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I cut myself.
I'm currently in therapy and getting help.
My parents don't know about it.
They don't need to know about my cutting. I'm getting help. And I'd really rather they never found out.
If anyone has ideas on how to hide the cuts, please tell me. (link)
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coverup works... and like jess said, if you ever need someone to talk to: SweetEmotion32 on aim. good luck.
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Am I just freaked out? But my brother is the one who made these connections.
Last year, I went to bed and my lights were off. My radio was on the other side of the room on the floor. I turned it on with its remote and put the remote on a chair a few feet away from my bed. I was in bed for a few minutes when suddenly -- the radio turns off. I sat up and saw this red light shining over it... it kind of startled me. I was completely awake and not imagining it for sure.
Then about last week or so, I got in bed completely awake and turned off the lights, and about 3 minutes later I hear loud, clear, steady breathing right next to me. Thing is, I rearranged my room recently, and my bed is now where my radio used to be, and the red light was over it??
And today, I was on my computer checking out some sites when I heard steady breaths that weren't quite as loud as that other time, but they were a little bit longer lengthed. It scared the crap out of me, so in shock I just turned around in the chair and staired at the end of my bed -- exactly where the light shone over my radio and where I heard the breaths the other night -- waiting for something to pop out at me any sec, but nothing happened, so I just got so freaked out that I just got up, left, shut my door, and by the time I was trying to explain it to my mom, I was crying my eyes out and could barely even speak I was so freaked out.
Later she went in my room with me and I heard the breathing a few minutes after. (she wanted to see if she could hear it) I was like, "Do you hear it?!" but she was breathing too loudly to hear it over her own lol. She gave up and just left so I hung out downstairs since I didnt wanna go in my room.. later me and my bro checked it out. We waited like a half hour for it to breath. But it didnt, and then he was like, "Didn't you tell me something about a radio last year or something and there was like a red light over it?" and I said "Yeah. In fact,.. it happened over there.." where the breathing came from. He said: "Haha, I think you have like 666 on your wall or something. Somethings out to get you, something is haunting you." and I totally freaked out. He said it creeps him out too.
So what do you think of all this? These weird things happening in the same spot? Coincidence, what is it?? Oh, and sorry for the novel... lol (link)
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that was an exciting story! lol i would just play it safe... hang some crucifixes if your catholic, and if you're not do something holy with the room. seriously. haha GOOD LUCK!
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today the day before my bday my mom comes right out with me and dad are getting a divorce. im freaking out and ive had a party with my friends for like 3 weeks so i cant bail out. what can i do? i know i cant change thier minds but my dad takes it out on me and my sibs and my moms all depressed. so i guess what im asking is if your parents got a divorce how did it turn out? should i be worried? (link)
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hey, my parents divorced last year. the bad road to take is the one i did... depression. just promise me you wont do that. it turned out really well actually.. yeah there are a few problems still but nothing big. my dad was depressed and my mom was always crying... it was hard to stay strong but it's seriously a must in these kind of situations. talk to your siblings about it rather than making them "lock it up". hope i helped, good luck!
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whats with girls and being all "oh my gosh, im so fat, i need to lose soo much weight" when they look really good? are they just fishing for compliments or really think that they are fat? (link)
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it's gay. i think they want you to say, "ohhh, you're not! you're so skinny & pretty!" thats what they want. EW. gross. next time you hear someone say that, reply with, "yeha we know. shut up fatass."
sorry if this was harsh, it's how i feel.
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ugh i have so much eyeliner and it wont juss stick to my eye....does anyone know a good brand of eyeliner? (link)
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NYC pencil. it's always worked for me!
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how do you get rid of cellulite.. i know you can exercise.. ive been doing that for about 3 weeks now and no results yet. I work out 3 times a week i run the treadmill, do the bike exercise and nothing seems to be working.. its in my thighs.. (link)
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coco butter!
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My friend sleeps around. Now people think I do. How do I fix my reputation and help my friend? (link)
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Don't start to, or keep going if you are already. Being associated with "sluts" can cause this. Talk to your friend and let them know it's gross. Tell as many people as you can something that will make them think you're the total opposite. hope i helped!
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http://s166.photobucket.com/albums/u90/snopesbinary/Magic/?action=view¤t=pullapart.flv
Watch that video
HOW ON EARTH DID HE DO THAT.
I know he is an illusionist but oh my god. holy crap.
How did she SURVIVE that?! Did he put her back together too? She just crawled away...!?
Please, can someone please tell me how he did that. (link)
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She probably does not have any legs. She uses fake ones or something.
Chris Angel has many tricks up his sleep, you never know.
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me and this guy i like talk every once in a while on IM and we always end up saying 'so....' then we like dont talk again until one of us has to go, i always try bringing up stuff but it never lasts long, any ideas to keep the conversation going? (link)
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don't say "so..." anymore it's lame. lol just be yourself and don't be awkward.
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OKAY i might be a tad paranoid, but im 13, female, and i have been going out with this great guy for eh 7 months now, well he comments this girl like more than he comments me on myspace, and he always is like, your a loser, or your stupid, and stuff, and he comments all her pictures and doesnt comment mine, and i know im being soo parinoid, but its bothering me, and he commented one of her pictures saying this one is the coolest. or this is the best, and does that mean he thinks it was pretty?,
i know for the 3rd time im very parinoid, but help me out here. :D
thanksooomuch (link)
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hey, you didn't mention if you had ever talked to him about it or not, but i'm guessing no. I dont know if this will be much help, but you have to talk to him about it. Ask him straight up. You should get at least something out of him. But make sure you let him know you're not okay with it.
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So... yeah.
