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I have the hiccups. How do I get rid of them? (link)
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Take a deep breath and let as much air as you pissobly can, out of your lungs. Then stay like that as long as you possibly can and once you feel like you can't hold your breath any longer, cough twice. I haven't gotten the hiccups for more than 30 seconds for over 5 years.
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how do you make your own advice column so people could ask me questions and ill give them advice (link)
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just answer as many problems as you can.
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hi, it's me again who wrote before, "wat do u think" well bascially i have this male friend in college and his quite older then me, the thing is we have a good times by ourself or in groups but the thing is sometimes i'm confused in what things he say's to me and why? he say's thing's like it's just like being married to you? i mean wat was tht all about?? and he also said this in a joke way before that he said "you need relationship counselling i think" as in a jokey way though, then i replied and said; well look who's talikng when you are then one had lots of breakdowns in your past relationship and being dumped ny your ex-girlgriends then he say's; i actually dumped them when only he was trying to deny himself but when i said that he had a grin on his face and went red.
As in the other hand i'm single and i havn't been out with any one for a long time even though i had lots of guy's askin me out in college and out of college but thats not the point i didnt say this to him though because he was saying to me in a joke way and saying are you trying to play hard to get? wat was he on about there! not only that he say's that he has a great sociable time with me when were alone and has called me "you'r such an sex symbol" and no wonder why older guys prefer you more is because you are so attractive and nice/very mature and loving caring person etc...
He also said the other day i can imagine already bumping into you in 8yrs time having lunch with you while you tell me everything about your life.
i mean he does talk to me alot and has a happy smile when i say something to him or make him laugh alot and sometimes he goes red, i'm just confused when he says things tome and why does he say it and what does he mean about it's like being married to you. Recently he has been in a funny mood blanking me then talking to me and sayin is everything ok and how r u etc.. but then agian he makes me be the last perosn to be looked at while he takes his time talking to other girls but i don't mind it's just that why doe she keep me the last one to be listned to is it because he is trying to get my attention or what? and when he talks he looks deep down m eye even thogh my hair is in the way it's like he is trying to serach them and when he talks to teh other girls he always try to glance at me every now and then if i'm looikn or not or wat am i doing? also he does tease me alot and jokes with me alot and winks at me when ever he see's me and say's frount of people it's like being married to you, and he does say hi all the time or if i don't reply he will say it continously and tells me at least you can smile back at me or say hello! and not only that he said i remind him soo much of his ex-girlfriend as he was laughing but he used to say nice thing about her, even though it's his x and he said i also remind him of somebody else with a happy face but why does he mention these peculiar things to me or says it to me then somebody else and he always takes me as a game or a joke and somtimes not taking me seriously or listening to me apart from mirroing me with his face expression or when i say something he is trying to make laugh and always pull his eye-brow up and down but why it's really annoying and embrassing, but we are only gd frineds though we only known each other for 6/7 months. SO PLEASE HELP ME OUT I'M REAL CONFUSED LIKE HOW THIS PERSON IS ACTING AND SAYING THESE THINGS HELP ME UNDERSTAND WHY OR WHAT IS THIS PERSON TRYING TO SAY? ansd i never know what he means it's like being married to you he was realy laughing and having a grin on his face when he said that. well srry about this long essay and thanx ever soo much 4 ur reply tke care! bye sweet facex
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I really don't know his that well so I wouldn't be able to tell if maybe he was just joking? However, he may have been hinting to something that he wants you to know. Get him to spill his feelings a bit more, you might get to know some more information to answer this question on your own.
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I've never used an advice forum b4 but i guess i'll give you an over view of my situation first. I've been with my boyfriend for about 18months, he moved in to my house about 4 months ago, which was his suggestion. Everything was pretty good for a month or so but then we started to notice certain bits about each other, which is obviously going to happen. Silly little things like how we cleaned a room or when the washing up was done...silly little things. I, at the time, was going through a bit of a rough patch with my job, quite stressful and wasn't super happy or bubbly. My other half started to moan that I frowned too much or that i left the room in a mess etc but after doing a 12hour day i was tired and wanted to chill out. He works away on weekends so every weekend i did a full clean of the whole house, but this isn't the way he'd likes it doing. he is very particular about the way he likes things to be done and i'm trying to adapt to these ways but i know, he doesn't, that this isnt going to happen overnight.He's never been in a serious relationship b4 and seems to get very impatient when our relationship doesn't seem to be getting anywhere (where he wants it to go i'm not sure as he doesn't agree with marriage or kids and we're already living together) he's very good at pointing out my faults but can't take me pointing out any of his, he says he won't change for anyone and doesn't believe in comprimise. We're getting to the stage where we either do something about the situation we're in or we spilt up. I really don't want this to happen but I'm running out of ideas on what to do. He's got himself in a negative frame of mind and i don't know how to get him out of it. Please help?
Ps. I'm female and 22, hes 26 and obviously a guy! (link)
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If this guy doesn't want to live life the way that you want to live it then you're going to have to do something about it. Obviously, he isn't the right guy for you if you don't have the same goals and ideas of the future. If he doesn't want to get married and have kids then I don't really know what exactly he could want in life. Don't waste your life on people who you can't see yourself with in the future, I think it's time to move on.
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i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we love each other so much,(we are both 20) we live together now and we are very happy except he recently got a p.c for our room and in the evenings he likes to download porn, while im asleep he often masterbates to it too.wev'e talked about it and he knows how i feel about, it even brought me to tears one time, i got that upset about it. i just dont like the fact that he would rather watch girls on the p.c then snuggle up with me. our sex life is good, for me and him so i dont understand why he loves it so much and its damaging our relationship. i dont know what to do, pls help!!!
p.s. im female!!!! (link)
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If your boyfriend truly loves you, then he would stop if you asked him to. Masturbating is very disturbing but you have to remind yourself that every person has a little pervert in themselves.
