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Hey I'm Tricia.
I've been through: alcoholic parents, divorce, depression, anxiety, moving, making new friends, relationship problems...etc. Feel free to ask me anything. I'm always here for you. =]

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Guys do you think a girl that wears a A cup bra size can still be pretty? Or do you think a girl that wears a A cup bra size is ugly?

I think it's kinda lame that you think guys determine your beauty by how big your boobs are.

are you the same person who asked the OTHER 4 boob questions?

if so, get a life. seriously, you really need to stop obsessing over it.

I'm an A cup and I have guys hit on me all the time.

It's really shallow if guys think you are pretty because of your breast size.

Don't date a guy like that for the sake of all the rest of the girls in the world.

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My best guy friend has recently unloaded all his problems; I found out his dad's cheating on his mom, his grandpa died (his grandpa was like his excape from his parents) his parents continuesly fight, his grades are slipping, and he's been coming to school with alot of bruises latley.

I don't know how to handle this. I really like him and I want to help, but what should I say to him? What should I do?

Sometimes, it's good for you to just be there for him. If he's upset, just sit there with him, let him know that you are there. He probably doesn't expect you to answer all his problems, and you can't.

If he gets beaten at home, [and you need to make sure he IS before you do report this to anyone], you should probably tell a school counselor or a youth center. If you care about him, you care about his health.

I'm sure that he will be thankful to have a friend by his side.

I went through tough crap like this, and it was just nice to know that I had people there fore me, that I could have a shoulder to cry on whenever I needed it.

Good luck with your friend. I will be praying for him.
triciaXterror

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I am currently "going out" with a 6th grader and I am an 8th grader. I normally like taller guys, but hes shorter. and hes really sweet.cute. and i like him a lot. but im so self concious and i worry too much about what other people think
is it too weird?
please give me honest opinions.

it's really not weird at all. I see hott sixth graders all the the time. If you like him, you like him. tell people to stfu.
=] triciaXterror.

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Heyy. :]
how do I get a link to say something other than the web address.

like if I wanted to say "view comments" and have it blue and underlined as a link.

how does one going about doing that? :\

any help would be appreciated.

triciaXterror

http://comment.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=use.viewComments&friendID=4490129&Mytoken=8f1faa9a-6065-f0a9-9960-53d0581b87a

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well i like this guy, lets call him james. and my best freind is jen. well i like james and i dont think he likes me
we always talk online though and i comment him sometimes on myspace but he rarly comments back he comments my freind a grade older then me, lets call her susi. well he alwasy comments susi
and i guess he thinks shes wicked hott or something but she doesnt like him. well jen my best freind tells me like a few times its so ovious he likes you. the way he talks to you on aim sometimes he wants you to like him.
but if he liked me then wouldnt we be dating. because he knows i like him. its werid but my other best freind "jessica" likes him a little too but shes susis little sister and i really dont want james to like her because she might end up looking like her sister.
HELLPPPP
idk what i need help with
im just confused in life.,
and people tell me that i would look so cute with james. - and its truee.
idk what to do

Don't do anything. Just because a guy likes you and you like him doesn't mean ya'll would be dating! Guys tend to hide their feelings more than girls. Just chill and take what comes. Give him some space. Stop commenting him if he doesn't comment you back - it's a sign that he doesn't want to talk.

I personally think that he doesn't like you.

sorry if it's not what you wanted to hear, but it's true.

triciaXterror.

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i met this kid names adam through another friend of mine and me and adam started to hang out. we would do guy things and just chill. lately he hasent been talking to me as much and i think he might be avoiding me..whats wrong..?

Well -
After guy hang out with one girl a ton, they need their space. Back off for a while, stop calling, IMing, messaging, whatever. Just give him his space! I'm sure he'll talk to you soon.
triciaXterror.

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Is this normal weight for a thirteen year old-- 105 pounds and 4'11 or 5'0. Thanks.

Hun, perfect. Stay how you are.
triciaXterror

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I like to read, I really like the book "Holes." I have'nt seen the movie. I'm 13, what is something aproprete [sorry I can't spell] for a 13 year old girl.

Not to childish though, & something I could get at barnes and nobles, or so?

TED DEKkER!!!
Ted Dekker is an AMAZING author. Four of his books that I love:
Black, Red, & White - they are a trilogy, so you have to read them in that order or it won't make ANY sense.
THR3E - very intense. gave me a nightmare once. but it's so mind pickingly awesome.

triciaXterror.

p.s. to find your level book, you open o a certain page and llook for how ever many words that you don't know what they mean. if you have 2-4, then it's your level. but if there are 5 & more it should be a bit too hard.

