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Q: theres a song that goes like :

merry christmas i could care less..

who sings it and what is the name of the song?
Fall out boy, yule shoot your eye out.
you have great taste in songs. lol.

Q: theres a song that goes like:

yea mamma this surely is a dream..

who sings it and what is it called?
sex and candy by Marcy Playground.
its a great song!

Q: My friend knows I like this guy and that i hooked up with (she too hooked up with another boy) but the other night she was flirting with the boy I like and have hooked up with! Isnt this against girl code or something? She was standing on a table while he was laying face first on the table trying to act like a stripper..then she started to smack his ass..my other friend who knows i like the boy also joined in..what do i make out of this? do i talk to her or let it go? we never fight really..
yea she is defidentally being a poo. thats the word for it, poo. she probably doesn't mean to flirt like that becsue a lot of girls are like that or she is tying to get him to like her even though she doesn't like him. Its kind of hard to understand, but I do that. I sometimes try to get my firends crushes to like me so I feel better about myself and i feel more superior than my friends.
I say just talk to your friend about it and tell her that it is hurting your feelings and shit like that. act innocent so she feels bad, dont get all bitchy with her or else she will get all mad at you and flirt with your guy even more. good luck!

Q: hello, im a guy and im 14. i have always been kind of quiet in school and stuff. i was just wondering, what should i talk about w/ girls? like i don't know what to say in person except like hi, how are you. and on line i just say hey, whats up, and then the conversation kind of goes quiet, i need real help.
compliment girls, they love it. also if you dont feel confortable with that yet, ask them about homework, what they got on their math test and basicall talk about school. I know it's cheasy, but it works. ask how their summer went and what they did. be interested in what they like and bring up movies our songs you like. dont forget to look into their eyes when you talk to them!

Q: Kissing my new boyfriend is kind of awkward. It's like, when we kiss, it feels more robotic then passionate. For example, our mouths just move in the same rhythm. I suppose this is due to lack of experience but I'm not sure. Does anyone know how I can break this habbit?

Thanks,
Sarah
well, it is probably due to inexperience. try running you fingers through his hair for a passionate kiss and for a fun kiss loosly hang your arms around his neck and smile when you pull away and maybe giggle. to make the kisses not accward you have to make sure you are confotable adn he is as well.llook himin the eyes before you kiss to make him relize you are about to kiss him and it not going to be the same from any other kiss.

The sucky thing is it is really his falt because kissing is like dancing, the man leads. So he should be lighly restng his hand on your jaw or on your butt. HE should kind of controle the kiss.
you should feel the intensity inside of you. Are you aure you like hissing him? because it might be you dont really want to wich is your lack of intensity.
hope i could help! good luck!

Q: I am a dancer and when im home alone... i dance lol.. what are some good fast pace songs that are good to dance to?
oldie rock songs are really fn to dance to like livin' on a prayer by bon jovie and also walking on sunshine. Also a real pic-me-up song is Amazing by Josh kelly. hope i could help!!! have fun shkin your booty! haha

Q: ok so i know you guys get this a lot..but i really need specific details on how to tell if a guy likes you..any help would be appriciated(sp?)

thnx in advance!:)
also when you talk to him look into his eyes. when people see something pleaseing their puples get wider. So if they like you their puples will almost pulsate. haha. ummm... also when you are sitting next to them on a bench or something they try to though your legs with theirs.
somethimes they try to ignor you when you are in a group but when you are online they talk to you non stop adn make up random topics to talk about. Some times they even repeat themselves. hope i could help!!

Q: well i am 13 and STILL havent gotten my period and well... i have tons of discharge and cramps like ALMOST EVERYDAY! could i be gettin my period soon? please help
hey, its ok if you dont have you period yet. some warning sgns are: you boobs hurting, and cramps. also ask youself how much you weigh becaus e sometimes when you are ober about 85 pound you are more likely to get your period. also look at you bust size, if they are big, expect your period soon. discharg also means your growing up. Personally i had discharg for a year and a half, then i got my period.
good luck hum, hope i could help. ( oh yea, and if you get your period and need to use tampons for the summer, i highly recomend Pearl. They saved my life! haha.)

