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i just broke up with my ex.
we had been dating for six months.
he was the first guy i had sex with.
my first REAL relationship basically.
everything was perfect until we started fighting and he broke it off.
i was/ still am devastated.
he has just completely removed me from his life.
deleted my number, myspace, AIM everything!
truth is, i miss him alot!
but he ALREADY has a new girlfriend.
who has another boyfriend as well.
[he called me to tell me this by the way]
i am just so confused by all this.
i dont know why it seems he can just brush it off like i was nothing.
it makes me even more upest.
i really dont know what to do anymore.
im still upset and its been two weeks.
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This is the first boy you ever slept with, it's going to take a while to get over him, much longer than two weeks. It's going to hurt, that's just the way it works. If you'd lasted longer, it would have hurt more, and if hadn't lasted as long, it would have hurt the most.
Guys rarely understand the emotional level that girls they sleep with think on in terms of a relationship. In time, you'll be able to manipulate them into a puddle of human sludge though, so it's okay; you'll get yours.
What you have to do, and it hurts, is cut him out of your life entirely. No phone calls, no emails, no texts, no IMs, no nothing. Just go on with life as though he never existed. It'll harden your heart a little bit, but we all have to go through it. It's a learning process that sets the cornerstone for never trusting someone with your heart.
If it gets too hard, just remember that he didn't care, so why should you?
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If he's being like that and treating you as if your're nothing move on he'll come back running to you just ignore him delete everything that has got to do with him and listen to good music not depressing music just get over him and watch him come running back to you,you deserve a whole lot better he's not worth it.
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