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Ho ppl!! haha i hv nuthing to say to you people! I am always bored! So, I come on Advicenators Im 13.. When you actually see me, you wouldn think that i would give advice. But honestly, i love giving advice. I've like experienced everything (besides sex) and yeah.. might able to help you

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Location: Uhhh. Saturn?
Occupation: Guitarist+sk8er
Age: 13
Member Since: January 19, 2005
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Last Update: November 30, 2005
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Okay, I have this problem with talking about bodily functions. I know that guys aren't very afraid to talk about farting, or burping, or even going #2. Guys always fart, and burp in front of people and it doesn't even phase them! Some girls that I know are like this too. But me, I would never be able to fart in front of anyone, or tell someone I had to go #2, I think that is just wrong. Is anyone else too shy, or afraid to do this in front of people. How can I open up more, and not be embarrassed if I burp in front of a guy? and WHY are guys like this? It bothers me when my b/f is always like.."i have to take a sh*t!" Like I wanted to know that!

Psh... Guys.. They are really weird right?? The main reason why they do it is because they think that it's "cool" to say it in fron of other people. I know it seems disgusting but guys think it's a normal thing for them to talk about. Like you know how some girls are obsessed with hot guys and how they want to do them?? Guys think that that is nasty... So yeah. They basically want attention from alot of people.

-Sk8trash

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i went tanning and i always go tanning but like me being a dare devil i decided to go in the strongest stand up booth with for 20 mins well it was a mistake im so sun burnt is there anyway i can turn that sun burnt into tan really fast?
automatic 5's for people who arent dumbass's and say tanning is bad for you and all that shit

Wow, you're really dumb. Go ahead, give me a one if you want. But I spoke the truth. Suntanning is bad for you. And there is a lesson to be learned from that. Psh.. Immature...

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I have applied for at least 50 jobs, I have got refused or no response at all. I need advice, what am i doing wrong?

I don't think companies would want someone that has applied for other jobs to be hired.. Seriously... Maybe they just think you application isn't good enough?? I don't know, but you might want to try and stick to ONE job, and see how that goes. But if you want to know why you didn't get those jobs, I suggest you ask the boss or whoever it is that took your application why you didn't get the job. But don't get angry and scream at them, that will just give you worse reputation.
Well, good luck.
_Sk8trash

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okay.. so i just made an xanga and i have never had one before, and i was wondering how do you get a layout to work.. like where do i put the code and everything?


any additional, helpful advice, like how to make a playlist would be SOSO HELPFUL!

5'S FOR ANYONE WHO CAN HELP!

Well, If you have the layout code already, sign in, Go to "LOOK & FEEL" if you scroll down, you see website stats. You paste the code in there. If you need codes, go to :http://www.xanga.com/Layoutz_Love or some other layout site. (I forgot sry)

If you want a playlist, you have to make codes for music. Like go to http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=music_galore

they have really good music there, if you check his/her subscriptions, she has alot of people with codes for music. When yo have the code for music, once again go to your look and feel. Paste in the code(s) and ther you have it!!

-Sk8trash

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Hi i like some bands..
no doubt, save ferris, what other good ska bands are there?
will ratte

Buck o Nine, McFly and Sublime!!! I love sublime!!! Best band ever!!

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Ok...i go to school and i feel like a geek...im not really one but i just fell like it.Like i look at all the popular girls and i wanna be like them..how do i?? does anyone know??? I used to have a lot of friends that went to my school but they moved.

Ill rate high if you help me!!

Hey!!! Just to tell you, popularity isn't everything. Sometimes it can be a bad thing. Cause when someting happens like lets say you and a guy made out, the popular kids would spred roumers about you and so the whole school knows.
But, if you really want to be popular, I suggest be friends with a couple of them. It would be easy if you have popular kids in your class. First be friends with all the popular people in your class, then gradually upgrade your friendship by hanging out where they do.

Well good luck!! Hope I helped,
Sk8trash

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guys i need your advice--what are some like flirting thing(signs) that really turn a guy on and let him know that you like him with out actully telling him just sending the signal---i rate high~

Try brushing against him it turns on alot of guys. You might try looking in his eyes alot when your talking. If you want, I would comment his clothes or his looks.

good luck!

