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my form teacher is utterly shameful, she doesnt even know our names by heart after 8months being our form teacher. she calls us "eh, girl. eh you. eh come here." grr how do u deal with teachers like this?? to me its rather disrespectful on her part not even knowing her own class students' names. -rei

eh..girl.? lol..my old religion teacher couldnt remember our names or w/e..she would sometimes call us someone else who was on the other side of the room..its quite funny sometimes..you sometimes gotta deal with it..you should talk to someone about it and have them talk to her about the problem..I know it wasnt much help but I really dk..lol

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what kinda music do you suggest that one should hear when one is feeling down?

if you listen to stupid stuff..it will probably make you laugh..every now and then when im in the car with my mom and my sister...my sis puts on country music..and sometimes its really stupid my mom and I laugh at it..while my sister tell us to STH..its mean..but quite funny lol - hope I helped

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Remember 2 years ago when those lace-up jeans came out?? Like they laces up either in the back or on the sides or in the front. Are those still in style or did thery go out a year ago?

Who cares?!...No one said there was a special dress code to be cool!!..Go out and wear what ever you like...be yourself! Be Different!!. ;) - hope I helped

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I have this sisgusting red thing on the lip of my eye. My mom said it's a "sti?". How do i get rid of it! ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

u mean a "stye"?..I got like 2 or 3 of them before. It's nothing big my mom said my uncle used to get them alot when he was younger and all..When I got a stye on my eye..I would put a tea bag on it after my mom took it out of her tea and I would put it on my eye for 30-60 mins or w/e..It was always gone by like 2 or 3 days..- hope I helped

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Ok, I heard that there was a program that lets you have more than 200 screen names on AIM. Do you know what the program is called and where I can find it? Thanks

well there is AIM 5.5 which lets u have 8 sn's up at once...or there is Aim + it is found on big-o-software.com...I have both so my friends can go on their sn's while there here w/o havin me linkin their sn's to mine and re logging on its just hell...But why do you want to be logged onto more then 200 sn's @ once?!?! thats just a bit crazy dont ya think?! - hope I helped

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What's a polite way to get off the phone with someone. I'm not annoyed with this person, in fact I'm completely in love with her, but I just don't want to turn into one of those 4 hour conversations every day kind of couples.

just make up an everyday excuse chore or say.."i'm gonna go on-line in a few...alright?..ttyt..bye" its that simple - hope I helped

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i was out with my ex boyfriend last night. we still hang out and all that crap. basically, we still act as if we are still girlfriend and boyfriend. well, while we were having dinner, i said to him, "im a good girlfriend, youre just to dumb to realize that you should be with me." i watched his reaction, which he didnt really have one, and a couple seconds later he replied "its better that were just friends.." he seemed sort of unhappy when he said that. well, after that being said, the rest of the night, he was holding me, laughing, all the good stuff.. and he tells me that he loves me. he bought me a painting to have it say [his name] loves [my name]. so right now, im feeling sort of confused. he always tells me that he loves and that were going to get back together when he gets his head together.. but then, he says that whole thing with us being "friends." how should i feel right now?
btw.. im very much in love with him, and so he says that he is with me. we are both 18

3 words 4 ya hun..and it isnt "I love you"...It's..."guy are idiots"!!..They're too dumb to relize what we are..and what we give them..Guys these days all they care about is " Sex, Sex and more Sex!!" its stupid...but 100% true! - hope I helped

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okay so i was at my cottage and this guy was like chillin with me and my sis and my cuzins and so we were chillin and my sis was beggin 4 his sn!! i wasn't even really interested but he gave it 2 me secretly!! doe sthis mean he likes me?? or does it mean he wants to be friends??

it could ..possibably mean he likes you...u dont know that for sure...i'd talk to him on-line for like 2 or 3 weeks..if he starts flirtin with u and all..he may like you- hope I helped =)

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I've been going out with my boyfriend for a couple months and I very much enjoy kissing him. The problem is, he always makes the first move. Out of all of my boyfriends, I've never made any first moves or anything. I want to just try something new and make my boyfriend realize I'm spontaneous, sexy and not shy. Any kissing techniques I could use on him? I really don't want to come off like I'm trying too hard, but I need help to get over this shy thing I have with my own boyfriend!

