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ok...i just bought and ipod mini off ebay and it didnt come with instructions so i have no idea how to use it...help me!

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i mainly need to know how to put songs on it.


For your additional info, for adding songs you have 2 options -- buying music in the music store AND/OR using your own cds. i have a mini in pink and i do both so i am like a pro at both.

for your own cds: just insert a disk into your computer and wait for it to load a little. if your iTUNES is up, then the files on the disk will load up. click the button that says "add music" or sounds like that (in the far right hand corner top). wait for the songs to load and youre set!

for buying music: get a giftcard for iTUNES music. on the back of the card there is a code. go to "REEDEEM CARD" in the music store and type in the code. (you probably need to set up an account if you havent). it will automatically add the money to your account and you and search and buy any songs you want!

if you have any questions..feel free to inbox me! i love my iPOD and i am really good at operating it!

have fun !! [♥ X0X0]

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do you think im a nerd b/c im on the middle school orchestra? be honest...i wont get mad if you say yes...im just curious

personally no. its just a sterotype that people who take orchestra, chorus, band, etc. are nerds. its def. N0T TRUE! be your own person and prove people wrong that you can be a cool, nice person and be in orchestra!

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What are good for excersicing your thighs and abs? (like to tone)

abs = def. sit ups

thighs = try doing squats, running

dont really have alot but i hope that helps a little ! good luck !
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this may sound sad beecuz im in 9th grade
i try really hard to get guys to like me...they never do...they sometimes tell me i'm weird...because im not really good at flirting...please help

You cant make guys like you, they just have to like you on their own. It may help though if you are really nice to them and just be yourself. If you like a guy, just make sure youre not all shy about it, flirt with him and just make jokes, be nice, whatever. if he sees that you are interested in being his friend or more he will definitely respond positively!

hope i helped..good luck hun
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There is this guy i really, really like. i slow danced with him at the school dance. i asked him out about a week later b/c he was to shy. he said maybe. some of my friends are saying he says he is going to say yes and some of my friends are saying ohh no he doesn't like u. How can i get him to say yes? and What should i do about the other girls that like him?

you cant really make him say yes...sorryi know it sucks. just be yourself and be nice and all that. he probably likes you, even if its a little bit because if i liked someone i wouldnt slow dance with them! but idk...just be especially nice to him. about the other girls that like him, theres nothing you can really do about it. they cant really control who they like, just ignore them if they talk about it to or around you.

hope i helped...
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okay well can anyone give me some dance tips...i kinda suck at dancing like al lmy friends can do this thing where youre arms are in front of you and you shake rly fast and you shake your butt but i cant do it! can anyone tell me how or how to do other dance moves? ill rate 5's unless its mean!

Theres no way to really teach it. you just move your body to the music and shake a little. practice with some music in your room and just dance and shake. you can get good without people watching you that way. also get tips from music videos or one of your friends. and the arm thing you were talking about is called shimmying if that helps...

good luck babe
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i love the clothes in abercrombie and hollister and all that, but its sooo expensive !
does anyone know where i can qet the same kinda clothes ( besides aero ) that's cheaper ? everyone at my school is like, obsessed w. abercrombie lol and i always loove the stuff. once i saw a tank top in a&f for $80 !!
thankss

abercrombie kids is much cheaper, also american eagle, and http://store.alloy.com/index.jsp?commTrack=shopChannel its an online store only but it has really cute clothes!

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I have a friend that i've known for a year or so and she's been my best friend but lastely she's been getting on my nerves. she acts like me and does things like me and it's bothering me. It's been getting annoying and i don't know what to do. please help me! Thanks.

Just tell her very nicely how you feel and what you would like her to do about it. if she knows how you feel she should act better.

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when i put on deoderant in the morning before i put my shirt on, it gets all over the shirt while i am putting it on. if i try to do it when my shirt is on, it is difficult to lift up my shirt. i do not want to use a spray deoderant, so please don't suggest that. how can i put it on eaisly with out getting it all over my shirt?

all you can do is be really careful. try to not to put too much on and also you can try the a less powdery deoderant. other than that just be careful and if you do get white on your shirt just put water the spot right away or you'll never get it out!

hope i helped [♥X0X0]

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My boyfriend, of almost 2years, just broke up with me. I am going out tonight with my best girl Kate, and we are going bowling. Is that a good Idea?

What should I do to keep my mind off of it? And what shouldn't I do?

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youre doing the right thing! =) just do anything...hang out with your friends and dish on gossip , learn something new like a new hobby, or just ANYTHING keeping you busy to get your mind off him!

keep strong hun ---x-♥ [X0X0]

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i was just wondering if this makes me fat.. because i think i am.. im 16 i weigh 107 and i wear size 5 pants.. just wondering what you think please be honest.

noooooooooooooo way! not at all! 107 is tiny for a 16 year old! dont worry babe!

