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I have long blonde hair and i usually just wear my hair down or in a messy bun. but over the summer, i wanna try something different. are there any hair style suggestions that you guys could give me?
thanks! ill rate good! (link)
i wear my hair in low braids. it looks like pigtails but they are real low.you part on the side and you don't put a pony tail holer at the top of the braid. then you braid down and put a pony tail holder at the bottom.


I feel like im going to be so left out this summer. I want to go to the pool so badly but I'm afraid no one will want to go with me. I dont have many people on my street that are my age, so yeah..And Im just afraid and I dont want to have anyone over and I feel like people can invite me but I cant invite them. I dont know why. My birthday was a few weeks ago and i wanna have a party, but it has to be GOOD. I dunno what kind to have and stuff, just me switching schools to a kinda school thats not so social, and me already being way shy and stuff hasnt helped. (link)
people love it when others are outgoing,and funny. pool parties barbqs nd hawian parties are great for summer. Your party will be fine. Just have fun and don't worry. it makes things easier.


Okay... so I have this friend (jessica) and she is starting to talk to my ex boyfriend again. I really have no problem with it because I'm completely over him and have found somebody MILLIONS times better, but I do have ONE tiny problem. He is an a hole. You know the orginal a hole. Anyways... he used to pressure me into things and I know he's going to do it to her. I just don't want to see her getting hurt because she is my BEST friend. Jessica went out with him once, and since then has had sex and a very good relationship but... she's moving back to Ohio. So, I'm afraid that she'll think it's okay since she's did stuff before when really ... I think all that he wants is just to get her in bed. I could be wrong, but I dont' want to risk the chance... HELP? What do I say to her?! I'm 15 female. (link)
you should explain what he did to you. always stay close to your friend because in this relationship she's going to need someone to talk to. tell her about his reptation. u knoe his game.


my really good friend is moving june 22, and i want to do something special. im not sure i can have a party so...does anyone have any ideas? even if you have an idea for making something would be helpful.
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you can make that person a card filled with some real great memories that happened between you two.


well my friend to,d me the other day that she tried cutting and she showed me the scar. i told her it was bad and everything..i was like yelling at her not to do it again and what it could do to a person. she told me she would never do it again and so far she hasnt i made her let me see her wrists..and i know there are other places that she could cut too like her stomach and stuff..but im not going ot do a full body search on her everyday and im really worried about her. she made me promise not to tell anyone else..but i told my other really good friend i know she won't tell because i know she would be worried about her too. i really dont want to do and i dont know if shes lying and is still cutting..and i don't want to tell anyone because it was just one time and if she really stopped i would feel bad she would be really mad if i told on her. she would never tell me anything else again and im scared i will loose her friendship. im really worried about her please help me i rate high**

--michelle (link)
you should tell an adult that you feel really comfertable talking with. even if she's done i think counciling would be a good step for her. your friend will thank you in the end. if someone shows you that they are cutting themselves it might mean they are asking for help. hope i helped!


I have this really, really good friend named David.. and he's also my ex-bf. Anyway, we have that sort of relationship where we flirt all the time but do it as friends.. And I don't want to lose that, but I think I like him as more than a friend. I know if I tell him, it'll make things awkward between us, but I know I can't NOT tell him. How do I do it? (link)
you can ask him if he thinks there could ever be something between you and him. You obviously like him go for it! i know what you mean by awkward im the same exact way. I always eventually get over it though. you will too.


I don’t think people have anything to live for at all. Most people live for other people even thought everyone will eventually die. I think life is pointless and there is no such thing as “making a difference” because in the end none of it matters. My teacher says everyone wants to be remembered after they die, I don’t want to be remembered. Some people live for God, which I think is stupid because I don’t believe in God. If I did, I would hate him, why? Because he has control over us. Killing yourself is wrong because you’re interfering with “God’s little plan”, right? That doesn’t sound right now, does it? Everything happens for a reason doesn’t it? If something happened to make you want to kill yourself then is killing yourself still wrong? If God doesn’t want it to happen then it shouldn’t happen because he makes everything happen, doesn’t he? Can someone help me understand this whole “God” concept? (link)
making a difference could mean helping someone. You don't have to believe in god. you should relize how happy you can be. All you have to do is have confidence in youself. Martin Leuther King jr. made a difference and it matters. You can make a difference. Nobody can explain ''the whole god concept''