I dk...guys always make the 1st move..lol

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my reason for not wanting to date any of them is private (its not that i'm gay, its just that my heart was broken by a guy they ALL would know and be like wow, i'm calling the cops.) and i wouldn't feel comfortable explaing it to them.

I think I know the *reason*..and if im correct..im sry it happened..Guys should respect us if we turn them down..dont worry sooner or l8r Mr. Right will come and he'll treat you right..if you need anymore help you can leave one in my inbox- xoxo

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hi does any 1 here have aimutation? if u do will u plz help me download it and stuff? thx

I have a friend who is a computer geek..IM me..and I'll give u his sn and he'll help you with it and all. -hope I helped

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I'm going to be a freshman this year, and last year i fell in love with a guy who isn't going to my highschool, but i won't go into details about that. anyway, i don't want a bf this year at all like ever ever ever, but like i don't want guys to think i'm mean or anything, and i don't want to hurt anyones feelings. can i just say no with out guys getting all pi$$ed off?

yes..you can...just explain to them why you dont want to have a b/f..and just ask to be friends with them..if you need anymore help..feel free to drop one in my inbox - hope I helped ;-)

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one of my friends has a problem with inviting themselves over to my house what can i tell her that wont hurt her feelings but will let her her know that i will invite her when i want her over?

be honest with her! - hope I helped

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ok so theres this new girl at school whos really cool and stuff and she invited me to her birthday party coming up this weekend and i dont know what to get her and when i ask her she just says "oh you dont have to get me anything" which means get me somthing but im not gonna tel you what i want got anyideas for what i should get her?

uh..get her a gift card or something..and put it in a card..or get her candles...- hope I helped

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i just got my period and its gross and scary and its my first time help me.

well- All girls get it sooner or later..yeah and I think I speak for about half the women in the world that getting your period is sometimes HELL! lol...Ask ur mom, older sister, aunt any female relation in ur family...mom is the #1 help to u and trust after a while u'll never notice they're there! - hope I helped
(its also a sign meaning your growning up. ;-))

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i am in 8th grade and i never had a b/f and no one has ever asked me out!!! is that normal or am i like idk weird or sumtin

Welcome to the club! :-D
1- guys r immature at our age
2- Your not weird..
3- everyone gets asked out at different times..ur time will come just be patient!
4- I've kinda been threw the same thing..I turned down 1 or 2 guys before who asked me out..and there was a *reason* why I did..
besides that no one has ever asked me out yet either...
just wait...ur time will come ;-)

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hi um i went on a cruise this summer and bein that i live in virginia there was gonna be people from all ova the united states there and alot of boyz tried to get wit me but i liked this one boy.then on the last day of the cruise i had my first kiss with him we were makin out the whole night.then when i got off the boat i planned on goin back to my regular life cause he lives in florida and i wont be able to see him again but i cant get another boyfriend. i mean yea alot of boyz asked me out but i keep turnin them down the boy i longed 4 b4 the cruise asked me out and i turned him down whats wrong with me

im 14 and a female

sounds like you might be a little picky on your choice of guys..alotta girls are like that..they're affaird to go out with guys that arent in their league because their affaird it will ruining their rep. - hope I helped

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im really shy when it comes to people who i dont really know .. and i hate being shy im not shy around my groupe of friends .. but i'm going into highschool + i wanna make new friends but i'm shy to people i dont know .. do u have ne ideas that can help me not be that shy around people i dont know? thanks !

just be yourself :D

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ok theres this boys and i jsut moved from georgia and goin bak in about 10 months and theres this boy bak there we dated almost all year and we broke up jsut before i moved and everytime i talk to i i start liking him agian and he talks to my friends about me all the time and he we he asks me out agian what should i do

if you really like him..go for it..ask your parents or who ever if you could go back like every month or 2..to visit your friends in georgia and all..- hope I helped

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Could you get pregnant if a guy had his dick like not in your vagina but right outside it and he cums, and he tries to pull away....but some gets on your clit, could you get pregnant?

- I know its confusing!!

-thanks
-Zero~

yeah if some of the cum slips inside of you - hope I helped

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