There's this couple that i know they were together before but they were always constantly fighting i think he was too strict on her and she was always controlling him and asking him questions and swearing at him and his family and she pretty much treated him like dirt and accused him of cheating and everything and i'm not sure about him but i know his short tempered however,they broke up for about 2 months she dumped him though she would always call him and she'd cry to get back with him though she'd also tell him off and swear at him they got back about 2 weeks ago i'm just wondering do you people think they'll last or what i'm not sure how their relationship is now im just curious thank you.
If they're lucky, they'll end it soon. It seems as though she enjoys a lot of drama in her life and it really seems like she has low self esteem. Whenever she find a little self confidence and can live without the drama, she may find a happy relationship. My advice would be to stay away from them as a couple and hope for the best. You can be friends with each of them separately so you don't have to witness any of their mess when their together. Hope this helps and good luck.
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I've been seeing this guy for a while now and he's a virgin. I'm not. We talked about having sex and he's pretty sure he's ready. If we do end up having sex, I want to make his first time really good. Are there any positions that will make it very pleasuring for him?
Thank you.
If you want to make it a good experience give him a hand or blow job first to get the first orgasm out of the way. Right after you've cleaned up, start slowly kissing and let him touch you all over and give him some ideas and let him know what feels good on you. When you get him hard again, climb on top and ride him slowly for a while and then let him get on top. Don't be afraid to talk to him along the way. Hope this helps and good luck.
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i have the droid 2 and i put my sd card in it but the pictures i take on the phone aren't going onto the sd card! how do i get them to go onto there?
I think under the settings and tools, you'll find the memory option. Then hit the save options, and chose the pictures and it should let you chose the card memory. Hope this helps and good luck.
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I am completely against being gasy I am an all christian gal. G to church bible studies youth groups, the whole deal. I even like a guy. But, when ever a girl walks by I look at her butt or boobs , lesbian kissin, and two men kissin even turn me on. Or if they bend over I feel all tingley. AM I gay? Btw I am a girl.
I wish you had given your age but going off the information, I would say you could be on your way. Some people have a higher sex drive, like yourself, and are attracted to both sexes. When you get a little older you may settle into being attracted to one gender than another, but until then, I wouldn't worry about labeling yourself. You can still believe in Christ and be gay. I know there will be some members of the church that may shun you if you decide to become a lesbian but don't let the deter you from being what you want. If you have any other questions please ask me. Hope this helps and good luck.
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How would I tell a guy that I really like that I like him?Im pretty sure that he likes me too,he acts like he does but I just dont know how to tell him
If you're the shy type or not quite the straight forward kind either, you may want to chat up one of his girl or guy friends and see what they think. If that doesn't work, you may want to invite him out for a casual lunch or coffee and see how he reacts. Hopefully he'll accept and you can feel him out on your date. Hope this helps and good luck.
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I am not a bad babysitter, but sometimes i tend to run out of ideas. Any advice on games or stuff i could do with the kids? Ages (7-12)
Find out what each child likes and try to find out as much as you can about those things so you can relate. Like if a boy likes Pokemon or a girl likes hello kitty. Kids love to talk about their favorite toy or activity and they'll love having someone that seems interested. Hope this helps and good luck.
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my boyfriend who is 18 has been trying to get into modeling for awhile now, well so far he has been scamed twice by people saying they are from modeling agentcies, and i dont want his hopes being crushed. i want to know how and where could we find an actually thing for modeling. i heard tyra banks has been looking for new models but i dont know how to contact her. im really desprate please help me and him thank you
Modelmayhem.com is a good place to start. You can find reputable photgraphers there to help you get started. Good luck.
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What is a painless way to do anal sex?
You really need to start slow and work up to it. Usually if you have a guy go down on you and let him slip one and then two fingers in slowly, it will help relax the muscles. When he is ready to enter you, it helps to rub your clit or get a strong vibrator. Let him put the head in first and wait for a few seconds till the muscle relaxes and can accept the rest. One last tip is to get a good enema kit to keep things clean inside there. Hope this helps and good luck.
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Well i am really skinny, but barely have any muscle. I have a nice body but i want to work out more often so i can maintain my body and when im older i will look good and not just skin and bones.
what would be some work out tips for people that are skinny but want to grow muscle? Thanks!
Whatever workout you decide, make sure you always have a good stretching routine. If you live in a colder climate, I would recommend getting some small weights and a set of workout bands. Doing small weights with more reps will help get the muscles tone without bulking up to much. Make sure you work the legs one day, the stomach the next and then work on the upper body. Never work the same muscles 2 days in a row because you can do damage and make sure you give it a rest 1 or 2 days a week. Hope this helps and good luck.
