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I cannot find a decent quality sequined swim suit anywhere! I want one that the top is full sequined/rhinestones/beads anything in that category. I am a pretty full bust but any suggestions will do. thanks! (link)
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I have that problem too. I end up just buying a suit that's the right color, that fits just right, and then sewing on the rhinestones myself... Long, tedious... but damn do I look hot in it.
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ii want to bring sumthin ameriican to iinterest the people iin the other country so ii can make friiends . what should ii brriing??? iit cant be biig (link)
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Well, I was going to say a Ford, but I don't think that's small enough.
So... how about something like... a baseball, or a football (since most other places football means soccer), or a rebel flag (jkjk).
Lady Liberty always seems to spark interest as well.
Hope that helped a little bit.
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http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=536839
any ideasss? please note: i don't have...
- video games
- a trampoline
- a finished basement
- an interesting home in general
and i didn't really want to go somewhere else .. i wanted to hang out with him at one of our houses but he can't do it (link)
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Well, I know that me and my friends get together at someone's house and just chill. We talk, which turns to laughter, which turns to a good time. You just kinda go with it and it tends to spawn itself. Don't overthink it.
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I do not know where to start but to make the long story short i hate my self and my life I am 25 years old i am not capable of having any kind of relationship cause I am the person you want call when u r having bad times however I am never there when u r having good time. Moreover,I finished law faculty but hate it so never practiced.I have done my master degree on something else, event management, but hate it as well. Right now I do not know what I want to in my life. So I have start to think best thing to is commit suicide....do you know the easiest and quickest way to do it. (link)
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Well, I, being a pagan hippy, don't think that suicide is really an answer here... mostly because in the long run everything turns out... I've had friends and lovers kill themselves... and I never felt like I could ever understand them when they felt like you do, only worded a little different... Then the day came when I didn't think I could take life anymore and I ran that razorblade down my arm after taking enough pain killers and crystal meth to floor a herd of elephants. I woke up in a psych ward. Somewhere between the Haledol and trying to kill myself with bedsheets and throwing myself into walls (I thought it was a good idea at the time) I figured out who was waiting for me on the outside. I got a couple letters, mostly saying they couldn't stand the thought of me trying to off myself and they refused to visit because it hurt them so badly that I wanted to leave them behind. My little sister, people I thought wouldn't care, because I was never there when they had a good time either. Turns out, they just never knew I wanted to join.
I know a lot of ways to kill yourself. I've thought about it even to this day, but I've found a new path to follow, and there's always something to live for, even if it's just my cat.
So... in short I think you should get a cat...
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Alright i'm really into dancing and i thought since i'm trying to workout everyday why not do that for exercise so my friends all tell me i'm a good dancer but i want to be better and i want to challenge myself so i've seen alot of like dance dvd's like i dont exactly know what any are called but thats where you come in so if you know any let me know please. (link)
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I don't know what kind of videos you're looking for, ballet or hip hop or jazz or whatever, but if you go to http://www.justforkix.com and search for DVD it'll pull up a lot of really reliable, awesome DVDs that are dances. They also have great dancer shoes and outfits and everything a good dancer wants just because it's cool. ^_^
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I understand what youdo with your tongue when you make out but I dont at the same time. I get that it goes it the other persons mouth, but what do you do with it from that point? How do you move what do you do exactly? Plus any tips would be helpful (link)
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You're supposed to massage their tongue with yours and vice versa. It never really works out well until you figure out how they're gonna move in the first place. Just do what feels natural and it'll come.
Tips and Tricks:
PULL HAIR [[it's hot]]
Pull them really tight to you like you need them more than air.
Enjoy!
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ok so i like this guy. and he know cuse well i told him. and he said he likes me. the thing is, hes going out with someone adn he loves her alot. like alot alot. like WOAH! alot. also... its kinda online.... yea i know, its lame. im not into online stuff like that... but hes just so sweet and adorable and smart and funny and just positively the most amazing person ever. anyways. he said he loves me but the thing is, with my group of friend both online and in realife, we all say i love u to like anyone. so i dont know. anyways, know he like, doenst talk to me. and i dont know whats going on.
help??
if u want to hear like all the exact details of what he said and stuff, just send me a message cause i really have no idea whats going thru his mind at the moment.
also him and this girl have been on and off 4 about 8 months.
thx. (link)
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I used to do online relationships, and LDRs (long distance relatonships) and I can tell you that they will never work. Ever. It's a thing.