What are the tell tale signs that some one is cheating on you?
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my boyfriend cheated on me and i noticed something was wrong when whenever we set up a date he couldn't go but he was actually out at the movies with my friends! then my friend said she was going out with someone and i said oOo wow that's great and it was my boyfriend lol. fabulous right.


Hey yall!I like this guy and we are kinda friends and i am not sure if he likse me I think he might .And I can't get him off my mind how do I find out if he likes me?
~cruching bad~ (link)
you can ask your friend to ask them. Then tell your friends to tell you. You could just ask him out though and see what he says.


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Recently my friend just broke up with his girlfriend. Before, i wasn't really sure how i felt about him and i started to lean toward the not really liking him more than a friend choice, but now that he broke up with her, my feelings are starting to change because he's single now. She was my friend but it looks like a mutual breakup because they still talk a lot. It seems like he's starting to flirt with me again but then he told me about this girl that i hate that flirts with him a lot. It kinda freaked me out. I told him that his x-gf thought that i liked him but he was like cool. Obviously he doesn't care or he wants to sound like he doesn't care. I don't know. (link)
i don't think you should go with him. he just broke up with your friend. She might get really angry.you should hold off for a little while.


My 7th grade class is going on a school trip to Lake Compounce in Conneticut. It is on June 16th and (this may sound weird but...) I want to GO with someone (as in a DATE) I am not sure what to do. Should I drop hints, or ask? Ask one of ym guy friends and tell them I want to go as friends? Or tell them it is a date? Please help!
Also although we usually have a dress code we can wear w/e we want (I am going to wear a bikini under my clothes) but I am not sure what to wear. I want to dresss attractively, but not sluty.

I WILL RATE 5'S FOR ALL ANSWERS!
(As long as it is not retarded)

THANKS! (link)
your idea is cute. maybe you should try to get a boyfriend and just keep him for the trip. you don't have that much time to drop hints. you should probobally ask a friend to go on a date or just go as friends and have fun.


I'm a 16 year old female..I am 5'2 weighing 105 pounds. People say I'm thin...what they don't know is I have 3 layers of fat on my tummy..I often find myself "sucking in" all day. What can I do? Everyone always says crunches..but they're not helping. Please give some detailed advice and tell me what to do..tell me how to do it. Thanks so much-I need to get abs in 2 weeks! Yikes! (link)
i don't think you're going to get abs in 2 weeks. It's not that easy. it takes time.


okay.. well im 14/f and imk 5'3 and 86 lbs. and i really need to gain some weight because i am not comfortable wirh how skinny i am. like every day someone says omg your so skinny! or something like that and its so annoying and i hate it.. and im definitely not anorexic or belemic.. i could never do that. but the thing is that i eat a lot every day and i dont gain a pound! does anyone know what i can eat or do to gain a few pounds? thanks! ♥ (link)
your low weight is in your metabolism. you could ask someone like a nutritionist or something.


what are some good fruits to eat to get healthy and lose wieght ? (link)
to lose weight you should experiment with almost all fruits and vegetables. Also exercise 3 times a week 30 minutes each episode. Also keep the exercise at a pulse that's not to high.


ok this is the thing. i've read about the veet thing. if it doesnt work for anyone, well it might not work for me.

this is the real question.

if you shave your leg, does it get thicker?

i kno this sound so stupid cuz i wasn't allow to shave my dang legs. and just in case i have to do it behind my mom's back...

well i heard it does and gets thicker and stuff...

is it true?

and if you shave, how long does it last?

my friend says her legs only last for like 8 hours (link)
it lasts way more than 8 hours. i don't know about veet but it might be dangerous for sensetive skin. i never really experimented it growing back thicker. my mom didn't want me to shave but i convinced her by saying that i'm growing up and it's just something i have to do.
She'll come around.