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ok so i am 16f/. me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months this december 22nd. its really not long, i know, but i got him a present in october(bc it was cheap and i knew it would go up in price if i wait, and if we broke up then i could just return it or keep it. i got hm a chain with a duck emblem on it since he likes to hunt.) so he needed to know what i was getting him bc he was going to tell people he wanted that, so i told him and thought that he might as well see it.when he saw it, he was sooooo happy and he hugged and kissed me and it was really sweet. but now he has nothing to get from me for christmas. im happy he liked it, but im kind of dissappointed that i couldnt wait to give it to him on christmas :/ so now i need to know, what is something i can do for him for christmas. i dont want to buy anything for him again bc he would get mad at me for spending more money on him (the necklace was $77)so i just need something sweet to do or say to him (i was going to do the whole writing down how many reasons i love you, but I'm saving that for something else.) and he already told me what he got me. its a nice necklace. but i would really like to do something sweet for him ON christmas lol. please give me as many ideas about it as you can!!! every little bit will help:)
That was really sweet but I understand your situation. You can have a friend or photography student take some cute pictures of you and surprise him with a disk. Make up a coupon book of future things you can do together, like he gets to pick a movie to watch or you cook a dinner he likes. I would suggest at least 5 to 10 things to put in the coupon book to make it worth while. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Okay so whenever I would sleep with someone and I've only slept with about about five guys, and they'd go in too deep they'd make me bleed, and like it hurts. And I've also found like I can't keep my focus when I'm having sex and I feel bad because like I want to make him happy but like I can't do it well if my head isn't into it. And I just don't know what to do and is it normal to not really be loud during sex? I feel so unnornal because I rarely moan during sex and it doesn't feel as amazing as like you seen in the movies. Any advice?
(18/F)
You are very normal so don't worry. My guess is the boys you are with don't care to much about your happiness. You need to find someone that appeals to your heart and your mind. If you're mentally attracted to a man, it will help stimulate you in the bedroom. You are only going to moan or express excitement when it feels good and so far it hasn't. Make sure you know what feels good on your own body when you're alone, so you can tell your boyfriend all the things you like. Have your next bf (you obviously need a new one), take his time before you even start. Soft kisses, slowly getting undresses and having him caress your body will help get your body and mind ready. If you need any other advice, please ask. Hope this helps and good luck.
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i really like victoria's secret clothing, not the pink stuff, the actual victoria's secret clothing that's in the catelogs. is there a store around connecticut/new york that has the victoria's secret clothing too? or do you absolutely have to order it online? thanks.
I'm pretty sure that the only place besides online is the outlet stores. There's one in NJ and possibly one in NY.
Jersey Gardens
651 Kapkowski Road
Elizabeth NJ 07201
(908) 282-1313
Tanger Outlet of Riverhead NY
1770 West Main St
Riverhead, NY
Hope this helps and good luck.
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okay so an ex of mine randomly started hating me. we were both fine after the breakup and stayed friends. then out of the random he started hating me. and i mean HATING me. the thing is, i don't even know what i did to him but apparently i "screwed him over" and i'm such a "bitch" and a "cunt". i tried talking to him about it and even apologizing and everything but he's so cold-hearted and will not forgive me for whatever i did. obviously i should just drop it and leave it alone but i don't like being hated for a reason I don't even know. what should i do about this? i know its best to just forget about it and leave it but thats the hardest thing for me cause its gonna piss me off until i know what was so bad that i did..
The best thing you can do is to totally ignore him and get his number blocked from your phone. My guess is he has a new girlfriend in the picture and she needs reassurance that he has no feelings for you. I'm sorry to say but even if that's his excuse, it's still not a good enough reason to treat another person like crap. Maybe in 20 years when he decides to grow up, you can try to be friends again. Hope this helps and good luck.
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Okay so i'm having some problems with sex..let me explain (im so sorry if this ends up long but I really need some advice)
So me and my boyfriend have been together over a year and we are both 17.
A few months ago we decided we were ready to have sex,however it didn't go to plan it was awkward and there was issues with the condom and so on it just wasn't the right time. We stopped and said we would do it properly another time.
So we did and it went better except it didn't really feel like anything to me! It didnt even hurt..it wasnt pleasurable it just wasnt anything.
I figured it would take time the more we did it the better we would feel.