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im such an idiot. Ive quit smokin even though there ciggerates in my locker and i havent have a shot or any liqur in like 2weeks. ive stop cuttin and everything. Until today. my mom wont quit yellin at me for stuff that i did do or didnt so i cuttin my side it really bleeding. Im like on my 6th paper towel but its slowing down. My life is screwing up again i dont think i can survive another downfall. Thanx for listenin bye
*dead soon*
p.s. ive seen a consular and they sux, they make life worst (link)
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It's great to hear that you've quit drinking and smoking. I know that that must have been hard, but don't get into the habit of cutting yourself. Soon you'll be getting more questions like "what happened!?" and "What did you do!?" life sucks, I know. Just don't go killing yourself, there are still a lot more pleasures in life that you may have not experienced.
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Hi, im the guy thats 13 and has a 2.5 inch boner, but now it shrunk to 1 inch, now will u suck it? (link)
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ok... you soiled a perfectly good ruler! You tree killer! and btw.. that is really gross. Thanks, but I did not need to hear that.
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Trichotillomania, a disorder where one pulls out their hair. I havent officially been told that i have it. But i also have never admitted to anyone besides my mom, dad and sister that i have a problem. It started when i was in elementry when i knotted up my bangs and tore away the knots. Now i just pull and pull, usually during class sometimes when im online, just when im bored. Trich is not about self injury, its something someone notices they do or they can do it without being aware. I pull my hair without the knowledge that im doing it. Its a very hard thing to deal with, its more of hiding it untill the hair grows back in the balding spots. I feel so ashamed that im not good enough to get over it, ive read that people go through their whole lives with it, i worry, i dont want to be plaqued with this curse for my whole life.
My habit seemed to have died when school started up this year but then recently it returned. It began all in one class period. I must have sat there the whole class and pulled and pulled untill the hair was very thin on one side. When it comes back it gets worse, because my self esteem becomes very low and that doesnt help the stress, if thats what triggers it.
I am considering going to a counsellor, but im not sure. I dont know anything about if they put that kind of stuff on a record when you want to join a college or get a job. If so will they turn you down because you have a disorder? Will they put me on anti-depressants? I dont want to be put on meds, i just want someone to talk to, maybe even ways to prevent doing it. Any help on how to prevent me pulling my hair out and what happens when you confront a counsellor about a disorder would being very nice. (link)
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You really should see a couselor. Try to think of ways to remind yourself not to pull your hair. Put rubber bands around your wrist, write notes to yourself on your hand, but if that doesn't work then you should definately get some help.
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i have been friends with these 2 for 5 years. he finally ask me out a couple months ago but broke up with me like every month and i kept going back out with him. well this time he said that hes not gonna break up with me again and that hes really dumb for breaking up with me. and now shes pissed off at me because she doesnt want me to cry over him again. which i havnt the last 2 times. why would i start now? shes also mad because i dont stand up for her when her brother(my bf) picks on her. all i do is laugh. i wanna say something but yet i dont. how can i get her not mad at me but stay with him. she wants me to break up with him but i dont want to. and also. when i go over to thier house to spend the night i always slept in her room. but now that shes mad at me i probably wont get to. i cant sleep in garys room cuz his dad would freak. how can i stay over there? ok this is 2 long. thanks everyone! bye (link)
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Friends are the most important things in your life. You're only 13, something is probably going to happen between "gary" and you from now until the end of highschool. Make sure that you're aware that sleeping in the same room as "gary" is not going to get you anywhere in life and it's probably a better idea to just to think about what you're doing before you hurt someone, including yourself.
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You still haven't answered my question, will you suck it???? (link)
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That is quite alright thank you *slap slap slap*
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My 2 best guy friends are going away to college this summer. There is an age distance between both of us. I really have become close to both of them recently. I don't want to lose them, see one is going off to college somewhere around 20-35 miles away from here and the other is 3 and a half hours. I never want to lose them, how do I keep from being upset, and continue the friendship? (link)
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Get free long distant phone service, talk to them online, use e-mail and make sure that you go visit them when you're in town or visa versa. Write letters and tell them how you feel so they try to visit you more often.
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My friend *Jessica* wants to give her boyfriend head on friday. She's thirteen. And tehy've only been dating for three weeks. I think it's a bad time to do because she's not even sure she wants to. She's also going to give him head in the school playground.
She and her boyfriend haven't talked about it and she doesn't plan on it she's just going to do it because his friends told her he's expecting her to. And she wants to please him.
I just think she might be making a mistake and I want to get her to think about it first. How do I do this with out interfering with her life or getting her mad? (link)
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Tell her to stop right away. No matter how great she thinks it is, I've also had a friend who was exactly like this when she was 13. She was never quite the same afterwards. If you care for your friend, you would get yourself involved in this situation whether your friend wants you to or not.
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what is giving a boy a head? (link)
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If you don't know then that's probably a good thing. You don't want to know, its gross.
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I have recently been getting what you could say little moles on my face. They are maybe the size of pinhead but they are starting to annoy me. A couple of them apeared a year or two ago and yesterday I noticed a couple more. Is this normal? Is it something I should see a doctor about or is it something that can be easily treated? Any help is appreciated! (link)
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Don't worry about it. These may be just pimples and if not, then you may have a skin disorder. If they're pimples then just use warm water and toothpaste. If not, then I would advise you to see a dermatologist.
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if guys says that you remind them of his ex-girfriend is tht gd or bad thing? (link)
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Well... it depends on if he liked his old girlfriend a lot and it also depends on what kind of person his ex-girlfriend was. If his ex was some really crazy ugly bitch then you should slap him a few times and bring him to his senses.
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