I'm Melanie. I'm 18 and I don't know what else to write.
Gender: Female
Location: Baton Rouge, LA
Age: 18
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ok, just wondering, does penis size have anything to do with weight?
because I've noticed that for the most part, guys that are much more fit, tend to have larger penises...
so, is there any connection?
thanks! =) (link)
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Maybe their penises look larger because they don't have any fat in the way? I'm not sure. Although I have noticed that as well, but it may just seem like that.
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Sorry if this is in the wronge category
But anyways when ever I floss my teeth hurt really bad afterwards.. and they bleed almost like non-stop and I am really protective of my teeth... and the dentist tell's me to floss.. but I tend not to my teeth kill me after I do? is this normal? does everyones bleed? please help! (link)
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Your gums are bleeding because they are inflammed from the fact that you DON'T floss. It might hurt and what not, but it needs to be done. You don't want gum disease or anything. After you do it a few times, the bleeding and pain will stop.
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will it calse more pain or can he streach me open if his penise is to big? (link)
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I have this problem with my current boyfriend. It's going to be painful. I recommend using lubricated condoms and KY jelly. Just take things slow.
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16/m
i was wondering something I heard about. I got some spermicide condoms with nonoxynol-9 and I was wondering if they often irritate women? I just want to make sure my girlfriend is comfortable during and after sex. What do you guys think? Should i go get diffrent ones? (link)
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You should ALWAYS buy condoms with spermicide. They are the most effective condoms on the market. You should try those and see if she's okay. Most girls are okay with those. It's just a trial and error thing.
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I want to get my boyfriend a Valentine 1 radar detector, but I don't know if it's worth the money. Do they actually pay for a speeding ticket if you get one? and how reliable is it? I want to hear from people who have experience with this detector, not a website explaining how it works. The only websites I would actually take time going to are ones that have reviews on them. So, help? (link)
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They are worth the money, but like the first person said..if it's illegal in your state, you will get a ticket for having the radar detector.
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i'm goin to give my bf a hand job and i was just wandering if guys have g-spots or something like girls do...pictures and websites will probably help. oh and maybe some tricks i can do while i give him the hand job.thanks (link)
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I've heard that a guy has something SIMILAR to a woman's g-spot and that's his prostate. I'm pretty sure you know where that is. Ha.
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Ok, so I have a REALLY bad sunburn and i have trieid putting ice on it and i cant even feel the ice on it. I have put Aloe Vera on it and Ointment Spray that is suppost to help heal burns and it wont work. I cant feel anything on my face or on my shoulders or back except for pain. please help me!!
Shelby (link)
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Okay. I'm half asian, so I don't burn but a friend of mine says preparation H really helps. I know that sounds really gross, but it's worth a shot.
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Well,.. kissing sucks.
Really, why wasn't I warned? I have waited my whole life for that moment, I have been nervous and excited and spent so many classes ignoring the teacher and dreaming about it - and it sucks. Not because he was a bad kisser, just cause.. well its nothing special. It's SO OVERRATED! Like, really, am I the only one who feels this way? In movies it looks amazing - time stands still, sparks fly, it's impossible to breathe - but noooo. Not at all.
Why'd I waste so long waiting for that kiss? I turned down lots of great guys cause I wanted my first kiss to be REALLY SPECIAL. But itwasn't. I'm so dissapointed.
Does it get better? Or is it really not that great and people just make it sound great cause they're in love? (link)
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Most people have a horrible first kiss. You don't know what to expect or exactly what to do. When you love and care about someone, it's MUCH better. Just think of it this way. You got the awkward first kiss out of the way, so it can only get better from there.
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ok so i have 2 questions about tanning beds.
1- someone told me that the light in them helps to whiten your teeth some.. thats not true is it bc yeah it doesnt seem like it would be.. ?
& 2- what exactly are the 'facial' things used for? do they tan your face less or more or what? (link)
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Just adding on to what the person under me said, there are certain googles that you can purchase that don't have the little strings on them. You just place them on your eyes and there's nothing connecting them so there's no lines. Of course, that would only work in a laydown bed.
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My ex got a summer job at the same camp I'm working at. Last week was our first week working together and he kept flirting and said to me "you know you want me back" right in front of other counselors. He's been calling me at night but I've been avoiding his calls until I figure out what to do. I like him so much. We were together eight months and we broke up in March. We met at this camp last summer. He knows I go out with someone else now and he keeps asking me what he can do to make me like him as much as I like my current boyfriend. So far I've just smiled and gone on about my work. The guy I go out with now is great!!!! Almost too good to be true. We don't argue and he treats me like a princess. Life with my ex was drama filled. My current boyfriend knows we are working together and he has no problem with it. Should I stay with this guy that is wonderful? or should I follow my heart because my heart is telling me to get back with my ex? Either way the rest of the summer is going to be hard...seeing him everyday. Yesterday he started flirting with some other girl but made sure I was around to see it. It hurt so bad but I didn't let on like I cared. What should I do? How do I sort this out? (link)
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It's always been my belief that if you have feelings for ANYONE else, then you should not be with your boyfriend. It's really not fair to him, since he's really dedicated to you. I say that you should do what your heart says, but also remember that y'all did break up for a reason.
