okay, i used to have this crush and he knew but now he likes my close friend. i try not to get jealous but i cant help it. and i want to be a good friend....how can i stop my jealousy??? helP
i dont think anything can stop your jeslousy, i know the same thing happened to me. well does your friend like him back? because if so they will probably go out and break up which is bad and good and if not that is good cause then you will have a better chance so jsut find out if she does or not and hit me back up with the answer and ill help you out.
Tara
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hey whats i need help.... see i like this girl and all but when i asked her out she said yea sure but then i felt uncomfurtable with her i dont no why..so i broke up with her like 2 wekks after i asked her out. so then i liked her again i dont know why but i did then she said yea and i still felt weird with her... so do any of you guys/or girls have any tips for me to stay with that girl instead of just playing around with her
ok if that feeling happened again then maybe your just not meant for eachother and thats not necessarily a bad thing. because you have probably heard this before, there are plenty of other fish in the sea. ok im not telling you to give up on her though cause i know you like her, try ignoring the feeling, think to yourself is it a nervous feeling? a i dont like her feeling or what? and just make the best decision you can. good luck! hope i helped!
Tara
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i'm currently a senior in high school (counting down the last few days before graduation!) and over the last year, i've met an incredible friend. i met him last august, but over the last nine months, we have grown to have the most complex friendship i have ever had in my entire life; we immediately connected, both having similar interests in literature, music, opera, coffee, etc. he is a year younger than i am, thus when i leave for college, he will be in his last year of high school.
he is currently going through a lot of emotional pain and stress in his life. i admire him him so much for all he does; his parents have just recently separated and he takes care of his two younger sister. i see how he takes charge, takes on more responsibilities than either of his parents do. in addition, he has grown to be an extremely central part of my life.
i'm going to be a good five hours away from my friend next year. he isn't very close with many other kids in our school, or even outside of school, thus i know our separation is going to hurt him (as well as me!). i keep telling him i'm going to come back and visit, that i want to see him and i'm looking forward to seeing him in the school musical next year.. he insists that once i'm gone, i'm not going to come back; he insisted the other day he feels as though he is inferior to me (which i don't understand, considering he is extremely smart, did much better on his sats than i ever did, and has a musical gift).
i have seen how he has lost a lot of people in his life; he refrains from expressing much emotion around me because i believe he is afraid to let me in, afraid of losing me.. how can i assure him that i will keep in touch, that i will come back, that he won't lose me? i tell him constantly that he means to much to me, that he is unlike anyone i have ever met.. but i fear i tell him too often and it all sounds so fake..
wow ok that got kinda confusing but i think i got it. just keep telling him that and give him a friend kiss and stuff (if your a girl) because sometimes a kiss can say a lot. and ask him if he wants to apply for the same collage and maybe he will get selected also and you will only not have to see him for a year. make sure to email or write or talk on the phone or something like once every other day or so to make him feel like your still thinking about him. well i really hope i helped and i was touched by your story.
Tara
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heyy, i'm taller than my b/f, hes 4'11 and im 5'0.. I hate wrestling with him cuz every time I go near him he gets into the feidle position and goes 'oh crapp' I weigh 90 pounds and im 13, so im not overweight at all.. But how do I stop making my boyfriend scared of me!
most likely he is just playing around and not seriously scared of you. just tell him that it makes you annoyed and if he loves you which he most likely does then he will probably stop. i hope i helped!
Tara
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I've been going out with this guy for almost a month and I'm not sure if I really like anymore. It still feels like we're just friends, but I know he likes me a lot. How do I find out if I still like him?
Pebbles
ok here are some signs if you like a guy.
-when your around him and get nervous
-you always talk about him to your friends
-you always call him
-you get all happy if you hear he has been talking about you to his friends
-you get butterflys in your stomache when around him
if you dont get more then 1 or 2 of these signs then i dont think that u like him anymore.
hope i helped!
Tara
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Ok, I have little colorless bumps all over my thighs and I dont know how to get rid of them! Does anyone know what caused these bumps? And how do I get rid of them? and Prevent them?
ok i have those too and i know they are really annoying but i am not sure but i heard that it is like dead skin stuff so like get a wash cloth and just scrub wherever they are and see if they come off and just do that everytime u shower, it works for me, good luck!
Tara
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How do you start a conversation with the guy you like? What makes the conversation interesting? What should i talk about? And how do i keep the conversation lasting? Answer all please! i rate 5s and comment
just start it as a normal conversation. what is he into? talk about that, liek sports and stuff and say that you like those sports too or whatever he likes and it will get him interested in you knowing that there is a girl who likes the same stuff as him. i hope i helped!
Tara
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I currently attend a small private school and am going to a huge public school for high school. I'm really shy, and worried that I won't make any friends. Does anyone have any specific tips for friend-making without being annoyingly outgoing? Thanks!
just be yourself. i know everyone probably has told u that but i say that u just go up to someone who looks nice and just say hi and start a conversation, and don't follow them or anything (the annoying part) and just try to not be 2 outgoing but not 2 shy! i hope i helped!
Tara
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i want to lose about 5 - 10 pounds by summer which is a month and like 3 weeks away. How can i do this in a healthy way?
thats great that your motivated! ok so here are a couple suggestions.
1.) run every morning around your block or you could walk your dog (if u have one) everyday
2.) don't eat junkfood, and also don't eat just because it is the time that your supposed to eat, just eat when your hungrey
3.) do sit ups while watching TV and other little things like that and listen to music or watch TV so your not thinking about it if your tired.
i hope i helped! *rate me*
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i wont to have sex is it right at 15
i personally think that is kinda young, but if you feel your ready and you know that you trust the guy and he is not using you then its your choice and you can do it if you want to.
Tara
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ok two of my best freinds started going out awhile ago and i'm afraid if they break up they'l ask me to choose which one to hang out with what should i do?
i say to just wait and see what happens, but if they do make you choose then just decide who is more important and who is your real true friend.
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Okay well my friend and i want to quit the dance team we are on rite now and we want to go to a dance studio that concentrates mostly on technique and such. I think thats cool, but I also think competing would be fun. Should I quit the dance team to go to the dance studio or do both???
well it all depends how many classes your taking (for the class you want to quit) i say if your taking it more than 2 or 3 times a week then you could quit some of those classes and take 1 and take the other one you want to join also. or if you are only taking it once a week then just think if you want to concentrate more on technique or on having fun and pick. its all up to you and what you want to do but i hope i helped!
♥ Tara ♥
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okay so my me ad my boyfriend were gonna make plans for this weekend and i just found out that he might be goin to this other chics party that i wasnt invited to! and i really want him to be with me this weekend. how can i get him to hang out with me and not them?
this is just my opinion, but i think that your boyfriend should pick you over some other chick. so either talk to him and straighten it out or..he may not be the right choice for you.
Tara
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