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ok well im going to a pool party tomorrow at like 1 pm and its 9 pm now. so im 5 feet tall and a wopping 93pounds- i gained some wait over the summer. and so i have some binkinis but my fat rolls over them but i also have a 2 peice that covers my fat. the people going to the party are all major popular so should i wear the bikini or the other 2peice

thanks so much in advance ill rate high for good answers and any advice is apreciated (link)
If youre self concious about your weight, I would wear the 2 peice that covers up the areas you dont want "displayed". I wouldn't worry too much about the way you look, I'm sure youre gorgeous! Also, I have a super great idea just to boost you with the popular kids! Why not put on bronzer on your face before you go, and some clear lip gloss? *conversation starter!*("omggg youre soo tan!!"). Have an awesome time!

xOxo0ox


for the first day of school im planning on wearing an aeropostale shirt with a pair of lee hipster flares.. they're just regular hipsters in a medium wash.
I've got 3 choices for shirts.
1.http://www.aeropostale.com/graphics/product_images/pAERO1-1996948v250.jpg
2.http://www.aeropostale.com/graphics/product_images/pAERO1-2103822v250.jpg
3.http://www.aeropostale.com/graphics/product_images/pAERO1-1996707v250.jpg

which one should i wear? im going into the 8th grade. 13/f (link)
hmm im thinking maybe the first or second one. i never like to make the name of a store the main thing on a tee..but those are my rules haha. the first one is muyyy cute..but take the material into consideration..it looks like you might get hot in it! the third one is classic glam...and i honestly wouldnt worry about there being "too much blue" in your outfit..i own a polo that very color and i've worn it with jeans! and it would look especially cute because youre jeans are medium wash. kk good luck youre outfits gonna be hot!



does anyone know how to find a summary of a book on sparknotes.com? (link)
here you go:

search the title of the book in the search engine on the upper right corner of the page. if youre lucky, theyll have information on your book. a bunch of links should show up. look at the tiny ones under your book title. some of them might say 'plot overview' or 'key figures' or 'themes'. these should help you!

good luck!


At Cheerleading practice we have to run like a mile and a half without stopping and if we stop every1 has to run another lap around the football field (4 laps=1mile) I get so exhausted and i cant run that much i get to the point where i cant feel my legs and i cant breathe..i dont know y though i am a skinny person and im short and very atheletic ..i just cant run for a long time!...i need help on ways to make me run better/ longer..thanks!...I rate!!!!!! (link)
heyy! well this year i had to run a LOT in gym, and here are some tips that i used. if they helped me, they should help you!

-dont start too hard. for example, start off with a light jog, then start running a little bit harder as time goes on. dont waste your energy by running as hard as you can, youll get worn out fast! keep a good pace!
-breathe in through your nose, and out through your mouth
-if you get worn out and need to slow down, just go back to a light jog..once you feel refreshed, start running a little harder again
-drink water!!
-wear light clothing. in the winter, if your breath gets shorter (cause its colder) breathe into your shirt
-remember to stretch and warm up before and after you run

always remember, dont push yourself too hard! you dont want to end up fainting or anything. if youre having trouble, talk to your coach.

also, remember that practice makes perfect! in your free time, take a light jog or run. time yourself in your neighborhood running a certain course, then time yourself again and try to beat your time. if you run in your free time, you wont feel bad if you have to stop or something.


good luck!


i am sooooo bored! any ideas for fun? (link)
Ahh I definitely know how that feels! lol! Here are some ideas..

How's the weather where you are? If it's hot, do something to cool down: go to the pool, lounge in your backyard w/ your bathing suit on, and a spray bottle! If you don't feel like being outside, bundle up and go to a nearby ice skating rink! ((winter in the summer!)) Make a smoothie! (strawberries+cranberry juice+raspberries+blender+ice!..or any other recipe you like!)Ask your parents if you can have a small get-together with a few friends. Take time to plan it using ideas from magazines or any you've seen! Wanna be a couch potato? Rent some old(er) movies and have a movie marathon! I recommend The Breakfast Club and/or Sixteen Candles..I believe they are PG-13..just in case your parents are strict about that..
If you feel like being active, take a walk! Or take a bike ride to Dairy Queen for a sweet (and cool!) summer splurge!
If you feel like being on the computer, here are some great websites:::

www.bored.com


does anyone know how to make really good smokey eyes like how they have it in the magazines and stuff? (link)
It's not too hard. Usually with smokey eyes, darker, sexier colors are used, or combinations of light and dark browns.

here are some makeup tips. (for smokey eyes follow all eyeshadow techniques, using browns/darker eyeshadows.

