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okay so yea my andmyboyfriend are goin to exchage christmas presents this year but i have no idea wut to get him. im thinkin about like taking him to the mall and hint him on to wut i want.. lol but everytime i ask him wut he wants hes just like "baby your everything i ever want" or like he says "well i have eerything i want" and stuff like that but i really wanna gt him a present and i knoe he wants somthing lol but he is just shy to say wut he wants so please help he is a 14 yearold guy plays football,basketball, wrestling, and track. but dont tell me to get him a football or any other sports equipment. i wanna get him sumthing that will be really sweet.

well since he plays all those sports he probably dresses like a preppy guy.. try going to hollister.. abercrombie.. or american eagle.. and get him like a cute sweater or shirt or something.. go to like a pharmacy and there's these kodak picture things where you can like.. take a picture of you and your man to the store.. scan it into the kodak picture thingy.. and you can put like cute backgrounds on the pic.. and give him a pic of you and him.. *i dont know if you understood what i just said.. but.. i hope you do.. lol it's really cool!* maybe try getting him like.. a necklace with a football on it.. *gold necklace* or like a basketball.. or a gold necklace with one of his sports numbers on it.. preferibly his favorite sport *i would use that number*

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ok i have a boyfriend that i am in love with but when he is around his friends he acts like we are not even going out. i love him and i know he feels the same way and i dont want to break up so what can i do?

ask your boyfriend why he acts this way when he's around his friends.. tell him that you feel like he's ashamed to be with you in front of his "dudes" and just be like.. i hate it when you act like that.. do you want to be with me? and tell him you don't want to break up.. but you want to know what's going on.. tell him that all your other friend's boyfriends love on them around their friends.. and ur just wondering why he doesn't do that to you.

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one of my really good guy friends is being a jerk, because i just met a guy from a different school and i think hes jealous but anyways i asked him why he was mad cause i didnt know for sure and he said don't talk to me..actually do better then that stop breathing, i cant believe you haven't already and i was like okay..and my friend kneed him through a bus seat after he said that and he said hey lesbians get a room and he was being the biggest dickhead ever and then he said i was ugly even though he said that i was extremely pretty a week ago and he also said when i was talking to another guy he said to teh other guy..hey broz before prudes and hes been like that for like 2 days..what could i say to him??

you need to go up to him and be like.. dude.. do you like me or something because ever since i started talking to this guy.. you've turned into a TOTAL DICK HEAD!! and be like.. your one of my good friends and I don't wanna lose you over another guy.. if you like me.. you need to tell me.. and i think it's totally wrong that your being such a jerk to me just because i like someone.. n so on..

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If you were a 16 almost 17 girl, (maybe some of you are haha) then what would your dream gift be to get from your boyfriend for Christmas? I am stuck on what to get my girlfriend for Christmas, please help! :)

Here's a few ideas.. of course.. girls love clothes! If she's a girly girl.. try getting her an outfit at Hollister.. American Eagle.. or Abercrombie.. GIRLS LOOOVE THOSE STORES!! If she has any piercings get her some rings.. (belly button rings.. tongue rings.. earrings.. ect..) Girls also love stuffed animals so we can sleep with them and think of our man's at night.. because you know.. it's the.. my man got me this teddie bear so i'm gunna hug him and squeeze him all night because i love my man soo much kinda thing.. lol.. we looove body sprays.. pick one out that you really like the smell of.. trust me.. she would wear it all the time.. especially if you liked it.. *at least that's what i would do* Rings are also a nice thing too! Try taking her out ontop of all the presents too.. like to the movies or out to dinner.. Hope I helped!

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Okay heres the thing i like this guy A LOT and were close friends and the other night he told me that he likes me too..which made me happy but the thing is right now we cant date because 3 of his best friends ( theyre girls ) like him and it would hurt them and start A LOT of drama...but he told me " i need u right here now i need u right now more than ever" and he told me i make him happy but its real hard ...and i dont know if he wants me to wait until everything cools down with his friends or should i try moving on n puttin interest in someone else....because i mean we both like eachother and we have chemistry....so what should i do!?

Tell him straight up.. be like.. do you think those girls are gunna stop liking you? Because we all know.. they aren't going to stop.. so tell him.. if he really cares about you and wants to be with you.. he will take the chance of hurting those girls.. if he didn't have feelings for them then he wouldn't care to ask you out.. Just like.. lay it all out on him lol.. Uhm.. Those girls will eventually get over it.. and if they aren't your friends.. who cares? And if they are his friends.. i KNOW they will still continue to talk to him.. I mean.. all girls do don't they? LOL! Hope I helped! If you need any more advice! IM me!! I'm constantly online! hehe

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oK..I'm 13 5'4 and about 98 pounds..I used to be skinny and stuff but now I'm starting to get a big belly. I run and do situps and drink water and try to eat healthy and everything, but I starting to get larger than I should be. Any ideas on how to keep a flat stomache and stop gaining to much more because I used to see myself good now Im huge. sorry if thats kinda long.
~please help

honey.. if you think your fat your crazy!! 98 pounds! and your 5'4" which is TALLER than me!! Your not fat at all girl.. your crazy!! LOL! Don't worry about it.. just keep up the running and sit ups.. make sure you eat healthy.. and TRUST me if YOUR fat.. I'm huge.. I'm 5'3" 16 years old and I weigh 119lbs.. and this sounds really conceided but I know I'm not fat lol.. but I do have a lot of muscle.. lol IM NOT CONCEIDED AT ALL.. I just.. have to say that.. because you don't know me.. lol.. Please don't think your fat.. because your really not!

