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I never orgasm
Whenever I masturbate, I have an orgasm, but when I have sex with my boyfriend, I don't. It feels good but I never hit that point. I can't tell him because then he would know that I faked it every time but I want to be able to orgasm from him..any suggestions? I tried focusing really hard on how good it felt, but it wasn't much help.
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It's estimated that more than 80 percent of women can't orgasm just through vaginal intercourse. The most recommended position, is girl on top, so you have control, and can stimulate yourself.
But the best thing to do, is have him get you off before you have sex.
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dont concentrate that will make you loose the mood the girl on top position works best for me
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Apparently 30 something percent of woman can't have an orgasm through intercourse. Your first mistake was faking it in the 1st place. Now your kinda stuck, b/c you have been sorta lying to him. If you want to have a good relationship you need to be honest and comfortable with your partner, in and out of the bedroom. If you are faking orgasms you are cheating the both of you, but especially you. You need to start being honest with him. That way the two of you can try things together that may work. You can invest in a small vibrator to place against your clitoris that could bring you to climax and stimulate him as well. You need to be open with your partner, The sex will be much more exciting when you are able to discuss it and enjoy it mutually.
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The majority of women can't orgasm during intercourse. In fact, you're lucky to be able to do so at all.
Provide some direction for him or whatever, but do NOT tell him you've been faking it. Just say what you guys are doing now isn't working for you.
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This may not help much, but when you're having sex, relax more. If you focus too much on having the orgasm, you won't be able to because it's like you're trying to pressure yourself to have one. Also, if you know where you're spot is (assuming you have one) during sex you can subtly move/shift your hips or whatever you need to so that it helps him without having to say "Like this or here" kinda thing.
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