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ok i just turned 13 a week ago and i'm in 7th grade, and i havn't had a boyfriend yet...i'm pretty sure its because... i'm ugly, i mean i wear glasses i'm 5'0 or 5'1 and i'm fat... (135) waht do i do?? i cant talk to a friend or cousin or aunt, and my mom passed away. so i live with my dad. what should i do?? please please please help me. o and if u say maybe to change my hairstyle, tell me a site or link please p.s. i have brown hair and the length is the middle of my arm befor my elbow.

Hey >_<
Don't get the idea that just because youre 13 and never had a boyfriend means something.
I'm 13 and in 8th grade, and I've never had a boyfriend AND PROUD. I think that it's pretty stupid to think there is something wrong with you just because of that.
get real. you're only in 7th grade. you have time to be an adult. if you want to lose weight, diet and excersise. and by diet i don't mean only eating one meal a day. i mean eating healthy foods like fruits, vegetables, and organic stuff. stop the pizza, chips, and fries.
and girlll.glasses are awesome, i don't know what you are talking about.

triciaXterror

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Hi. I'm 13/f
My problem is that My mom is really into christianity and all that stuff, but lately I've been getting into witchcraft.(yes, I know the bible says it's an abomination against God) My mom doesn't know, and so she still takes me to church with her every sunday.but whenever I'm in church, I feel like I'm getting a lecture or something like that. She's so into it, she sent me to private school because of the "Moral Values" of it. the truth is, all the kids there are pretty much the same as they would be in public school. We all cuss, some of us smoke and a few of us drink.I mean, I believe in god, but I also believe in spells. I've seen them work before and have succesfully done some. I'm not really sure what to do. Any help???

You can't really be between two religions, especially with Christianity. Either believe ALL of the bible or NONE of it. Witchcraft is a horible thing to get into, and i suggest you try your best to get out of it.
Now, it doesn't matt3er about the kids at your school, it matters about you.
If you cuss, smoke, and drink, then you are digging a huge hole [along with the witch craft] that is very very hard to get out of.
I say you stop cold turkey doing spells and crap, because christianity promises you much, much more.
triciaXterror

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hello,i'm going to dye my hair for the first time at home....i am going darker and i was wondering what drustore brands of hair color work well and will not mess up my hair. any tips....???
thanks

Wal-mart has A TON of great brands. Don't get anything under the price of $4 because it's shit. DO NOT get color pulse, it turned my hair pink. Try not to get anything super red, it turned my hair nickelodeon orange. =]
you'll probably have luck with anything besides what i said.
good luck.
triciaXterror

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I met a girl at a party this weekend and ever since, we've talked for hours every day. I know she really likes me, and I'm starting to feel the same about her. She seems like she's the kind of person who dates for fun, though..and doesn't take it seriously. I'm all about having fun, but that's not all dating is, and I'm afraid she might think it is. I'm afraid she'll drop me quickly because she seems like she gets bored easily.

Any advice? Thx.
16/m

Well, first of all, since she really likes you, you should go ahead and tell her that you like her. Then, after talking a bit, if the conversation goes to 'dating', then you should tell her that you take it a bit more seriously than you think she does [you might want to put it in different words]. Usually, if a guy tells a girl that he likes her and she likes him, she'll go out with him ANY TIME! so, I think you have a 99.9% chance with her.
If you like her now, I say you just go out with her and enjoy the time you have with her. If she dumps you because she gets bored, than she's not the one for you.

Goodluck.
triciaXterror

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what do girls look for in a guy

Well, most people classify me as "punk", so my answer may be a little different than what you want.
I look for:
a sense of humor: girls think it's great to have guys that are funny. it shows that the guy can relax.

kindness: i'm not saying that he has to bring me flowers everytime i see him or brush off the ground before i walk on it, that gets annoying. i just want the guy to treat me right, ya know? not verbally or physically abusive in any way. not overly sweet or anything, but just is kind.

strong/leader: i would want my guy to take charge in a tough situation. i want someone who could protect me in a dangerous place. it gives a girl comfort. you'll be her knight in shining armor.

style: most girls really wouldnt give a sht for this category, but i like my guys emo/goth/punk. a preppy girl would like her guy to wear abercrombie and stuff...see? if it were me, i'd want my guy to wear girl pants, band t-shirts, and have his fringe over one eye. based on your girls sense of style, you can pretty much tell what she wants her guy to look like. i'm not saying this is every case, but usually that's the situation.

