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Hi my name is April =) Im 15. I dont really know what else to say about myself right now. *lol* I have an account on kiwibox.com, its Silent_Dawn if you want to look me up =)

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ok, ive never had a dog b4 so this question may sound a bit dumb, but i dont wanna take any chances...my dog is a german shepherd and shes pregnant and my mom told me to bathe her but im not sure if i should bathe her when shes pregnant...please tell me asap! thanxxx

Its okay if you bathe her when shes pregnant. Just be gentle with her =]

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Ok, here it goes

I have pale skin and dirty blonde hair, and some freckles. What are some good make up tips for me to use?

I have the same complexion. For eyeshadow either neutral browns / tans, or light pink and blue. Black mascara & black eyeliner. And for foundation Maybelline Wonder Finish nude color.

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k, im the girl who asked the ? about askin my mom to wear thongs. Do ne of u no where the sell cute ones. I jus like to be accesorized. I WONT SHOW IT!! lol. I jus would like to know where they sell some cute ones so when I go to the store, I can look and pick??? THANXS!!!!

Ive gotten mine at Rue 21. Here, they were only .99 cents. *lol*

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Ok im 14 and a 34 in like ltd 2 bras that is wicked small!!! but im fit! and i went through everything.. im going to be a freshman in a couple of days!!! what do i do!!! im small! and i cant wait for them to groww!!! and guys are going to not want to go out with me HELP!!!! and dont tell me to stuff cause that is like so obviose!!!

signed so SMALL!!

Im only a 32 A. Its okay, you'll grow more eventually. And if guys only care about your chest size, then forget about them cuz thats stupid.

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My friend smokes..and hes 13. Im trying to ask him to quit and i give him my point of view. Ive tried almost everything in the book..so dont say talk to him. i have.

Well, I dont think you can do anything more. So just let him be. Its can only be his decision if he ever decides to quit smoking.

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after summer 2003...my boyfriend broke up with me that summer...I thought we were for real...well that following year I was starting 7th grade...I started losing faith in everything and everyone...I started skippin school, gettin in fights, hating everyone, getting lower grades than usual...I thought there was no life beyond my ex boyfriend...I never actually prayed...I'd do it everyonce in a while...and then I'd always have second thoughts towards "him" cuz even when i think positive and pray nothing ever happens for better than for worse...how do I start trusting and believing "he" IS there?

I think you should try to talk to somebody that you trust about this, also maybe a preacher or a youth minister could help.

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hi im a 15 year old girl and my mom hits me a lot. i was wondering what you think i should do to get her to stop?

If she hits really hard and leaves bruises, then you should tell somebody & get out of there. If its just like a light-medium hit, talk to her about it & tell her that it bothers you whenever she does that.

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I wanna start wearing eyeliner, and in your opinion, should I wear liquid or pencil? Thanks

I definitely like pencil better. I tried liquid before and it was so messy.

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I am a 13 female and recently I just found out I am pregnant. I have no one for the baby except for my boyfriend who is the father. He is 16. My parents and me never keep in touch anymore so I live with my sister who is 18. She is never home and won't get mad if she found out I was pregnant. My boyfriend knows and is really happy. He is glad I am pregnant. But I'm not. I mean I am going to have the baby and keep it and i will love it but I am too young. But I do not know what I should do with my boyfriend. Can anyone give me advice? Please help.

I could never imagine being pregnant so young. But anyways, I dont think you should drop out of school, and you should talk to your boyfriend about how you feel, if it was me, I would most likely give up the baby for adoption. Im sorry if Im not much help.

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I know this is going to be long, so sorry. But I will rate you high even if you answer!!

Well, I have a feeling that I could be a lesbian. And it's really difficult and I know that I'm going to have to wait and see if I actually am. The thing is I feel so much more comfortable around girls, and I actually have my eye on this one girl from my school. But the thought of getting married to a girl and not a guy makes me feel sick. And I just get this feeling when I'm around guys like Wow i'm so embarassed/nervous, But then I get this feeling like ohh YAY i'm so glad im here when I'm with girls. It's just everytime I like a guy, I only like him for like a week. Is there a chance I could be lesbian, or do you think it's just a phase? Please help!!

It might just be a phase. Like if you think its gross to get married to a girl, and if you think its gross to make out/have sex with a girl, then its *probably* just a phase.

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i want to loose weight i know i need to and i want a boyfriend and ive never had one!!! ive tryed to do stuff to loose weight and ill be going strong and then ill like lash out and go food crazy!! but i weigh 235 and im only 16 and im 5'6 & 1/4 please help me i want a boyfriend soo bad i have lots of guyfriends but never a boyfriend!