I ran into one relationship in particular that I think you could benefit from knowing about, however. I was "dating" this guy online. He was sweet, funny, awesome, and I really thought I loved him. I called him one night and a girl answered. She said she was his girlfriend. I was crushed and we didn't speak for a very long time. We talk now, but that's all, because LDRs just don't work.
So, going off that experience, I'd have to say that you should just find someone else. He and his probably won't work out, you and him probably won't work out, and since all the signs are already there, why waste that time? Find someone else to obsess over, and will obsess back and maybe actually care about you on a real level. ^_^
Life moves to fast to stay fixated on something that won't be any fun to think about later.
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so seriously this guy is a total asshole! he cheated on me a ton of times and i never found out until now. he is the biggest player ever and now hes dating my best friend but shes pissed at me bc i believe the rumors about them doing stuff and not her. but i want to show her that he really does cheat on her and i freaking hate him and need to do something to get him back or humiliate him infront of everyone without him knowing it was me! he thinks hes the coolest kid ever bc he made a varsity sport and he is a cocky jerk. he also thinks he can do no wrong and i want to get him back for hurting me and what hes gunna do to my friend. i also need her to find out that he is a player and cheats on her so i need some really good ideas! (link)
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So... there is, of course, the obligatory disclaimer that you shouldn't do this, and it's wrong, and blah blah blah, you know the drill.
I am not a "high road" kind of person; I much prefer revenge and retribution. So, you want this guy to suffer a public humiliation at your hands without getting caught. There are a couple things you could do...
First, stalk him and get some pictures of him with other girls, make a poster [[be creative]], mass produce it and scatter it discretely through the halls of your school. Look just as surprised as the rest and console your friend. No one can prove anythign if you destroy the poster file, and the photograph itself.
Second, you could spead some horrendous rumour... the trick is to make people believe that they didn't hear it from you... when I pulled this off I enlisted the help of some younger classmen to spread it for me. It worked famously. I got my entire high school to think this girl had syphillis... and the whole school, having slept with her or with some guy she'd done, was in the nurse's office trying to get info on where to get tested. Totally amazing.
Third, pull a John Tucker must die sort of thing... Totally fun as well and very damaging to an ego.
Fourth, catch him cheating on film and email [[create new annonymous email account]] to your friend. If everything goes according to plan, she'll humiliate him for you and no one will be the wiser.
There are more, you just have to get creative. Let vengence flow through your veins and there is no limit on the attrocious things you can accomplish!!!!
*Simply giving the girl what she wants*
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i just broke up with my ex.
we had been dating for six months.
he was the first guy i had sex with.
my first REAL relationship basically.
everything was perfect until we started fighting and he broke it off.
i was/ still am devastated.
he has just completely removed me from his life.
deleted my number, myspace, AIM everything!
truth is, i miss him alot!
but he ALREADY has a new girlfriend.
who has another boyfriend as well.
[he called me to tell me this by the way]
i am just so confused by all this.
i dont know why it seems he can just brush it off like i was nothing.
it makes me even more upest.
i really dont know what to do anymore.
im still upset and its been two weeks. (link)
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This is the first boy you ever slept with, it's going to take a while to get over him, much longer than two weeks. It's going to hurt, that's just the way it works. If you'd lasted longer, it would have hurt more, and if hadn't lasted as long, it would have hurt the most.
Guys rarely understand the emotional level that girls they sleep with think on in terms of a relationship. In time, you'll be able to manipulate them into a puddle of human sludge though, so it's okay; you'll get yours.
What you have to do, and it hurts, is cut him out of your life entirely. No phone calls, no emails, no texts, no IMs, no nothing. Just go on with life as though he never existed. It'll harden your heart a little bit, but we all have to go through it. It's a learning process that sets the cornerstone for never trusting someone with your heart.
If it gets too hard, just remember that he didn't care, so why should you?
