i'm just wondering if any one thinks it's ok to be a pimp for halloween if your a girl? and if so wat kind of clothes and ehat kind of hat..and neckles and rings? plz help! thanx...and colors! haha
Hells yeah its ok to be a pimp... u gotta have some friends to go as your hoes... prefferably guys cause than its just funny as all shyt... butt the girls work too... for ur outfit jsut wear the same things a dude would wear... the purple dalmation pimp outfit u kno with the hat and all... butt if u could, make the jeans like a lil flarey rather than buggy... then i shall call u, She-Pimp... peace peace
-Jon :-b
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Hey Jon! I'm one of ur friends but i'm not telling who!! n e wayz...i got a problem...I had this guy friend that i thought i "liked" well I find out that he really likes me...so we ended up going on a date to the movies...we had the whole hand holding thing going on, he even got me a red rose..it was perfect, but when he kissed me at the end of the date i kinda realized that i didnt like him like that...that he should just stay a friend kinda thing...well now i feel kinda embarrased to talk to him...hes also a little upset that i dont want to go on another date with him...He told his friend he was "giving up with me" i feel really bad....is what i did wrong? what should i do?
Aiight first off... ur gonna drive me fu*kin crazy by not tellin me who it is... just wanna let u kno that... anyways... dont feel bad about anything... its just how things turn out sometimes... definitely talk to him butt of course... let him kno how u really feel... guys sometimes get ideas and when a girl even talks to him, hell flip out and say theres something there, u kno? Some guys are like that... butt definitely tell him how u really feel... butt let him kno u had a great time on ur date and all that just that ur not ready for ur relationship to go to that level... anything else u need hit me up... peace peace!
-Jon :-b
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hey, ok, i dunno what to do cause i dont have ne programs that can rezise the pic. so like, could i give u my sn and password to my buddypic and heres the picture ... http://www.advicenators.com/user_pics/3175-1092446221-411d680d5cc8f.jpg .... and i dunno, u can edit it or something? ya ok, well get back to me. thanks!
just gimmie ur aim sn and well go back and forth till it works... peace peace
-Jon :-b
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is anybody here from BUDDYPIC? Ok well I am and I try to upload this one pic so many times but it just won't work. It always says, THIS PIC IS TOO SMALL, I don't understand. If you are familier with BuddyPic or you can fix my picture, could you PLEASE drop one in my box - sshelbyy Thanks!
yeah whats up im from buddypic... and it is so tiring to get a picture anywhere where they have restrictions on size... butt just make it smaller and keep editing it, which u can do on ms paint or ur photo editor... any other help hit me up... peace peace!
-Jon :-b
ps- im j15yj on buddypic.com
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on LJ they have these things called memoriable enttrys I how do I make them and access other peoples. They aren't regular entrys but memoriable ones
^^^^^ yeah girl just do everything she said... i was gunna say it butt i figured ud go with her anyway... peace peace
-Jon :-b
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girls ok im a guy ok looking good since of humor fun to be around.but gettin to meet u is the hard part what is best way to confront a girl i see
aiight boss... sense of humor is sometimes the best thing in a relationship... no cheesy pick up lines... butt hit em with a joke... just walk up to em and say somethin... worse reaction to u is a "No"... and if ur like any other dude, it wont be the first time in ur life u get a no... its all good and it happens to everyone... butt i will tell u that most girls like guys that have the balls to ask them out or what not, and not the guys that just rush into throwin their balls in the girls face... be cool, be u, and be straight... peace peace
-Jon :-b
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hey im 16 my bf and i have a long distance relationship he broke up with me and my feelings for him r still really strong. when he broke up with me he said that there could be a "us" again and i was all like ok whatever. but i was thinkin bout it do u think he is just using me?? also i kinda wanna get over him so how do i do that?? please help thanks
Its hard o get over a boyfriend or girlfriend no matter what... the best thing ive used or told a friend to do is to go out with ur friends and juse chill... play single and have fun... some boyfriends limit the amount of things u can do when ur with ur friends and of course... some things u dont want to do when ur in a relationship.... check out ur surroundings and get into the single groove... then u can do things in a new relationship and correc the mistakes that occured in the old one... with im using u, it wouldnt surprise me... some guys seem to think if they have a girl locked in long enough, they can get with her no matter what, whenever they want... those guys are what ladies and mature men(like me) call dogs... as uve probably heard, MOST men are dogs... sounds like u need to jump outta the dog pound and go fishing with ur good friends... if that doesnt help, hit me up... im single since valentines day and lonely... its hard to get over a break up, butt i would get used to it... peace peace
-Jon :-b
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Hey Everybody!!
