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Hey Everyone ! Ok ths is a good one, How come when your single you have the hardest time finding anyone to go out with. But as soon as you have a BF and become Attached Everyone in the world wants to date you. How many times has this happen to you guys? LOL its agravating. But I love my man so no huge complaints here. Have a great day everyone ! xoxoxoxooxoxoxox (link)
ALWAYS......it drives me crazy!

x00o gina


Okay well my ex boyfriend and I were dating for 9 months. Then he dumped me on our 9th month annerversary. I was so depressed. And to top it all off thats the day i sent out invitations to my 13th birthday party and he was invited. But anyways. I was so upset he dumped me cuz he liked another girl. I mean he never has had a chance to go out with her so far but its close. I still really like him, but im not sure if i should tell him or not bcuz he likes this other grl that he dumped me for...((which she has a boyfriend)) he tells me this grl likes him too though. Can u do that? Like someone else when ur already going out with someone? But i guess wut im trying to ask is... should i tell him i like him? cuz if he doesnt like me wouldnt he tell all his lil friends?? idk wut to do plz help me!!! (link)
aw, you sound like you really like him. im sorry, but i dont think you should tell him. this sounds like the breakup wasnt that long ago too. when he broke up with you, he most likely didnt have feelings for you anymore..i mean he liked someone else too. sometimes liking other people happens when ur already w/ someone, its happened to me, and u just need to accept it. he still could have told his friends, his friends just mite not have told you, or they dont want to hurt you. its time to move on from him..there's so many others. i hope i helped, good luck


how do i get a pink background(or anything) on my advice site thing? like idk where to get a background or where to paste the URL for it!!!i rate high babes! thanks a bunch! (link)
ummm..if u dont know how to find a background, go to google.com, click on images, and type in anything you want (for example, u want pink, so type in pink backgrounds)..then your going to click on the pic on google, then after that click on "full image" at the top of the next page. wehn u get the full image, copy the url link.

now, go to column settings on ur advicenator panel on the home page. scroll down until you see the codes for the different colors. in the space next to where it says "page background image" ur gonna paste the url, and save it. ur pic shoud be as the background !

i hope i helped =)

x000x gina


hey i got this boyfriend and me and him have been going out for 3months now.And lately he has not been acting like him slef at all!He never keeps his promises at it seems he does not want to be around me that much.I think he might be up to something but evertime i ask him hes like nothing is going on and he lies alot well he has been lately!i am so confused everyone tells me to brake up with him because he does had not been treating me right!Please help me out!thanks~Kristen (link)
you need to straight out ask him what's going on, even if you need to corner him. find out if he still feels the same about you and ur relationship, and if he has or seems like he has doubts, u have to end it. find out the truth first, maybe you guys can make it work, but it doesnt look like he's cooperating. especially if he lies alot, you deserve an HONEST guy! i hope i helped !

x00o gina


my hair sucks. it's really thin and fine. i can blowdry it and it looks pretty and straight, then it turns wavy and frizzy. if i hairspray it, it makes it wavy too. if i straighten it, it sometimes stays but it looks reallllllly thin. my ? is: is there something that can make my hair thicker? is there something that can make it stay with out messing it up?

p.s i'm on a budget. it can't be that expensive. (link)
pantene pro v- full and thick. it shouldnt be that much. blow dry ur hair upside down too..that makes it fuller and more volume. using mousse too helps a lot. i have the same kinda hair as u, except mine is extremely thick, but im all frizzy and wavy alot too..thank god for hair straightners


ok well me and my whole family always fight and they always blame me for everything and they make me feel like they dont love me and everything and i started to think does my family love me? and i think they dont so now i got the feeling that i shouldnt be living becuz i have no one that loves me so i think i should just kill myself i've always solved my problems by cutting myself becuz i think it makes the pain go away but now im starting to think i should kill myself or something what should i do i really need some help and quick becuz i might do osmething i might regret later on (link)
DO NOT KILL YOURSELF.. PLEASE! and you shouldnt be cutting yourself either! your not the problem, trust me. it seems ur family just has some weird way of dealing w/ fights..believe me! killing yourself is something that you would regret on.. talk to your friends, even your family if you want, about how u feel. or go to some counseling..or dial like 1800-SUICIDE.. please listen to me .. i hope i helped =)

x00o gina


Does neone know ne good places to get backgrounds at and then how you put them on ur advice column? If you do can you please tell me thanks
BaBii_xO_aBbii (link)
you can just go to www.google.com, go to Images..n if theres a certain picture u want (i have the ocean on mine) then just type it in the box n ull get alot of different picx of what u typed in .. hope i helped!


x00o gina


Hey gina I have a Question obviously. What do you find attractive in a guy... personality (if so which type) fashion agian which style. If you could clarify this alil for me I would be most appreciative. Thanks alot Kenny.. (link)

hmm.. =) although EVERYONE loves all the looks of guys, i concentrate most on their eyes and smile, a real nice smile just drives me crazy! i love a guy who is sensitive, but VERY outgoing. they have to be talkative..or have something to talk about, i cant stand the quiet ones. he needs to be confident, but not a big ego. he needs to be really into something, like a sport or w/e.. --my boyfriend plays guitar =) idk, those really romantic very sweet guys, who are honest and definetly make an effort in the relationship w/ you. umm, my 2 favorite styles in guys: the preppy boy, n the surfer dude =) i love the very clean looking, normal or button down shirts..with jeans or khaki/shorts, and a CHAIN..i think every guy looks 100% hotter w/ a chain around his neck.
i think thats all what i like in a guy , hope i helped!


