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Hey whats up? My name is Kelsey n I love helping people out so I decided to make one of these. Feel free to ask me ANYTHING, dont be scared..I'll try my best to answer. I've been through a lot so I have a lot of advice on things. xOx
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well i have a gyno appointment next week and i'm kind of scared because i've never been there before. my mom doesn't know that my boyfriend and I have sex, but she made a comment about going on birth control if i think me and drew are going to have sex. i think i should but yet i dont know what to do because she will automatically know that me and drew have sex or that we are thinking about it. my mom says to tell her if me and drew were ever to do it but im afraid. should i go on the pill ? what do you think ? (link)
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You should be put on tha pill if you are having sex..If your mom told you to tell her then she must not care that much, like she wont get mad at you or anything if she knos that you n your boyfriend have sex. Just be safe :) Goodluck hun. xOx
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freshman/m i like this girl, but i can't really see us goin out. my friend also likes the same girl. i asked one of my female friends how i could get to know the girl better without being too obvious and she sed to "write her a note and say hey and stuff." but don't u think if i "write her a note just sayin hey and stuff" she will think somethings goin on? i'm not sure i want to let her know that i like her just yet. is there any other way? thx
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Just go over to her n start talking to her, and get to kno her better. Who knos, something could work out :) Goodluck hun. xOx
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I'm in my early twenties. I was raped as a teenager and never told my parents. Should I ever tell them? If they knew, they might be able to understand me better (I've got some psychological issues) but I don't want to upset them - if they knew, they'd be so so sad and would probably feel like it's their fault somehow. Is it worth it to tell them, or is this something that's best to keep from them? (link)
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You should definitly tell them about it hun. That's something that they should know. I'm sorry that happened to you, thats horrible :( Goodluck. xOx
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okay..im a wee bit embarrased to ask about this...butt...i have never had a period before,and today when i went to wipe, there was a LOT of blood on the TP. so then i put on a pad, thinking i knew what was going on. then about an hour later, i went potty and there was no blood in the pad. then, i wiped again, and blood on the tp. so then i decided to put in a tampon, and about 1.5 hours later, i took it out, and there was brown stuff and blood all over it, then i put in a pad again. and i waited, and there still was no blood.
is anything wrong with me..
btw..13/f (link)
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No nothings wrong with you, you just started your period. It's like that when you first start. Goodluck hun. xOx
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What are the chances of getting pregnant if you had sex without a condom.. but he took it out before he busted?
*please don't delete this time mods, i really need some answers. i'm scared to death for my friend. (link)
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Youre friend could still get pregnant because of pre-cum. She should get a pregnancy test or go to tha doctors to make sure. And also she might wanna get tested for STDs cuz you never know.. Goodluck hun. xOx
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Alright .. so im 13 .. and i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last night .. meaning i was a virgin until last night .. well i heard your supposed to bleed your first time .. and i didnt .. it hurt like SUPER SUPER bad .. but i didnt bleed .. and i was just wondering if thats normal or not . Thanks :) (link)
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It's supposed to hurt, but you dont necessarily bleed tha first time. Everyone is different. xOx
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i am 13. but i look like im 15. i want to get my belly botton peirced, and my mom will let me. but i still think im too young to get it dun. im almost dun growing...so im not sure about getting it done or not and if it will hurt. please help.. i rate (link)
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Only get it if you want it done, If you think youre too young then dont do it. I have mine done n I love it. It only hurts for a couple seconds when its being peirced, its just a lil pinch. Just make sure you clean it well. Goodluck. xOx
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Are any of you vegetarians? If you are, what are your reasons for becoming one? (link)
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I love animals, n I think its wrong to kill them n stuff. Just tha thought of eating an animal disgusts me, so thats why im a vegetarian. Im not like other people n think it is SO wrong to eat animals n think that we should stop killing them. I'm not like that, I just can not eat meat because I kno it was once alive, lol. xOx
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has anyone here become pregnant at a young age? please tell me ur story, im 15 and 3 weeks pregnant, n i dont know if i should get an abortion. what did ur parents say and do? (link)
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Do not get an abortion. That's just wrong. If you have tha baby, n you decide that you really dont want it, n you kno that you cant support it then put it up for adoption, just dont have an abortion..thats just like killing your own kid :( I dont kno what your parents are like, but mine are supportive n help me in anyway possible, n they kno that I make my own decisions. But if youre going to keep tha baby, you need to make sure you will be able to take care of it. This means not being able to go to parties, hang out with friends often, have enough money for food, diapers n all that stuff. A baby is a big responsibility, n you need to make sure you can support it. Also, make sure tha father of tha baby will be there to help n support you n tha baby. If you ever need to talk just leave one in my inbox, n I'll be happy to help you. Goodluck. xOx
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ok me and my boyfriend have been hookin up latley....ok alot latley and why do we do it so much do u think he ever likes it or is he just using me.....???? i dont kno (link)
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Well, I dont kno what kind of relationship you two have, so I dont really kno what to say. Try talking to him about it, n asking him questions. I think he likes it, I dont think he would just be using you. Remember, dont do anything if you dont want to, or you dont like it. Goodluck hun. xOx
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hey .. i wrote a few days ago about my boyfriend that's in the hospital .. hes in intensive care for his head injury .. well, this is the update .. the doctors recently had to cut open his head and take a part of his brain out so that they can run tests and all or sumthin lyk that..(i still quite dont understand it) .. and then they will put it back in and all that ..and hes still in the drug induced coma.. but now that this has happened, all those people that said he'll be okay .... do you still feel that way?? (link)
