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mom is a bitch
i hate my mom. we fight constantly. and she bugs the crap out of me. she makes me take ADD pills so i dont eat as much. and i need them to help me pay attention in school. w/e not really. anyway i was like why shud i take them in the summer and she is like i think it helps ease out your temperment. which just makes me more mad. and then i was like wat if i dont take them. and she is like i think you will gain 5 pounds if you stop taking them in the summer and get headaches. also i like peanut butter. i hav peanut butter sandwiches for lunch like every day well not everyday but enough tht we need it. and then we ran out of peanut butter and i asked my mom if she cud buy some cause she wuz going shopping and she was like y dont we take a break from peanut butter we r going thru it too fast. she also grounds me for the dumbest reasons.
i get grounded like all the time. like if i get in a fight with my bro or her or didnt do something for her like mop the floor cuase i forgot or didnt hav time.
she is so annoying plz help. and also do any of u think my mom is acting normal? cause i think she is fucking BITCH!!!!!
help me i rate 5's.
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omg i no what u mean, my mom blames me 4 everything that goes wrong in her in life. What i do is i try to stay out of her way, and least much as i can. I only talk to her if i have to. try that. hoped i help.
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MY MOM IS THE SAME WAY...and I don’t even live with her so you think when I did see her she would b nice but nope she’s a bitch and my dad well lets not go there...anyways enough about that. And back to your question. I think a lot of moms over react but also a lot of moms don’t. I don’t know maybe if you can easily talk to your mom then tell her you feel like she’s over reacting on some things and it bothers you and that you don’t think you should have to take the pills in the summer because you really have no reason because you can be outside and get your energy out or something...ask her if you keep your attitude okay without them for a while if she will consider letting you stay off them during the summer. (Unless you really should be on them then yeah you should take them).
-Hope I helped-
Rosemarie
PS: don’t have an attitude when you talk to her (if you do) then you will never get what you want. Be nice and stay calm if she says no then she’s probably not going to change her mind. So just say “okay mom”. Yeah I know it seems stupid and it took me a LONG time to figure out that when you’re nice to the people you live with and stay calm when you ask for things you have a better outcome.
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Your mother is acting pretty normal mother of a teenage daughter: frantic, confrontational and at the end of her rope.
You are acting like a pretty normal teenage daughter: Self involved and impatient.
If continuing to take your pills will make you calmer and will keep you from getting headaches that is a pretty damn good reason to keep taking them. If you don’t want to take them you are going to have to come up with a better reason then “But I just don’t want to!”
And honestly girl, would it kill you to try and have something else for lunch besides peanut butter? Or maybe buy it yourself? I mean a jar of peanut butter doesn’t cost 5$.
If you don’t do your chores in a timely manner, you deserve to be punished. “I just didn’t get around to it” is not a valid excuse. Living with other people means cleaning up when it’s convenient for them too, not just when you feel like it. I used to think my mom was crazy for making me clean up when she wanted it done, rather then when I wanted to do it, but I now I live with four room mates and you know what, I hate it when they don’t do the chores when they are supposed to!
I’m not saying your mom is perfect love, what I’m trying to point out is neither are you. Your actions are turning these fights into way bigger deals then they need to be. Simply being polite could stop a lot of them. You really need to learn how to discuss things with your mother, learn how to talk things through rationally. Surely you could come up with some logical reasons to buy peanut butter or try a while without your pills. You could definitely talk to your mother beforehand if you are busy and work out a time to mop that is more convenient for both of you.
When you do things like call her a bitch, demand she does things like buy you peanut butter but at the same time just forget to do your chores or decide you are too busy to bother, you are taking your mother for granted and being mean to her. That doesn't make her feel like doing you any favors.
Try being, very simply, a little bit nicer to your mother. Think about things that would make her life a bit easier instead of only things you want. Parents work hard for thier kids and don't enjoy punishing them! If you did one small thing each day to make her life easier, I would bet you'd find her way more willing to listen to you, because she would know that you weren't only thinking of yourself.
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awww well hey listen to this...your mom doesn't hate you and she's not a bitch honestly honestly she's not so just don't say that cause its not right...if she was a bitch and hated you than you wouldn't still be lieving in that house right now
as far as your weight goes why don't you talk to her and tell her that it's your life and you should do what you wanna do and if u wanna take care of your weight than maybe she can sighn you up to go to the gym you guys could even go together that would be bonding time....trust me its not only you that gets that my mom is like that too but deep down iloveher and i know you love your mom too..hope i helped<3
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