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Q: can anyone tell me what the appropriate amount of time would be until i should start dating again? there's this guy i really like.. but me and my bf just broke up today and we'd been going out since october 30, 05. please help! how long should i wait?
anytime you feel you are ready to take the next step go for it and dont hold back!

Q: What's it like to make out with someone? Because my boyfriend said he wants to make out with me. We've never kissed so is that all he means? I guess this is kind of a stupid question but please anser anyways.
hey hun, thats not a stupid question when you get in the heat of the moment, just let it happen and trust me you wont do it bad unless you are viciously moving your tounge lol... it jus kinda happens naturally and you feel lke you know like how to do it. start kissing then if he starts to open his mouth then open urs but not too wide and wait for the tounge lol hope i helped

Q: Alright .. well word is that my boyfriend is cheating on me.. whenever i ask him about it of coarse he gets defensive and ends up mad at me for even thinkin it...but whatever he's a guy.. i've heard this alot but now it's just pushing me over the edge... i like him alot but im starting to wonder if its worth it.. he isn't at school toda and last night his mom called my house looking for him...i like him and this is like half of all the drama going on ... what would you guys do?! i'm not willing to break up with him so something other than that...
are u FORSURE hes cheated on you? well what i would do, i would break up with him because if he was being gay like that you deserve wayyy better and no one deserves to be treated like that.. but, since u dont wanna do that you could be like hey you tell me the ful out truth and if its not the truth were done and see what he says... if hes a jerk about it then i dont think you should be with him because guys arent worth it if theyre assholes. theyre are plenty of other guys out there uve proly heard it before but theree is.. hope i helped if you have any more questions just ask!

Q: ok this prolly sounds weird but wen me and my b/f are 2gether we get each other in themodd and then we start having sex then i always stop him in like 5 min and feel gulty and start cryin, i prolly sound very stupid but y am i doing this?
do you feel like your giving it away and it scares you that you can't get it back? thats how i felt and i wasnt ready. i know you feel like its going to be right since your in the mood.. but you should think it over if you really want to do this or not. make sure you completely trust him and make sure ur ready before you go through with it, if you need any more help leave some in my inbox!

Q: i complain alot.. is there any way were i can stop complaining because ppl say that i complain alot
whenever you think about something not good that happend to you... just remind yourself to ask how the other persons doing and if anythings new in theyre life. that way they will think you care about them and not only urself


Q: i dont know what a siggy is or how to make one and i really want to know help!!!!
hey, your either talking about a signature or a cigarette lol im not sure what one but just practice your name in pretty cursive or you can just buy cigarettes lol if your not underage...


Q: ok ;so i'm like the MOST SHY PERSON YOU WILLEVER MEET!!
how do you meet friends i keep getting imbarsed whenever i try mostly i just sit next to anyone at lunch and say hi................its so difficult for me i need help.........please anyone
okay, calm down a little bit... i know how you feel because i used to be like that, but you neeeed to start opening up more. express yourself by wearing your style, & not being scared of what people think of you. if somethings on your mind, dont be scared to say it and dont be suprised if people dont like what your saying.. but it will at least let people get to know you a little bit and they could be like hey she seems really cool and want to get to know you. well if you need ne more advice drop some love in my inbox

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Q: does smirnoff taste better than beer? what about tequila?
smirnoff = yumm :-) && tequila is also really good.. beer is a guy thing lol unless you are a guy

Q: ok..this is gonna sound "dorky"..but anywho...does anyone know any good country songs that are slow...rate high...thanks hunns!
nobody drinks alone - keith urban

whiskey lullaby - brad paisley


I love those songs there my favorite!


Q: What style of sunglasses are in style right now? I've googled and nothing came up. Are big square frames or aviators better for a petite brunetter? Black or white? Thanks so much!!
omgg i love big sunglasses! they are so cute right now just find round or square that fit your face.. black are always hott but i have a pair of white and i absolutely love them!

Q: Does anyone know where I can buy scarves? Rate 5's.
uhhm pretty much any where depending on how much $ your willing to spend, JC penny, Marshall Fields, salvation army lol american eagle has some cute ones too...

Q: do you think im a nerd b/c im on the middle school orchestra? be honest...i wont get mad if you say yes...im just curious
no not at all if your good at it you should still be in it because it doesnt matter... a bunch of my friends did orchestra but i played the oboe lol!

Q: ok well this guy that i like fingered me and i dont really shave my vagina well i shave it but not my triagnle part but i dont trim it but im not sure if he minds it or not what do u think both guys and girls....13/f
well if your not comfortable with shaving it all of then just trim it but i say shave it all off because all the guys ive talked to said they like it better that way :D

Q: I have no clue what to get my girlfriend for christmas. I don't want to get her makeup or cosmetics because i know nothing about that stuff, and I don't want to get her clothes because I don't know if she'd like it or what her size is. So with that said, what are some gift ideas that girls like?
you could stick with the old teddy bear that says i love you and chocolates :-) or get her a somewhat expensive neckalce/ jewlery

Q: hey peoples! umm, i waz wondering if anyone had a idea of a fun project... somthing easy and somthing i wont get in trouble for cause its too messy, ya know? pleeez help! irate 5s!!!!!
well, if you mean for school a poster board with a bunch of colors and stuff, but if your talking about just fun projects i love playing with clay lol and then painting it its not too messy just use newspaper lol or make picture frames for your friends and put cute pictures in it... i dont know i hope i helped rate back

Q: Are contacts hard to take out? I'm thinking about getting them. Any advice on what to do lol?
only for a little bit but then you will get the hang of it and itll come natural for you

Q: Last night, my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. While we were doing it, it started to feel good (but it still hurt), and sometimes when he was like going inside of me and the back out it started to feel like it was too much. It felt like I was having an orgasm, but it felt like I was going to like throw up. This happened like 5 times during a period of like 45 minutes. Is this normal and has it happened to anyone else?
aww im sure its totally normal once you start doing it more the feeling will go away its just because it was your first time and everything, i cant really explain it but everything will be fine.

Q: ok so im going to be going to the nintendo fusion tour in a week and i need to know some things. what are some good types of clothes to wear? how dangerous is crowd surfing? whats the best way to get to the front? and how dangerous are raves?
dudeee, this isnt really a answer but fall out boy is coming to g rap next week and i live in michigan soo i was wondering if you live there also? i dont know im just curious if i know some people on advicenators so get back to me thanks!

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