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HALLA!!!!!!!!my name is KARA and im from TEXAS!!!!!!(((down south we do it right)))i play soccer ((and kick ass doin it)) i am like most girls and loooove shopping and hangin out with friends and also i am a hotguyaholic ((cant get enough of hot guys)) so ask me any thing!!!!!

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My parents wont let me have a new phone for christmas. I got one about 7 months ago but it's not very good and I really want a new one. I tried negotiating with them and asking if I could have it as a joint present from them and my grandparents but they said no. I can't afford to save up for it myself and I'm only 13 so I can't work for the cash. My parents wont let me babysit. How can I persuade them to let me have the phone? Or, how can I raise the money to get it myself? (link)
you are very lucky to have a cell phone i am 14 and still dont have one...but i know you dont want to hear the so you should say something like ok if i make straight A's then can i have a cell phone or clean the house or something along those lines

good luck and have a merry x mas


My friend has a dog that won't stop eating like when she takes the food away he growls at her a bites her .all he does is lay around by his food and if anyone walks by he bites them
what to do (link)
put big pillows on your hands grab the food and call a dog trainer

good luck


I know this is probably the wrong forum, but hey i'll ask my question anyway.
Like millions of other people, i suffer from severe depression. I've tried Zoloft which had a NASTY effect and do not wish to try it again.
Can anyone recommend a good anti-depressant, one that will actually work without the side effects?
I know most of you will reply by saying that i should visit a Doctor. But hey, i don't trust them because they don't know what they're talking about anyway. (link)
i really dont understand your problem since i dont have it but i hope you can find a solution... i dont understand why do you not want to see i doctor...you say they have no idea what they are talking about but yet you are trying to get information from random people on the internet...i hope you find a solution and please atleast try a doctor

good luck


how do u loose the flab in ur legs? besides running, because that just seems to make mine musclier (and bigger) so if you have any good leg workouts that would help~thatd be great!! (link)
i feel your pain i have huge muscular legs...


I've been doing sit-ups for about a month and a half now basically everyday ( i do 3- sets of 35). My stomach isn't getting any tighter and i still can't see any abs at all, its just kinda pudgy. Any advice on differant ways to get an amazing set of abs? thanks for your time. (link)
hold a wieght to your chest while doin sit ups so it makes it harder and look in magezines for fitness work outs they really do help

good luck


Ok. I want to lose 100 pounds or more in about 1 -3 years. Will this make me lose 100 pounds. For breakfast all I eat is cereal. Then I have gym for 4th period. Which 2/5 days I walk about a mile or more. For lunch I have a sprite and sometimes chips. Then for dinner I have whatever my parents make. Then after dinner I do 35 sit ups, 50 squats. 30 jumping jacks. Also, I do watch what I eat. I drink water most the time and sometimes Ill have a pop. I usally only have 1 pop a day. Is there anything else I should do to help me? And do you think that'll make me lose 100 pounds in 1 - 3 years? Ok thanks. (link)
just keep it up and i hope you reach your goal...make sure you drink plenty of water and increase the number of things you do as you go along likeincrease how many miles you do after a period of time...

good luck i am sure youll look


i want to lose 10 lbs in 3 months cuz on my bday i am geting money adn i want to buy clothes but i want to look cute in them i am 118 and i waer size 5 but i am not satisified.oh i am short i am like 5'3 ish.. My question for you is this: A) is that unrealistic? B) anyideas on how i could do that?

thanks a bunch (link)
first off you dont have to be a size zero to be perfect... be happy with your seld but i think if you truly work on it every day you can reach your goal...i mean ten pounds is not that hard...you should like run a mile every day and do puch ups and sit ups and maybe if you keep it up you can lose even more...

good luck


Hey guyes,
I am 5'11" tall and I weigh 165 Lbs. But still I am looking thin. I guess I need to put on weight on arms and legs. I tried doing Exercise but didnt really help. How can I do that? Please give ideas. Thanks. (link)
ok i may be a girl but i do alot of sports...
go to the weight room alot...like if you have time work out every day for atleast 30 minutes... you can put some dung bells in you room and just do like 3 sets of how many you need a day and once a week go to the gym...for your legs do squats... hope this helps

by the way i looooooooove buff guys lol

good luck


how do you kno when u need the next bra size up?
[wheneva a bend down i "fall" out, does that mean i needa new size?] (link)
yeah you definantly need a new size lol


i have this HUGE dance coming up on friday and i have this really big zit and its really red!! does anyone know a way to get rid of it by tonight because i dont want people at school to see it and my mom won't lemme buy cover up!

signed,
sad zit face sorry for the lameness (link)
ok
1. wash your face ((not with soap clogs pores))use face wash like clearasil
2.try to pop it
3. if it pops put neosporn on it
4.if it doesnt pop put tooth paste on it and leave it over night
5. if it is still there get a friend to meet youj before the dance some were and tell her to bring some concealer!!!!!

