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Ok, i have this friend, well, she's kind of my friend, but not really. she likes me, but i dont like her. she's really annoying, and kinda mean and rude to ppl, even adults, and it gets on my nerves. For example, my sister had a friend over when i had her over, but my friend wanted to watch a movie that nobody else wanted to watch, and she wouldn't let us watch anything else, she literaly too kthe movie away from me and put it in, makin my sister and her friend leave the room. Isn't that kinda rude? What should i do about it?

You should definitely talk to your friend and tell her that she shouldn't be rude and mean to everyone! Just tell her she needs to grow up and mature because no one can take her attitude and annoyance anymore. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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Ok i slept with make-up on..stupid i know..and now my eyes are sore..how long will it take for the soreness to go away?

Hey, I do that all the time, you aren't stupid. The soreness may take a few hours or even a day, depending on how the soreness is and how much make up you had on. Try putting a face cloth over your eyes that is soaked in cold water. Or you could put two teabags over your eyes that have already been used and cooled down but still warm and I think that will help too but I'm pretty sure that's for the swelling of eyes. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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I didn't know what to put this under. My mom and I want to help out with the tsunami disaster by sending $, but my mom doesn't think it'll help. Like it won't be enough. What do you think? Should we send the money or no?
Thanks

You should definitely send some money if you want to. It's great that you want to help people over there. Anything will help, no matter how much or little you send! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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does anyone know where to find some cute quotes for my profile besides [[hellz-angelz.cjb.net and wittyprofiles.com thanks!]]

The only other website that I know is: http://www.quote-a-licious.cjb.net. It's just like http://www.hellz-angelz.cjb.net but a little bit different! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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Alright me and my ex are really close and we talk about having sex alot...I mean all the time..I feel ready and I think Im ready...I'm only 14...He is 15...I have never hasd sex before and I'm not sure if I should wait or what I should do??? I mean he doesnt push me into anything and never has and never will... Will someone give me some advice on what to do???

If you feel that you're ready, then go ahead and have sex. But in my opinion, it's best if you start a relationship with this guy first so it could be more "special". It's great that your ex-boyfriend isn't pushing you into having sex. You are young but if you feel that you're ready, then have sex with this guy! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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I would 1st like to say that I have never drank through my pregnancy, I know that is very bad. But my question is If you are 40 weeks pregnant and have a small amount of wine like 2 oz. Will it harm the baby or make you go into labor?

I don't think it would harm the baby, since this is your first time and 2 oz is not that much. But if you did you drink a lot during your pregnancy, yes, the wine/alcohol would harm the baby! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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i have the habit of bitting my nails. =( i dont want to bit them...but i cant stop! i would do anything to stop bitting them!!! i dont want to bit them anymore and everytime i try to stop i just can't stop myself from bitting them! PLEASE...if you have any ideas on how to stop, please tell me!!!

Hey, there is a special nail polish that you can use and it tastes really bad so if you use that, it'll help break your habit! Maybe you can dip your fingers in vinegar? Just think of ideas that you can do! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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this one girl I like is playing hard to get, what
should I do?

Just ignore her and pretend that you don't like her so she will want you more! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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I like this one girl and we use to go out. but she broke up with me. And I'm still in love with
her.what should I do?

Just talk to her. Tell her that you still love her. Hang out with her to show her that you're interested in her and that you want to be friends with her. If you just show her how you feel, I'm sure she'll ask you back out! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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how do you know if a girl likes you?

You know if a girl likes you when she flirts with you, makes eye contact, always wants to be around you, tries to talk to you a lot, and all those signs! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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whats a way to make a bf/gf relation ship last longer if ur in middle school?

Just keep communicating with each other. Communication and trust are the two important things in a relationship, well in my opinion they are. Just keep on talking with your boyfriend! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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wut are the qualitys that girls like most about guys?

Girls like a guy's personality like his sense of humor, kindness/sweetness, etc. and they like a guy's looks like his eyes, smile, muscles, etc. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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my girlfriend who is 15 like me says i am no good in bed .....what could that mean to me give me some suggestions plz!!!

It means that your sex is not good. Ask her what she wants to do so you can improve! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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does ne one know the real way to lose weight??

The real way to lose weight is to eat healthy and not eat junk foods and to exercise a lot. Going on a diet helps too! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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when i signed up for this this morning i didnt read the contract..i just hit ok...now i am wondering if this costs money??? can anyone tell me if it does???

Nope, it doesn't, only a paid account costs money but you would have to go through a process of doing that! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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1st base, 2nd base, etc. what do they all mean?
thanks for any help!

Well 1st base is kissing/making out; 2nd base is fingering/handjob; 3rd base is eating out/blowjob; and Home is all the way (sex)! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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i always have dark bags underneath my eyes. they used to only be there if i havent had much sleep, but now you can always see them. does anyone know how to make these go away or know of any good makeup or something that would cover it up?

My friend has dark bags underneath her eyes and she told me that if you put to big spoons in the refridgerator and then put them underneath your eyes, your bags will go away! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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Hey guys I need some REALLY funny movies? someone help meeeeeee!!!!! What are some really funny movies out on Dvd or Video???

Some funny movies are White Chicks, Anchorman, Napolean Dynamite, and some others. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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I cheated on my boyfriend with my ex do i tell him?or keep it a secret.

You definitely need to tell him yourself because if someone finds out, they can tell him. Yeah, it's going to be hard but you have to. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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hi .. im 15 and im about 115lbs and im 5"2 .. my weight keeps changing dramatically . like just last month i weighed 26lbs which is wayy to big for my height and i just went to the doctor last week and i weighed 115 well i looked at the scale the other day and it said i weighed 110 then later that day it said 119. and i just got off the scale and it said 117. what could be the cause in this? im not eating any differently and do i weigh too much for my height? please help im a little self cautious right now.

Hey, don't worry, all scares are different and read differently. Are you wearing baggy, heavy clothes? If you wear different types of clothing each time you were weighed, that may be the reason why your weight is changing. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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