Well first of all, try cutting down on the pop and the junk food. Drink lots of water. Exercise too. Like just walking/running around the block or even in your back yard can help too. Watch your calorie intake also. I hope I helped some! =]

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whats a wigger?

a wanna be nigger//a white dude trying to be black.

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Hey ok the new school year starts this monday and im scared bout making new friends cuz last year i told people i was christian (im not afraid 2 share my faith) so they all thought i was weird and stuff...and i dont cuss so instead of saying a bad word id say like crap or freak or whatever and they'd make fun of me..i still want ppl to know im christian this year but im scared i wont have friends! i know what i did wrong last year id tell people that Jesus loves them jokingly and they got scared so yea not gonna do that but even if i tell them that im a christian they might reject me..so what do i do?

Im a Christian too. I only tell people Im a Christian whenever it comes up, and all the people I meet dont reject me or anything. And most of my friends cuss, and I dont & they dont ever say anything about it. Maybe you should pray that God will help you meet somebody thats a Christian or somebody that doesnt judge you. Because you shouldnt be friends with anybody who makes fun of you for being a Christian, its their problem, not yours. I'll be praying that your situation gets better.

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does anyone know any good sites for fitness or excercise, and how to tone up ur body and how to lose alittle weight! or if u know anything that might help me! (my main target areas are the tops of my legs and my stomache) i need to know asap! please help me! ill rate high!! thnx!

toneteen.com is a good website...

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Hey every1! im new to this site! well..I'm 14 and I live in Utah. I have this white discharge that my mom said it will go away once I get my period but I have had my period for at least a year. Is this discharge normal?

Help!

Its normal. ive had my period for a year too & I still have it.

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My group of friends theres 3 of us and well my one friend (Alyssa) hangs out with both me and my other friend (Chanel).

Alyssa always talks about how she doesnt like Chanel, about shes boring and stuff to me but yet she always invites her over to her house (more than I have ever gone there and they have sleepovers together more than she ever has done with me.)

I don't even think Chanel likes me because she never talks to me always trys to keep Alyssa away from me by trying to convice her about things and never invites me over to her house, etc.

My problem is I don't think Alyssa is telling the truth about how she doesn't like Chanel and how do I confront her about it? And how can I know for sure if Chanel even likes me at all?

(I asked a simular question yestuday and got some great answers and I hope I get even more)

Thanks

I think you just should confront them both, like TinahOfCourse said, just talk to them about it.

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I am always biting my nails all the time. I have tried fake nails. But I cant have them on because I play so many sports. Is there a way I can stop? I do it even when I dont realize I am doing it. I also know its not healthy at all. Any tips will be helpful... thank you!

Maybe you could try and put nail polish on it, or nail polish remover. I heard that there was some sort of bitter tasting stuff that was made for people who bite their nails. I dont know where you could find it at. But I would try nailpolish remover on it. Hope I could help, rate me if you want!

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Im a 16 year old girl im bi sexual and I have a g/f but I like this other girl she is a really good friend and thats all I want and she knows that, but the other day she was really mean to me we were hanging out thw whole day but then when we went on the bus her and my other good friend started making fun of me for no reason i was so nice to both of them the whole day and for some reason it really hurt, and for some reason i still like her! what should I do to let them know that they hurt me and get our friendship better?

Try talking to them about it. Ask them why they did that. But, if they still continue to make fun of you, you should stop being friends with them, cuz you dont deserve to be made fun of like that. Hope I helped.

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My parents payed for me and my brother to go to a private school. It was really expensive but thank god we got insurance so some of the money will come back to us if we deside not to go. Well my brother and i ended up going to public school where it's free, the thing is that the private school won't let us get the money back unless we go there for 15 school days. I have been arguing with my parents saying that i just started to make friends at the public school, and things are really going my way. Going to the private school for 15 days will make it really hard to go back to the public school. I really dont know what to do cause it's a lot of money we will get back, yet i am really startin to fit in at the public school.

since this is long I will rate high!!!!!!!!!!

I think you should go back to the private school. It is just for 15 school days. It would be nice of you to do that for your parents too. lol. Just tell your friends you'll be back soon.

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I just started using tampons. And when i wear them they hurt like heck. Did i not have it in all the way or what? please help!

It could be that you dont have it in all the way, or they are crooked, or just plain wrong. Cuz they arent supposed to hurt. So just take it out and start over. It took me quite a while to learn out to do it right. *lol* But they are so much better than pads! Hope I could help!

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