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so ive made out before, but always with somewhat unexperienced guys. now this guy whose scored 53498936 girls wants to hook up with me
whats a way to practice kissing... like i heard you can like "kiss" ice cream or something
is there any other ways like that you could do
ive also heard about practicing on your pillow (link)
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practice on your pillow your hand it sounds a little weird but maybe you can practice on a mirror or a stuffed animal or get one of those fake lips somewhere and practicing your kissing skills on them
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Ok well it's almost my grad and i'm very stressed so I cry sometimes.
Sometimes i can hold it in and just need to be alone but when he sees me liek that he always goes in and bugs me about it til i talk and if i open my mouth at that momment then I cry.
When I cry he yells at me for crying like "what did i do?!"
He makes it seem like the ONLY REASON I can cry is if someone yelled at me.
I don't know if I can get someone to explain it to him that some girls are stressed and it's ok to cry and give them some space but everyone in my family is like that so I can't get them to.
And definitely nto my either because I dislike him so much now that if he steps into the room and lingers there for mroe then 10 mins then I'll burst out crying. (link)
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calmly explain to him like " dad graduation is coming soon and i'm really stressed out and sometiems you make it worse when i want to be alone and you come in. it's not that you do anything to make me cry you just ask me questions when i'm not ready to answer them. i'll come to you when i'm ready to talk about it."
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my brother has been acting strange latley.
Im not sure if its because of the death of my aunt, who my family was really close too. But that was 2 months ago, so i dont know why hes being weird now.
Like heres a example
my brother: "why are you up so early?"
me: because im gonna ride my bike to school with some friends
then my brother just like stood there
and hes like "no"
and im like "yeah"
hes like your gonna ride the bus or get a ride from me.
Im like haha no.
but idk and he is just like worryed latley about everyone and everything like he was like to my mom when my dad just left to work. Call dad. and stuff?
weird
Hes 17 and im hopeing this is just a stage
Sometimes i always think if hes gonna like kill hisself, or someone, or do something bad.
I just heard my mom tell him to stop following her and go back to bed.
Help? (link)
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it sounds like your brother may still be struggling to get over the loss of your aunt since you did say that you were all close to her. he probably just doesn't want another family member to die and he's just trying to protect them anyway he can. you can spend some time with him until you feel he has gotten over his problem and he shows some improvement
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so i really like this guy, lets call him A, well i like A and i have liked him for the past 2 years. last year we became really good friends, i guess you could say. he was a sweetheart and he always listened and we joked around and he would always say hi in the halls and stuff. well this year, freshman year of high school, we had no classes together and the summer kinda made us slip away i guess. he was still nice i guess but recently i heard that he was really out of control with drugs and he is kind of a man whore. well basically i still do like him but i dont know what to do, especially i wanna help him because i really dont want him to OD and die. so i'd really appreciate your help.
thanks! btw im 15/f (link)
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talk to him ask him why he likes taking drugs and does the things he does with girls talking about it with him and giving him suggestions on what to do in his spare that doesn't include drugs and help him stick to what may reduce his addictions
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Ok so tomorrow i`m having a pool party during the day.
not too many people, about 9 or 10 or soemthing.
WHAT CAN WE DO BESIDES SWIM?!
i`m so lost and confused PLEASEPLEASPLEASPLEASE HELP ME!
:[[
thanks (link)
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you could go to the store today and buy some balloons fill them up with water and have a water balloon fight have someone burn a cd and have a dancing contest whoever loses the contest has to have a couple people throw them in the pool
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14/f
I have the grossest thighs ever. They buldge over my knees and they explode out when I sit down and they have SO much fat on the inner thigh...
I'm only 20 pounds overweight, how can this be? I used to be obese, but then I lost a lot of weight and i thought i'd lose the grossness of my thighs.
What can I do about them?
by the way if it helps i'm five two and a quarter and 154 lbs. (still dieting) (link)
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you could do lunges with your legs jogging around a track running on a tred meal or walking in the park
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so i totally had a crush on this guy for a few weeks, since like, may... like 27th or something (it's june 14 today). so like, his bff is on my bus, and he's never really talked to me before, but lately he's been like acknowledging me & talking to me more.. idk why... but today, i asked him to sign my yearbook, and he wrote, "to my dearest (my name here)" and i was like omfg, do i like him?... cause yeah guys like me and all but this kid is kinda cute... and what about my crush? i think my crush hates me anyway now cause of my friend hahaha but seriously. Help.
