My Name Is Stephanie. I am 17 years old and I am Married with a baby. Other than that I have a pretty normal Life. I am Hoping to hear from you and answer your questions and give you the best advice I can give. On everyday things, Love, depression, stress, anything you need. Hope to hear from you. And I promise to give you the best advice I can give. I am not a trained professional but I am here to help.
xx Stephanie
Website: Stephies Answers
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Occupation: Stay at Home mom
Age: 17
AIM: loveyabunchesmls
Yahoo: stephienmatt4eva
Member Since: June 18, 2008
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hi im 13
about a year ago i started getting pubes and i was wondering if it is normal for me at this age to be getting them.they are about 3cm long and is that just prematuring or is it a natural length? now there are a heap of pubes all around my penis-area and i am sort of worried (link)
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its normal it called puberty hun dont worry its ok
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Whenever I masturbate, I have an orgasm, but when I have sex with my boyfriend, I don't. It feels good but I never hit that point. I can't tell him because then he would know that I faked it every time but I want to be able to orgasm from him..any suggestions? I tried focusing really hard on how good it felt, but it wasn't much help. (link)
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dont concentrate that will make you loose the mood the girl on top position works best for me
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I'm 14, my cousin is 19.
I fancy my cousin, and he fancies me back. But we live at opposite sides of the world, which is the only thing that is stopping us from having sex.
We have cyber sex with each other almost every day. And I have no idea where this is leading me. I'm visiting them coming December...
If you were in this situation, what would you do?
Please help...! (link)
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ok first off that is so gross hun you cant do that you will get a terrible rep my advice dont go see them and if you do dont be alone with him k not a good thing sorry if i was to harsh but hey thats me
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ok. so my boobs are a B and a DD. they have been this way since i was in High school. Now i know this isnt normal. if i lose weight would that help make my one boob or down. or is there anything i can do. or is breast ogmination the only sorce to make them close to the same size? (link)
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get breast reduction on the big one or breast implants on the small one
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Hello. I love playing video games and my grandmother recently bought me a Wii. Wii Fit looks quite interesting to me, it would get me off the couch to do SOMETHING, ya know? Well I read recently that there is a 300 pound weight limit: however I'm not sure how trust worthy the site was, but I exceed the weight limit, significantly. I'm not like 400 pounds but I definitely am well over the "300 limit". Is it possible to still play if you are over 300? Because I'd really like to. No smart ass remarks please. Thanks. (link)
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ok well my husband says to call the company it should be on the box it came in. I am also aware that it is only saying that for your safety like you know when an elevator says none over 3000pounds i always thought that was silly like is there really gonna be someone 3000pounds on an elavator. I dont think it would hurt to slowly try doing it though much love
stephie
hoped i helped
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Okay, well Im 17 and going on the birth control pill but I don't know how to take it. Im going on Levlen ED pills and its a 21 day with 7 inactive. How do i take it? Is there a calender I could use with the coloured days of when to take and stop? Also, Im planning on going to my boyfriend's house in 13 days so is there any way i can delay my periods by then?? (link)
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if you want to delay your period get a thing called the depo shot it stops your period for 3months the best birth control i know of though is the nuva ring talk to gynecologist
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We all here are probably in school, or out of school but we have all atended it. I'm that girl that's not good looking but have friends of both genders. I hear Im very bubbly, and outgoing. But at home Im the complete oppisite. I think I am suffering from depression, I just dont have the guts to tell my parents about it.
I do not get along with my Father at all. We can't have a decent conversation EVER. And my Moms never home, but when she is she's never listening. Anyway, during the past 9 months I haven't slept over anyones house. I hate my home but I have the oppurtunity to leave, but say something like O my Mom wont let me, or Babysetting sorry. And sometimes I get all excited and be like Yehh and ask and everything but right before be like Nooo I shouldn't and lie about why I can't. I dont know why... at school Im happy and sometimes forget about something that happiended at Home. But at home, it's like facing a concrete wall that goes on for miles. And I waste my tiem trying to see thru it.
I feel like im shutting everyone out... and im not trying to. I donno if its because Im scared or what. But tomarrow is the begining of summer and Im going over Skyes house. I a, kinda second guessing myself tho but i want plans for the summer.
Can you explain to me why I am shutting people out? How I can stop... and how do I get the corage to talk to my Mother about possibly being Depressed and how do Doctors find out?
Do they like check ur brain or something? I have no clue[obviously.] (link)
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Ok well first I have suffered from depression and hunni you got it. It is nothing to be ashamed of so just be brave and say hey mom I have something to talk to you about and no it cant wait it is an emergency. Then sit her down and tell her what is going on. Tell her you think you need to see a counceller and get the help you need. No lol they dont check your brain they listen to what you say and then they have you put on a medication that will defiantlly help you out. You dont want to mess with this stuff hunni get the help you need. And if you ever and I mean EVER get the slightest feeling that you want to commit suicide even if it is at 3 am go straight to your parents and tell them you need to be sent to the phsyc ward. I beed there twice nothing to be afraid of it is actually fun and they work with you on your problems. If no one is home dial 911 and tell them and they will be out ammideatliy if not sooner. Dont mess with this depression is a life death thing even if you dont think it can be. If its something you really need to talk about email me and i will give you my number and i will talk to you so you can see what to do even if its late k my email is loveyabunchesmls@aol.com i am always on so dont be afraid just email saying hi regarding advice and your name and i will give it to you k. dont let it get to far please here are crisis numbers they are free so if you cant get ahold of me call this asap
USA National Suicide Hotlines
Toll-Free / 24 hours / 7 days a week
1-800-SUICIDE
1-800-784-2433 1-800-273-TALK
1-800-273-8255
TTY: 1-800-799-4TTY (4889)
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So I was looking at this portfolio of a piercer in my area, because I'm looking for a place to get my nose pierced...