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okay so i always fall for the "bad boys" but this time i like one of my old best friends, but the problem is he is a jerk, unreliable, and a stoner..... and like i dont know what to do, because we dont talk all that much anymore b/c he has a different group of friends than i do.. he liked me all of last year but i always said no when he asked me out because i didnt agree with him about the whole drug thing, and now i've realised that i liked him the whole time and still do and hes found another girlfriend and im just like.... sad. iono. should i tell him how i feel or not? i dont want to ruin his relationship.. sorry if thats kind of long

babe.. you should not even try talking to him again.. you don't need a stoner loser boyfriend.. there are soo many guys out there.. ohhh my gosh.. i always fell for the stoner bad ass guys too lol.. and i got hurt like.. 20 thousand times! ugh it sucked.. find someone that will treat you right and that isn't a loser.. YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS hehe.. I hope I helped yah a lil.. if you need anymore advice.. IM me.. my screen name is on my page! Good Luck!

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I have been cutting myself for a while now. My best friend Dylan knows about it and he wants to me stop. It is very hard to stop doing because it is addicting. Dylan and I got in a big fight last friday because he found out the night before I slit the crap outts my arms. He cares about me alot but I honestly dont want him to care. He always tells me that he loves me and I tell him not too. I hate when he tells me he loves me bc he only loves me as a friend and I wish that he loved me as more. I am in love with him. He hung up on me last friday and it is monday and we havent talked since. IDK what to do. Is he gonna stick by me through these times of pain or abandon me. If I love him should I stop doing what I have been doing and try to get some help. PLZ help me!

babe. i think u should definitely stop. if you love this guy tell him. i bet you would make his world so much easier if you stop cutting. please get some help. it would be the best for you and you will love your life once you stop cutting.. you will realize how much better your life is.. and hay.. in the end.. you might end up gettin' ur man!! haa

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This is for the girls.. okay.. well i'm on Ortho tricyclen Lo.. and if any of you are i have a question!!.. okay well when will i start my period.. will i start it on my normal day.. or when i start taking the inactive pills? Thanks!

you should start when you take your last five pills.. the green ones.. i take the same birth control as you.. and the thing that sucks.. is.. i usually only had my period for 3days and now.. i have it for a full 5 to 7.. it SUCKS.. lol.. so yeah.. u should definitely start on your last 5 pills!

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yah i really dont know what to do anymore i swear my boyfriend is going nuts on me. just because i dont tell him what is wrong. i mean i cant tell him my feelings he has to go all pyscho on me. i dont like it i dont know what to do. plz help me.

I think that you shouldn't have a problem telling your boyfriend what is wrong with you. If you are together that is one of the things you share. You and your boyfriend should both WANT to tell eachother everything.. that's what makes a relationship a lot stronger.. at least this is what I believe.. try telling him more things about you.. if you tell him everything.. it's like.. he's your best friend.. and that makes a relationship so much more funner!! hehe..

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hey omg i want my tongue pierced so bad! but my mom wont let me and im 15 and i want it reallllllly bad i was reading a ? and it sed u did urs by urself? omg can u just lyke explain 2 me EXACTLY how to do it and stuff....i pierced my nose by myself behind my moms back a ndd she never found out and i reALLY want my tongue.....soo ya can u just plzzzzzzzz explain 2 me how u did it?? THX SO MUCH!!!

Uhm okay.. I will try my hardest.. lol.. first of all.. be VERY careful bcuz if you pierce it in the wrong spot u can lose all feeling in your tongue.. and.. die.. lol.. well theres a line on ur tongue.. like right down the middle.. get a needle thats like.. the size of a bellybutton ring.. 14 gauge.. is what u need.. pierce it right at the tip of the line.. where it ends.. and make sure its not to close to the thingy under ur tongue that keeps ur tongue n mouth connected.. like that little piece of skin.. then just.. put the needle all the way through but don't like.. take it out.. leave it in there.. then take the tongue ring and follow the needle out with the tongue ring.. then.. ur done!! make sure u use mouth wash 24/7 *listerine*

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omg i have tried ban, teen spirit, secret, and dove deodarants and none work for me! does anyone have any that work for them that may work for me? cuz i am tired of my shirt be wet from sweat underneath my armpits, and being afraid that someone is gonna see it...plz help!

my friend has the same problem.. she went to the doctor and got a special medicine for it.. so yeah.. go to the doctor.. its not that expensive and it works really good!