Everytime we have done it since it just doesnt feel like anything and it makes me so frustrated.
When I say it doesnt feel like anything I mean I can feel him inside me but thats about it.
Ive had orgasms from him touching me and fingering me and that feeling is amazing but I cant get it from sex?Its upsetting me because its making me feel like im dysfunctional. I have never actually physically "cum" either. Ive gotten what I assume is an orgasm just like this intense feeling all through my body. Recently I was away in england with my boyfriend and we were going to have sex when I just broke down and started crying. I wanted to tell him so many times before but I didn't want to upset him because I knew he would think it was all his fault which he did..when I told him. I know its my body though I mean whats wrong with me!? why can't I feel anything why havnt I been able to cum?is there any other girls with similar problems.. this is really worrying me that I will never be able to enjoy sex I feel like such a fail.. and I wan't to enjoy it for my boyfriend to I wan't it to be fun and special but so far my experiences with it have been indifferent.
Please help!
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There is nothing wrong with you. The first thing you need to do is make sure you know what feels good on your body when you're alone. That will help you tell your bf what things he can do to make you feel good. The next thing to try is to slow down before you have sex. Try more foreplay, like extended kissing, slowly taking each others clothes off, having him caress your face and body and having him kiss you all over. Some of these things should get you stimulated more and mentally able to loosen up. Many women are not able to orgasm only from straight sex, so don't be discouraged. You can try using a powerful and small vibrator on your clit while he is inside of you. Make sure he knows that using a vibrator is no reflection on his performance but merely an aid to bring pleasure to you. Feel free to ask me anything in the future. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Ok I'm 14 years old and I have never had sex or anything like that. I have masturbated before but not like actually fingering myself just like rubbin my clitoris. But I have never started my period. I have pubic hair and underarm hair and I get cramps but not bad ones, like it's just gas most of the time. But I have discharge and it's a good amount too haha. But I have had discharge since I was like 11 or 12 and my mom started her period when she was 12. What do you think is wrong? Is there something wrong with me? I have like size 36a breasts and that's kinda small but why haven't I started my period? Does masturbating have anything to do with it? Is tere something wrong with me since I haven't started yet and my mom did at 12? Please help!
Masturbating or even fingering yourself wouldn't prevent your period from coming on. Some doctors believe that a girls period starts at different times depending on their weight and size. So your mother may have been a littlee bigger than you at 12, than you are now. So don't worry about having to change anything, it will eventually happen. Hope this helps and good luck.
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I'm 25/f.
My boyfriend physically and emotionally abused me after knowing one another for years as friends, then dating for months before moving in together. The last thing he did to me before I left was pick me up by my throat. His biggest problem was always that he couldn't control himself, and I thought he was going to kill me...This kind of abuse escalated from fights during which he would come within inches of my face and scream at me. In response to this, I once slapped him, and I felt terrible, and kept apologizing...does this mean I'm abusive, too? Did I bring this upon myself by responding that way?
I got a protection order against him, but true to character, he's denying that he abused me, and got a hearing to try to get the order lifted. It's coming up, we both have lawyers, but I'm so nervous I can barely function. I'm terrified to be in the same room as him.
Does anyone have any thoughts? Any advice?
-Thanks :(
This guy needs to go to jail and needs mental help because this isn't something that will go away. If he doesn't get the help he needs, you'll be sending him to another girl who might not be so lucky. Make sure your lawyer and the judge know how much you fear this man and even if he doesn't do jail time, they should grant you the protection order. Unfortunately, you may have to move away to distance yourself from him, because for some men, a piece of paper won't stop him from getting to you. I wish you the best of luck and hope things work out for you.
