ok heres the deal..i really want a cell phone! and i would use it and everything! i am always going to movies..the mall..and football and basketball games that i have to cheer at! and yet my parents still wont get me a cell phone! my sister has one and got one when she was about 14 and i am only 13..but how do i convince them to get me a cell phone?
well give them the silent treatment. and if that doesnt work tell them you arent gonna eat until they get you one. and if you give into that, keep messing around that they are getting you one, that your convinced that they said they would. these techniques sound a little immature but so what? it werks!! hope i helped!!
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Can you have icons on your advice column?
yeah i think so.
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This is going to sound stupid but the term "getting off" does that mean like when a guy "gets off" he gets a hard on or he orgasms??
its when he comes. lol sorry that was an akward question. hope i helped.
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well i had my period.. n they were like all the symptoms n everything so im sure i had it.. but ive missed my period date?? idk wats going on.. i tried to wait a few extra days but its been like 4-5 days n i sitll havent gotten it? its my 2nd time getting my period so i dunno is that normal? im not very close with my mom.. so i cant really talk to ehr about it.. i dunno what to do! helppp!! ((n i havent been having sex lol so it cant be that))
lol dont worry if its only your second period its probably not on a solid schedule yet (which it can take a while.. im 17 and i've had my period since i was 12 and it STILL decides when it wants to come or not) so dont worry. also stress can postpone your period even more. hope i helped!
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hey. im starting to go thru puberty and develop my breats but the question is how long will it FULLY take them to develop. theyve been the same for lyk 4 months and there not growing. and no, i kno that they still have a lot more to grow cuz no normal person could have boobs this small. but anyways how long will it take them to develop FULLY. please help!
well it can take anywhere from 2 to 8 years from what my doctor told me.. im 17 and my chest is still developing. if its bothering you so much to have small boobs you can stuff your bra or something.. but just be patient. hope i helped!
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Well let me say i am over 21 i have a real problem my boyfriend and i are together for three yrs i was married before this for fourteen yrs and now i live with my boyfriend we have never had sexual intercourse in 3 yrs. i am so bitchy because of it i have done everything to try to get him interested in sex. i have talked to him i have emailed him and once i even was gonna hook up with this guy in the area but he found out about it. and put an end to it. i do all the house work and more i wait on him basically hand and foot. nothing seems to work i am basically killing myself around the house to please him. but i do have to admit for the past few months i have been really bitchy. i do not wanna end this relationship although i do not know why except i have spent alot of money and time in this relationship for it to end. i have tried being nice i have tried everything i am at my wits end over this i no sex is not everything maybe that is what i am holding on to. in a way i feel he is driving me to another man's bed and if that is what he wants i will be happy to oblige. i dont think this is what he wants cause i no he is gonna dump me if he finds out i would love just to have sex for an entire day i think it would do alot for myself. yes if u have not guessed already i have a high sex drive and it is like a drug addict being cut off only worse like 5000 times worse we sleep in the same bed he tells me he loves me and i do love him. i have talked to drs like i said i have done everything. he lays cuddled up to me in the bed. which is hard. i cry alot over this. i have asked him what turns him on when i ask him there is no reply. i would be willing to do just about anything please help no i am not gonna go to a sex therapist cause he wont go but basically anything else
have you told him this is killing you? and that you are sooo tempted to sleep with some other man because of this? other than that.. i dont know. since he found out the first time and you didnt say anything other than he found out, try it again and keep it more on the low. but be sure to tell him first so you'll have something to back up why your sleeping around if he catches you. hope i helped and good luck!
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is it a good way to make money
depends on if you have a lot of free time and training. and WHO you babysit. hope i helped you.
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i'm on my sister's advice name, but im a guy and i have really hairy arm pits. is it weird to um...shampoo it? does anyone else do this? thnx
haha i dont know im not a guy.. but from a girls perspective, and this is MY own opinion, i dont think its wierd. it would be wierd if it SMELLED funny! hope i helped you!
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what r some ways to get rid of cramps
you can exercise, but if it hurts too much dont do it. try taking a warm bath. or sit down for a little while. also vibrations can help from like a massage chair or whatever. or you can just take some midol or some asprin. hope i helped!
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okay.. whats the difference in making out.. and french kissing and normal kissing? sorry... but i honestly dont know..
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this is my interpretation of what these things are so sorry if you disagree::
making out- its french kissing with the use of hands and stuff.. ive never done it but some people say its the only way to go lol.
french kissing- you start out kissing and then he puts his tounge in your mouth and you do the same for him. it usually doesnt involve hands or anything cause that would make it making out.
a normal kiss- thats just a peck on the lips with no other physical contact. its usually short and sweet.
hope i helped you!
