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What should I do....
Alright .. well word is that my boyfriend is cheating on me.. whenever i ask him about it of coarse he gets defensive and ends up mad at me for even thinkin it...but whatever he's a guy.. i've heard this alot but now it's just pushing me over the edge... i like him alot but im starting to wonder if its worth it.. he isn't at school toda and last night his mom called my house looking for him...i like him and this is like half of all the drama going on ... what would you guys do?! i'm not willing to break up with him so something other than that...
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look..i would break up with him. i know you said to mention something besides cheating...so heres what you do:
-take some alone time to really think..to put 2 and 2 togetheer...you dont want to break up with him..your really into him...if he felt the same about you would he be going around behind your back cheating on you? noo! be strong, dont let him stomp all oveer your heart. this is some shady bs going on, and you shouldnt let it go on any further. so really think...hard..hes not into you like your into him..hes a dirty cheater..get rid of him..what else is there to do.? do nothing and look like a fool?
^my opinion...i hope i helped, i only want whats best for you ok? :)
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So your boyfriend is most likely cheating on you, randomly disappearing, and you're not leaving breaking up with him as an option? I'd say you should think a little bit more about this. Something shady is going on, don't be so naive.
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I`d try my hardest to figure out whats going on with him.. I mean yea he could be cheatin but to me it sounds like somethin else could be goin on with him.. I`d tell this guy if he is cheatin to just break up with you cuz this is just hurtin you and its very pointless to do this..
♥ Dez
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There seems to be something about looking people in the eyes that makes them crack. Ask him to look you in the eyes and honestly say that he is NOT cheating on you. If he cracks, good. If he doesn't either a.) he's telling the truth or
b.)he is cheating on you and looking people in the eyes oddly does not effect him. After asking him, maybe ask someone WHO he is cheating on you with and confront the girl. Ask her if she is with your boyfriend and let her know that he DOES already have a girlfriend! Hope it works for you and that I helped! :)
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are u FORSURE hes cheated on you? well what i would do, i would break up with him because if he was being gay like that you deserve wayyy better and no one deserves to be treated like that.. but, since u dont wanna do that you could be like hey you tell me the ful out truth and if its not the truth were done and see what he says... if hes a jerk about it then i dont think you should be with him because guys arent worth it if theyre assholes. theyre are plenty of other guys out there uve proly heard it before but theree is.. hope i helped if you have any more questions just ask! <3
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I really think that something has to be going on if hes getting very defensive and upset with you when you just try to ask. To me, it sounds like it isn't very worth it if he can't understand that you are going through a rough time with everyone saying that you're being cheated on. If he heard that you were cheating on him that would make him ask over and over again too.
If you want to solve this without ending it, then you'll have to stick with the rumors until you find out if they are true or not. But I really think you should probably take in the fact that hes being really jerky toward you when you want to know if hes cheating. If he truly isn't cheating on you, I think he'd try to do anything in his power to make you know different and treat you like his girlfriend more instead of getting upset and making YOU feel guilty for even asking or thinking that. Doesn't that make you think? It doesn't have to do with him being a guy either. I think you need to think about this stuff I mentioned before you try again with him.
-TheTeenGirl
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Well, it's commonly understood that a healthy relationship can't exist unless there's trust. If you don't think he's worthy of your trust, then you're doomed to be miserable relationship since breaking up with him is something you're unwilling to do. Since you won't break up with him, give him the benefit of the doubt. Assume he isn't cheating unless you know he is.
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