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how to make friends in highschool?
cause im very very nervous (link)
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all you gotta so is be your self and be nice, it is really not that scary, maybe the frist few days are but after a while it fells just like jr high. hoped i help.
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my boyfriend and i had been going out since febuary 17, 2004 so a little over 2 years, everything was perfect we were madly inlove and it was so nice and great he helped me when i needed him and he would help me everything he was my prince charming!!! but anyway one night we were at a big party my good friend had this summer it was in june like june 10th around then, but anyway and there is this girl who loves my old bf i mean she would do anything in her power to try to break us up. she pulled out a bottle and demanded we play spin the bottle! i didnt want to because i figured she mad it so it would land on him and of course it did he told her he would only kiss me and thats it! and she jumped on him and started making out with him the worst part was he started making out with her back and i know because i saw his tongue involved. after my friend pulled the girl off of my bf he stared at me and i just started crying i usually dont cry but something made me want to cry!!! he came by me and hugged me and i pushed him to the ground he tried to apologize but i didnt want to hear it my best guy friend came over and hugged me and told me that he was a jerk and that everything was going to be ok. i didnt talk to my bf the rest of the night then next day i checked my email and there was 10 emails all with the same subject i dont like her is what they all said, so i told him i finally forgave him and things were good for about a week then he invited me over and i decided to go biiig mistake when he came to the door i noticed his friends b. and j. were there with there girlfriends who i knew and we were friends it was all good and everything was going great until his neighbor (who is the girl i hate who loves him) came over she and him flirted the whole time in front of me and then if it didnt get anyworse she started kissing him and touchin his tush again he just let her do it but this time i threw this soccerball on the ground at them while they were kissing and slammed the door on my way out. he chased after me and grabbed me \"babe i\'m sorry she just kisses so well i cant stop!\" i smacked him across the face and tried to get him to let go of me but he wouldnt \"im not cheating on you i love you and you know that\" he said \"do i\" i snapped back and kicked him in the nuts and walked off he told me he was sorry but i told him that we couldnt go out anymore and its been 3 days since i told him we couldnt go out now he wont stop calling me sending me emails practically stalking me telling me hes so sorry and loves me and wont do it anymore but i dont know i have to admitt i still love him but i dont want to be hurt anymore i really miss him but i dont like being treated like this please tell me what you think (link)
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ok the one thing you can't do is forgive and forget. He has done this twice to you. What you need to do is no give in to the phone calls and the e-mails. My best frind her boyfriend cheater on her and when she found out they broke up. he kept on calling and e-mailing her and when she finally gave in and talk to him on the phone and there back together. But they have broken up five or six times he he keeps on cheating on her but she gives in to the phone calls and keeps on going back. My point is if you give in he MIGHT do it again. Just don't give in, it will hard but if i was you i couldn't give in. hoped i help.
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I'm 14 year old gurl. okay to my question..I like my moms bestfriends son, my mom and his mom have been friends since highschool and there now around 40 years old. Anyways I like her son and he likes me too..we have discussed dating eachother, and really want to but our parents won't let us because their afraid if we break up that it will destroy their friendship, I just really want to date and be with him but dont want my mom and his to hatte me for it.
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ok i would clamly tell your mom that she is being unfair, and that if you wanna date him, it should up to you and not your mom. and that if you break up with him that it should effect his mom and your mom's friendship. hoped i help
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Hi,
My best friends moved away last year and when they came to visit for the first time ever I kinda cried whenever they had to leave! I miss them so much! What should I do to get them to come over more and to stop missing them so much?? Thanks! (link)
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well during summer and spring break you could get together, and during the school year be like pen pals, that what me and my friend do, and we are still great friend! hoped i help.
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Well my brothers girlfriend is like, a total whore. And I'm not just saying that. I have a really strong hunch that she also likes my brothers best friend. (Whom I like, but that means nothing.) The other day, he was here, and she came over, even though my brother was sleeping. Then she went out to get ice cream with him, and didn't ask my brother to go. THEN, she asked him to visit her when she goes on vacation, and not my brother. I realize that this shouldn't be any of my business, but I find it ridiculous that he's still with her when she's already cheated on him once. Plus, my older brother who's 9 years older than me told me that he heard some stuff about her from some people that he didn't like too much, and he'd have to have a talk with the other brother. I know they must have had that talk by now, and I know that he looks up to him, but they still haven't broken up. Even if she is on vacation. Really, I just don't know what to do. I need help. I hate the girl and I don't want to kill her, so I need ways to:
1) Not kill her.
2) Get my brother to break up with her.
Once a cheater always a cheater. (link)
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if i was you i would talk to my brother, ask him why he is still with her, and bring up the cheating, like you said once a cheater always a cheater. hoped i help!!
