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just moved and have no friends
ok i moved the last 2 month of school and at my old school i was popular and could have any guy i wanted i play sports and was the president of the student counicl but at my new school i have no friends and no boyfriend and the other girls said i couldent play sports and her dad is the head of that stuff how do i get friends PLEAZE help
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normally with girls, they are jealous if you are prettier than they are. but they cant disclude you from the sports no matter if her dad is the head of it. what i would do is just be as friendly as possible and join the sports that you used to do at your old school. they'll come around eventually.
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Well, you have to have a little patience with changing to a new school. You'll make new friends and find a boyfriend in due time. It would be nice if we could walk into a new school and right away have a lot of friends, a lot of guys, and a high social status, but it just doesn't work that way.
Get involved in the activities you were involved in at your old school. Run for student council. You were president at your old school, so you surely have the experience and credentials to prove you can do a fine job.
Get involved in sports. Don't let some bratty girl tell you that you can't because Daddy's the head of the sports. It's not for her to say- she's just trying to throw her weight around, is all.
Get involved in other extra curricular activities, as well. Even if you weren't involved before. Sports, student council, drama club, etc are ALL good ways of meeting and getting to know other students.
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before class starts or whenever you get a break with other people talk to them introduce yourself tell them what your hobbies are. you never know people could be intersted in the same things you are. and if the certain group of people you tried to talk to don't want to listen then find somebody else that will.
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just be yourself...you will make friends...get involved in clubs and stuff and meet people who are interested in the same things you are...you'll be sure to make some friends...as for sports...that girl doesn't have the say as to who gets on the team...try out like everyone else...if you're good enough you'll make it...and as for the whole boyfriend thing...no one knows you right now so no guys are coming around...but give people some time to get to know you and it will happen...you may not be as popular at this school as you were at your old one...every school is different and has a different idea of popularity so you may not have what you had at your old school and thats to be expected...but just allow everyone time and once they see who you really are I'm sure they'll love you
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Start talking to people. Everyone and anyone. Eventually you'll find people who talk back and who eventually become your friend. Don't worry about not having a boyfriend. As time goes on you'll get on, and as for sports.. don't worry. Just try out like every other girl, and do your best. Its not that girls choice if you play or not, and if your good at your sport there's no reason why the dad wouldn't let you play. It's his choice, and most adults are not immature like teenagers and he'll probally let you play. So relax you'll make friends in no time. Just get out there, have fun and talk to people.
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