Q: ok i have a big jewish nose lol brown eyes light brown hair and a long face and not really an upper lip a tan and a slim bathing suit body. should i wear colored contacts what color. should i dye my hair blond. also what styles should i do my hair and clothes and makeup
I know some 1 who sounds just like you and she dresses amazing, so i no wat i'm talkin about. haha. ok, no, not blond, more like brown w/ lighter highlights (not blond). Also scrunch your hair from time to time for veriety. keep your eyes the same, beautiful brown! clothing wise, short abercrombie skirts, tight tops. preppy, giry. anything abercrombie, von dutch, holster, jucy, ect. make up- light coat of black, purple, or blue eyeliner (it matters what colors you are wearing that day, and if you dono what to pick, always go with the back) mascara, simery eye shadow and a light lip gloss or lip balm (dont bring too much attention to you mouth) maybe a light coat of rosy blush?

hope i could help, feel free to ask me for more detail!

Q: hi i was wondering whats the age that u should be giving gys blow jobs like im 13 so am i ready?
~Jess~
do you want to suck a guys dick?
nah, wait until your ready and when every 1 else is doing it so you arnt considered a slut. maybe 16? that sound safe. just watch out for STD's! you would get in big trouble w/ your parents if you get them on your mouth, haha.

Q: O.K. I'm not trying to be nasty or anything but my boob is like really sore and it has been sore for like 2 days now. What should I do?
well, there is really no cure for it, but i know why its hurting. ether you are getting your period soon, or your boobs r growing. yay for u! mine arnt growing damn it! ok well. good luck w/ you sore boobies! lol.

Q: At the moment, I am studying for my math exam. my teacher was nice enough to give us a study guide to fill out. I have a few things that I dont understand:
What is 39% of 500?
What percent of 64 is 3.2?
60% of 85 is what number?
What percent of 85 is 1.7?
What number is 150% of 26?
What i 40% of 400?

Not only do I not understand them, I dont know how to do them! So could someone PLEASE EXPLAIN ot me how to do them?
yay math! (i have finals tomorrow)
make a preportion:

39%= 39/100, right? so 39/100 =X/500 Now cross multiply. 100X=(39)(500) so 100X=19500. Now devide each side by 100 to get the variable(X) alone. so X=195.

X% OF 64 = 3.2
Ok a little different, but same idea.
X/64= 3.2/100. now cross multiply. (64)(3.2)= 100X
204.8=100X. now divide by 100 so X= 2.048

hope i could help, try doing the others for practice and contact me if you have any more questions

Q: my mom wants to watcha movie rent one that is well sooooooooo what should i get i mean i have no idea.. what are some new movies GOOD NEW! please help fast hurry lol thanks!
The notebook. It will have u both laughing and crying! its a very touching story. You mom will be able to relate and so will you.

Q: well this kinda of goes along with the first question i asked..anyways im really super shy and my bf is like nothing close to it and he like always wants me to be doing stuff with him especially kissing but like i think thats most of my problem im so shy and im like afraid of being a bad kisser ..how can i be more out there and just go for it..HELP me please..any advice will give ideas anyways

shy girl
Everyone gets shy around the person they like, its thoes stupid hormones kicking in again! Just think about it, he is a person too. Don't you like when guys compliment you, talk to you, pay you any attention? Well, you have heared of the cleched tearm, "treat others how you would like to be treated", right? Well, finally use that quote.

To be outgoing, you first need to be secure with yourself. The best way to do that is to love yourself, if you do, so will everyone else.

As for the kissing part, practice on the back of your had (its kind of like reading the summary of the book before you acctually read it)And don't worry, you will know what to do when the time comes! Good luck!

Q: If words are not enough...How do you show someone you love them?? Ideas please
If you really want to show someone you love them, dont juist shag them because you can shag anyone and no love them. Instead learn a love song on a guitar or something (typicaly a song she/he likes) and sing and play the guitar (or any other instrument for that metter) to them. Sure, it might be a bit accward, but it does say "I Love You."

