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ok. i am so VERY shy!! and i hate it. well most of the times. i mean sometimes i dont mind being shy but other times i hate it!!! so how can i like not become shy1!?!?!?!?!like for my sport that i do EVERYONE is so loud and stuff and im like not. so i feel left out. and im not very outgoing like how do i become more of that tooo? lol i dont know if you can change that... but i was just wondering. (link)
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just be your self maybe your not meant to be loud. or you can just try to speak your thoughts
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Tonight I am going to try to have a lucid dream (where you control what you do in a dream and realize that you are dreaming) to practice french kissing.
If I successfully have this lucid dream will it give me decent practice with french kissing? I only have a couple of times in real life but last night I realized that when I kissed this guy that it seemed very real (in a lucid dream). I just want to be more experienced for when it comes to french kissing this guy that I really like (and he likes me) so that it will go well.
Thanks for your advice! I rate. :) (link)
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it possible ihear about that stuff all the time and im a believer
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Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with a sibling moving out and going off to college? My sister and I are a year and half apart and she's moving out in a little over a week. We're really close and I just can't imagine her not being here.
We also have an older brother that moved out 4 years ago but I guess I didn't notice as much since I still had my sister.
Now, I'm going to be all alone (well...with my parents) and have the whole upstairs of our house to myself basically and I know it sounds kind of dumb, but it's scary. Has anyone else felt this way and had to deal with it?
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you just need to adjust to it just besure to keep in contact with her
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In the past, my best friend, used to ditch me alot. We had a big discussion on it. I said how it really hurt my feelings & all this stuff. So then she told me, she didn't mean to do it, & she was very sorry, & would never do it again. She promised & everything.
Then, just yesterday, she did it.
I went to this beach, like I don't know a week or two ago? & thats basically, all I've been talking about. & I kept saying I'm gonna invite you ok? & shes like ok, I can't wait. So I was all excited right? & then I'm like.. "I think were gonna go down there tomorrow. I was wondering if you can go?" & shes like "Yeah!" & so then.. around 6ish that day, I went to the park with my family & got ice cream. So, when I get back, shes all.. I can't go with you tomorrow, I'm sleeping over Kahlies house. & I got really really reallly really mad & upset. Because, I've been looking forward to it, for forever. So, since I was so angry, I just blurted out, I don't wanna talk to you anymore. & like stuff about being her best friend. So, then when she got to Kahlies shes all.. "Well, I can't believe your doing this when Kyle is about to dump me!" & then I just signed off. Because, I got mad.. that shes more worried about her boyfriendm, then losing her best friend? So yeah, I don't know what to do. I acted like I didn't care anymore, because I was tired, & wanted to go to bed.
What should I do? Should I continue to be mad at her? Or should I just forget about it.. & forgive her? I'm just upset, & need some advice. ASAP.
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spend some time away from her then maybe shell take you allitle more seriously if not ditch her for good
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does anyone know where to get hairstyle instructions on how to do your hair like lizzie mcguire's? (not hilary duff, lizzie mcguire, from the show)i really like some of her hairstyles but i can't find any instructions on how to do them. and i tried googling it but that wasn't any help. also the lizzie mcguire website on disneychannel.com only has one hairstyle so that website wouldn't work. good answer= good rating. ;) thanks so much! (link)
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look it up on the internet
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hi there. i'm a 15 year old girl, 5'2, with a 36DD bust. i also weigh 142lbs. the thing is though i dont think i look that heavy. i'm bigger framed than most of my friends i guess you could say, but i dont exactly have like..a HUGE stomach. i'm in proportion with my chest, haha. i was wondering if this weight was normal for my age. i've been to doctors and they all said i am overweight..but if i work out i'll gain more by building muscle. i want to get down to about 135lbs by october or sooner. so my questions are.
1. am i overweight? and by how much?
2. does anyone know of any good diets?
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some girls are big framed with out being if you dont hace a huge gut sticking out the your not ive known many girls to just have large frames and not be considered fat
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Well, my birthday is in 3 days. I'm turning 14.
My friend Jessica is supposed to come along with my 4 other friends. Jessica hasn't contacted me in 2 days and she didn't even mention my party. I invited her and she said she can most likely come!
But now I want to invite my friend Anne, but I'm not so sure I should because Jessica will get rather mad at me! I'm afraid she'll show up or call if I invited Anne, and I don't want her getting mad because I invited someone else because she didn't call me about it. That's the only reason I would have invited Anne, because Jessica hasn't contacted me in any way.
