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talking to some guys. is weird.
15/f
Uh so sometimes, when I talk to guys my age, it's really hard to talk to them because of you know what: hormones. My mind just fogs over and I stop thinking and I say retarded things, even though I have no romantic interest in the guy at all. I don't get nervous around guys, it's just that when I anticipate myself messing up, I get nervous to talk to them. (also the thought of looking directly into certain guys' eyes makes me nervous)
How do I make myself handle talking to guys better? ty in advance <3.
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Ok first be calm and relax. Be yourself dont try to be different just to impress someone. Dont be nervous even if you like the guy. With practice It will get better.
Hope I helped and remember be calm!!!
Stephanie
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I know this is really cliché and all, but you need to just be yourself. Just relax and don't think about what you're going to say before. Just concentrate on the conversation and not on messing up, because when you think the worst is going to happen, it most definitely will. ALWAYS think positive. Just take the conversations one step at a time. When he says something, think about your response to it, obviously not for very long or he'll think you've lost interest. HAVE CONFIDENCE! It doesn't matter whether you're looking to date the guy or not, just be confident in what you say, and be decisive. Don't stutter, better yet, don't think you will stutter, or it'll happen.
Good luck =]
--Jack
(16/m)
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