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I'm 14/f. Yesterday I found out that one of my closest guy friends likes me in a romantic sense. Let's call him "Jordan." He has liked me for possibly a year. We have been friends since we were 2 years old. I have just recently, a month ago, started liking him in a romantic sense. My problem is that I did like another guy let's call him "Dave" for a year and a half. I fell hard for him. I only saw him once over the summer. I have since stopped liking Dave as much as I used to. Possibly because I haven't seen him, and possibly because I have just gotten over him. I don't like Jordan as much as I used to like Dave. Jordan asked me out and I am afraid to say yes in the event that I see Dave and fall head over heels for him again. I like the friendship that me and Jordan share. I don't want any awkwardness between us. I get EXTREMELY nervous around guys that like me. What should I do? Should I go out with Jordan and hope for the best? Or should I say I want to stay friends? I feel that knowing that we like each other is enough and that it also leaves the possibility open to dating and a relationship. I should also mention that I have never had a real boyfriend before. Sorry this is so long, but I could really use some good advice.
well wow that sounds a LOT like me.. so im gonna tell you out of my experience. go out with jordan.. cause if you dont he might stop liking you. and that would really suck if you saw dave and you didnt feel anything there anymore. but by any chance, you see dave and the same feeling come back, then just tell jordan exactly whats going on. and if hes a true friend he wont hastle you to stay with him or quit being friends over it. hope i helped!
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i am going to a party in an hour and a half and my hair is wet right now, if that matters, but it is kind of a pool party. What can i do with my hair that will look good but won't get all gross when its wet? and what can i do once my hair is wet to keep it looking good. This is kinda important because my ex and my crush are going to be there.
hm.. ok this is what i did for a pool party and it was soooo fab. and it was like a sexy beach look. ok if ur hair is sorta longish, just blow dry it and curl it all over, then put a lot of gel mixed with water in it and make sure its random. it looks so pretty. and when you get outta the water wait until it drys and scrunch it and stuff so its wavy and put more gel in it (bring it along in a bag with ur make up and towel and stuff) it will look great! hope i helped!
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My parents just told me they might be getting a divorce. I'm devistated. If they got a divorce, nothing would ever be the same again. Help!
my parents are thinking of separating too so i know how you feel.. its their decision not yours, so dont worry. and they'll make sure everything will work out. hey they might even be better parents if they split up who knows? and you'll get two rooms instead of one! there are many different outlooks on the situation and im really sorry that you're upset.. if you need anything else lemme know cause i think i know how you feel. hope i helped!
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okay so recently ive been hanging out with some friends that i wouldnt normally hang out with them out of school or sports. They smoke pot and they talk about ti all the time. since ive been hanging out with them i have been wanting to smoke it but i know its not the right choice. What do you think i should do?
this is gonna be the most honest advice i can give you. definatly do NOT start doing pot. not that it isnt fun or anything, but its just not good for you and ive heard its hard to quit.. so if you really feel the peer pressure is building up try to find some new friends, i know it might be hard but just give it your best shot. if you still wanna be friends with them, go ahead. just dont give in to the temptation. hope i helped!
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im 13 and i have about a couple girl close friends, but they seem to be changing in front of my eyes. It doesn't bother me, but the thing that does bother me is that, everytime im with my guy friends all these girls seem to get mad at me and stuff. Ive learned to ignore it but it's starting to get bad again, and the guys are starting to call me a smut or slut or something, and its starting to piss me off. Do you think they r jealous or mad or what? What should i do?
they're jelous.
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hey .. i shave my legs every morning and by noon they r all prickily LOL well do u guyz know ne thing i can do to keep them smoother for longer* thanx
well for one thing your shaving too often. maybe skip a few days (on a weekend or something when you arent at school?) and then shave them. the more time between shaves the longer it stays smooth! hope i helped!
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Ok...
I am 13 years old and i look 17
boys like my body i hate it
i dress like a guy and guys (i talk to) think its hott
am i weird or what?
hm.. well if you have a good body show it off !! god didnt bless you for nothin! i dont think your wierd! one of my cousins is the same way!
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okay heres my story! me n my friend went to the beach together n i took her there for her birthday! and we met this guy who we both thought was hott there..i talked to him first cause she was too scared! and he is realli intrested in me and i'm into him too! but i don't wanna hurt my friend! and i feel bad now cause i told her i would take her to the mall when me n him went but i didn't..we went last night but she doesn't know we went cause i know shes gonna get mad! i don't know what to do cause i realli like him! and i've had rough relationships in the past and he feels right for me! and i don't think talkin is gonna do much good with her feelings so instead of talkin to her what else can i do?! i feel kinda bad..but i realli truely like hiM! he's a sweetie!
ugh! help me please! i'll rate high!
Ps:she is just a friend..not a best friend
WELL. before i read the friend not a best friend i was gonna tell you ho's before bro's. but now that ive seen that, i think you should keep spending time with the guy and if she doesnt say anything, run with it! hope i helped!
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how do u kiss?
well ive never kissed anyone myself, but if i was planning on kissing someone there are many techniques. like for instance you can point and say look over there and when he turns back towards you plant a kiss right on his lips, like a surprise. or you can say close your eyes and when he does that lean in and kiss him. but if your looking for a way to really kiss, just give him a peck until he is ready to do more. first kisses are akward so it will be easier over time. hope i helped you!
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me and my friend has been friends for a long time. And she was always has a attitude and makes me look like the bad girl... I really dont want to loose a friend but i am getting really sick of her wat should i do?
well, if i were you i would let her know that she has a bad attitude. but say it in a nice way. and if she doesnt shape up, spend some time away from each other for a while. like a week maybe. then see if things get better. im pretty sure that will work. hope i helped!
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