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I've caught my dad in porn and sex chat rooms so many times. Everytime he talks to me its not the same anymore, we used to be sooo close and now i cant even look him straight in the eye anymore. Hes always out of the house, and my mom works at nightt. I went to his work one day he wasnt there, and then a lot of people called the house asking for him. When he got home I asked him where he was at, he said golfing in the morning with the hugest smerk ever it disgusted me and i wanted to just cry. Then i was like what about later he said he was at work. But those people that called me at like 5pm said he wasnt there. Then he always locks his computer, and one day i caught him using a web cam, then i found lub. and a vibrator. He gets home so late on the nights my mom works. What i want to know is what should i do, cause for all i know he's just a guy looking at porn. (link)
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ok not to be mean or anything but i think he MIGHT be cheating. if i was you i was ask him stight up. he will most likly say no, but if you really think he is cheating on your mom then you have 2 choices
1) do nothing about it
2) find proof that he is cheating.
it won't be easy. but if you really want to no if he is or not when he is not looking see who he has called on hs cell and see who has called him. see how many times a day a woman calls for him that is not ur mom. and stuff liked that. hoped i hepled.
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Hey,my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my granny is ruining my life I know that she is 88 years old,but I don't think this is an excuse for what she is doing to me and the rest of my family.my granny tells me that iam to fat for my own good and talks really bad about my mom and my sisters.on my 17th b-day she made me cry becouse she told me that my mom didn't love me or care about me.I know it's not true,but it still bothered me that my granny would say something like that to me her youngest granddaughter.my 36 year old cousin helped me feel better when my granny made me cry.my granny also tells my aunt how to do things in her own house even though she is 68 years old and she stands over my couse like a hawlk while she folds dirty clothes.If I don't make my bed or fold my dirty clothes she yells at me what should I do.I have to deal with this every weekend all weekend and Iam fed up with her nonesince what should I do? (link)
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i would say something. Don't yell at her and don't say it in a mean way. just clamly talk to her. tell her that she is hurting you and she has no right doing that to you. Ask her what you ever did to her. that should get her attention. then just go from there. hoped i helped!
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well my parents just got divorced and i am 14 by the way and um well my dad cheated on my mom and now since there divorced he is showing me all to these diffrent women and i am really pissed about that what should i do
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I know how you feel when my parents got divorced my dad used me to meet woman...it pissed me off so much. So what i did is that i told my dad that if he wouldn't stop useing me to meet woman then the next time i would as rude as i could. he didn't belive and the next time he did i was so rude. then my dad stoped using me to meet woman. i would try that if i was you. hoped i helped
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How can I bring up wanting birth control to my mom? I dont think she ever had sex until she was married..and she was brought up in a strict christian home (no sex until marriage) but i dont find a reason wrong with sex before marriage. I am 16/f and ive been going out with my boyfriend for a little more than a year now. I love him and he loves me and we are sexually active (condom every time). I cant let her know I am sexually active because i dont think she would understand. Should i start pretending to complain about cramps so she will get hints or whaT????????? (link)
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if you want your mom to know that bad then you should tell her. maybe you should pratice to your self a few times before telling her.
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Okay, this may not seem like a problem, but I started babysitting for this one family this summer. They have a pretty big house and good jobs, so it's not like they are poor. I think they overpay me though. I know I shouldn't complain, but they paid me $40 for watching a 4-year-old and a nine-year-old from 6-11pm....and they pay me $100 a week to watch the 9-year-old while they are at work during the summer....watching the nine-year-old basically consists of watching tv or watching him play nintendo or watching him fish. it's not a hard job, and I enjoy it...should I say something about the high pay, or just take it as them appreciating me and being nice? I don't want to get more than I deserve.... (link)
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if you feel unconfy taking the money when they hand it to you see how much it is and if it is too much then say that they are giving you to much..then tell them what you think you should get. thats is what I did they were paying my $60 for watching 2 kids from 7pm-2am. It may seem long but i only needed $30...but since i said something i'm not getting over paid and i feel more confy taking the money because i know i earned that much. hoped i help!!
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OK so theres a guy, hes a year younger than me (im a sophomore, hes a freshman) and I like him. I really dont know him well at all. I dont have his sn, and ive asked ppl they dont have it either. I see and talk to him at church, so I can prob. get his sn from him. How soon is it to ask for a cell phone number? And what r some things I can do that could get him to like me .. i wanna be myself and im not a huge flirty person .. and im not especially pretty. idk what to do .. but i really want this guy to like me. pleaseee help. (link)
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just keep on talking to him bout stuff u like and have in common. If u wanna ask him for hi sn just do it. try not to be shy. if he likes you he will like you 4 u. hope i helped.
