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hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do?
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hun, you shouldnt have a baby... your only 14 an it messes up your social life, you wont be able to go out with friends, sleepovers, an your partner wouldnt be able to so that could cause a break up an you being a single mom wait till you know that you can give that stuff up an talk to your mom about it...
x0o Shellz
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does anyone know anything i can do?..14/m!AAHHHHH i'm going crazy (link)
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lool theres alot to do... go on aim... out side with friendss.. movies. flirt wit gurlz lol
x0o Shell
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I am 18 years of age. My family and I have dreamed of moving to another country for 12 years. We finally have the opportunity to do so and we have taken it. However, my sister now has a boyfriend and is threatening to stay behind. She wants to marry him as soon as possible. She is 16 years old. This boy is 19, has quit school, has been unemployed for most of the last 3 years as he is continually fired, and is known to lie frequently. How can i make her see that she is too young for this and that he is not worth giving up her family and her future for? (link)
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well your sister is at the age where she can move out by her self an you cant really do anything to stop her, trying to do anything will make her hate you, so i think insdead trying to "mess up" her life (like shes gona think your doing) let her "mess" it up her self..
Hope it helpz!
x0o Shellz
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this is gonna sound really bad...please no body be offinded...but i fell in love w/ this black guy and we dated for 6 months then i moved in w/ my aunt and uncle and they wont let me date him.i think its the most stupid thing ive ever heard in my whole damn life. what should i do. (link)
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well... i think you should go with your heart.. u no lying aint badd if you realy love someone... my parents never found out that ive went out wit a black guy or dat i even ever had b/f!! just like pre-tend your going to your friends an make sure he's there,
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my sister is having a baby and she really loves symbolic and unique names so i was wondering if i could get some suggestions... thnx :-D (link)
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hun, i think Dominique, destiny, crystal, nichelle, Rebeca, Reananen are really good names...
hope i helped :-)
x0o Shellz
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HI MY BEST FRIEND WANTS TO BE A SINGER WHEN SHE GROWS UP AND LATELY ALL SHE HAS BEEN DOING IS SINGING AND ITS DRVING ME CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT DO I DO?????????????? (link)
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hun, its easy tell her to SHUT THE HELL UP! lol or try talking to her... you can say "you dont have to sing cause your already really good" or "(friends name lets say kelly) kelly, can you please stop singing i have a realy bad headach rite now
hope it helps
x0o shellz
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after i shave my mid-section there is ALWAYS STUBBLE and red dots.. i do the everyother day scrub but it DOESNT help! please please please give me some tips..
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hun, use a diffrent kind of rasor or like use shaving cream like the really gentel kind
hope it helps
x0o shellz
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how far do ya'll think is the best to go in a relationship of 5 months. (link)
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hun, it should go as far as you would want it. a guy goes as far as the girl will let him
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i need advice..i'm a guy..and i think girls are weird..what do i do? (link)
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well how old are you?? if your like older than 12 it mite mean your becomming gay :-/ i just hope your not HOTT of sexii lol
x0o Shellz
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lately i been having troubles with friends. and it has upsetted me pretty bad. im the type of person that things bother more then most people. its just who i am. but ever since i started having problems with my friend (its been 1 or 2 weeks now) i have totally just cut down eating. like i didnt even notice it until i realized i lost 10 pounds in this short amount of time. i cant really help it i just been kinda upset and i cant really change my situation with my friends for a while. we just have things we have to figure out and everything! i dont know what i could really do to eat more and not lose weight. i have tried to eat a little more then i have been these past couple weeks but if i do i just throw up. its like my body rejects food. what should i do? (link)
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hun, i think you should just eat really fatty foods! this happens to me all the time if i fight with a friend i get upset an hardly eat for a wile... my mom an other friends just get me really fatty foods, an another thing to help this is find new friends or just hang out with your other friends...
hope it helps!!!
x0o Shellz
if you need me u can contact me on Aim
Xobabiishellyox or Madeinbrentwood
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ok ive only had sex with 2 guys but im always doin stuff with guys. like with the guys that havnt gotten hand jobs or fingered girls, stuff like that. ive only done this like with 6 or 7 guys.. am i a slut? (link)
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hey hun, no your not considerd a slut... because you dont do these things every day... i know girls do it for fun everyday! if any one calls you that... it means there jelouse, if a guy calls you that hes just upset because you didnt do it to him an if a girl calls u a slut it means she never got dat far with a guy! so just ignore it if they call you that...