-Sk8trash

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Okay, there's this guy in my science class who likes me and i used to like him but now anymore. so now i don't know how to make it clear to him that i'm not interested without majorly hurting his feelings.

and another problem. there's this other guy that i've liked for about 4 months. he's dated a lot of my friends and he knew i liked him so he's been acting all....well he acted like he didn't want to be around me. so i told him that i didn't like him anymore even tho i did. i like everything about him and i don't know how to get completely over him.

please help! no smartasses (sillyrob)!!! i will report. i rate high if i see that you're trying to help
thanks!

1. That guy in your science class: Well, there's loads of ways on how to turn down a guy. Just start off with a normal conversation. As it goes one, just go like "Hey ___(insert name) You know how you like me? Well I don't really want to have a boyfriend at the moment. Please don't take it the wrong way, we can still be friends though, we'll see how it goes from there ok?"

2.Your crush: Invite him over to a romantic spot and tell him ho much he means to you and how you would like to give it a shot on going out. But do you know him?? If he's trying to avoid you, he might be bored of you... Spice things up a little by doing something interesting together like get a group of friends (yours and his) and go to the movies or something. That will get you to know him better.. And then just ask him whats wrong and why he's avoiding you.

Good luck, Sk8trash

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I feel so stressed out, but I don't know why. School isn't any harded than usual, and my family/friends/ love life is fine. I don't physically feel different than any other day, yet for some reason i constantly feel like crying about....everything. i dont know know why, but im so over emotional. nothing has happened to make things different, but im so stressed i feel like i cant take anything anymore. And advice? I rate 5's.

First of all, I think you might be emo (emotional) by any chance is your period due in a couple if days?? (If you're a guy, sorry.) It might be PMS as in mood swings. So yeah, i've had that a couple of times and it was PMS. But just try doing things that will keep you from thinking about crying. Go to the mall with your friends, go watch a movie. THeres so much things to do out there!!

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OK so right now is my first year of highschool and i like 3 guys from my tennis class and this guy from the movies and 3 other guys in JROTC..they all say they like me but what am i supposed to do because i like all of them alot ill rate high and just to let you know im not a fan of cheating on someone

So you like 6 guys huh??? First of all, I would get to know ALL of them before you decide which one to go out with. THe one that seems the funnest to be around with, should be your pick.. And if hes hot, thats just a bonus!! But you should really get to know all 6 guys... Stay safe!!

-Sk8trash

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Whats the best way to approach a guy your wanting to ask out. I don't just wana go up to him and say " Hey ya wana go out?" Thanks in advance! (smartasses get 1's!)

Hehe.. I would bring the guy to a romantic spot if you can. Start off with the casual "hi, what's up" If he asks why you guys are here, briefly explain to him how he is hot, how much you mean to him and stuff like that. After that, just try and say "so uhmm, can we go out and see how it goes?" It's worked for me.
If you don't know the guy and you're only falling for his looks, just get to know him at first. Nobody like a stranger going up to them and asking "hey wanna go out" Right???

Well, good luck!

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this is long. i rate high for good advice ;D

okay, i've known my best friend for about 4 1/2 years. were extremely close. i can tell her anything and shes the same way. were practically sisters. im a year older than her.
shes been going out with her boyfriend for about a year (they had their anniv. last weekend) , but theyre not that close at all. they only saw eachother twice over the summer, and each for like maybe an hour at the most. and i was there too. they dont act like bf & gf at all. they never go out, hang out, or even call eachother. yet, they act like their sooo in love. hes cheated on her like 3 times, and shes known about it. he even liked me before. she doesnt realize that she can do sooo much better than him. he always talks to her about getting married and stuff .. ( theyre in EIGHTH grade ) and i know she doesnt want that. shes not ready for a serious relationship. she still has years ahead of her to date and everything else. also, she wont stand up to him. if he does something to make her mad she wont say a thing about it. and after it gets bad enough, i will. im not the type of person to sit back and let people run over me, or other people. which causes fights, because he thinks its not my place to give him advice on his relationship, which i agree that its not. but if shes not going to do anything about it and shes not happy with him, then its just making her feel worse. i honestly think the reason she wont break up with him is because shes afraid of change. she'll feel empty or something when she knows shes not 'dating' him. also, practically all of his friends are girls, and he'll invite them to hang out before he will her. they've only been on one date without any of her or his friends. and they've barely kissed. and he doesnt even save her a seat at lunch, or talk to her between classes, or anything. hes so mean to all of her friends too, me in particular. once, he told her that if they got married and i came over that he would shoot me and tell the police i was breaking in. immature, i know. then he had the nerve to ask her if she'd divorce him after that. why would she want to be with him after that? hes really controlling. i want the best for her, and i know this isnt it. she knows i dont like their relationship, and no one else does either. i dont know why they stay together..

