Member Since: October 21, 2005
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Last Update: October 22, 2005
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Hey, i kind of like my best friends boyfriend,...but the thing is,...i hooked them up,...it's all to strange for me and i dont know what to do. he's nice, funny and cute and everything....i got myself into something big, i know and her mom is like real sick and she's gonna die soon which makes the drama so less appealing (link)
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if you like your bestfriend boyfriend you should have went with him,just find you somebody else then,and if her mother is gonna die soon then that's gonna kill her too find out that her friend like's her bf and her mother is gonna die.
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okay this is kind of embarassing, and it may seem like i`m worrying over nothing .. but i need help in figuring this out.
All my life i`ve been scared of being alone with guys for some reason.. and ive always had this HUGE fear of getting raped by guys and stuff...like i get petrified if i have to be alone in a car with a man i don't know.. and im also terrified of getting locked into rooms which is also kind of weird..
another thing, when i was ELEVEN years old, i had a girl doctor, and all she did was stick her hands up my shirt for a physical, and i mean it was no big deal, but i started BALLING MY EYES OUT, saying "you didnt ask me first!" and stuff, and i mean i could understand myself just getting a little pissed, but i was crying and everything, and i felt so violated and used, and i dont know why because it wasnt a big deal at all!
I`ve always questioned myself like if i was raped or touched in my past somehow.. but it never added up ,i mean my mom wouldnt ever do that, and my dad is AWESOME and he`s really protective so it wasnt him, and i have no siblings...so i just brushed it off...its so weird though like i have this weird obsessive feeling inside me that something happened to me as a kid, which is why i react to things the way i do now..
Well, recently my dad said to me "Did anything weird to you happend when you were at Montessory Pre-school ?" and i said "I dont remember, why?" and he said "Because a long time ago on the news when you were 4 we had to take you out of that school, they closed it because something weird was going on there..like someone was doing sexual things to the kids" and when he said that i just thought to myself "holy shit, i wonder if thats why im like this.. i wonder if that happened to me" but i just asked him "well what else happened" and he said "they dont really know, they just closed and the woman went out of town.. something weird was going on in there though, and they all of a sudden closed"
So.. I was just thinking to myself.. is there a possiblity that maybe i was one of the kids who got touched in weird ways? and even though i dont remember it..could it still be affecting my life now? like if something like that happens to you as a child.. can you conciously feel it sort-of even if you dont remember it?
please help me, i feel so confused. (link)
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here's some more advice talk more to your parents about the situatuions and tell them what's on your mind
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okay so im going to hang out with my crush and just incase it gets a little far..um do guys like it shaved "down there"? please help fast!! and what are good ways to shave so like i dont get red bumps (link)
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yes guys like it shave down there but don't shave it off all the way trim it around the edges make it look and smell fresh so if he go's down on you,second how to keep from getting bumps is to use hair remover.holla back!!!
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anywayz i hate my hair its always frizzy. i wanna straighten it but its still gets frizzy. does anyone know a way for me to get rid of this frizzy hair without my hair looking nasty and feeling hard like hair spray. thanks!!! (link)
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to get it staright use a flat iron it work best
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Well i have been having dreams about sex with guys my age. I am 13f. And all of a sudden i am having urgest to do it.
Is that normal
Ill' rate high! (link)
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yes this is normal your getting at the age where your starting to date and conversate with boys,I don't think you should do anything right now.hope I helped holla!!!
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im am 13 i havent gotten im period and im afraid it will happen at the most embarrassing time like in class or something. i went to the doctor and she said that she etimated it would happen when im 17 but im scared that it will start and i wont knwo and ill be really embarrased :-( (link)
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I went throw the same thing when I was young don't be scared just bring a pad with you to school and always check yourself if your feeling kinda wet.HOPE I can help!!holla back!
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I need some help from you woman only please. Some nights may husband is in the mood and we could go for a long time and other nights he just pushes me away and tells me that he's not in the mood. But when he's in the mood I better be. On fridays nights he'll stay out until 2:00am and that. I have asked him he's cheating and he tells me no.Should I believe him that he's not
cheating on me and let it go.
Hope someone can help. (link)
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look don't always jump to conclusions and say his cheating but it sounds like he just need some him time I read a book like this maybe your husband just want to relax and do him but if he's trying to have some he time for to long HIS CHEATING.HOLLA BACK
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how do you know for sure you are ready to have sex? (link)
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This is a good question lucky you have winter12 to answer it,see sometimes in life thing don't come only because you want them too,what i'm saying is that your gonna find that right boy out there for you it's gonna happen before you can remember and your now gonna ever regret it.holla back
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sorry it's so long, and please look at this in an open-minded manner, and i'm not looking for answers that say you're waiting for marriage so i'm a slut. i'll rate high if you tried, and low if you're ignorant.
my ex-boyfriend broke up in august and aren't dating exclusively, but we still hook-up from time to time. hooking up meaning having sex. we had sex today, and then i went to the movies with one of my close guy friends. we went back to my guy friend's house and we had sex. i really want to forget it ever happened and not tell anybody, though. the guy promised he wouldn't tell, and i trust him. the thing is, if it gets out somehow, and my ex-boyfriend finds out, he'll hate me. should i tell him or just let it slide? by the way, i'm on birth control and i only have sex with a condom. (link)
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Girl you can talk to winter12 about it I understand your situation girl but you know what ever one has to have there needs and it was your day you wanted pleasure from 2guys don't worry about it act like it never happen like they say, what you don't know won't hurt.holla back!!