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I got my lip periced last year and that hurt like woah. Does getting your tounge peirced hurt worse

ur tongue doesn't hurt at ALL.. it just.. kinda hurts a couple days after.. er the day after.. cuz it's sore.. and swollen.. but the piercing procedure doesn't hurt at all.. lol.. i did mine by MYSELF and i didn't feel a thing.. and i like.. didn't get the needle thru as fast as they do at the piercing place.. so.. u will not feel n e thing at all.. truuuust me on this one lol..

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Um.. ok what is a yeast infection and how do you cure it? Im waaaaaaaaay to modest to go to the doctors about and and ill refuse to so ya help me!!!!

go to the store and get monistat.. it works great! lol

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I have a friend,Megan which I have been practically sisters with my whole life. I've known her for 6 years and we basically grew up together. I also have this other friend,Kelsy, which I have known for about 4 or 5 years, and is also extremely close with me. Megan and Kelsy have also been close for years,too. Kelsy is starting not to like Megan anymore, due to a drunk night when Megan got with the guy that Kelsy liked. I know it was wrong, but I've known Megan for half my life and I can't just drop her like that. Kelsy might get mad if she knows that I still want to be friends with Megan, because everytime she says something about Megan, I always agree by saying I'm not talking to her anymore either. What are your opinions on this?

Uhm.. neither of them should care that u are friends with the other.. just don't hang around both of them at the same time.. u kno? They shouldn't care who your friends with.. otherwise.. they were never ur friends in the first place.. if they can't understand that you love them both very much bcuz u've known BOTH of them for ur whole life practically.. then they aren't ur true friends.. if they care as much for u.. as u do them.. they will both let u be friends with both of them.. talk to each of them n tell them that u think they shouldnt care and u cant choose bcuz its not right and it wouldnt be fair to the other.. tell them u love them both n all

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ok so im a female 14years old im in eight grade and i guees alot of guys find me really attractive well etleast thats what they all say and so i go out with guys alot liek last time i went out with anyone was like 4 days a go and now i want to go out again with different guy but the problem is that there is 6 guys who like me and i flirt with all of them and stuff and like i flirt with like alot of guys but i mean every girl does at some point but i dont think guys like that much so sometimes i lose them bacause of that but like i think i was born to flirt with guys so am i really that bad or am not the only one who does it and is there anything i should change?

definitely stick to one guy otherwise your gunna get the reputation that your a SLUT and that your easy which means.. ANY GUY can get you!! Going out with a guy for like 1 week breaking up and having a new boyfriend 4 days later.. spells out SLUT to me

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Ok I accidently forgot my password to on of my emails (I know i'm dumb!) but now I really need to get in to it!! I have a saved email from a while ago that has important info about applying to University, and I don't know where else I can get it from!!! So does anyone know a way to "hack" into your own hotmail account?? I have sat around trying to figure out my password but icant!! someone please help!

Type in the wrong password.. press enter.. then the screen will pop up that says.. it's the wrong password.. click on.. Create New Password if you can't remember it..

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last monday i told my boyfriend that i was running away. (it was a joke) i didnt tell him that it was a joke until tuesday morning. he got all mad at me and ended up breaking up w/ me over it. Now he wont talk to me or even walk past me. i have last hour w/ him (he sits in front of me) what should i do? talk to him or wait until he talks to me?

talk to him n tell him u were jkin! thats what u should of done a long time ago babe!

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Okay, so there's this guy. We're sort of friends, but there's complicated issues between us. A while back, like in May/June, I liked him and he liked me, but we never went out or anything. Because of certain reasons I'm not willing to explain. Anyway, I've gotten over him and I really like this other guy. But whenever I talk to or see the guy I used to like (we'll call him Bob), I usually get butterflies in my stomach and get kind of nervous. Yet that doesn't happen when I'm around the guy I like now. And I really like this guy, I do not like Bob. Seriously, I am being honest with myself. But then how come I always get butterflies in my stomach when I'm around Bob? Does that mean I like him and I just can't seem to admit that to myself..? I seriously don't think I like him though. Arrgh, I don't know. The thing is, I don't even have a reason to like him. So what's the deal here??!!!

well babe.. i know what ur feeling cuz that used to happen to me all the time.. no u don't like him.. its just different for you bcuz ur so used to liking him and yeah.. trust me.. u dont like him.. go for that other guy.. just ignore the butterflies.. lol srry i didnt give real good advice to u i kinda got distracted! but yeah.. dont worry bout them butterflies.. they don't mean n e thing.. u just still have a few feelings for him that need to be forgotten..

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Yeah so I like this guy and ya I don't know him and I really want to get to know him. I am good friends with his best friend but his best friend wont help me at all bc I think he likes me. I really want the guy I like to like me....not his best friend. I really want to freakin meet him! But nooooo his best friend won't introduce us...and its buggin me. I dont want to tell his best friend "oh you wont introduce me or set me up beacause you like me"...that'd be kind of odd. HELP! What do I do to get introduced to him? His best friend is the only one of this guy's friends that I know!

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~Needs Help

ask the dude u like.. to hang out with you so u can meet.. how do u like him if uve never met before?

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