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Gender: Male
Location: U.K, England, Greater Manchester
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Age: 15
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Member Since: June 6, 2006
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i hate it when people talk about me behind my back but unfortunatly people do. and i dont know how to deal with it anymore. i used to ignore it but i cant anymore and im ready to snap. what should i do? (link)
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Hi there, some people can be mean, rude, and racist. Its just life sadly. The problem is with some people is that they call other people but they don't see the real you on the inside. My advice is just simply ignore them. If its making you angry then just think of it this way, if they are calling you they are actually saying alot about themselves as a person. They are talking about themselves. Hope that works for you. Daniel.
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Sometimes when im alone in my room i will talk to myself..like its hard to explain but i talk to myself out loud..except i answer myself too..its like i work myself thru my problems by talking to myself..does anyone else do this? or is there something wrong with me? i feel stupid for doing it and if anyone were to ever hear me i would die but is it okay to do this? (link)
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Hi, It is normal to talk to yourself, but if you do it in front of your friends or in a public area people might think weird stuff is going on. It probaly wouldnt suprise me if everyone talks to themselves. We all say things such as Im sick of this or Oh no not him again. Hope that helps.
Daniel.
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Ok so im only 13 but im in love i've been with this guy he's 15 i've known him since i was 3 he asked me to marry him because he said he loves me what should i do (link)
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Hi there, it is quite normal to feel in love at your age. But don't you think you and him are quite young to be getting married? And your parents have probaly got a say in the matter as well. Wait until your older like 25. You've still got your whole life ahead of you yet. Enjoy being a teenager, because once your an adult you will never be a teenager again. Daniel.
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if a guy you are making out with puts his hands on your boobs like ONTOP of your shirt, not under it, is that sexual harrasment or assault? what if while youi were making out he put his hands in the back pocket of your jeans and squeezed your butt? is that harrassment? thanks so much! (link)
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Hi, if the guy puts his hands on top of a girls boobs it is more of a sexual abuse than anything. It is not harressment but more of a sexual abuse. Harressment is when someone follows somebody around and stalks her premises. The guy can't touch you without her consent and if he has sex with her without consent it is classed as rape. Rape is a very serious crime and is punishable for a prison sentence. If you know of anybody who is touching you in anyway you don't like then talk to your parents, a trusted adult, school counsellor or the police. They can give you advice. Remember its your body and you decide who touches it. Daniel.
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I'm doing this thing for my boyfriend for our one year aniversary...and well I need 365 reason why I love him. However I'm having a terrible time with creativity. So if you could just tell me some of the things you love about your Bf/Gf/crush that would be great. I won't steal your ideas, I'm hopeing they will remind me of my guy
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Hi there, first of all you need to ask yourself, what do I like about him? Is he funny, creative, attractive? Do you like him because he likes you or because he makes you feel special. Keep asking yourself questions and then you will get the answers. Hope that helps. Daniel.
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How do you know if you are in love? Are there any signs? I know that it sounds like a stupid question, but i want to be sure before I do anything stupid. (link)
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Hi, it is quite simple really. Love means that you have a strong liking/affection towards the person. For example you might really like him/her for who she/he is and she/he makes you feel special. Lust is a sexual desire towards the person. You might have sexy dreams about him/her naked or something similar. Sex is more of a verb (doing word) e.g Having sexual intercourse. Dont confuse love and lust. Daniel.
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If the guy you like, asked you if you liked him, what would you say? Should you tell him the truth and take the risk, or just tell him you don't like him and keep it all inside for him to find out?
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Hi, If you want my opinion I personally would say it only if it felt like the right place at the right time. If I didnt like him I would just be honested but let him down gently. Remember Males have feelings too. Daniel.
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Ok, So I am 13 years old and since May 2005, I have found myself madly in love with no other than a 20 year old McDonalds worker. He has started to open up a little more in the past couple of months, and he gives me lots of hugs, flirts, and shows all the "signs" of love back. Yet he has never told me. This week we are supposed to go to the movies. My question is, Should I open up and tell him I love him or should I just wait until he does? (link)
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Hi and thanks for your E-mail. First of all have you noticed the age gap between the two of you? Just remember that hes an adult and your still a child. What I reccomend is that you think about what your going to do and then think of the consequences. This guy is 7 years older than you. However if you really want to tell him how much you love him, just do it. Who knows it might just work out between the two of you. Daniel.
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My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him. I don't think I'm ready... see he's not pressuring me, but he wants me to... I can tell. It's gunna be my first time (if i do do it) could anyone give me any tips (gross i know, sorry) on what to do?
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Hi, Well done for asking this sort of question, it must have took some courage.I pressume you mean how to have sex. Its just a matter of humping your genital area onto his genital area and moving back and forward until you feel pleasure. Maybe you could try other sex such as Oral. Remember its your body and you decide who touches it. Daniel.
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I am 17 years old and I feel that it is time for me to tell my friends and parents about me being gay. I have managed to tell a few friends already, and they took it easy. I don't want my other friends (guys in particular and girls that hate gays) to turn around and say that I am gross and never talk to me again. How do I tell them and my parents without it sounding so harsh? I am still the same person as before..
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Hi there, just tell them when your ready. You say your ready now so just do it only if you want to. If your friends were true friends they would except you being gay, not judge you. Daniel.
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Hmm well maybe I should start like this. I met this girl like 5-6 months ago and she was pretty cool so we became pretty good friends. Now after being with her at school and seeing her here and there after school, I finally figured out I like her a lot. She had a bf though, but he treated her like crap, he wouldnt ever talk to her or do things with her etc. So now she broke up with him and I'm not sure if she likes me or not but I dont want to ask her out because if she doesnt like me our friendship will suffer, and plus I dont usually like to ask people out. (link)
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Hi, maybe you should let the dust settle for now.
Give her some time to deal with the break up and then ask her out to the movies or out for lunch. Strike up a conversation with her and find out what her interests are. If you know her quite well which it sounds like you do, Then maybe invite her to the park or somewhere quite were you wont get disturbed. Remember if you dont ask you will never know! Daniel.
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ok so a few days ago i caught my almost 16 yr old brother looking at porn on the internet...and he caught me spying on him. and i promised to him i wouldnt tell cuz god only knows what my parents would do... so idk what to do like is this normal .. it probably is but what should i do its just kinda freaky ....
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Dear Brother,
When you are a teenager you start to get sexual feelings (lust) for people the opposite sex, sometimes the same sex. It is quite normal for your brother to have an interest in the girls. For the parents part, tell them only if you feel comfortable. Although have you talked to your brother about it? He might get a bit emmbarressed about it. Hope that helps, Daniel.
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