I'm 16/F.. i'll be a senior next year (yes, i'm young for my grade.... 17 in september) and i've never had a boyfriend. I sort of had one freshman year, but it wa more of a... nothing, really. it was like we said we were going out, but we couldn't drive and we were like 14 and whatever. it was dumb.
Anyways, so i've only kissed two guys in my life. One was that not-boyfriend in 9th grade... and it was pretty much him jumping down my throat and i hated it. And the other was spin the bottle. Which was a good kiss, but it obviously didn't mean anything. The bottom line is, i really want a boyfriend.
And that sounds shallow, i know it does. I've always been the girl who's always saying, "i don't want to have a boyfriend just for the sake of having a boyfriend. I want it to mean something." And i still want it to mean something... but i just want it to happen sooner rather than later.
My friends always talk about who hooked up with who, most of them have already had sex, (with at least one person... in several cases more than that) and i really feel like i missed the boat. I'm not gorgeous. But i'm not ugly...i see weirder girls with boyfriends. And i mean, i'm not the most confident girl around, but i'm not completely introverted. I'm just not sure how to go about meeting someone and having a relationship that will last... at least until i go to college. Another problem, more like inconvenience, is that i don't drink. so i don't go to a lot of the parties everyone else goes to.
I know what i like in a boy. Funny, clever, smart, goodlooking... perfect? is that too much to ask? I had a dream last night. I was rooming someplace... a hotel or a dorm room or something. And there was this slim boy with dark hair next door. He brought me to his room and we just hung out. Played video games.. whatever. I dont' remember a lot, but there was a lot of laughing and smiling... a some cuddling. And i was so happy... probably the happiest i've been in a long time.
Is it so bad to want that feeling to be real? Am i too picky? am i asking too much?
How can a meet the boy of my dreams? litterally.
Any advice?
Thanks. (link)
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hey there. yeah, i'm younger than you, but i allllways feel like "i missed the boat". my friends and even other girls get boyfriends left and right, and i'm stuck here... just wanting one. it's probably a little strange how i'm practically giving myself advice, but just wait. "Good things come to those who wait." I'm sure you, like any other girl, would want a solid, good boyfriend rather than one you snagged who's an asshole.
Good Luck, Hope I Helped!
and have fun in VA.
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okay so i just bought the book "the truth about forever" by Sarah Dessen and i was wondering..is it a good book? what were your opinions about it?
was it funny in any way? or was it boring? its seems kinda boring but i only got through the first couple of pages. any opinions would help.
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BEST BOOK EVER! it is really boring in the beg. but it gets so much better! haha seriously, it's such a good book.
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ok so im 13/f
heres my personailty:
I love helping people, i volunteer all the time and i love animals and im part of a puppy rescue organizations. I also love to skateboard it's like my life. i am a big video gamer and paintballer. i also play electric and acoustic guitar and piano. i am a gymnast and the music is listen to is rap, rock, hip hop, and heavy metal stuff.
Im not emo or anything though i wear abercrombie and makeup and im pretty girly.
I have more guy friends than girl friends and like i hang out with boys and go to their houses to play video games or skate. i guess im kind of pretty idk. i have brown hair with natural golden highlights and its like soft waves and i have tan skin. im italian and french. i dont want to sound like im bragging because im not trying to i just want help:
the girls at school seem to hate me i dont know why. i try talking to them but they just hate me. what should i do? and will a guy ever like me as more than a friend? because im like their buddy i give them girl advice and stuff. will a guy ever like me for who i am?
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hey, it's kind of ironic because I was in the same exact place as you are now. i'm 15, and still have some of those problems. i think you should just soak up the time with your guy friends rather then worrying about what these jealous girls think. honestly, jealous. you hang out with guys, they dont. you're italian and french, and us kind of girls are just sexy. but seriously, don't worry about what the other girls are saying.
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Ok. I am going to use real names because I don't feel the need to hide this.
I have a friend Taylor. We have been good friends for a while. I also have a best friend Dave.
Dave and Taylor were together, but not going out. They really liked eachother, understandable right?
Taylor "broke up" with Dave, then hated him for the last 4 months. For no reason at all, just wouldn't talk to him and made fun on him constantly. Dave hurt for a while, but finally got over it.
Dave and I have been extremely close ever since we met. Dave and I now are kind of, as you can say, together.
Ever since Dave and I have been together, Taylor has been trying to talk to Dave again, and asks me ridiculous questions about me and him and what we do. She said that him her and can only be enemies, or lovers. So what does that mean? If she is trying to talk to him, that might mean she wants to be lovers with him.
She insists she is over him and does not want him, but why is she constantly asking me about it? And flipping out on me about him. I think she still has feelings for him, which is understandable. But she has hated him for 4 months, and Dave would try to talk to her, but she was just such a BITCH to him that he got over her.
It's not my fault me and him like eachother, we cannot control feelings. I understand where she is coming from because it is her ex, but still, they are over, and she knows it.
I don't know what to do. I do not what to loose either of them. Taylor is just being very immature about this and said she might as well go hook up with my ex boyfriend Justin, so I would know how it felt.
Dave and I have been through A LOT together. Like, a mad amount of stupid shit we have done and gotten in trouble for. Taylor seems like it is right to bring those mistakes up to make me sound like a bad person.
I tried talking to her so many times.
Now I am thinking I should just end it wtih Dave so this whole thing would stop, no matter how much I don't want to.
Someone please help me, I really don't know what to do. (link)
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Dear kc, Taylor is selfish. Dave is the best thing that's happend to you all year. There is no way in hell anyone would want to see you end it with Dave, especially Taylor. She's just jealous because you and Dave DO have more history than her and Dave. KC darling, good luck.
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