*put a dot of light eyeshadow on the edge of your eye (closest to the nose) this will make your eyes look rounder and bigger!

*take a dark brown or smoky color, and basically trace the line where your eyeball ends (in between the center of your eyelid and your eyebrow. when done correctly, your eyes will really be brought out. be sure that you don't do this too high up though!

*dont just stick with plain old black and brown eyeliner. try a fun, flirty color (turquoise, teal, neon/bright/shocking blues work really well!) and put just little marks underneath your eyes. this look is more fun, summery, etc.

*[For smokey eyes], I recommend dark browns, blacks, and even dark navy blue eyeliner!

*try blending--pick a color. get a darker shade and apply on eyelids. then, in center of eyelids, draw a line with a lighter shade. use a soft brush to blend the edges where these two shades meet together. ((this can also be done vice versa--lighter shade as base, darker on top))



hope i helped, and if you have any questions about what i said just ask me!


i just asked the lemon juice ?

so now i have a follow-up. . .

1. how long does it take for results?

2. how long till u can swim again or does it not matter? (link)
heyy! well think of it as like a tan for your hair, only your hair is getting lighter! it doesn't really matter how much time passes before you swim..think about it..does it matter how long after you swim when you suntan? and i mean, there's no like certain time after till you notice results; it works for some people, it doesn't for others. usually if i'm on the beach for awhile (with lemon juice in my hair) i dont really notice it getting lighter, but like later in the day i'm like, "wow i got some sun on my hair today!" lol. and finally, I usually keep my hair down when lemon juice is in it so I can try to get more sun on my entire head, but if you want to put it in a bun, it doesn't really matter.

good luck! and if you have any more questions just ask!



I recently just got braces, and I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for a few months now and we haven't kissed yet.
Well I'm afraid now that since I have braces he won't want to kiss me.
I don't know, this is just something that worries me. But should I be worried about this? (link)
Don't worry! If he really likes you, it won't matter!

Good luck!


i am just wondering why people put lemon juice in there hair. i am not bein mean but i just wanna know what it does
thanks (link)
heyy! well you know how in the summer, you're hair gets lighter? like dirty blondes may become light blonde? well when you put lemon juice in your hair it helps it to get lighter faster, bringing out your natural colored highlights. hope i helped!


sometimes i get real frustrated with my b/f. and i start to hit and throw things i feel that if i dont get my anger under control that i will hurt him one day and it will jeopardize our relationship. how can i get my anger under control? (link)
before you feel like you are going to lose control or something, take a deep breath. take a moment to realize that you may be angry at the time, but you don't want to do anything while youre angry that might hurt your relationship. i know this sounds so elementary, but "use your words". it works! good luck and i hope i helped!



i was wondering if anyone knew about some web site that could help me w/ my eye makeup. i want to use diff color eyeliner and eyeshadow to get new looks. can anyone help? (link)
i answered this in a previous question..here you go..

How do you accentuate your eyes? How do you make your eyes look bigger, but with a natural, yet stunning and exotic kind of look? Any tips or sites would be appreciated, thanks.

sure, eyeliner and mascara, but its more than just that!

*put a dot of light mascara on the edge of your eye (closest to the nose) this will make your eyes look rounder and bigger!

*take a dark brown or smoky color, and basically trace the line where your eyeball ends (in between the center of your eyelid and your eyeshadow. when done correctly, your eyes will really be brought out. be sure that you don't do this too high up though!

*dont just stick with plain old black and brown eyeliner. try a fun, flirty color (turquoise, teal, neon/bright/shocking blues work really well!) and put just little marks underneath your eyes. this look is more fun, summery, etc.

*try blending--pick a color. get a darker shade and apply on eyelids. then, in center of eyelids, draw a line with a lighter shade. use a soft brush to blend the edges where these two shades meet together. ((this can also be done vice versa--lighter shade as base, darker on top))

hope i helped..and if you have any questions, just ask!


Does anyone know some good hair products that make your hair wavy? I've tried this one product but I forgot what it was called.. it sort of helped but made my hair all dry & straw feeling. Thanks! (link)
Well, I don't know of any specific products, but I do have 'a method' -- lol!

After you get out of the shower, brush your hair out really good. Then, kind of 'tousle' your hair a little all over. Take mousse and put it all over your hair. Then continuously 'scrunch' your hair for awhile or till as wavy as you want.