x00o gina


its so wierd...whenever i like a guy, i sooner or later get the feeling he likes me too. i've been right a couple of times, but i just think its wierd. does anyone else feel this way? i mean...if i do make this assumption, and i am wrong, i feel so hurt. this may sound stupid, but is there anything i can do about it?

please answer....i always rate well :)

-britski- (link)

that feeling comes along often. it might be a little thing called hope


What do i do when i hate my parents???
I have a question about what i should do in a very odd situation. I am moving from Cali to colorado springs with my stepdad and mom whom i both hate for many different reasons. I will be away from my friends and my dad. i will miss my dad but he is not in a situation where i can live with him but if worse comes to worse should i emancipate myself. .if not what should i try to do to make the situation better with no sucking up involved cuz that just is not in my personality. (link)

its not odd, i was just in a similar situation! but with my dad and his g/f.. you really have to make the best of your trip; try not to make a scene..be on ur 'best daughter' behavior..yes i know its hard; but surpirsed from how ur acting..ur mom n her b/f may tone down on u..n u could have a great vacation. i did =) i hope i helped!


xo0o gina


I need help. I use to be bestfriends with this girl. We hung out almost every single day all the time last year and most of this year. Now that summer has come she works till 10 on the weekdays and on the weekends she goes away, I'm not allowed to go away with her from ym parents. Next yera we are goin away to different colleges not even close to each other. She always tries to make me feel bad for hanging out with my boyfriend and not her but she works till 10 everyday. What should I do? (link)

there's not much u can do. if you ask..maybe she would start getting a day off every once in a while. or, when she gets off at ten.. get some other friends and her n go to the movies or something..its not too late for that! dont waste ur summer worrying about this.. u can hang out with ur bf n other friends while shes at work..does she want u to be a hermit? have fun! its ur summer! i hoped i helped =)


i want to paint my room black, and then splat paint it with bright pink. i thin kit would look awsome!!it would really reflect my wild, punk personality..im sure it would. but my mom says she will never paint my room black. i get soooooo pissed off!!!! nop matter what i do she always says no. i want the theme to be pink and black no matter what. please tell me what to do or how to get my mom to consider it!!!

please help!!

-britski- (link)

i think that sounds really cool! great idea to show off ur personality. ur mom; i say thats what u tell her..its who you are, n she has to accept that. whats her reason for saying no to this? try and compromise if she still wont give in. (my mom did the same exact thing to my room, i know how u feel!) maybe get half the color u want on ur walls..n the other part when shes ready. its your room after all =)i hope i helped!


x00o gina


what do i do about a controlling boyfriend? my boyfriend is allowed to mess around and talk to girls but im not allowed to talk to guys! i found this so unfair and everyone thinks he has total control over me because when we break up, and he asks me back out, i always say yes. is it because i'm weak or i'm just under his little 'spell'? (link)

its both. u need to stand up for yourself..no matter WHO is trying to controll you! tell him straight out how you feel; even if he has to deal with it. u seem to be under a spell--break away from it! this guy is either a control freak or desperatly, constantly worries and cares TOO much about you. why do you say yes? you have every right to talk to who you want in ur life, dont let this guy take that away from you. either talk to him or set urself free.


14/F ok so i like this guy alot and i have for a while and one of my friends knew about and said she would help me...so she told him i liked him and he told me things couldnt work out so then the next day i was with my friend and the kid i like, and she was all over him! i didn't want to say anything then, but shouldn't i have a right to be mad? oh and to p it all off, he likes her too now!!! ugh i just wish there were cooler guys around here... (link)

yeah that was really low of ur friend; n u have every right to be mad. i would talk to her about it calmly..n see where that goes. find out why she did that exactly..

x00o gina


hi there a little problem i have with getting no chickz but there ppl that i no that r younger then me that like me and i cant doing any think and there 1 that i think i might like to


from ? (link)

can u think of anything u mite be doing wrong w/ the girls ur age? try a different approach when u talk to them tomorrow. plus there shouldnt be a problem w/ u dating younger people..love has no age limit - remmeber that..unless the younger girl..is ALOT younger..that could be a legal matter. the one you like right now; try ur new apporach and go for her! hope i helped ;)


x00o gina


ok...i admit it,i kinda have a reputation fer being kinda slutty...but i dont do stuff...
even tho i'm kinda slutty...all these guyz expect stuff frum me n they obsess ovr me n it bugs me whenevr they do that(some try to touch me)...how do i get them 2 stop being perves and get them to lyk me for who i am??? (link)

eh well; how are you slutty tho? to get the guys too like you for who u are..just be yourself; drop ur reputation..maybe if the way u dress is the problem..maybe just cover urself up a little..n if ur hanging out w/ a guy just talk to him about ur interests and his life; instead of letting him go to the subject of making out n sex. hope i helped =)

x00o gina


I think i am very fat. I am 5'1 and i weight 110 pounds..all my friends are tall and they weigh more than me but are skinnier than me. They are all 13 and i am still 12. Sometimes I feel like I am the fattest 12 yr old in the world. Do you think there is a way I could slim up my body? If so could you tell me how? I would really appreciate it. (link)
omg your not fat; not at all.. thats the normal weight!! you seriously dont have to; but if ur really begging for it; just trying jogging around your neighborhood; n just eat healthier.. something a lot more laid back to do is just ride your bike around the neighborhood for like a half hour; thats all i do!




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