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I still think that he will be okay. I'm still gonna pray for you, n him. I really hope he makes it hun :( Make sure to give me updates. Goodluck, n if you ever need to talk make sure you leave a message in my inbox! :) xOx
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ok I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and hes really sweet! and i like him alot but all we've done is makeout, he's tried to go down my pants but everytime he does he pulls his hand out and starts laughing so i dont know whats wrong. what should i do? (link)
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You should talk to him about it. I think he's just nervous. Goodluck hun. xOx
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when a guy just sort of stares at you with like a half smile, what is usually going through his head? (like do guys look like that when they are having a boner(lol) or what?) (link)
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lol I think he likes you...try talking to him. Goodluck. xOx
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I sometimes feel the need to have a relationship, like my self-esteem is really low because I believe I need one (like a serious one)... is this normal? what should I do? (link)
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Yeah, its normal, you're a teenager, you're ready to start having relationships. Try finding someone you like n get to kno them, n you never kno, maybe you could end up in a relationship :) You're self esteem shouldnt be really low tho, try n bring that up :) Goodluck hun. xOx
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okay there is this guy that i think is pretttty hot....ok REALLY hot, he liked me last year, but now theres only one problem, HE LIKES MY BESTFRIEND! HELPPP ME!....but she is totally wrong for him....i am alot like him.....we are bother realllly hyper...dont care about shcool....and she is really calm....and thats all she does is study...it sux bein a teenager! (link)
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Uhhh..I dont kno what to tell you cuz I dont really kno what tha question is but just try talking to tha guy, n get to kno him better if you dont already..? Just talk a lot about what you two like to do, n see what you have in common. Maybe things could work out between you two. Goodluck. xOx
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well im not sure if i can say i like him.. but i have feelings. His name is Chris and i always see him in school and he usually looks at me when we are passing eachother in the halls. theres just something about him that , i dont know hes just my type. well the other day i took my friends bus and he was on it and when i looked back at him he was looking at me like in the eyes. one of his friends sits in back of me in my study and he sits alone so should i say somethin to him? i was just going to say hi to steve but we like dont know eachother.. so do u know what i could do or say? thankss (link)
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Yes you should say something to him. Just say hi n just tell each other about yourselves, n get to kno eachother. That's what I'd do. Then maybe you two could start hanging out n then who knos what could happen. Maybe he knos if Chris likes you or not. Goodluck hun :) xOx
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well theres this guy in my class and hes like perfect for me. he doesnt do drugs .. hes really sweet .. hes kinda shy but he still talks to me .. hes like the opposite of me with personality in all ... i mean like hes shy and im not and hes really good at the guitar but the only time i ever talk to him is when we are in class or when were going to another class and i see him. hes in my lunch but he sits with other ppl that i dont know so i never go and talk to him and i really want to hang out with him or like figure out if he likes me too but im not really sure how to do all that. sorry this is so long but please help me! (link)
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Just talk to him more in class, n maybe ask him if he would like to hang out sometime, so you two can get to kno each other more :) Goodluck hun. xOx
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hey...theres this guy who I just met but he goes to the school in the town next to mine...anyway...we hit off really well bc weve only talked for about a week N I like him N he likes me...last nite I was talkin to him on the phone N he said that he was 18...I was suprised bc he doesnt really look like 18 N then he asked if I had a problem with it...I said no bc I think age doesnt matter...but Im only 14 N he was askin how my parents would feel if they knew...then today I was thinkin bout it N now Im kinda worrying...but maybe its just bc I never liked an 18 year old...I kno this isnt really a question but Id just like to hear oppinions of wut ppl think bout age differences...or if anyone has been in this situation...thanx! (link)
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Age doesnt matter. I'm 15 n my boyfriend is 18. Who cares what other people think. If you two like each other then go for it :) Goodluck hun. xOx
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hey .. my boyfriend is in the hospital rite now .. hes in intensive care .. he got into a car accident and now has a fractured skull, bleeding in the brain. the doctors have him in a drug induced coma right now..and they dont predict him to wake up for a few months, and then they will run the tests on his brain .. they are currently waiting for the swelling to go down on his brain. surgery was going to take place, but they decided to just wait for the swelling to heal on its own .. they dont expect him to wake up for several months now..but my question to you, is .. that im realllllyyy scared ... do yu think he'll be okay? hes in one of the best hospitals in jersey but still .. i need some truth..thnx .. anything yu say ill give yu a 5 .. (link)
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Im so sorry, thats horrible :( I think he will be okay. Just pray that he will make it. I'll for you n him too. Just think good thoughts. You never know what could happen. I kno this must be hard for you but if you ever wanna talk just leave a message in my inbox okay hun :) Goodluck. xOx
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Like the title says...
This is just an opinion thing. I'm curious as to what you all think. I'm turning 17 in 5 days, if it matters ^_^.
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and I still feel like I have a crush on him...
Lol I mean, I get nervous before picking up the phone and dialing his number...I get butterflies in my stomach when I see him...I hear his voice and I smile...
We're totally in love, and all that. He's told me he feels the same way, though not quite as strongly as I do (the "crush" thing, not the love thing.) Is it weird that I still have a crush on the guy I've been with for almost a year? (link)
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No its not weird. I think its cute :) It shows that you two have a good relationship n really love each other. Goodluck hun :) xOx
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