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I HATE MY DAD
Ok well it's almost my grad and i'm very stressed so I cry sometimes.
Sometimes i can hold it in and just need to be alone but when he sees me liek that he always goes in and bugs me about it til i talk and if i open my mouth at that momment then I cry.
When I cry he yells at me for crying like "what did i do?!"
He makes it seem like the ONLY REASON I can cry is if someone yelled at me.
I don't know if I can get someone to explain it to him that some girls are stressed and it's ok to cry and give them some space but everyone in my family is like that so I can't get them to.
And definitely nto my either because I dislike him so much now that if he steps into the room and lingers there for mroe then 10 mins then I'll burst out crying.
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you don't hate your dad...you're just stressed out right now...my dad is the same way always thinking that the only way I can be upset is if someone did something to me and he gets mad at me...but whether you have them or not it's time for a family meeting...sit him and your mom down(she might be able to help)and explain to him what you're feeling and whats going on tell him that he needs to understand that there are other reasons people can be upset...just relax and talk to him...it's a stressful time
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You don't hate your father. You're just stressed out because of graduation & you're a little upset that he doesn't give you space, but don't say that you hate him because you know you don't.
Just tell your father that you're super stressed & that you don't know what to do. Crying is normal when you're stressed out, and it's a way of calming yourself down. Also, when you're ready to talk -- you'll be there to do so.
If he doesn't seem to understand, then don't cry as much. When you're stressed, write your feelings down & blog or something. Or, just listen to music that makes you happy.
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calmly explain to him like " dad graduation is coming soon and i'm really stressed out and sometiems you make it worse when i want to be alone and you come in. it's not that you do anything to make me cry you just ask me questions when i'm not ready to answer them. i'll come to you when i'm ready to talk about it."
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