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I'm soooooo confused. Boy wise, my life is a mess. I'm in a relationship with the most annoying guy and I hate but still love my ex boyfriend and I want him back... My ex boyfreind and I dated for seven months. He was my first everything minus sex. He pressured me into stuff, dumped me in a text, kept me guessing if I wanted to get back together while he was hooking up with other girls, told me I was annoying and pathetic and that he didn't like me at all halfway through the summer, told everyone how far we went, told me he only liked me when we were hooking up and then tried to apologize at the end of summer. I didn't want his apology. I told him I couldn't forgive him for EVERYTHING he did to me just cause he texted me a few meanigful texts. I also didn't think he meant it... The thing is I've grown up a lot since the begining of summer. Summer was horrible. I cried almost every night and there were times that I actually could not physically stop myself from crying.... I NEVER want to go through that again, but I still like him!!! And I would give anything to make it go away. I thought at first it would go away and I thought it did for awhile but it's back... I've been dating a new guy for not even two weeks adn I'm so unhappy. He annoys me to no end and all I want is to be with my ex... My friends tell me not to dump him yet because they think I'm not giving it enough time or trying hard enough but I don't know what to do... I miss my ex SOOO much. And I just keep remembering how much I loved our relationship and how much I loved him. He hurt me but he made me laugh and he made me feel amazing until liek the last month we were together... I don't even know why things changed. I feel like he doesn't give a shit about me anymore. Granted he thinks I like this new guy... but I don't. I texted my ex a few nights ago and we just had a friendly chat but he didn't text me the next day and hasn't yet so I feel like he's over it... He's also told people that he wants to wait a looong time before he dates anyone again. He's kind of a manwhore now though... Despite all of this I still miss him liek crazy and I want to try again but I don't want to dump this guy just to get rejected or hurt again... I also feel like shit for even dating this guy when all he does is drive me crazy. I don't know what to do and I can't take this anymore. I break down almost every night and my friends aren't helpful because they don't understand how I'm feeling. A lot of you probably won't either but if you do understand this PLEASE help me. (sixteen/F)
You really need to be alone for a while. There is nothing that says you have to be dating anyone at all. Put your time into your friends and family or find a new hobby to occupy some of your new found free time. The new guy is totally wrong for you and so is the ex. I understand having feelings for an ex because of the history you have with him but trust me when I tell you that he will not get any better and more likely be more controlling and manipulative. I hate to tell you this but there are more than two men in the world and there are a lot of men that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Hope this helps and good luck.
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When (if ever) should I tell my parents I'm a lesbian? I'm 17 and still living at home. My parents are Christians, and they are against homosexuality very much. I care about them and it hurts so much to keep this from them. However, I'm afraid that if I tell them about it, they'll be very disappointed in me and most likely either send me to "get help" and try to change me or just disown me and kick me out. My view is that I can be a Christian and gay at the same time. I want my parents to understand this and accept me, but I don't know if it's possible. I just need some advice!
I believe the same thing you do, that you can be gay and believe in christ. I think it's the lords duty to judge us when the time comes, not for anyone else to. But now you have the delema of telling your parents and having them look down or even rejecting you because of your chosen sexuality. You may want to drop a few lines on each of them individually and mention that you know of someone that declared themselves gay and see what their reaction would be. If one reacts less harsh than the other, then you may want to start slowly easing that parent into your situation. I hope you stay on the path you chose and don't let anyone make you think your less of a person because of your desicions. Good luck.
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alright i know this is asked so many times, but this is a little bit of a different situation. For christmas my boyfriend and I are going to florida with my family. so i need some ideas for his christmas present, but we're going to be there for our 1 year anniversary as well, which is the 30th. i'm trying to think of things we could do in florida, or maybe something i could get him for florida...or just ideas in general. He is 21 years old and lives in a house with 2 other guys...they all play football for our college. they're all really into working out..of course, but he really doesn't have a favorite football team or anything like that....he's said he wants an xbox, but one of his roommates has one that he always uses, so i don't really want to get that....any ideas?
Planing a nice romantic night out is a great start. The guys are always supposed to do those things but they really like it when the woman takes charge once in a while. A great end to the evening would be to be the aggressor in the bedroom. Since you payed for dinner and planned everything out, make him understand that you'll be expecting sex in return and watch his reaction. Another great gift would be to get some intimate "sexy" professional pictures done (nothing nude of course). It can be a little expensive but they make sure you look great and your man will treasure them for a lifetime. Hope this helps and good luck.
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17/f
i feel like im the only girl in the world who doesnt like it.. like i cant orgasim from normal penetration.. it just frustrates me and my boyfriend.. whats wrong with me.
It's probably that you don't like it but more likely that you have a partner that doesn't turn you on. First question I have is can you orgasm on your own? If so, then you should use some of those same techniques when you're with your partner. Next, I would try more foreplay with your bf, which can include casual touching through the day and playful kissing. When you get ready to start, slowly take each others clothes off and kiss each other slowly and softly in between each layer. Now when you're ready for sex, your mind has already started. If you're still not turned on, let your mind wander off to something or someone that turns you on. Don't be afraid to talk to your partner and let him know things you like and things that you don't. If he cares enough about you, he'll be willing to go the extra mile to make sure you're turned on and if he doesn't, then it may be time to find a new partner. If you need more detailed help, please feel free to ask. Hope this helps a little and good luck.
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