What should I do!? (link)
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find out from jessica to confirm what shes doing
call her she said she could come last time you spoke with her
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My mom's mood is very unpredictable. She can sometimes be very delusional, abusive, and irrational. I know that she was abused when she was younger but she refuses to talk about it with anyone, she hasn't even told me. I also know that schizophrenia runs in my family. I think that she has some kind of mental illness and I want her to get help. If not she will just keep driving me and her boyfriend away from her with her mistreatment. I just don't know how to convince her to get help and admit she has a problem. If she doesn't get help soon I'll be forced to leave her. I can't stand the way she treats me. Please help me. (link)
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you and her boyfriend should confront her if she begins to get hostile leave immediately
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I'm Italian-American and my family is pretty old fashion when it comes to dating. They're not in anyway racists at all but they don't exactly believe in dating outside our race (like any guy that isn't white).
Well I've meet this guy since school started (I've actually met him at parties and stuff before but never really had a chance to get to know him) and he asked me out on a date.
I like him and all and I know my dad would love him (my parents always meet my dates when they come pick me up :/ ). He's Mr. all star football running back, he's smart (top 10% of our class, actually), and he's oh so respectful. But one problem, he's black. And like I said before, my parents aren't into that.
So I'm not exactly sure what to do. I've tried talking to them about the situation in the past, but no luck.
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it shouldnt matter what your parents are into it should matter what your into
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school's coming up..so i'm kind of looking for a new hairstyle..i'm 13yrs.old dark skinned, have nappy hair, and my hair is up to the very end of my neck. what hairstyle do you think would look best on me? (link)
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ask a hairstylist
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i am a fourteen year old girl.
here's the deal. i like this guy (who i have talked to and he knows i like him and blah, blah, blah) he said that he didn't want a relationship because of what his cousin said.
but his ex girlfriend said that he was too clingy. that's why she broke up with him. and one of my absolute best friends is his ex ,ex girlfriend. and she also said he was too clingy.
i am going to talk to him monday and tell him that he can keep his girlfriends because he is too clingy, but i would still except him even though he has a clinging problem.
do you think that is a good idea? should i change anything or what else should i do? is he one of those guys who aren't worth it?
thanks to who answers this question.
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why dont you stop relying on other peoples opinion and find out for your self if hes clingy
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ok i am really really pale. and no matter what i do i dont get tan i burn and get more freckles. i have the darkest freckles you will ever see and theyre EVERYWHERE!! on my legs, arms, face, etc. any advice on how to get more color? i dont want to use the summer glow crap cuz ive heard it makes you look orange. please help im like the palest person at my school!! (link)
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whats wrong with being pale i think its pretty
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I am an 18-year-old female and I feel as though my boyfriend controls me. He limits the girls I can talk to and talking to guys is definitely out of the question. In turn I feel as though I should do the same to him, so I do. Except I won't simply tell him to not go out at all. I will tell him to not go out 5 times a week, get drunk with his friends and pick up underage girls. Yet, I still feel guilty for telling him not to do this because I feel as though I have stooped down to his level and that I am now controlling him. He makes me feel this way as well. I love him, we are very close and have been dating for a long while, but what should I do? (link)
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wow thats amazing you guys are so close that his minds acts through your body nd you perform the tasks he want you to be. your so close that you are him in female form. hmmm i think your alittle to close and you need to rethink and drop this guy its not normal and could lead to abuse
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i am trying to "diversify" my wardrobe...most of my clothes are from abercrombie and holister. what are some random teen clothing stores/ boutiques (link)
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vintage,thrift,
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what if there is this new guy at school , & you really really like him he likes you alot too . All you do is talk about him & you really really like him . But.. before 1 of your best friends & this boy went to school together & almost went out & she liked him as well & still has some feelings for him . but you found out from your other friend that your good friend was mad when you went out with 3 other boys that she had a crush on when i didn't even know she liked them until afterwoards. & that made me break with them all & not like them anymore . I"m afraid one of my friend will be mad if i went out with him cuz she told me to thin about what i do before i do it so yeah . i really like this boy but then again so does she . what should i do . Sorry its soo long but i don't know what to do. (link)
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do the boys like her back. if not dont worry about it.its alittle odd that she always likes the boys who you go outwith or like you. be considerate but she needs to respect you aswell
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This girl named Leah lives in my neighborhood and goes to my school.
We used to be best friends sadly, until I kind of tried to keep my distance from her. The reason why I wanted to keep my distance from her is because she acted like total jerk to me for no reason (I'm not gonna list what all she did to me) and then went and cried to me telling her to forgive her. All of my friends were attacking me, so I forgave her and I really wish I didn't do that.
She's is an effing stalker and I'm not kidding. She copies EVERYTHING my friend and I do (Yeah, it's supossed to flattery. Well, it's driving me crazy) All she does is talk about my other friends and when I'm not around all she does is talk about ME behind MY back. She wrote my friend a note today and my friend showed it to me.