Last night I went to the movies with my guy friend & my friend (who he used to like). I have a crush on him but I don't know if he feels the same way. Some stuff happened last night that made me want to believe he might like me too.

-For example, my friend sat down, I sat down on one side of her & he decided to sit on the other side of me.
-We flirted the whole movie, throwing popcorn at eachother.
-We shared the armrest & I had my head rested on our arms.
-He kept talking to me during the movie.
-He let me take sips of his drink.
-When I said I was cold, he said if he had a jacket on him, I could have worn it.

I'm not sure if it sounds like we're just "pals" or could possibly be more? I really can't tell so I was wondering if someone who was more experienced in relationships could help me out. Thanks! Sorry it was so long!

JaMiE x3 (link)
it sounded like a cute night, you can't really tell whether it's love or not yet. you should have some more conversations with him,you'll find out whether it's love or the total opposite.


Ok well im 16 and going to be a jounior in high school. I have a girlfriend... me and her have been really close friends since the end of 8th grade, and at times i liked her.. and she liked me. We never went out until like the 24th of may this year. We are still together. But now that we are together... i dont really like her like that. I mean shes still the same person she was before, i donno as friends we are good but as a couple we are just too different. So how do i get to be single again without loosing a good friend? I'll rate high im desprate.
-cRw- (link)
whatever you do don't say i hope we can still be friends! it's the kiss of death. you should just tell her as it is. It is the best thing ever to do!


okay ready i like this boy and he kinda likes me...we talk alot everyday and we talk about everything and i was talkin to my friend brian and he said to ask him out before i loose him forever...But i dont kno if i want to ask him out i want him to ask me out...Wat should i do..

I rate!! good advice..

xo Confused Gurl xo (link)
you should ask him. he might find that reeeeal hott. your friend is right you don't want to lose him if you really like him. just ask him out!


well, there are these auditions for teens to become singers or dancers it is number one to get teens into movies and comercials, so i signed up and asked my mom and she said it was alright and now, today, one day before the auditions, she said that she doesnt want me to go. because i will be with my dad for 6 weeks and she thinks that if they want me to come soon then i wont be here, so what do i tell her? need help fast. it is tomorrow at noon! PLEASE HELP I NEED IT FOR MY FUTURE!



i will rate high for ANY realistic answers!


thanks (link)
you have to tell your mom this is a once in a lifetime chance- and beg your dad- say it's your future and it's your chance for your passion to be discovered- if you get to try out good luck!


Well my X gf and i are still good friends. But in the past 3 months i have been talking to her best friend online a little. Cool chick. Then i met her one day like 2 weeks ago, at night. Me and all my friends always sneak out so yeah thats about the only time i get to see her. So me and her started hangin out at night, alot. Sometimes just us. Im not tryin to push things, i've only made out with her. But shes such a awsome person i always have a blast when im with her. But recently i got cought for sneakin out and got my car taken away lol. I get it back june 21, and my parents go outa town for a week on june 21. So yeah house to myself.. But see the girl i like also got caught sneakin out so shes now grounded to. Except she doesnt have a car, and got her cell phone and computer taken away so i have no way of getting in touch with her. I dont want this period of us not being able to talk, affect the progress we've made. But yeah i know she likes me because she has a boyfriend, but shes in the same situation i am, cuz i have a girlfriend but i like thsi other girl alot better. So yeah she had the opportunity to sleep over at her boyfriends house with like all her best friends but she choose to sneak out with me. Ok well anyways myu question is, is there any way to keep the "silence" from keeping us to drift farther appart. And basically whats the final step in making her mine once we do hang out. Ill rate high for any reasonable advice, and basically for reading this whole thing. (link)
you are sneaking out with your ex's best friend................i hope the ex is over you. you are cheating on your girlfriend so if i were you either dump one or dump them both because if your current girlfriend is lyke in love with you she might try to hurt the girl you are sneaking out with. you should really dump one or both cause cheating on someone is retarded.




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