And like it's just pictures of different piercings that she's done...
And I came across this surface piercing one...and I'm sort of fascinated by it. I like how it looks and I think I might want to get it done.
http://i287.photobucket.com/albums/ll125/daisiekae/surfacepiercing.jpg
How painful does that look though? And it seems kinda dangerous being so close to the spinal nerves...
Have any of you had this done or know someone with it done?
My questions are:
1. Was it really painful? Like how much more did it hurt than a navel piercing? Also, I'll probably get my nose done first...so how much more did it hurt than your nose?
2. Do you know if it's dangerous at all being close to the spine like that?
3. If it is really painful...do you think that taking some strong pain relievers before hand will help with the initial piercing pain? And on that note, do you think that will help when I get my nose done too?
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Hey Well I have my nose peirced and I was stupid and did it myself but it looks great and doesnt hurt at all really a ear peircing hurts more than a nose peircing and it isnt dangerous go get a proffesional one done and you wont have to worry
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Ok, so I'm 16/m...
Yesterday I went to the movies with this girl I like. We were flirting and I'm 99.9% sure that she likes me. We've hung out a few times before and I was wondering if I should just ask her out already, or hang out with her again...
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If you like her and you think she likes you than ask her before its to late. Tell her how you feel and in return she will tell you how she feels. Dont be nervous or ashamed or afraid Just do it.
XX STEPHIE
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hi so recently i started talking to this boy. hes always pressuring me to give him head but i tell him i want to get to know him better and hang out first. he says that if i give him head it will show i like him and he will consider dating me. i just want to hang out first but he doesn't want to. does it seem like he just wants one thing only? (link)
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If you dont want to dont. It sounds like the same thing my friend just went through. Her boyfriend told her to do it or he will break up with him so she did and he broke it off anyways. then he told everyone in her school that she was a slut and that she did it. All he wants is sex not you. He is nothing but scum and he is trying to use you. Dont let him hurt you or pressure you into anything. Honestly I dont think he deserves your friendship. Tell him to go find someone else because you dont need someone like that. And the simply never talk to him again. You will keep your selfrespect and make him feel like an ass
xx Stephanie
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okay don't say anything like, your under age or anything, I KNOW!!!! so anyway, i was going out with this guy, Andy, i'm 15, then we had been going out for like 3 months, and i was staying at his house for a dance, we live on different islands, but there right next to each other.and we were talking then he told me he loved me, anyway, we ended up having sex... but then later, like a couple months later i found out he had cheated on me twice! then he asked this guy, iain, to start flirting with me and stuff so i would stop liking him and start liking iain. anyway i broke up with Andy, and started going out with iain, but two weeks after we started going out, i slept with him! it just sort of happened! so, i slept with him on the friday ans he didn't talk to me the whole weekend, then on monday, he asked if we could meet up, but he broke up with me! now i feel like everyones looking at me and thinking... slut, my friend says no one cares who i sleep with and that its just in my head but i cant stop thinking it! do you have any advice on what to do to make me feel better? i'm soooooo depressed! ='[ (link)
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ok well #1 It doesnt matter what anybody thinks of you. I used to dwell on what people thought of me so I tried to be different. I got so caught up in it that I didnt even know the real me anymore. #2 If he would cheat on you he dont need you. He used you for sex. You were the victim in this all. So dont blame it on yourself. #3 If thats the way the men you choose are going to be you might want to up your standerds a bit. Dont go for just anyone. Find someone who treats you right. You dont deserve it and It isnt right. But dont give up hope you will find the perfect one for you . and finally #4 You are not a slut. It happened and you were used terribly. Dont let them thin you are. And if they do just let them know you dont care if they are going to go on gossip than guess what they are immature and you must be better than them. Dont let them get to you .
hope i helped
xx stephanie
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15/f
Uh so sometimes, when I talk to guys my age, it's really hard to talk to them because of you know what: hormones. My mind just fogs over and I stop thinking and I say retarded things, even though I have no romantic interest in the guy at all. I don't get nervous around guys, it's just that when I anticipate myself messing up, I get nervous to talk to them. (also the thought of looking directly into certain guys' eyes makes me nervous)
How do I make myself handle talking to guys better? ty in advance (link)
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Ok first be calm and relax. Be yourself dont try to be different just to impress someone. Dont be nervous even if you like the guy. With practice It will get better.
Hope I helped and remember be calm!!!
Stephanie
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Okay, so I have really fair skin. I'm pretty pale, and I hate my legs. It's VERY hard for me to tan, no matter what type of sun screen I've used. I always burn. Either that or my skin barely changes at all.
I do not do tanning salons. I want a natural tan but I don't know how I would go about getting one.
Is there a certain sun screen that I could use... one that would help me naturally tan? I don't want it to be one of those artificial tans that turn me orange-yellow or all uneven-looking. I want it to be a sunscreen that helps me tan only when I'm in the sun.
Please help.
I'm sick of being self-conscious about my white legs lol (link)
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Well I have the same problem and my friends mom suggested a sunscreen with a high spf. Like spf 30 or spf 45. apply it every morning and our skin will adjust to it. Then when you go out for a tan you dont burn but you get a beautiful tan. I tried it and it worked perfectly.
Hope I helped
Stephanie
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