Maybe you're over-reaccting... If shes your best friend, you should let her do what she wants. It's her life.

But if you really want to help (and I bet you do, you sound like a very responsible person.) I would really just talk to her. Ask her how she feels about her boyfriend. If she says shes fine, and she likes it, maybe you need some evidence that her boyfriend isn't the right guy for her to go out with. Tell her that you really care about her and that you want the two of you be a safe and happy couple.

Ask her to bring the topic up about how he feels to be with her.

If shes afraid of change, she should break up with her boyfriend!! I think that he's made her change after all. You should be there for her and tell her that you will always be there for her. Change is good, sometimes, but you can't expect yourself to stay the same throughout your life..

"he told her that if they got married and i came over that he would shoot me and tell the police i was breaking in." Wow.... Very immature... Just ignore hime, tell him what a jerk he is and that he doesn't deserve someone like your best friend.

Well, Good luck!!
-Sk8trash

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I met this girl Stacy on an online RPG, and we were good friends, then we realized that we loved each other, and things were really great. Don't tell me it was teenage infatuation. I know love when I feel it! So anyway my parents won't let me on it anymore. Crap, I gotta go, so I'll hurry. Basically, I miss her, she misses me, we have no way of communicating, and I've got another girlfriend but I still miss her soooooo much. Thanks all! (smartasses get 1s)

Theres no question... But I get you, so ask yourself? Who would you rather be with?? Your current girlfriend or your internet girlfriend? You have to choose. If you choose your internet girlfriend, tell your parents that you really really like that girl and she means sooooooo much to you. If you don't want to tell your parents about your internet girlfriend, tell them it a totaly safe envorinment. Or if you dare, I would go on behind thier backs. But i don't think you'll do that.. Hehe

Well, good luck!!
~sk8trash

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my so called friend knew i liked this boy, she was even talking about me liking him to somebody else. and my friend found out that i liked him, and she's being stirring rumours that arent true and she found out that the boy i like has alot of common things with me and she is trying to be his perfect image which is me i recently found out that they are going out what should i do
i dont understand why she didnt want to tell me to see how i feel about it
and now the person that i found out that she thinks there is something going on between me and him
she was saying to me the other day she's moving to california after her degree
help please i am hurt and confused

I would set her down and talk to her with it. If she rejects, well.. I guess shes not your friend. As for the guy, I would also tell him that your "friend" was trying to be his perfect image. Just go up to him and be like " Hey _____(his name) You know how you are going out with ____?(your friends name) Well, I have liked you before she even knew her, but then she found out that I liked you and then she started being your perfect image. It would really mean alot to me if you understand what i'm trying to say" And then end it with something like, so... you want to hang out sometime? The worst thing that can happen is that he rejects.. But your probably young... You'll have lots of more guys to choose from.


EDIT:
If you don't want to take him away from her, just try and forget about him, try and find a new guy that you like. He should keep your mind off the guy you like right now!!!! Hope everything comes ok!!

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does anyone know if there's a website that's just all about odes? i need one for school, but it needs to be, like, original. i mean, you know, not by someone famous, but like from just any random person, like a teenager. i already tried google, but....no. can someone please help? all i need is the name of a site, or an ode any of you guys write. don't worry, it's not as if i'm gonna pass it off as my own, i'll give you the credit. thanks!

http://www.poemhunter.com/poems/ode/

http://digital.library.upenn.edu/women/robinson/1791/1791.html

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Does anyone know if any studies have been done regarding the harmful side-effects of tattoos?