Hope I could help!

Q: ok, my parents are way protective! i'm 13 and i have to be home by dark when all my other friends can stay out til 11:00 or even later! what can i do?
Talk to your parents about this; compromise with them. Let them meet your friends and show them that you arnt going to ge into any trouble. Try to get them to trust you. Once you get their trust, you can pretty much do whatever. Tell them exactly where you're going and what time you will be back. Call them rqndomly when you're out letting them know you're ok.

Protective parents are a pain in the ass, but remember they are doing what they think if best for you. Try to realte to them, if they were party animals, bring that up. I have it easy because my dad was a big partier and he knows i wont to anything too crazy.

Q: I was just putting a tampon in for the first time. I was supposed to go swimming today but I just got it. It's light for now. I followed the directions on the box but it hurt sooooo bad!! I did it a second time and it was the same. It even hurt to pull it out. The directions said if it feels uncomfortable it's not in far enough. It was in far as it could go though. I relaxed when I did it but it still hurt really really bad. It hurts awhile after I take it out. I want to go swimming but I don't think I can. I used the Lites/Junior if you're wondering. Is there something wrong with me?? =(
yep. the first time. all i have to say, use pearl! it is the best ever and saved my swimming days. personally i think all thoes stupid "tenn" and "beginner" ones hurt.

dont worry, you will get the hang of it and eventually not even notice it.
good luck!

Q: Okay, you've probably heard this question being asked a million times, but I honestly need to know what to do. So there's this guy I like, who we'll call "D" ... and he knows I like him and everything (I'm positive of this too) and consequently, in the past few weeks, my friend "Lissa" has grown a liking for as well. He knows she likes him too. And I'm like really tight with his best friend "Anthony" and D tells Anthony that he doesnt like Lissa, yet he's all over her. And it's not like it's only me and Lissa that like him, a lot of girls do. But I just hate the fact that he can be up against Lissa and flirt with her n have his hands on her hips and everything and lead her on like that, RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME. I mean - I know this sounds selfish but, I like him and he knows that. I'm not saying he shouldn't be with other girls, cause if he doesn't like me, there's not much I can do about that... but if he claims he doesn't like her and he's just 'bored' then why does he do that? What should I do? How do I get him to be all over me? =/
ha, thats like almost the exact same thing i'm going through. I guess the world is full of these guys. just be friends with him, and do some cool stuff to get his attention, but not so its his attention alone, like a crowds attention. (but dont make a fool of yourself) like become the center of attention or something. then when hes all over you kind of blow him off. guys went what they cant have. Act as though your just friends, but be totoally iresistable.
dont let him no you are jelouse of him flirting with you friend. you never know, he might be trying to make you jelouse!

Q: 13/f
What should you talk about when your on a date or movies etc?? Im always scared its going to be uncomfterable and its going to be silent! please help! i give EASY 5s!
talk about: other movies that are playing, sports you guys have in common, don't gossip(and if he does, have your oppinion, but dont bad tlak about any one) hay, whats wrong with talking about school. If you have classes togetehr talk about the teachers and how crazy they r. lol. (sry just thinking of my teachers) hope i helped (and dont forget CONFIDENCE, always have confidence and smile.)

Q: What should you write in a love letter, and what should you not write?

obviously you don't want it to be corny but still to be sincere... I'm going to write one but I'm unsure of what to say.

is it too corny to put some song lyrics in from a song we both like that makes me think of him? He doesn't know that I like him, i don't think so. Just clearing things up... I don't want to regret it later.
personally, its not the best thing to write a love letter to a guy who doesn't know you like him. He will definentally show his friends and it will get around school.
If you have a song that reminds you of him, then i sudjest maybe learning it on the guitar (if its playable) and play it to him.
or sometimes when your hanging with him, just sing it softly and half-hartedly as in its just a song stuck in your head. then he will ask what you singing, and you tell him, then add, it reminds me of you.

hope i could help. good luck!

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