Okay, you've probably heard this question being asked a million times, but I honestly need to know what to do. So there's this guy I like, who we'll call "D" ... and he knows I like him and everything (I'm positive of this too) and consequently, in the past few weeks, my friend "Lissa" has grown a liking for as well. He knows she likes him too. And I'm like really tight with his best friend "Anthony" and D tells Anthony that he doesnt like Lissa, yet he's all over her. And it's not like it's only me and Lissa that like him, a lot of girls do. But I just hate the fact that he can be up against Lissa and flirt with her n have his hands on her hips and everything and lead her on like that, RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME. I mean - I know this sounds selfish but, I like him and he knows that. I'm not saying he shouldn't be with other girls, cause if he doesn't like me, there's not much I can do about that... but if he claims he doesn't like her and he's just 'bored' then why does he do that? What should I do? How do I get him to be all over me? =/
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? vintagerose answered Sunday June 12 2005, 4:15 pm: ha, thats like almost the exact same thing i'm going through. I guess the world is full of these guys. just be friends with him, and do some cool stuff to get his attention, but not so its his attention alone, like a crowds attention. (but dont make a fool of yourself) like become the center of attention or something. then when hes all over you kind of blow him off. guys went what they cant have. Act as though your just friends, but be totoally iresistable.
dont let him no you are jelouse of him flirting with you friend. you never know, he might be trying to make you jelouse! [ vintagerose's advice column | Ask vintagerose A Question ]
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