good luck


I care a lot about what my friends think of me. I was preppy, and I want to go punk. I got some cloths liek element shirt and volcom and stuff. But when my friends get mad at me they call me poser, even before I got this new stuff. They also say I hav real bitchy attitude. And this past summer a lot of family issues happened, and my friends know that and still call me a bitch. Do they really mean it when they call me a bitch and a poser? Or are they saying that just because there mad? I told them how when they say that it hurts and they dont seem to care. And me and one of my best friends just got into this big fight! She has been ignoring me and calling me bitch and poser. But were friends again.... Do you think she styll thinks that? Or was she talking out of anger? PLease dont sey get new freinds cas i dont want new ones! wat do i do? (link)
i was in the same boat i was really preppy and i started wearing like hurley and roxy and some people wre like POSER i was just like what ever and ignored them i mean if htey are gonna fight with you over a style then they are not true friends...now i wear a lil hollister a lil element and no one says any thing cause they know my mind is set and they know that it is just me... good luck


what things can i do when a friend is over?
[i am a 13 yr old girl, what are somethings i can do w/ a girl my age over?please try to give me more than movies and music.]
Thanks x0x!
P.S I RATE HIGH ;-)LoL (link)
omg soooooo many things to do with friends...take it from and expert...
1.talk about guys (((gossip)))
2.toliet paper someones house (((if there is some one that goes to you school by you grab the toliet paper and trash the yard)))
3.invite guys over(((wink wink)))
4.make food like cookies together or like a cake (((sounds cheesy but fun)))

have a great time


ok, well, i wanna do sumthin rele big for 13th birthday......wut should i do. I need sumthin rele fun, interesting, and different. It's gonna be of course, a boy/girl party too, so it has to be sumthi for everyone. Please help....thnx a bunch xoxoxox (link)
ok pool parties the best!!!!!!!!!! because hot guys in bathing suits and you get to look hot... who doesnt love a pool party


wow, a rough month. This month i went to many different partys. All of 'em either had a camp fire or movie on a couch. The problem is....everyone their had sum1 to hold onto and kiss and snuggle with except for me. WEll, right now, i like this one guy...but i don't kno how to show him i care about him. Everyone at school knows me as the girl who always says no, every guy that asks me out i said no bc/ i didn't like 'em at the time. Now, i rele like this guy but i don't kno how to make him want me. So, all boys who are 13-14, wut turns u on in a girl? (link)
i need help on this too i like a guy but i dont no what to do to make him like me and i see all my friends with their some ones and i am like I HATE BEING SINGLE good luck to you and your guy and wish me luck with mine

feel your pain


hey i went out wit this kid tom and we went out for almost 2 months and i really liked him but i broke up wit him twice and we havent gne out since n now wen i think about it i didnt realy like him like that i didnt even make out wit him it felt wrong because i saw him making out wit my friends for no reason before at parties bu that was before we went out and anyways i went out wit this kid matt after him for 3 weeks and i really eally like him like i think it might even be love i cant stop thinking about him i broke up wit him though because i had no time to see him and he understands and we still hang out and he messages me on his phone calls me flirts wit me in school anything u kno i never seen him wit a girl an maybe thats why i htink mor of him i dunno i need ur help i didnt make out wit him yet either well our tongues touched but it was for a sec he was wasted so i didnt want to do anything so help me if u can thanks i rate really good but i wanna know do i feel this way about him cause i didnt se him wit a girl b4 or becuase i really like him and should i make a move on him and if yes then wat???

thanks for reading i rate good xoxo toodles (link)
i think you two should go on a date...kinda like a test date and see how it goes like if you still really dig him or if you are like ughh after the date and if it goes well u hang out again but if the date sucks then you leave...talk to him about it and see if he understands

good luck


hey im asking this question for my friend val

my friend n her bf have been together for a year and 4 months and she lost her virginity to him wen they were together for 8 months and he lost his to her and they just broke up a month ago and he makes out wit other girls in front of her and makes her feel stupid he tells everyone hes a pimp and that he can play anyone so he went out wit like 4 girls aleady my friend still isnt over him because she loves him and loved him or atleast she thoguht she did shes a junior and hes a sophomore shes going out wit this other kid for 2 weeks already but i think shes wit him to make her ex jealous im not sure because she said hes just ok looking and he has an ok personality so i dont think she really likes him i dont feel sorry for her ex tho but people say she used her ex wen they werre goin out beause hes rich but i think it was love well anyways i dont have anything else to tel her and ifeel bad for her that she has to face him everyday if u have any advice please write back i rate good thanx toodles (link)
this is a sticky problem...i mean from reading this it just makes me mad...i would try to get my friend out of the house dating other people and just hanging out with eachother and if she keeps feeling sad about the topic then get her a big bowl of ice cream...hope this will pass over

good luck


My daugthers room is very very small is has hardwood floors and walls so its not very attractive for her 15th birthday we're redoing it we ordered her a loft bed but we'd like some ideas on how to redecorate and we'd like to know if its okay to paint on the wood walls. We want a color that will open it up thanks for your help! (link)
i dont know about painting the walls but i am 15 and i wish i had wood floors...i would say if she is in to clothes like i am you could make a runway type thing with a red carpet from her closet and it would be like really awesome...i think the loft bed i dea is really cool too




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