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i hate my mom. we fight constantly. and she bugs the crap out of me. she makes me take ADD pills so i dont eat as much. and i need them to help me pay attention in school. w/e not really. anyway i was like why shud i take them in the summer and she is like i think it helps ease out your temperment. which just makes me more mad. and then i was like wat if i dont take them. and she is like i think you will gain 5 pounds if you stop taking them in the summer and get headaches. also i like peanut butter. i hav peanut butter sandwiches for lunch like every day well not everyday but enough tht we need it. and then we ran out of peanut butter and i asked my mom if she cud buy some cause she wuz going shopping and she was like y dont we take a break from peanut butter we r going thru it too fast. she also grounds me for the dumbest reasons.
i get grounded like all the time. like if i get in a fight with my bro or her or didnt do something for her like mop the floor cuase i forgot or didnt hav time.
she is so annoying plz help. and also do any of u think my mom is acting normal? cause i think she is fucking BITCH!!!!!
help me i rate 5's. (link)
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omg i no what u mean, my mom blames me 4 everything that goes wrong in her in life. What i do is i try to stay out of her way, and least much as i can. I only talk to her if i have to. try that. hoped i help.
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15/F Alright, so I have been dating this guy, ryan, for about 6 months. I can honestly say that I LOVE him. Bu, lately he has been acting distant, strange. I was talking to a girl online and as soon as he found out I was talking to her he made me stop. It's just weird. And This may be a little TMI but the last time we were doing "things" He just stopped and said, "I can't do this." He's never done rhis before, What do you guys think, and any advice on how i may be able to figure out if he is? (link)
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i think he might be cheating and if he is, you need to catch him. But the bad part it might take a while. If he has a cell see who has been calling him and see who he has been calling. hope i helped.
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Well i kinda got this girl that i like but then i hang with her brother alot cause he's like my best friend and we always hang out i mean i go camping with his family every year and then i realized that i kinda like his sister and his sister is my age i mean we have so much fun together when were camping and just love hanging out but i dont know how this would set with her brother but i do really kinda like her but i dont know how she feels but some of my friends have said we flirt alot... what should i do? Ask her out or not? (link)
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ok before u ask her out, talk with her brother and see if he is cool with u 2 going out. if he is then ask her if she likes you more then a friend. and if she says yea then ask her out. hope i helped.
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16/f
My school's choir is doing a cabaret show and I have a solo in the song "Popular" from the play Wicked. I can sing the solo very well but I have a problem with singing infront of my class. I can sing infront of other people just not infront of the class. I need to practice with everyone so I can get it down perfectly. So, my question is... How do I get rid of my nerves or atleast be able to sing without a shakey voice? I try to tell myself they will judge me no matter how I sound but it doesn't seem to help. (link)
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when i had to do my end of the yearsolo i practice in frount of people like my friends, family, boyfriend, and i even had my teacher help me on something i couldn't nail. but i finally nailed it. I practiced in frount of something so i could see my face expressions. hope i helped.
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okay i know i havent said this before but i've been thinking about it a lot and i guess i just want some opinions or something.
so i've never lived with my parents...most kids who dont or something their parents arent very close by and if so not REALLY close. (just what i've heard about) anyway...i live with my grandmother and believe me i love her and all but i guess it bothers me how my parents dont have me living with then when they are the next house over...also they are still my legal guardians. which does not make sense to me because if my grandmother grew me up and everything why do my parents get to decide what i do i mean they dont even know anything about me my. yeah sure they buy me things and when i was little and sick my mom would come over but i never even spent one holiday at their house and im 13...weird? or no...
(ps: i've probably slept at their house 10 times in my whole life...if that)
~thanks - Rosemarie (link)
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i would say it is a little werid. If they live next door to you then I think they should let you live with them. I think if you want to live with them, then you should talk to them, and your grandma. That is what i would do. Hope i helped.
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kay so theres this boy i like. He knows I like him and people say by the way he talks to me you can tell he likes me too.
The thing is I dont know what to do...What should I do? Does anyone have ideas? (link)
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If i were you i would ask him if he likes you as more then a friend. Be stright with him, and just go for it. good luck!!
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Does anybody know any ways to learn your lines? like any unique ways or anything?
Hev (link)
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here is what i do i read the the line 5 or 6 times in a row and out loud. then i memorzie the first few words of the the line. Then i remember the rest. hope i help.
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I accidentally left my glove out in the rain the other night, and it's still not dry. It's been about 4 days. Any tips or tricks? Or is my glove doomed?
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don't sorry about it....try putting it in frount of a fire or heater. It should dry.
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Ok, So I am 13 years old and since May 2005, I have found myself madly in love with no other than a 20 year old McDonalds worker. He has started to open up a little more in the past couple of months, and he gives me lots of hugs, flirts, and shows all the "signs" of love back. Yet he has never told me. This week we are supposed to go to the movies. My question is, Should I open up and tell him I love him or should I just wait until he does? (link)
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ok not to sound mean or anything but you are 13 and he is 20 and if anyone tells you to open up then they are stupid.I know they say age doesn't matter and it is only a number but in this case you should really think it though. he is 20 and still working ast McDonalds, not to sounf mean but that nothing to bring home to mom and dad. I think you should find someone your own age. because you can do way better then at 20 year old working at Mcd's!
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