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What do i do when i hate my parents???
What do i do when i hate my parents???
I have a question about what i should do in a very odd situation. I am moving from Cali to colorado springs with my stepdad and mom whom i both hate for many different reasons. I will be away from my friends and my dad. i will miss my dad but he is not in a situation where i can live with him but if worse comes to worse should i emancipate myself. .if not what should i try to do to make the situation better with no sucking up involved cuz that just is not in my personality.
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talk to your parents, if you really cant live with your dad, then live with your mom, but if you feel like you would like to emancipate yourself, its hard, but if I were you i would do it where all my friends are, so its really upto you, but if you really cant stay with either set of parents, maybe find a different relative? Im sorry if I havent been much help and I really hope that things work out for you because I know that its hard. -Anqel
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Explain to your parents what you're going through. Tell them how hard its going to be for you... and ask them to please understand. Communication is the best way to express your feelings.. and you have got to do it sooner or later. Hating them wont help when theyre the only ones you'll know in Colorado Springs. Once there, it'll suck for a long time but eventually you'll make friends and unfortunately have to adapt. Keep in close touch with your other friends... keep talking online and when your old enough to live where you want to you can one day go back and be happy. Im sure you'll find some happiness eventually in colorado.. you cant be miserable forever and ever.
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its not odd, i was just in a similar situation! but with my dad and his g/f.. you really have to make the best of your trip; try not to make a scene..be on ur 'best daughter' behavior..yes i know its hard; but surpirsed from how ur acting..ur mom n her b/f may tone down on u..n u could have a great vacation. i did =) i hope i helped!
xo0o gina <3
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Hey ive went through the same thing that you are going through and now i live with my boyfriend.The only thing I can tell you is that if you arent going to be happy moving to a new place (most ppl arent) then i would tell ur mom and ur stepdad that u dont wanna go-tell them like an adult and dont get mad when they dont agree..Tell them that u want to emancipate yourself because u have very strong feelings towards them and u dont want to live with them-maybe u could live with a friend for a while..they prob wont change there mind into moving b.c u want them too but if u stick to it and dont take no for an answer they might let u stay wit a friend or something-u dont have to suck up because that would be a fake side to ur personality i mean after all they are ur parents so tell ur mom that u dont wanna move and come up with key points i mean arguable points why u dont want to go and then tell her and maybe she will listen...Also try to help your dad out i dont know the situation but if its money then maybe u can get a job..hope i help let me know whats going on...
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emancipation would be tricky.. and probably expensive too.i see young celebrities doing that all the time, but its not too common-place. if you are put in that situation, i think you should go and live in california, and get a part time job, so you can have money to travel back home to see your friends and dad. and i completely understand the hatred towards parents, so sucking up is not nessicary if you can make the best out of a bad situation until you are 18.
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