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18/f
I just masterbated by rubbing my clit. At first i went in the vagina and did the clit at the sametime and orgasmed. Then when i just focused on the clit to orgasm a 2nd time and i coudlnt. My clit was really sore and hurt alot. It also kinda burned a bit too. But i dont know if the burning was cause i had a bit of discharge on my finger and rubbing my clit and it irritated it or something. I couldnt orgasm the 2nd time cause my clit hurt wayy to much and was kinda burning. I was not shaved and i think that the hair mayeb irritated it too? Has this happend to anyone before and is this normal. I looked afterward and my clit area was slighty bleeding and really red. Was it cause i went too hard?
Does anyone know why this happend, it has happend a few times? im a virgin if that changes anything. Is this normal?
Thanks for the advice in advance. I really appreciate it :) thanks. (link)
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I don't believe anything is wrong. Women sometimes bleed when orgasming. But i suggest mentioning this to your doctor. And being a virgin has nothing to do with this.
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Is it better to go to a high school where no one knows you and start fresh , or to go to school where everyone knows you but you have a lot of bad history with them ?
I am a freshmen now but I really don't want to go to the school I am going to because I just have a lot of drama left behind me in . A lot of the friedns I had, I don't have anymore why because I had made bad choices . . . and mostly because I would hang out with the wrong people . I want to go to a diffrent school where no one knows me to start new where I can meet new people and kinda start over . . . but how do I convince my mom . ? (link)
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Personally i would go for the fresh start.
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ok, well about 3 weeks ago me and friend thought that it would be cool if we bleached the bottom half of my hair to make it very blonde, so i have dyed black hair with bleach blonde underneath, well because my hair is so dark, we had to bleach it a few times to make it blonde. but now it looks like my hair is ruined on the bottom, it is no longer soft and it just looks horrible. i straighten the rest of my hair but the blonde just barely straightens and the ends looks just horrible and i dont know if i should just dye it back to black and if it would fix what the bleach has done or if there is some product that i can buy that will make it look a whole lot better. please help me i am freaking out because i am very afraid that i ruined my hair!! (link)
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Well you shouldn't have bleached it that many times. Im guessing you did ruin the hair that you bleached. I suggest going to your hair stylist and seeing what they can do. you may have to get the portion of hair that you bleached cut off or thinned out.
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How to begin an essay about myself? With A Qoute? (link)
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Well, what I used for my essay about myself was
"A girl with brown hair, blue eyes. Who wants to see the world, and doesn't know anything but that she wants to know everything" -shrugs- it could work
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Hi im 15f and I have been on a small trip but im outside a lot so I have to drink a lot of fluids so I havent been able to pee as much as I should and like I just feel uncomfortable it feels sore and sometimes itchy I found a bump on the clit top part last week and it seems it comes and goes. Please what should I do I dont want to confront my parents yet if its not serious but like I thought about what if it burns while I pee and then the next time it felt wierd (link)
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So you've been drinking a lot of fluids and you don't pee as much, its itchy, uncomfortable and sore.
I really believe you need to contact your doctor about it. Especially about the bump on your clit. It could be something very serious, then again it could be nothing. the burning while peeing is sorta unusual too.
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I'm always crying and my eyes are usually swollen, I've had a rough year, constantly getting bullied. My teachers just pretended that they cared what was going on in my life. My face is usually greasy + pimply, and I have a crush on a guy who will probably never like me back. I hate being 12. (link)
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About the bulling, tell your parents. Get it stopped. I know how you feel. Im 13, i was in your shoes less than a year ago. It gets better. About the pimply thing, take showers everyday. Ask your parents/guardians to buy you some acne was. Its like $4 at the store. About the crushing on the guy. That happened to me too. Except I went out with the guy, and I really did not like it. Relationships never last
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So me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now. When we first started dating he would say how he didnt deserve me and all this stuff. And here lately we have been getting in fights like everyday. He brings stuff up from the past about me when I hurt him when we werent even dating. He is 16 and I am almost 18 and im going to college in a couple months. I am starting to feel like he doesnt want to be around me because he never ask me to hang out then he gets mad when i tell him how i feel but thel he tells me not to keep things bottled up inside. When we hang out we dont really fight as much but I just dont know what to do. Everyone I have told my stories to say he is really insecure about himself. Everytime a guy talks to me he freaks and ask me why im talking to him so now if a guy even says hi to me i get worried beacause i dont mant my boyfriend getting mad. (link)
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Okay, heres the thing. A girl at 16, is about 2 years more mature than a boy at 16. If your 18, you have 4 years of maturity on him. Hes going to act childish. Hes going to get mad over stupid things. Just tell him point blank 'your being immature about this, and if things keep going the way they are, maby we shouldn't be together. Because it sure seems like you don't want me around'
Also, i wouldn't really be with him if hes that much younger. If you did possibly have sex or anything, you would go to jail. He is a minor. Your not.