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i really like one of my really good guy friends. He doesn't know. But im wondering if he could like me too or if he's just being weird because lately he's been teasing me a lot w/ his friends and he tells me he's always kidding and everything but i still cant figure out why they do it. Seems like they're looking for attention but what if they really don't like me ?? I thought he was still my friend! (link)
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girl he just want your attention and for you to notice him he don't no how to tell you how he feel so this is how he showing you your a pretty nice girl i don't see why he would'nt like you
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ok yall i need some help.ok the thing is that i like this guy but he is in the 6th grade and im in the 8th.he is as tall as me not imature so--- sweet cute and possibly likes me to.i think he does cause he always flirts with me but no one else.i dont no if i should or not. i think he is 12 or 11 and im 13.which isnt that bad .but the thing is if we do become bf and gf i dont want ppl thinkin i was just desprate or any thing like that.cause im not i just dont have alot of self confidence with askin guys.so idk wat i should do.plz help i rate high. (link)
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i'm gonna tell you the truth don't do it to yourself don't short yourself for some young child girl there gonna really think your lil girl with a lilboy please he might seem older but he still have that child mind.
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I want to have a really fun birthday party this year at my house. I have a pool table and a large backyard. I am turning 14 years old and my birthday is around december 15th. Depending on the weather, mostly all of the party has to be inside because of the cold. I am probably inviting around 30 people. What are some good ideas of what to do such as games, food, decorations and activities? Or if not at my house, where would be another great place to have a party for my age? Please help. (link)
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have a house party if you don't wanna spend that much money as for entertanment you can have maybe spend the bottle, jamming music,and decorations design it up girl!!! holla back girl
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Who sings the song Angel... it kinda goes like...to me your like an angel someone who was sent to me from the heavens above to make everything alright... and where can i find the lyrics cause i tried some sites like letssingit.com and typing in the name or lyrics but i cant find it.... thanks mucho!
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girl go on lyrics.com and type in the name
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in study hall monday i am goign to tell the kid i like that i like him..how exactly should i do it?
in a note?
out loud?
what should i say either way?
i need details!
thanks. =). (link)
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girl iv'e been in a sitauation just like this one girl get pretty for him and believe that you can do it ,go up to him tell him that you like him and he will see the toughness in you and love you!!!
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at my school im not socially accepted and i dont no why this is my second year here and im not trying to be cocky but im really pretty, and im nice, but im not socially accepted for some reason. ps i go to a private school. But anyway my ex-best frieend goes to the same school i do and she thinks shes miss all taht or w.e and there are about 16/40 kids in my calss that i get along fine with its jsut the people who don't like me always hang out with those people i get along with. there is this one person who always picks on me saying that im annoying when to tell you the truth im really not. I have had a really hard life so far, and i don't want to see a therapist or anything, but today after school i was crying because im not socailly accepted and i really like the school and all, but some of the kids there are so mean to me. also does neone know some good combacks/stand up for yourself or nething
ps i would switch schools but i cant
ps there are only 2 other schools around me (one is a sorta druggie school, the other school i dont no)
ps what should i say to the person who keeps on saying omg your annoying get the hell out of here, etc
please help me i willl rate
please answer all my questions thats in my story and the ps ones (link)
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girl i went throw the same thing at school girl you know what you do, be your own person start your own group like I did forget the rest of the haters they hating on you girl do you, be you get you about a couple of good friends and throw a big party to make everyone wanna be you girl!! and who ever is telling you to get the hell out of there face girl stand up 4 yo self
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I know this guy. lets call him...joe
we used to be friends, put we*re not close anymore .
tonite he*s going to try drugs
i am completely against this.
what can say to him that can make him change his mind adout trying them?
PLEASE
helppppp!!!!!!!! (link)
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girl since you need a answer i'm the one girl call him up and tell him that his gonna kill himself in the long run and tell him about how life is bigger then that
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ok well I havent talked to a friend of mine for a VERY long time until a couple of days ago, and I had feelings for him before and I think I still do cause he makes me laugh he cheers me up and everything, but I am talking to another guy and I dont know what to do......how do I let the guy im talking to know that I kinda still like someone from my past??? (link)
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ok!just let your boyfriend know how you feel about your friend don't worry about how your boyfriend will react sometimes you have to follow your heart.
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i like this one guy named tyler. ive never actually really talked to him but i think he is really cute and i really want to get to know him. i have 2 classes with tyler and i dont sit near him in any of them. any ideas on how to talk to him without going too far out of my way?? thanx (link)
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well when you see him after class sometime you make your presents known go up to him when you fell it's the right time and start up a conversation like'' yeah'' don't you have 2 classes with me my name is......
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