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Hey. Ok, so I'm 15/F. So here's the background story. Last year in 8th grade, I really liked this guy, we'll call him..Jim. Ok so I reallyyyyy liked him and we had all of our classes together. And later on I found out that he liked me. But we both never atmited it to each other. And he had a girlfriend so that was a factor also. Then a little more than half-way through the year, one of my best friends, we'll call her...Jenna, she started to like him. I was really mad because she knew I liked him. So they were going to start going out, even though he had a gf, he was going to break up with her for Jenna. Haha, it's really not as bad as it sounds, the whole him breaking up with her for Jenna. But w/e. But Jim and Jenna never went out. So skippin by a little bit to this year, freshman year in highschool. So at the begging of the year, Jim and I didn't have that many classes together. But we still talked every once and a while. And he was going out with someone, but they broke up. Skipping to now. Ok, so here's my problem. I STILL LIKE HIM, A LOT. And he's dating someone!! And he seems really happy. And I always try to tell myself I'm happy for him, but seriously, idc how corny this sounds, my heart is telling me that I still reallyyy like him, and my head's telling me I don't. But he always makes fun of me in a joking way, but idk, it kinda hurts my feelings. But yet I still like him. I'm CRAZY! And I really want to tell him. But I don't want to ruin anything between him and his gf now. I probably woudn't but still. I don't know what to do! Everytime I see him I think about all the fun times we had together in 8th grade and stuff. And I try to tell myself to stop living in the past, but it never works! So please! What should I do???? If he ever breaks up with her, I might tell him, but idk. I'm not to good around guys. I suck at talking to them for some reason. I reallly think i'll never have a bf. It makes me sad! My friends tell me that I will someday. But that's just not happening. Please help! Thanks. Sorry if this was so long! (link)
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If you decide to tell him, wait till he's not seeing someone. Don't worry, I went through high school and no relationship there EVER lasts forever... just wait. If you tell him, be prepared for him to shoot you down. People change from middle school to high school and he may not feel the same way anymore.
I recommend finding someone else. Someone not attached to this guy at all, which means no friends of his, no siblings, etc. At fifteen a heart doesn't really know how to choose someone, it just wants someone... anyone. If you can move on, but lapse back to him, then I'd suggest trying. There's just something about being fifteen that makes you go batty. ^_^ I remember all too well.
-Sami, 19
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ok..so i'm planning on having sex with my bf for the first time soon
i want to know if there is anything i should do before i go over and do it.
i have no idea weather to shave a certain way?
what guys like down there?
or anything like that
my biggest fear is that we will finally have sex
and he will be disappointed in me
and if i do shave what happens if i cut myself or have razor burn
will he think thats gross? (link)
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First off, you need to be sure you're mentally ready for this sort of thing. It tends to stem attachment, and that can be really hard when things end [[and they will]].
Your boy will more than likely just be happy with the fact he's with you. If you make sure you're on bottom he can't be disappointed because he does all the work.
It's not a requirement to shave... ya know, but most guys know what to expect when a girl does. It's not gonna be perfect... but to avoid such things as cuts and razor burn, use thick shaving cream and go slow, then apply lotion.
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I mean sometimes in certain moods I am.. but I hate how some people at school think im shy or quiet.. cause I'm usually not like that at home or with my friends. like sometimes i find it hard to be outgoing.. especially since its the third semester of 8th grade so its hard to just be like "hey whats up" to someone that you've seen everyday but never reallly talked to them. thats like what ya do on the first day of school. thats how i was then, i wanted to get more good friends and fell pretty good about myself a lot. but then soon as cliques developed and stuff.. i mean a lot of my friends are from diff cliques and i never really found one i could really be with forever.. im not even sure if ive found my best friends yet.. even with some people i've known since like 1st grade.. sometimes idk i dont like "love them to death" like a BFF should. i dunno if other people worry about those kinds of things too since most people already have their close knit circle of friends and stuff.. so it makes me feel like.. maybe i just dont have good friends? cause i mean some of them i like but some traits get on my nerves so i wouldnt call them my bests, and i wanna get to know more people. i was even looking forward to moving, for a new start, but it turns out my fam may not even move next year but i guess its better we're going to high school with even more new people. like with some friends too like i cant be all crazy and stuff.. i dont know why. and i see other people can be like that but idk whats stopping me from just doing it like i act at home. i hate when people get that wrong perception of me. so how could i guess fix these problem? :( 14/f and thanks (link)
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Here's the thing, honey. When you hit high school, most of the friends you have now are going to go different ways than you are. When I hit ninth grade I floated away from my friends, and while we still talked, things went down that severed a lot of our relationships. Also, when I got out of high school, a lot of the bonds that had grown or still remained disintegrated into a fine powder that blew away with the wind.
It's third semester (though I think you mean quarter) and that's a little late to try and find your place in a school that you'll be leaving behind next year for a school with more people, and more opportunity. If you're like me, you'll always have friends on the outside, and when the cliques form, which they will though not like in middle school, they are going be more versatile and let you pass through when you like.
Best friends will still have things that are going to annoy you, like my best friend hating just about everyone on the planet, but they're someone you can trust.
When you hit high school, just find some people, ANY people, and say hi. Don't be scared because of grade or clique, just say hi, and work from there. People will amaze you, if you give them the chance.