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im 13 and im SUPER SCARED to wear tampons.My best friend(12yrs old) wears them and she told me it hurt the first time she tried them. im ANXIOUS to try them, Do they hurt really bad ? (link)
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They do not hurt at all. If your 12 yr old friend said it hurt. Its because she pushed it in WAY to far or she didn't put it in right. I am 13, and i've been using them since i was 10. They don't hurt if inserted properly. And you get the right size. Your mother or a relative could help you with that part (:
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So I started dating this guy, I really like him. He's best friends with my best friend's boy friend. Well I used to date this other guy and he was also best friends with my best friend's boyfriend. and it was so much fun when we would all hang out us four, because we were all friends. Well My current boyfriend gets offended easily and easily gets mad. Well his best friend said something rude to me, but that's just how we are, we kind of are just rude to one another. He called me a bitch and my boyfriend took is super serious and now he won't talk to either of them.
The other night his parents went out of town and he threw a party. Him and a bunch of his friends basically sat around and got high for three hours straight after he told me he was gonna try and quit. Well I sat there and dealt with it, because I knew if I left he'd be upset. Last night I thought I'd ask him if he wanted to go into the mountains with myself and friends to have a fire and watch the stars. He got all upset and asked "Ugh? Why? Do I have to?" He freaked out and got upset about it so I told him to just forget I even asked. This isn't the first time, he always does this when I want to do something but I always go along with it when he wants do something. I really like this guy and I don't want to have to break up with him over something so small if it is fixable. So, what should I do and or say to him? I'm not sure what to say to him, since I asked him yesterday he hasn't talked to me and I haven't tried talking to him. It really worries me since we usually send each other about ten text messages a day since we both work. But we both have work off today and it's just been bugging me. What do I do or say without getting him angry? He gets upset easily.. (link)
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Well I can't say I've been in this situation. But I've had multiple friends in this situation. The best to do, is kinda make him feel bad. I know this sounds like I'm trying to say play him. But no, its just what you have to do with touchy people.I'm not saying go on a full out episode. But what worked with my friend is she just let her emotions go. How the whole thing went really, was she asked him to go somewhere and her boyfriend gave the same response.I guess she was sitting close to him. And what really got to him to realize what he was doing was, was the way she responded to him. I guess you could say she 'meekly' said okay and scooted away from him. And hes said this allot of times and she got really down and started to cry a little. of course he asked whats wrong. Her response was something along the lines of 'Its just i seem like im not good enough, you never seem interested in anything i mention.
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ok so i am a 13 year old female and i was really upset with my mom because she kept on yelling at me and overreacting when i was trying to make cookies. so she started yelling "stop! you arent making cookies aymore put everything back!" what really annoys me is that she had to concern herself with something my sister and i were trying to do on our own. so after we were forced to put everything away, we walked downstairs and i said "god you are such a retard" to my sister and i know i shouldnt have said tht but i was sooo angry. so my sister was like "i'm telling mommy" so my mom screams at me to come upstairs so when i do, she goes "sit in that f***ing chair and study" and i said "fine i was going to do that anyway" and so i sat down and she runs over and i flinch like any normal person would and curled up into a ball and she starts hitting me and pulling my hair and she smashes her face against mine and screams at the top of her lungs over and over again "don't give me a f***ing attitude do you f***ing understand me?!!!" so i said yes and then went upstairs and started to cry because i was so scared but then i figured "why bother caring. she does this all the time! it was worse last week whe i stood up for my dad when she was being a complete b**ch and she told me to go f*ck myself and gave me the finger and drove off so why be scared now?" but the truth is, i am scared. i have no trusted adults to talk to and friends who always just say "some people have it worse than you so shut up" i have nobody to reach out and i refuse to call hotlines because they will take me away or they will trace my number if i call as anonymous. im so scared because it seems like my whole life is a mess. im struggling with my mom and my sexuality. i told my friends i thought i was bi and one of them told another girl that i did not want to know and she told a bunch of others. it feels like i can not trust anyone anymore. please help me. i just want to curl up and die. (link)
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Hey, im in the same situation.... im 13/f too. The best thing to do, is call child protective services. Or tell someone at school. I know it sounds all corny and stuff. But it really does help. This summer im moving to another relatives house. But you really do need to tell someone. But since you can't tell anyone at school since its summer. I just suggest you call 911 the next time it happens. Don't call when your mother is right in the middle of yelling at you. She'll get more pissed then. Wait till you can go up into your room. Get a phone, call 911 and tell them your mother has been hitting you and screaming at you. And that it just happened today and its been going on for ex amount of years or months. Or just call 911 right now. Its really the only option to get you out of your household. and away from your mother.