confindence: a girl can whine about how her jeans make her but look big, and that's when you compliment her. but a girl DOES NOT want to hear her man complaining about what he looks like, or how not popular he is. taking charge and being confident about yourself is a sexy character trait.

hope i helped;; good luck with her =]
triciaXterror

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I know this isn't the easyest question to answer but does anyone know the name of this song and the artist? "can you look me in the eyes and tell me that you're happy now"

"Are You Happy Now" by Michelle Branch.
If you have anymore questions, you can usually go on www.google.com and just type in the phrase, than put 'lyrics' next to it. It usually works.
triciaXterror

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i want some names for my new baby girl....i dont like names like alex or sarah because to many people have thoughs names..i like names more like nikita.....she has blonde hair and blue eyes

14/f

Amber
Amberlin
Amira
Alisha
Alyssa
Barbera
Chrystal
Christy
Christa
Christina
Carrie
Cassandra
Cari [car-ee]
Dana [day-na]
Danielle
Dara
Faith
Felicity
Geovonni
Grace
Heather
Heidi
Jennalynn
Jaylynn
Kara
Kayla
Kaylynn
Kaylee
Keely
Keara [kee-ar-uh]
Keana
Laurie
Loreli [lor-i-lie]
Linda
Maria
Mari [mar-ee]
Mariah / Moriah [means "Wind Of God"]
Melony
Melody
Meliah [mel-ee-uh]
Nalisha
Olivia
Patricia
Patrice
Rachel [ray ray for short =) ]
Rachell [ra-shell or rah-shell]
Sarah
Sierra
Synia [si-nia]
Tricia
Tara / Terra
Ulaela [you-lay-luh. i know someone with this name and everyone loves it]
Veronica
Victioria
Yedonia
Zakkarah [zuh-CAR-uh]

Most of these names are names of people I know.
Good luck

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my gf is always flirting with this other guy at my school and it really pisses me off cuz she barly talks to me anymore can someone tell me a way to get her bak to me

A lot of girls are flirts - including me. It's okay because that's just how we are.
The only way you can fix this is to talk to her. Just pull her aside and be like, "I feel like you are spending more time with other guys with me. I might be wrong, but that's how I'm feeling." And let her respond to that. Make sure you don't say it like "YOU ARE FLIRTING WITH OTHER GUYS! STOP IT!" because she might not think so. After you guys talk, think up a solution to your problem. Spend more time with her, give her gifts, when she's with other guys come up from behind and hug her. Show her you love her.
triciaXterror

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do girls go for guys with piercings? if they are good looking that is, and do girls get attracted to guys with piercings,like let's say nose rings?and if they do, can you specify which part of the face or body you find most attractive for a piercing on a guy and how much piercings should your ideal guy have?thanks

LIP PEIRCINGS

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OMG!! OMG!!! I am SSSSSOOOOOOO scared! I go to a very nice private school in the mountains with fountains, a good principal, etc. Well, whenever I walk alone to a class to another building, I always see this man with a beard and old clothes staring right at me about 8 feet away. I sware... it's just me and him!!!! This started around April last year and I started school last week and he's still there (doing the same thing)!!!!!!!!! He can't work there, right? Because he doesn't do anything and he's too ratty looking to work at this school!! HELP ME!!! WHAT SOULD I DO!1????

1. Try your best to take a different route to that class.

2. Stay atleast 15 feet away from him at all times. He could be mental, and you never know what he could do.

3. Make sure you have a phone with you.

4. Tell your princapal or teacher about this ASAP so they can take percautions to keep you safe.

GOOD LUCK!!
triciaXterror

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ive been going out with my gf for a month now and we've kissed acouple times now but i dont now a way to get her to start making out w/ me can someone plz help

There are two ways to solve this problem:

1. You can just simply ask her. A lot of girls think that is sweet and thoughtful, asking if they actually wanna make-out.

2. When you do kiss, [try when you are just alone], slowing start to widen your mouth more and reach your tongue out just a bit [so she gets the picture]. But, if she pulls away, quickly go back to a regular kiss. Make sure you take it slow and easy, so she doesn't feel uncomfortable.

Good luck.
triciaXterror

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okay theres this song i really like but i dont know the name or the artist it goes " its a world wide suicide " can anyone help me out?

World Wide Suicide by Pearl Jam.

VERY good song =]

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