hey i got this boyfriend and me and him have been going out for 3months now.And lately he has not been acting like him slef at all!He never keeps his promises at it seems he does not want to be around me that much.I think he might be up to something but evertime i ask him hes like nothing is going on and he lies alot well he has been lately!i am so confused everyone tells me to brake up with him because he does had not been treating me right!Please help me out!thanks~Kristen
no_commitment_69 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:14 pm: im sry to say this but the same thing happened to me and i found out he was cheating on me....but maybe in ur case it could be somethin else.......like maybe he's afraid of things u might want to do with him like (sex).....i dint kno i need more info to help u....
SammyPie answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 10:33 am: First of all, lying is lying. You wrote that he has been lying a lot to you lately. How are you supposed to build a better relationship on lied? You don't trust him right now, and you have every right now to. Also, do you ask him online, on the phone, or in person if he has been cheating on you? I suggest you sit down and look him in the eyes when you ask him. That is the best way to tell if he is lying. If you suspect that he is lying when he says "No" then I believe that you need to figure out for yourself what you need to do. I personally could not stay with someone who I found out was cheating on my and lying straight to my face, because I feel a relationship should always be based on trust.
Good luck. I hope everything goes well, and that you're suspicions ARE NOT true. I also hope that your boyfriend decides to straighten up before he loses you. [ SammyPie's advice column | Ask SammyPie A Question ]
x0inVisiBlekiSs0x answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 8:21 am: you need to straight out ask him what's going on, even if you need to corner him. find out if he still feels the same about you and ur relationship, and if he has or seems like he has doubts, u have to end it. find out the truth first, maybe you guys can make it work, but it doesnt look like he's cooperating. especially if he lies alot, you deserve an HONEST guy! i hope i helped !
LEFTalone answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 7:08 am: first you should talk to him and tell him you know something is up. then if he doesnt wise up and start acting right, dump him. you dont deserve this. also if he is acting weird he could be cheating on you, doing drugs or something behind your back and thats not what a boyfriend is there for. tell me how things work out.
much <3.
--later.! [ LEFTalone's advice column | Ask LEFTalone A Question ]
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