Well...I'm engaged now, and I'm starting to plan my wedding. I'm not sure of my color theme yet...but I know that it'll most likely be on the beach, in the summer...mainly around July or Aug. My dress will be either off white or white. My question is...does anybody have an suggestions about colors on bridesmaids or..other things such as decoration. Thank ya'll soo much.
hey hey... first off... congrats on ur marriage... its a big step nad i have respect for those who take it... secondly at hand... i alwys loved the idea for a beach wedding... and something i like is a hawaiian theme for bridesmaids dresses... grant it, im just a 15 year old dude butt the beach is a casual place and semi casual dresses sound good... like a right-below-the-knee length dress with like 3 inch straps... maybe with a hawaiian flowery design like on bathing suits i kno? and for urself, the same type of semi-casual dress in white... for teh groom just white dress pants and a hawaiian shirt different from the other guys in the party... i dont know... i can just picture a wedding on the beach... take it or leave it... thats all i got...lol...peace peace!
-Jon :-b
ps-have the bridesmaids where those little flower hat things... u kno the circle shaped things??? o well i tryed>.. thanks for your time and congrats...
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I've seen you not help a bunch of people, so maybe you can 'not help' me.
I run a mildly succesful web comic, but I'd like it to be better.
I also have AIDS.
Think I could somehow use that to my advantage?
You sound like a funny guy... so i would suggest mixing ur life with ur comic... then people who kno u can relate to u through ur comics whereas people who dont kno u can meet u through ur comics... now with the AIDS thing... i got nothin... live ur life to the best and dont hesitate to do somethin cause u may not get to do it again...
-Jon :-b
ps-ur comics are awesome
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Im sorrie to bug you, kuz i dont know you or anytihng but i was reading your columns an you have helped alot of people out, so i was wondering if you could tell me if i did the right thing here....I lyked this guy for a relle long tyme, an we were koo friends buh not anything more...we saw eachother lyke every weekend an stuff..an then he started lyken mai twin sister, so i stopped lyking him. well the middle of this skewl year he transfers to my skewl, an we became closer friends, an i started lyking him alot. me and him were always together an everyone would ask about 'us' and if we were a couple or anything, an he would be lyke yah this is mai lady an stuff...then he started going out with this girl from another skewl, an i was relle bummed...so i juss gave him his space, buh lyke we became closer an stuff kuz he'd always kome kikk it wit me lyke after skewl an stuff. he always talked about me 'sharing' him wit his gf an i was always lyke no ur either mine or ur hers u kno? well he finally understood that, an after not talkn to her for a week thought she would get the point that he didn't want to be wit her, an told me that they broke up. me and him started talking, and i kind of new that she thought they were still together but it didn't really bug me. me and him were together 24/7 an to everyone we were a couple...well one day one of mai friends tried to commit suicide and i was relle messed up. i was talkn to him through text messages, an he told me that he finally officially broke it off wit that girl. it made things better, kuz he juss kept telling me how much he wanted to be wit me an that when we saw eachother that night that we were gon get together. well that night i was kinda all quiet an juss sitting with one of my friends kuz i was still sad about my friend that tried to commit suicide. he came over an asked to talk to me and with an attitude asked what he did and i told him it wasn't him. then he was lyke ok w.e. got up an left...well that was the last tyme we really talked...things were soo hard for me to watch him walk through the halls an not notice me anymore, buh i started to act lyke i didn't care. he started being really mean to me, an then one day it was lyke he was the nice guy i knew before...then he hooked up wit this girl, an i was really depressed about everything in lyfe so it juss brought me to tears. he came over to me an gave me a hug an ask'd if i wanted to talk about it not knowing its bekuz he had broken my heart. an i wouldn't talk to him. he kept trying to make me feel better throughout the day, buh nothing worked. he later broke up wit that girl and wanted to be all over me agen an i wouldn't let him...then skewl was over an i guess it kinda juss put me in a hole...the beginning of summer i was depressed all of the tyme. i knew i had to get over him, buh i always thought things would be soo much easier if i just had the ballz to talk to him. i tried to find the streangth to do so but never could. im sorrie this is soo long, buh i juss relle want to know what i should do...juss get over him completely, or try to talk to him!? sorrie for bugging you, an thanks for your tyme...