This method works for certain types of hair, so if it doesn't work for you, I'm sorry! I heard that garnier fructis shampoos and conditioners work really well and give you hair body!

Good Luck


I'm kinda scared of shots, and tomorrow i have to go to the doctor to get a physical and i have to get a tetnis shot. im freaking out. do u have any tricks to help me relax or to numb the pain? i need some advice asap b/c the appointment's tomorrow morning. thx!
signed, shot-phobia (link)
I'm also afraid of shots!! They scare me like crazy! I got my tetnis shot not too long ago though, and it really wasn't that bad! For reassurance, bring a bottle of water and a book, relax yourself before it's time to get it. When you get the shot, turn your head away, focus on something else in the room: a poster, anything! Think of your favorite place in the world, such as the beach, and think of what it's like to be there. Before you know it, it'll be over! Good luck, and hope I helped!


I need help for what kind of make-up I should wear. I have light skin, blue-green eyes, and darkish blonde hair. Like what kind of eyeliner ect. Thanks! (link)
Well, I have the same features as you! I think we look good in brown eyeliner, a little bit of shimmery white eye shadow, light pink blush (high up on the cheekbone), and pink clearish gloss...i really like VitaGloss(2 O) in sheer kiwi. It's by BonneBell and you can find it at Target.

Here are some makeup tips I gave in one of my previous answers!


How do you accentuate your eyes? How do you make your eyes look bigger, but with a natural, yet stunning and exotic kind of look? Any tips or sites would be appreciated, thanks.

sure, eyeliner and mascara, but its more than just that!

*put a dot of light mascara on the edge of your eye (closest to the nose) this will make your eyes look rounder and bigger!

*take a dark brown or smoky color, and basically trace the line where your eyeball ends (in between the center of your eyelid and your eyeshadow. when done correctly, your eyes will really be brought out. be sure that you don't do this too high up though!

*dont just stick with plain old black and brown eyeliner. try a fun, flirty color (turquoise, teal, neon/bright/shocking blues work really well!) and put just little marks underneath your eyes. this look is more fun, summery, etc.

*try blending--pick a color. get a darker shade and apply on eyelids. then, in center of eyelids, draw a line with a lighter shade. use a soft brush to blend the edges where these two shades meet together. ((this can also be done vice versa--lighter shade as base, darker on top))

good luck! and if you need any more help, let me know!


Could anyone tell me of a site where I can get the song `Do it for the kids` by Velvet Revolver? (link)
well, i went to www.xanga.com/music_galore (or www.musicgalore.net) and got it for you!

http://a425.v8384d.c8384.g.vm.akamaistream.net/7/426/8384/3b858b51/mtvrdstr.download.akamai.com/8512/wmp/4/25684/29686_1_2_05


click that^^ and enjoy!


i made out with my boyfriend last night. could i be pregnant? please reply quickly because i am so worried! (link)
um..no..if ALL you did was make out..


the other day my throat was really soar and now one of my tonsils is very swollen and has lindents like a golf ball...and i have a cough that is deep and i have a lot of mucas and a runny nose... could this be strep throat? (link)
It sounds like it could possibly be strep throat. You should probably go to the doctor to find out if you actually do have it. I dont think it would be allergies because allergies usually aren't to that extent. Be sure to watch out for more symptoms of strep: headache, stomachache, and fever. If you have any of these in addition to your current symptoms, theres probably a good chance you have it.


Can anyone tell me some good websites to get funny buddy icons for AIM? I've already tried iconator.com and badassbuddy.com, and couldn't find what I was looking for.
Any icon websites would be appreciated!
I rate 5's for any nice answers!!
Thanks!! (link)
www.originalicons.com is great!!


how do i send images,icons,to my friends on aim so they can use them?
rate to 5s (link)
Okay on your IM box, there's a little icon (it's next to the 'link' icon and the icon with the smiley in the envelope). it has two little people, a blue and a red, one raising its arm. click that. then you can open the file you would like to send, or just right click on an icon, click 'copy', then paste it in the IM box. hope i helped, and if you have any more questions, just ask!


Can anyone give me some fun websites to get quizzes and internet games from? I rate high for good sites. (link)
www.bored.com is great!

if youre a girl, www.mycartoondolls.com

www.albinoblacksheep.com is hilarious
www.ebaumsworld.com

^^those two have both games and funny little skits, etc. you can watch!

hope i helped




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