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I've just shaved my legs and no hair has come off. Do you have to apply quite a lot of pressure? I'm scared of cutting myself and those hair removal creams take aaages and don't work all that well on me...I only have til Friday so I can't go out and buy wax either. What can I do?

maybe you need a sharper razor. if you just got it, i would just make sure youre shaving in water and using cream...but if it is really old then thats your problem. make sure you replace your razor every so often because the blade gets duller. hope i helped you...

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have a big problem...i'm 15 and i'm goin to be 16 soon, i have never had a boyfriend or kissed a boy...is something wrong with me? what should i do?

no nothing is wrong! everyone has their firsts at a different age...so nothing is wrong with you. dont rush or anything, just wait until the right guy with the right kiss comes to you! dont worry hun!

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hi, um how do you delete questions? PLEASE help me!!!!! thank you SO much!

~despetate

Log in, and go to edit answers. choose the question you want to delete and instead of editing your question just delete everything. hit save or whatever and it will delete it automatically!

hope i helped

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My 8th grade prom is coming up(towards the end of the school yr.) and its not a problem to find a date for the prom the problem is that i get nervous dancing infront of people i dont know why though. Just to let you'll know i do know how to dance. If anyone has any tips on ways i could get over this please let me know!

number one rule...just relax! dont worry about other people looking at you just listen to the music and let your body just move to the music. i do admit, if youre not comfortable its kind of hard to just dance thinking everyone is looking at you. but if you just imagine youre in your own little world it doesnt matter. just have fun.

p.s. people will probably not even be looking...they'll be too obsessed on how theyre dancing!!

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I have AIM. How do you put buddy info for your friends to see.

okay on your buddy list, go to MY AIM. When youre there go to EDIT PROFILE. Hit next, and then next again until you get to a blank box. fill in anything in there. words, quotes, links, whatever. then when youre done hit FINISH. If you want to know how to view a profile inbox me!

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ok do u think it is ok 2 liek a guy from camp, even though camp was over like 4 months ago?

yah its toteli fine, i just dont think anything is really going to happen between you two. unless you guys are so close that you get together sometimes or if you know that he is coming to the same camp next year, nothing is really going to happen. its kind of hard to form a relationship with someone that you can barely see. if you think youre still going to like him, just keep in touch and be nice to him! or even tell him, he went to your camp so no possible embarassment!

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ok so there is this really cute guy and i like him but i don't have any classes with him, i just know his name, because my friend told me, and i know where his locker is, because its like down the hall. And there is no time for me to know him cuz i have no classes with him, and he doesn't even know who i am! Please help me, how can he notice me? like im a shy person and im not the kinda girl who will go up and talk to a random peron, maybe to one iknow, but still he is really cute and i just wish i knew him.

-by the way-i love ur colum! it's soo cute!

-thank you!

thanks hun! before i tell you how to get to knwo him heres NOT waht to do to get him to notice you : dont dress up just to impress him and dont attract soo much attetion to you! okay besides that i would just start with smiling with him in the hallway. or even waving. just show him that youre nice. if youre friends with any of his friends or if one of youre friends are then try to get everyone together at the movies or at someones house. that way, you can get to know eachother but not the 2 of you cuz that would be really weird. just be nice and slowly get to know him!

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hey, im in sixth grade and i feel like my friends are ditching me. i mean, im considered popular but my friends are more than me. its like theyre just social climbers. they dont seem to like me at all anymore. what should i do?

first, i would just tell them how you feel about them ditching you. they will probably tell you why they are or why it might seem like that and maybe they will include you. if they dont, i really wouldnt want to be their friend. they dont seem like they would be good friends because they only want the people that are equal to them in popularity. if thats so not them, just try to work it out with words.

hope i helped youuu! good luck hun!

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i dont know you but i like in californa... attcaully where the oc is!! pretty cool... but anyways so i have a bestfriend and one of our good friends was sorta i dont know but acting weridly/annoying

so after a huge fight in the middle of it we both spit out we were bestfriends 2 her... now whenever i talk 2 her she always brings it up!! and its sooo annoying... oh god and i petty other gals with this problem its sooo hard! becuase its like back of!! u really want to tell em 2 but then u know they are probaly hurt... what should i tell her?

thanks! luv the collum by the way!

xoxo megan xoxo

well i dont really understand this one too much so dont get mad if its not exactly what you want to hear, but if shes really bothering you just tell her how you feel. dont say back off or anything rude just tell it like it is. she will understand and you guys can work on what you can do to make this better (that is if you still want to be friends).

hope this helps ---x[♥] X0X0

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