aiight... i might not be the person u originally wanted butt... im here now... one thing that i have to say is that dont ever be sorry or afraid to ask for help... or in this case advice... its all goood and if they dont wanna help like big dogs, get em offf the net... anyways... it sounds like a tough situation... butt u gotta basically start the relationship hunt over.... just hang out with him and chill with him and let him kno u care... tell him how u appreciate all the time he helped u and all the time u guys spend together...let him kno about the truth like when u were mad and all those times and let him kno he broke ur heart and that sometimes u were jealous and all... the truth hurts sometimes... butt other times its the best choice... let him kno anything and everything that could start and make ur relationship the best there could be... talk to him definitely... hes been through alot with u and that helps in a relationship acause he knos what to expect when certain situations that occur... u sound like u like him alot so DEFINITELY talk to him... hit me up on AIM for more help if u need it... peace peace!
-Jon :-b
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Hey since ur a guy and i found ur column im gunna ask you this.. lol sorry what do guys look for in girls? please answer ill rate ya!
it depends... when it comes to me... i look for respect... i will respect a girl until u die even if u dont respect me... butt i wont have a relationship with you if u cant respect me... nice body is commmon in what guys want... i liie em to keep a convo and be able to haave a good time... I HATE girls that call themselves things like fat and ugly and what not... i tell them to shut up and call them dumb for sayin such a thing... i also HATE girls that just give themselves up to ahving sex with a guy like thats what he wants... or a girl that goes with a punk ass bitch or something... its a hard question to answer cause MOST guys are dogs aka bitches and just wanna get in the bed... than u have guys like me who wanna have a real relationship and be cool... just set a steady pace and do what is kool for us not the world... any specifics about t he question feel free to reply... peace peace!
-Jon :-b
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I really like my best friend. He is perfect..I think so atleast =). I think he likes me too. But I'm really shy and I have decided to tell him how i feel. B/C not tellin him isnt an option nemore. My feeling are too strong. So..how should I tell him? I'm j/ really worried we wont remain friends if I tell him.. Like if he ends up NOT liking me. Thanks for your help! =)
obviously if hes ur best friend... hes been over ya house or vice versa to chill or what not... invite him over just like any other day and pop in a movie or somethin... then bring up the convo with a joke or somethin... be like "so hypethetically speaking... if i were to ask u on a date as partners and not friends... what would u say... play around with it and by the end of the night make sure u state that u really do likke him and that u would like to try somethin new with ur relationship... if he turns u down... he knos hes got somethin good between u and if he accepts... make sure u got some fresh rubbers near by (jp)... peace peace!
-Jon :-b
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My group of friends theres 3 of us and well my one friend (Alyssa) hangs out with both me and my other friend (Chanel).
She always talks about how she doesnt like her and stuff to me but yet she always invites her over to her house and they have sleepovers together more than she does with me.
I don't even think Chanel likes me because she never talks to me and always trys to keep Alyssa away from me and never invites me over to her house, etc.
My problem is I don't know if Alyssa is telling the truth about how she doesn't like Chanel and how do I confront her about it? And how can I know for sure if Chanel even likes me at all?
Aiight there boss... perfect Limp Bizkit quote "Its all about the he said, she said bullshit" or in ur case... she said, she said.... just have all of the friends over to ur house and find out for urself... let them all kno that ur feelin some animosity between u and t he girls in ur clique and find out whats goin on... if they are real friends they will undersatnd and be truthful... and respect u for havin the balls to be straight forward with them... peace peace!
-Jon :-b
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Well I went out with this guy for a month and then I broke up with him, and well we said we were gonna be friends but that didn't turn because I was being a dumbass and spread rumours about him and did some mean things to him. I told I was sorry many times but he still won't forgive me and I understand why he won't. My question do you think he will ever forgive me? And what are some ways to get him to forgive me in some sort of way?
Dont rush it butt let him kno u care and all... let him see that through all the stuff uve done and all... u still do care... and if he asks about the things u said... just say it was because u were jealous or somethin... wehn a guy feels a higher power over a girl... he gets comfortable with talkin to her... let him kno ur really sorry and that U were wrong and not him... peace peace!
