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destroying a man!


Question Posted Friday April 11 2008, 10:16 pm

so seriously this guy is a total asshole! he cheated on me a ton of times and i never found out until now. he is the biggest player ever and now hes dating my best friend but shes pissed at me bc i believe the rumors about them doing stuff and not her. but i want to show her that he really does cheat on her and i freaking hate him and need to do something to get him back or humiliate him infront of everyone without him knowing it was me! he thinks hes the coolest kid ever bc he made a varsity sport and he is a cocky jerk. he also thinks he can do no wrong and i want to get him back for hurting me and what hes gunna do to my friend. i also need her to find out that he is a player and cheats on her so i need some really good ideas!

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pseudophun answered Saturday April 12 2008, 11:27 am:
So... there is, of course, the obligatory disclaimer that you shouldn't do this, and it's wrong, and blah blah blah, you know the drill.
I am not a "high road" kind of person; I much prefer revenge and retribution. So, you want this guy to suffer a public humiliation at your hands without getting caught. There are a couple things you could do...
First, stalk him and get some pictures of him with other girls, make a poster [[be creative]], mass produce it and scatter it discretely through the halls of your school. Look just as surprised as the rest and console your friend. No one can prove anythign if you destroy the poster file, and the photograph itself.
Second, you could spead some horrendous rumour... the trick is to make people believe that they didn't hear it from you... when I pulled this off I enlisted the help of some younger classmen to spread it for me. It worked famously. I got my entire high school to think this girl had syphillis... and the whole school, having slept with her or with some guy she'd done, was in the nurse's office trying to get info on where to get tested. Totally amazing.
Third, pull a John Tucker must die sort of thing... Totally fun as well and very damaging to an ego.
Fourth, catch him cheating on film and email [[create new annonymous email account]] to your friend. If everything goes according to plan, she'll humiliate him for you and no one will be the wiser.
There are more, you just have to get creative. Let vengence flow through your veins and there is no limit on the attrocious things you can accomplish!!!!

*Simply giving the girl what she wants*

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AngelofMercy answered Saturday April 12 2008, 3:44 am:
I hate to say this, but this is not the best way to handle this situation.

The best way for you to get back at him, give it time. If he is this bad, then you won't have to show what a complete jerk he is. It will happen on his own.

As for trying to protect your friend, there is no way to do so. She knew that he was your ex, which in friend code means he is off limits to begin with. She also knew that he was cheating on you, so she should know it is going to happen to her as well. Some people have to learn on their own.

I realize that you want to have your own "John Tucker Must Die" moment, but for your best interest, I would walk away. At least this way, you will still have your dignity and pride. Nothing is better revenge than to ignore his antics and forget about him. Karma has a way of kicking you in the butt.

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