If so, a quick summary of the results would be appreciated!

Thanks,
Saint_gasoline

As you know, when you get a tattoo done, they insert a needle inside your skin. That way it will never come off. The ink is squirted into the skin and it permanantly stays there.

As time goes on, your tattoo might send poisonous ink to the rest of your body, causing skin cancer. Some tests say it can cause Hepatitis A and B, and even HIV. I have no idea how that came up, but i did some research and thats what it said.

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ok, i am a f and need some advice on geting a boyfriend. im new at a school, and really want this guy to notice me. he talk's to me ocasionaly, and i got turned down by him once. any advice?
p.s i rate really high!

and i really, really like him...

First of all, he probably doesn't even know you exists!! (well he talks to you, but thats the only way i could put it in)You should get to know him really really well, after that, bam! go up to him and tell him that you have feelings for him.

Might I suggest: "Look, I really really like you. You mean so much to me. So can we have a go at this?? I'll change if anything goes wrong."

So yeah, just try and get to know him first and then do the more serious things.

-Sk8trash

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I am 13 Male

When my best friend (a girl a have a crush on) asks me a question about if she should go out with a certain boy whose side should i be on...
should i be on her side and say " Oh ya definitaly go out w/ him.
Or should i be on my side and be like "uh No you should stop looking at a ever other F ing boy but me.
Im sorry if this ? Seems dumb but i need advice hense me coming to this website

I rate Fives

PLEASE i am desparate

Both. How you ask me? Well, I think you should just say to her "Look, just to tell you, I have a crush on you. But it's your choice. You choose who you want. But you mean so much to me."

That should do the trick.

The worst thing that can happen is that she totaly freaks out. But if you guys are best friends, I think she will understand.

-Sk8trash

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okay

13/f

this is going to be pretty long.. so embrase your self for a long ride.

okay i like this boy, lets call him jon ♥ and we have all of the same classes, same tachers, same everything togeather. and he is like... MY LIFE! i cant live without him!

all of my friends say "oh he likes you" pointing to him. then i go "oh" then continue what i was doing. but saying to myself (i wish he can acually TELL me or SHOW me that he does like me)

so i like get in trouble like atleast 7 times a day like just like late for classes, wasnt listening, those little things.

so when i was at lmmy locker on friday(yesterday) he was like "okay noow you have to get in touble atleast 8 times today but nothing major okay?" and i was like "okay yeah whatever"

and i was thinking to myself (wow he doesnt want me to get in to deep trouble does he?) and i think that was ONE sign there.

whenever hes online, he like talkks to me the most out of everyone. and like my friend was like "omg jon isnt talking to me is he talking to you?" and "im like yeah he is"

and heres one problem;; my friend LIKES HIM ALSO! and iwas like "i saw him first you know that?" she was like "yeah you two have like puppy love going on there" and i was like "we do?" with a discusted face to hide my exitiment "ehh.."

she said "you didnt know?! its like all around school!!" and i was like "oh" hiding what i really felt i went to the bathroom and screamed...

you probally heard all of the other ones tht i said in gym he would be liike "RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN!"

and yeah... its cute and everyone says me make a cute couple.. but i think it would be wierd if eather of us asked eachother out.. and well then yeah i like just loving him to death but i want to go out with him! any help? sorry it was so long

thanks in advance

and ill rate 5's for good advice..

Maybe he does like you... You should bring him into a private spot, eg. behind the bleachers and ask him.. Really. If he says no, face it, but try and win his heart. Make sure that your friend who likes him doesn't know what your doing. Oh and, MAKE SURE YOU GET HIM FIRST!!!!! IIf everyone says u make a cute couple, go for it!!! ASK HIM OUT~~!! Well, Happy living.. kz dat didn't make sense but okaiz... Cyaz hope it works out with you 2.

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Does anyone know any websites for message tones...like ringtones for when you get a text message or voice mail...amd its like a ringtone but shorter...

http://www.mrtones.com

It has some short tones under the tv shows section, like you can type in the search box, a sound, for example a siren, and they would have it.

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