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ok well ive been getting calls lately telling me that someone locally is recomending that i try acting and modeling...ive turned them down many of many of times. But im starting too think maybe i should have said yes the last time they call....im not really into models i think they are anorexic freaks that try too be perfect but i think it could maybe turn out to be a good thing that i do this. ok well ive got the number of the people and was just wandering if maybe i should call them back? do you think maybe it might not be such a bad idea? (link)
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It might be a good idea, but be careful. Some people try to rip girls off like that. If they are from a modeling school, it's usually a rip-off.
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Okay so when my boyfriend fingered me he told his bestfriend (which is also my best friend) how tight i was. And i was kind of embarressed. And i Kind of want to strech myself out or pop my own cherry, so he doesn't do it, because i'm afraid it will be weird if he does it. So besides masturbation is there anyother way i can strech myself out? or pop my own cherry?
Also, if your a guy, do you like the feeling of popping a girl's cherry or do you think its sick?
Anything is appriciated =]
Personal stories are also helpful, if you dont mind. (link)
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You shouldn't be embarrased at all. It wasn't an insult or anything. Guys love virgins and they love how tight a virgin is her first time. I'm not sure if guys find it gross or weird to pop a cherry because mine was broken before I had sex. Trust me, in 10 years and a few kids later you are going to wish you were really tight again. So don't worry. It's normal.
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okay so how do u know if your vagina is tight? and also, for the guys, when your having sex do you guys care how big the girls pussy is? like does it matter to u? (link)
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What most people misunderstand is the fact that a girl really does not lose any of her 'tightness' unless she has given birth to a child. Girls constantly worry that they aren't tight enough, but it usually isn't a problem. Guys shouldn't be worried about the size of a woman's vagina. If they are, then they aren't having sex for the right reasons. Like the person beneath me suggested, kegel exercises will help. There is also a tightening cream out on the market. I've never tried it, but it may be something to look into if that's a really concern of yours. There is also vaginal rejuvination surgery, but that's a big extreme and is mostly used after a woman has given birth.
EDIT: Also, you can also use the same muscles that you exercise with the kegel exercises during sex. That will also tighten your vagina up and guys LOVE it.
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is it true asian girls have smaller ...vaginas?
or what.. (link)
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I'm half asian and I know from experience that I am pretty..petite in that area. I guess it depends on genetics.
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why do people care so much about same sex marrage? i think it should be legal in the U.S but why are people against it?
im writting a report about it and i just need to know what some people think.
thankss (link)
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Many people believe that allowing gays to marry would be ruining the sanctity of marriage. I don't believe gays should be allowed to have a marriage license. I'm okay with the unity/binding/whatever you want to call it. I just don't think that marriage should be anything other than 1 man and 1 woman.
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Anyone know any stores (preferrably not online, and not ebay) that sell Marilyn Monroe purses? Thanks. And please don't guess, I need to know for sure that the store has some. Whatever the store is, I'd like to know. Thanks! (link)
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Okay. Don't listen to them. Marilyn Monroe purses and wallets are still available. At the mall where I live, there are 2 stores that sell them. The Icing and After Thoughts. I have a wallet with her picture on there. Check them out.
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Some people get to be pretty, do everything right, be popular, and make it seem like easy work while others stress constantly over everything and life...this is serious ive considered suicide A few times and I need help. how do thet do it? be so well perfect (link)
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Everyone always thinks it's so easy being attractive and popular, but it's really not. People are always watching and expecting and are expecting things that are unrealistic. No one's life is perfect. I've actually attempted suicide before and trust me, it's not worth it. Things WILL get better. When you hit rock bottom, the only place you can go is up. Remember that.
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How does it work like how much do they usually pay for a clothing item? I have a lot of clothes I can't fit into anymore because I lost a lot of weight and they are all from Aeropostale. If you have ever been there, what brands did you bring, how many did you bring, and how much you got for them. Thanks in advance. (link)
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They pay HORRIBLY! I brought in brand new jeans from Abercrombie and Fitch with the tags still on them. I lost the receipt, so I couldn't bring them back. $80 jeans and they didn't even offer me $20 for them. They bought 2 skirts for Aero, 1 pair of jeans from A&F, 3 polos, and a wallet and I didn't even get $40.
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when u shave..down there...do most people shave the lips of their vagina or what..and if so..how? i've always been afraid i'd cut myself rly bad (link)
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If there is hair there, then shave there. I recommend doing it in the bath tub. After a bath, keep a little bit of water in the tub with you and shave that way. It's easier to see what you are doing and to be careful, plus you can manipulate your legs to get a better shave. Just take your time.
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14/f
i have never had sex, but i just think that this is kind of weird.
Why did people wait so long to have sex? like i know the average age is like 16, 17 nowadays, but in the olden days why was it so like freaking sacred haha? (link)
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The Christian church said it was a sin to have sex before you were married, but you could be married off as soon as you got your period. I was 10, for example. Nowadays, you will get a lot of shit if you want to get married before you are like..25.
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