me it's mostly b.c of her dad and brother..
her dad has cancer and doesn`nt have much time to live mayb 2 more years..hopefully god will help him and her brother just got released from jail.. and i feel bad for her..if you know ANY way for me to help her please tell me i will rate high if thats what you want

Meli

she looks at the glass half empty instead of half full. maybe try joining a new sport or starting a new hobbie together to keep her mid off things

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My mom was born in a foreign country, and their thoughts on things are a LOT diffent from the United States, and her thoughts are LOTS different than what I want to do. For example, she refuses to let me date, so I have to keep all my feelings for boys bottled up in my diary. She doesn't let me wear shorts (only capris) in the summer, so I end up burning up in my classrooms. I really need to tell her that these things might not be allowed where she grew up, but I don't live where she lives, and I need to have a LIFE! How can I tell her?

maybe try to expain to her that the rules are differnet by telling her a rule in the U.S thats not where she came from so she can see that things are diffent or try just talking to her

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I have this friend (we'll call her Rachel) that was my best friend for years, and another best friend that we used to hang out with all the time, and we were a trio. Now, Rachel is getting on my other friend's nerves a lot, and she is ignoring Rachel all the time. Rachel is getting to be a little annoying for me too, but I try to handle it because I don't want to get Rachel all angry at me. Rachel isn't really my best friend any more, but I don't want to hurt her feelings. Sometimes I find myself making up lies to get out of hanging with Rach, and it makes me feel terrible. What can I do?

i know someone like that and i try to avoid her and i know its not nice but it drives me nuts.. anyway you could just say you need some space or tell her shes getting on your nerves in a gentle way

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Well this is so random but my dad is my soccer coach and when ever we are at practice and i say daddy he says i am not gunna respond to that call me coach.. and i get really sad

he just wants your teamates to feel like your all equal and he doesnt want to give you special treatment just because your his daughter

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In english class we're doing a project and we have to read it outloud. Last time when i was reading something outloud evry1 lauged at me! (Darn my squeeky voice) Anyways, i dunt want 2 read mine outloud! What should i do??

you have to or else the teacher might take off on your participation grade so just pretend your talking to yourself or someone you feel comfortable with

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