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Okay, so it's my 8th grade year at sylvan hills middle school in Atlanta,Ga. I was on the cheerleading team last year and I'm automatically on for 8th grade year since I was a cheerleader last year. I was good last year,but I don't know how to do a split.I can go down little on the floor and I'm almost to the ground but I can't go all the way. (link)
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You have to get flexible... Its not something you can 'just do' You have to work at it. Stretch your legs, and do all your normal exercises for cheer.
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Okay so I am a cheerleader and I want to kno. Which tampon works best for being a flyer. I am lookin between playtex sport and kotex. Which one is better?? And if you have one that works even better just say. Normal flow not too heavy bu some days it is a little heavy. I am 98 pounds and I am 5' 2". Thank you!!! :) (link)
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I say Kotex, but its best to try whats best for you. Just expect some leakage
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this lad and me have started hanging out and he said he loves me i dont know if i believe him because he keeps saying its a joke then says ts not. he has hugged me alot and held my hand, even kissed me on the arm but i still dont know if he loves me? (link)
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The best thing to do is ask (:
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17/f
Lately, ive been realizing that i just don't care about anything at all. I don't feel sad or anything, and i have minor emotional changes (like being angry or happy), but when it comes to "big" things, i just don't care. For example, I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. He was my first, and at the time i believed i was really in love with him. Lately, i feel indifferent about our relationship. Nothing has changed, and he's still a REALLY great guy, and I don't want to be without him, because im happy with him, but at the same time if he left, i wouldn't care. Another example, my grandmother died 2 weeks ago. the first two days, i was devastated, but after that, it doesn't affect me anymore. There are tons of other things i could tell you, but i wont go on about them. Basically, I'm sick of not caring about anything. I want to feel passionate about something, i want to care about things going on in my life, but i feel physically incapable of creating these feelings. Whats going on ? Thanks a bunch (link)
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Well, I suggest going to a therapist or going to your doctor. This in some ways is depression, but in some ways its not.
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18/f
So, I have been dating my boyfriend for three years now and we have just started having sex (as in its been a few months now). However, we have been doing everything else for about 2 years.
When i was younger, we had a live-in babysitter. It wasnt EXACTLY that he would touch anything specific, but on many occassions his hands would be technically down my pants. When I was little I thought nothing of it cause I trusted him alot. It wasnt until about grade 4 or so that I started realizing something wasn't right, especially on nights he would do the same thing when I was thought to be asleep (I would purposely turn over the stop it).
He's far away now and my family does not know. The only people that do are my boyfriend and some close friends. However, I have been reading things that traumatic experiences when younger can affect someones ability to open up I suppose sexually. Pretty much, I have never had an orgasm and its starting to upset my boyfriend.
There have been times when I feel Ive gotten really close, but it gets to the point that I will physically grab him to make him stop. I never let him pass that point and I can't help it. I almost mentally just start saying stop, even though it feels amazing, and I will make him stop.
Do you think this could do with my past? Is there anything I can do to get past this? I really just want my boyfriend to not feel bad, and he really does a great job... I just can't help but make him stop.
Any ideas? (link)
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I suggest going to a therapist. It can really help! And also talk to your boyfriend about this, im sure he'll understand (:
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Is it harmful to swallow semen?
My wife is concerned about health issues. (link)
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Swallowing semen will not hurt you unless the person who the semen comes from has an STD,STI,or any other health problems that can be transmitted through body fluid. Semen is actually full of proteins. And will not affect the digestive track.
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