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i have a problem, either im always sad or always mad. its like im never satisfied. and then when something makes me mad i think about everything that makes me mad and i become more mad. i feel like i have something to prove to everyone. i feel like i cant open myself up to anyone. because im going to get hurt. i always try and put people down just to make myself feel better. im insicure, and i feel like i need a hundred things i dont have the money for. i dont know what to do. please help. (link)
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Wow, it's like reading a question from myself.
That being said, I'm bipolar, and I know how feel. I recommend asking your doctor about Lamictal. That's what I'm on, and everything is just better now. Not always angry or sad, my relationships are better. Still crave things I can't afford, but that's not REALLY a bipolar issue.
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I'm 16/F and I have never had a boyfriend nor have I ever been on a real date. I think that is really unusual. I mean, people have said I am nice, smart, and sometimes funny, maybe shy at times but usually outgoing. I may not be the prettiest girl around but I rarely show a lack in self-confidence. So, what can I do to make guys more interested in me? And is this really unusual?
thanks (link)
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It's not unusual unless it really bugs you, which is seems to. My advice is to just start asking. I started that way and I've had to beat them off with a stick ever since. If they say no, there are more of them around. ^_^
When I was in high school no one approached me because they thought I wasn't interested and basically unapproachable. Once I let them know that I was neither of those things I got to pick and choose. ^_^
GO FOR IT PRETTY GIRL!!!
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My bf never shuts up about his penis. His jokes center around that. He constantly tells everyone it's big. I'm sick of hearing it. I don't know why he does that so much. Is he insecure or just dirty minded 24/7? Are most guys this way? (link)
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Okay, so there are two ways to approach this.
First, you can tell him it annoys you and that you hate it and blah blah blah and see what he says. He might be insecure or just a jacka--... Who know.
The more entertaining way to deal with it is to wait for the joke and then suggest he's tiny... laugh, scoff, nod and make a tiny sign with your hand... etc... It's totally a riot.
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i tend to get wet quickly if i get horny or touched by a guy, even if its over my pants
if a guy goes to finger me and im wet already, is that weird? (link)
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No, that's not weird and in fact they tend to like it because it makes them know you're aroused. Trust me, that's a good thing. ^_^
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okay. just a few for you sexually educated people out there... hehe.
1) how do you know when you are having an orgasm?
2) if you masturbate frequently, is sex less likely to hurt?
3) is it illegal to finger someone if you're under eighteen?
wow. that was very awkward to type out. anyhow, thanks a zillion!
[: (link)
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1) You get this feeling like someone shot warm butter through your veins, its very warm and your body feels like it might explode or disintegrate all at once and it's complete euphoria.
2) I'm assuming you're a virgin? Depends what you're using to masturbate with. If you pop your cherry, sex won't hurt anymore... not as much anyways... and once you're used to it sex won't hurt at all.
3) Not illegal so long as you're both under 18, but just in case you should look up your state's statitory laws.
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kay theres this song by hollywood undead
i just cant find out what its called
so heres the lyrics
we can ride if you wanna ride (later)
we can dance if you wanna dance (baby)
i dont care if you got a man (something..)
keep standin by my side cuz' you know you're mine
i would write the rest but its far too inappropriate haha and im to lazy
soo yeap if u kno what im talking about..
help? (link)
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Dead in Ditches
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My parents are so strict! i want to be able to talk to them about things and them not freak out or at least have someone to talk with. I can not trust my parents. They dont seem to trust me either how can i gain their trust? how can i get them to let me do things like hang out at a mall without a parent there or go on a date or even hang out with a guy. Maybe even not have them on my tail all of the time! (link)
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I have a lot of friends with parents like this, and mine was too before I moved out. It's all a matter of "playing the game". It's a hard game too, because one mistake can take you straight to solitary confinement in your room till you're able to move out.
Introduce your friends to your parents. Tell them exactly who these people are (especially if they are good, honest, nice people). Little white lies, such as "he's mormon" work well so long as no one finds out they aren't. You just need to manipulate them to get exactly what you want.
If you're under 15 though, I'd have to say you're SOL. Most parents shelter their kids till about that age. If you're 16+ I recommend sitting them down and telling them that you feel that while they care, they are smothering you and stifling your independance, and that you need thier trust before you'll trust them yourself. It'll floor. Them.
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does anybody have any tips on how to get rid of dark circles under your eyes? i dont really want to use any kind of makeup. just some tips that i could do at home?
thanks for all your help! (link)
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Ice works well... glide it over the circles and that'll take it out pretty quick for about 8 hours. In general, though, a basic concealer can do it in much less time...
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