-Jon :-b
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okay so i was gonna have sex with this boy jon (we'll say) but then we both decided we weren't ready and ever since we really haven't talked much. and every time i c him he always has another gurl over or sumthing and he just ignors me. how can i get him to open up to me again?
My names Jon?!?! Aiight well, if u both werent ready... hes probably fellin regretful and insecure about bringin up the subject... if a guy gets turned down he gets a lil intimidated u kno? Just start over kind of by askin him how his days are and lil stuff like that to let him kno u care... then the whole sex thing will fade from his mind (not forever butt a lil) and he will kno that uve let it go... peace peace!
-Jon :-b (weird huh)
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over spring break 2005 my family will be taking a 7-day cruise that will go to 3 or 4 different places in the southern caribean. this will be out 2nd cruise but the last one we went on was 3 or 4 years ago, and the farthest we have traveled is a 4 and a half hour trip, and this plane trip will be a little longer. any advice on stuff to do to keep me busy on the way there?
Usually cruises have many different things to do planned like some have arcades and swimming pools... ask ur p-units for a brochure or something to let u kno whats goin down on the ship so u kno and can be ready for whatever they have ot offer... peace peace!
-Jon :-b
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ok my best friend and i are friends with benefits and for a while it's been working out but now i'm hugely late on my period and i don't know if it's stress or not. if i am pregnant i can't get am abortion because my best friend will never talk to me again, but i'm not sure that i'm ready to be a mother. what should i do??
OOOOK... one go to the doctor's and see whats goin down... if its a FALSE ALARM.... slow it down with the friend a lil bit... let the fire die down for a while...
If it isnt a false alarm... tell him... and talk to him about the whole situation... grant it, it all pends on the parental units decisions too... cause they gotta kno... if they dont kno they will read u like a book and find out and be pissed as anything... go wit hwhatever the majority decides... and dont use the "It's my body" thing too much butt a couple times wouoldnt hurt... peace peace!
-Jon :-b
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what kind of facial cleansing product do you think a person with minimal zits that wont go away, and oily skin should use to clear it up before school starts? please helpp i give 5's no matter what!!!
Aiight this is easy... theres these things called oxy pads... u probably heard of them... they are the shiznit... i had minimal zits on my face once in a while... all u gotta do is wash up in the sink or shower or whatever... and wash ur face real good.. then take a pad... and rub it on the areas of the zits... then just sit back... the meds on the pad go slow to get inside ad get rid of the its but they go awa and they dont come back... try that and if it DOESNT work...( yeah right) then u can stalk me down and cause a forever zitful face spell on me.... peace peace!
-Jon :-b
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this guy i liked started becoming my friend and he had found out i liked him and he started to wunna get closer but hes like that with everbody else {{w/e}} but the thing is i said that i didnt like him that way to his ex-girlfriend and she kept saying he liked me. and i do like him but i though his ex-girlfriend was just trying to see if i did and i didnt wunna tell her. now he pretends not to care even to be my friend any more. its breaking my heart and i keep telling my self that the first daii of school ima totally ignore him and act really sad around him. but the thing is it might end up not be acting. help.
aiight first off.... the ex is ALWAYS gin to get in the way... ex's play more games than a video game master stuck in a room... with all video games... its not a secret... hit UR man up, cause hes on the market, and talk to him and see what hes all about... if u feel something over that convo... let him kno how u feel... or if he rushes u to tell him... let him kno... if u dont fell a connection in that convo... just chat with him for a bit and get closer... soon as u feel the need to grabbabootie and pinch.... go for it, u make the pace... obviously he's confused right now so set him straight... and dont lie to the ex ever... she will stretch any true OR false things u tell her... so stuff the ex in a locker, and go fishin for ur man... peace peace!
-Jon :-b
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Whenever i try to use system restore, it tells me System Restoration Failed. I have already tried about 10 different restore points. My system restore IS enabled, it is set to use max amound of HD space it can.
Anyone who knows anything about what may be wrong, please help. Thanx
Pending on the situation you are in and the problem with ur computer... u may have to buy some form of virus software such as McAfee...some viruses make it so that you cannot use a system restore until u rid the computer of that virus... if u reply with details i may be able to help you to a further solution... peace peace
Jon:-b
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