- sined, confused (link)
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well to me it sounds like this guy has a thing for you but you may think that you like him just because the one that you like doesn't like you back and you're getting attention from another guy that you might have a better chance with. and if it does turn out that you really like him while you're on the talk to him like REALLY talk to him as in deep conversation find out what he likes and dislikes become his friend
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Hey, I just realized I like my best friend Alex. I have known her since we were in jr. high. But I don't know how to tell her I love her. Thanks for any help.
Frodo
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you can ask her to get a milkshake after school. once you get there say i have something to tell you. all the times i've known you we've connected really well and got along great. you are a really great person. but what would you say if i told you i liked you more than just a friend. i'm not going to sit here and lie to you... i love you alex
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I really like this guy. He's my best friends step brother. He asked me out a couple weeks ago, but then broke up with me three days after he asked me out. He said he doesn't get to see me, so it'll never work out. He never even asked my number or email address. It makes me mad that he was so dumb not to ask. I still like him and he was only my third REAL boyfriend. I just started dating soooo, yea. And i really want to not like him, but i do like him. I need help! Am I mental? (link)
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you're not mental you're just in love. i know what it's like when a guy makes you mad and you want to not like it but you can't hlep it. the only thing you can do is try to forget about him and move on. findind a new love interest takes your mind off the old one. you can go shopping ride your bike ( guys usually do ride their bikes so you can meet some guy bikers that are your age)
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I want to break up with my bf. I like him and stuff. but i just don't like him as anything more then friends anymore. Theres really no reason for this change..just b/c. But i ahve no idea how to bring it up, its bring be a lot of stress, and i just want to break up with him, but i'm scared of hurting him. and i have NO idea how to bring it up. HELP (link)
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well you could either call him on the phone or write him a note saying to meet you in the park because you two need to have a serious talk. when he gets there sit him down and be like the time we've been together has been great and you are a really great guy but i don't have feelings for you anymore i only see you as a friend. i don't want you to be my boyfriend anymore i want you to be my friend. and if he doesn't want to be just your friend that's ok because there's not much you can do about that. but if he's willing to try and be your friend your friendship will be a great one
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Mkay, I need some advice about my ex-boyfriend.
Over the course of 4 years we broke up several times and called it quits for a few years, abut 6 months ago we called me and asked me back out, i thought it over and answered yes. I was really happy at first..and so was he. Then my parents got really strict and wouldnt let me go out that much, then he started blaming my family and my friends for not being able to see me. It really hurt me. We spent an entire night on the phone working it out. One night he was at my house and we were watching the Notebook and talking, he kept telling me to kiss him to kiss him and all this, && i wouldnt because it didnt feel right, if that makes any sense at all. We worked all that out and i was really happy again. We had a big fight and broke up, we still talk about us all the time..and i feel like i love him. I know everything about him, all his deepest secrets and i think we are meant to be...I need some advice..should i just try and get over him? or should i try to get back together with him. Im so confused, i cry myself to sleep most of the time, and bust out in tears everytime i hear certain songs, and its been about three months since all this happened.
I am a thirteen year old female (link)
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if you really love him and he really loves you then you should get back together but try to make him understand that you aren't ready to kiss him yet and that your parents don't let you go out as much. if he can't understand that then don't waste your time with and look for someone who can understand
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Yee but i cnt try talking 2 him because i feel like he wud just say ger away or sumfing 2 me? (link)
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well if he's a sweet guy and could very well like you like they say he does then he won't. if you still think he will say go away or anything mean talk to him when he's alone and not around his friends because when guys are with their friends they usually tend to be major jerks.
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I like this boy called jordan he is lovely but i have neva talked 2 him properly my friends are like look hes looking at you im like your lying i really want a chance with this boy hes really nice but what shall i do ? incase he dont like me ? help me please !!? thanks :D! (link)
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try talking to him get to know him a little better. you can invite him to the park to hang out or to the movies or to get a nice cold drink somewhere.
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ok i moved the last 2 month of school and at my old school i was popular and could have any guy i wanted i play sports and was the president of the student counicl but at my new school i have no friends and no boyfriend and the other girls said i couldent play sports and her dad is the head of that stuff how do i get friends PLEAZE help (link)
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before class starts or whenever you get a break with other people talk to them introduce yourself tell them what your hobbies are. you never know people could be intersted in the same things you are. and if the certain group of people you tried to talk to don't want to listen then find somebody else that will.
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