This is what it said:
You probably are wondering why I was upset this morning. (I talked to my friend who she wrote the note to and my friend said that she didn't even notice and plus she didn't really care. ) Well I was confused, annoyed, mad, and upset. Katie (Me) has a problem. Dayna (one of my other friends) yelling at me for copying you two didn't help either. I'm already upset enough and plus I'm on my period (I'm on mine too so wtf.) She wont even get within a bazillion feet of me (She's obsessed with me and my friend. I was a foot away from her today so I guess she's blind.)
God, she goes crying to her everytime she has some stupid problem with me and says all this crap about me.
ALL she does is talk about how she hates all of my friends. She started cussing at me when I tell her to stop and I stand up for them. She will sit there and talk and talk and every word she says is a lie. She has seriously changed so much since I first met her. I know she isn't going to go back to who she was. I honestly think she forgot who that actually IS!
She's been a jerk to me lately and I want her to leave me alone. I don't want to be her friend anymore and she can't get that through her head! I know this kind of sounds mean, but if I told you what all she's done to me you would know she's the one who is mean...not me.
I have her screen name if that helps.
How do I just slowly let our friendship fade or just plain out tell her I don't want to be friends with her anymore?
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if you dont like someone dont pretend to. you dont have to be friends with her or answer to anybody else about it. just tell her you dont want to be friends or slowly break off contact with her. dont live in deciet its not a happy home
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After the break up he seems to look at me alot.. and then ignores me, and then the 3rd day after the breakup he seems happier than i am. Alot of people says that he regrets it, and even my ex said he probably does cause its a guy thing. He aimed me and said that we can still be friends, but when i aimed him back he ignores me. AGAIN. i just found out today that hes 2 faced, and why he broke up wit me..
why?
okay.. well he thought that i was flirting w/ another guy.. when my sister says that shes sorry if i do cause i got it from her.. and thenn i just found out today by his friend.. he could of told me to stop so i could change instead of saying "its over." and he leaves me there wondering why and i try to be friends wit' him but he pushes me away.
i hope he regrets breaking up wit' me.. does he regret it?? if he doesn't, how can you tell.. that he regrets it. Aim:
: what happened?
him: mary
: ?
him: STFU!
: .............
: wthhhh?
PLEASE HELP ME.. ive never been this sad before, and its making me more sad. (link)
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he needs to make up his mind if youve tryed to talk and hes ignored you thats his problem
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Hi my boyfriend and I are having some problems. Well first of all he is mad at me for getting a myspace and he wont leave me alone he's threatning to break up with me for it, its retarded he needs to just leave me alone. What should I do? (link)
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ask him why the my space things a big deal explain that its not just for dating. and besides your your own woman and if he wants to break up with you over it maybe its better he did. he cant handle you
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So it's my first day of work.
I'm wearing a pink tee and jeans from the store and belts and shoes I bought from elsewhere.
I want to do pink makeup.
The last time I saw my manager was at the interview and I wore a black skirt, a beige camisole and a black shirt to layer it and beige shoes and purse, neutral makeup. So I think I should do a pink girly look for tomorrow.
Also, I have longish-side bangs. Should I tie my hair up? Or braid it or leave it down or what? I left it down for the interview. (link)
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just be your self
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I have so much on my plate right now. I'm a junior in high school. I'm constantly thinking/worrying about the SAT, college, my weight [even though I'm thinner than average], my GPA, the graduation test, my first job, my first car, my future career, my friends.. I worry about everything. It's like I have an illness because I can't stop worrying for one minute.
One of my classes really scares me because I'm not good at it. I'm scared to the point that I feel like I'm really cold and my teeth won't stop chattering and my body won't stop shaking, all because of a speech, or a test, etc.
I'm also anorexic. I'm 10-15 pounds lighter than I should be, but half of me is saying "Who cares what the average weight is? my stomach is humungous" and the other half is saying "Everyone thinks you're too skinny and you are". I lean toward the "I'm fat" side and regulate everything that goes into my mouth.
I think that my eating disorder and extreme worrying are causing me to have depression. I'm never happy unless I'm with my friends. Once I come home, I start the worrying process. I also have experienced serious panic attacks. I hate how I'm never happy =( I'm 16 and most people my age don't worry about anything except what to buy at the mall. I've gone to 3 therapists. One helped, one was okay, and another didn't, so I don't rely on therapy anymore.
What do I do? (link)
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stop worring so much. your jumping the gun just take things as they happen. all these things that seem like a big deal right now wont be in the long run
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