x0o Shellz
ps.. you can talk to me on aim XoBaBiiShellyoX or Madeinbrentwood :)
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how do you have fun (link)
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what kind of fun are you talking about hunnie? theres a few kinds
Fun- sexualy-making out, kissing, sex, orgys
fun- hanging out having a good time fun...
hope it helps
x0o shellz
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what does ppl mean (link)
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ppl means people
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One of my best guy friends, Rob, is being really stupid and immature for lame reasons. Every time I start liking another guy and think of maybe dating him, Rob starts getting really distant and annoyed even if I don't do anything or talk about the other guy. If I so much as have a conversation with a guy that doesn't really hang out with our group much, he starts avoiding me and giving me the silent treatment. I'm 15 and a really independent girl so I normally don't put up with this crap typically but apart from his jealousy, he's extrememly fun to hang out with. But this is getting really old. Can you give me some advice on what I can do……or if I should do anything? (link)
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ok well your friend rob, most likly likes you.. so i think you should kind of stop talking about other guyz in front of him because its getting him upset because he likes you an u dont like him.. so just try not to talk about other guyz around him... Hope it helpz!
x0o Shell
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im' a girl . i need different ways for me to pleasure myself..please help me. (link)
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ok well... if you have the shower heads that rotate in diffrent move ments an have diffrent pressurs that works you just lay there with the thing beating on down there... um, you can finger... dildos play toys... my friend says u can use like use pencils (THE ERASER GOING INTO YOU) or u know thoes nails you glue on your fingers?? well u could use them(friend suggested) i hope it helps! have fun
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There's this guy that I really like and I don't know what to do because I'm shy and don't even really talk to him but I like him soo much..Any suggestions on how to become closer to him? (link)
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i thinkyou should start to hang out wit friends that are friends with him.. this hapend to me b4 too but im not shy... lol i just started to hang out with my friends dat were his friends an we got to be madd tyt an we went out for a lil wile.. but we had to end it for cOnFeDeNtIaL reasonz, or you could talk 2 him or like ask a question in class... hope it helpz
x0o SheLlz
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I'M 14 GOING ON15 AND ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAD SEX BUT HE IS TELL PEOPLE WHAT TO DO (link)
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omg if he is telling people tell the people its a lie an like drop him like hez hott!! you dont need a lozer tellin other people your buiness!!!
xOo Shellz
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im going on holiday in august and really need some new cloths. can sum 1 tell me where to go for the cloths and wot cloths are in fashion (link)
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go on e-bay they got pretty nice stuff...but if you like the preppy type- Aropostal abrocrombi an fitch, wet seal, mandees.. if your punk- hot topic pretty much anywere non preppy... sporty- dunno really...sry.. im pretty much the preppy kkind, just go to the mall an shop till you drop :)
xOo shellz
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I used to be popular with a lot of friends but now I gave all that up about a year ago cuz the people were so stuck up. And now I have like no freinds....I dont even know if I have one and I have a boyfriend who I love soooooo much and weve been together for 7 months and I wish i had some real friends tho.... I am so fed up with the people in my school tho and I think I want to meet people outside of school I just want to make friends who I dont know yet....I want to start over.... what do i do?....should I stop being "friends" with the people Im sick of? i have been so stressed out lately and I dont know what to do about my depression! (link)
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being popular aint so great tho.. if u think you should go back into that group go ahead just dont become all snotty.. im popular but im not da snotty type im like the fun kind every one likes me but alot of the other popular girls thinks im a fag cuz all da guyz like to hang wit me so they start rumors.. its not always a free ride being popular so i think you should just like stay out of there an go to like sport camps an stuff... good luck!
xOo shellz
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i dont no what to do anymore my best friend she seems like shes not my best friend anymore.i am in 7th grade, but anyway it seems like she never wants to do anything wit me any more. HELP ME PLEASE. (link)
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maybe she dosnt want to be your friend just move on theres alot of diffrent girls.. but if your still upset i think you to should like talk on the phone with each other an talk about how your feeling
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